RabidTalker
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Would you pay $6000 for 6 dates over 6 months?
There is something incredibly offputting by her face. "Chubby thirst in expectation" i'd call it.
Dude in the photo in the bedroom: "Umm so where does this go?".
Dude in the photo in the bedroom: "Umm so where does this go?".
Judging by the comments from you guys... Hope you all look like the hot guy at the gym because your comments are really shallow so you clearly fancy yourselves as being all that! No wonder she isn’t interested in the likes of you all, you sound too brain dead for this intellect!
Don’t blame her for going out and paying to avoid the drop kicks she’d meet especially if their main focus was looking for a perfect 10!
Don’t blame her for going out and paying to avoid the drop kicks she’d meet especially if their main focus was looking for a perfect 10!
Posted by sweethearts......and I bet they DON'T
Judging by the comments from you guys... Hope you all look like the hot guy at the gym because your comments are really shallow so you clearly fancy yourselves as being all that! No wonder she isn’t interested in the likes of you all, you sound too brain dead for this intellect!
Don’t blame her for going out and paying to avoid the drop kicks she’d meet especially if their main focus was looking for a perfect 10!
Posted by Taniwhathe hard work is not working out and losing weight
Looking at her photo, If she payed 6k for a really good personal trainer and a gym membership and a great diet and did the hard work she would be a real smoke show and probably get asked out left right and center from way better guys that shes finding online.
p.s- you are gross.
Posted by John_bassp.s-you're gross too.
Shes a lawyer, how is she so dumb not to know something as simple as guys goes for looks lol. All she need is to be conscientious enough for her diet and learn some make up skills, buy some push up bras, some nice dress sense all the effort for being a lawyer but cant do a simple thing.
No.
But I would pay 5000 for 7 dates over 4 months.
But I would pay 5000 for 7 dates over 4 months.
That is a refreshing change from women going on dates to be pampered, wined and dined without spending a penny!
Posted by SpaceBird7000 for 5 dates and a pancake over 2 monthsPosted by bricklemarki would pay jack shit...
No.
But I would pay 5000 for 7 dates over 4 months.click to expand
Posted by SpaceBirdYou go girl! Get that bush!!!Posted by SpaceBirdthis IS True tho....i would ..and i have a feeling i am going to try and sneak onto her property later this year...
if i had 10 k i would pay it to meet kate bush tho!
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Posted by SpaceBirdObviously l'm joking, as if the specifics, of HOW MANY 1000'S....for how many dates....over how many months...had anything to do with anything 😂😂😂Posted by bricklemarkPosted by SpaceBird7000 for 5 dates and a pancake over 2 monthsPosted by bricklemarki would pay jack shit...
No.
But I would pay 5000 for 7 dates over 4 months.
nope nope nope ....nope ...nope ...
side note
I need to get into the matchmaking biz...click to expand
Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
Posted by TaniwhaWho is to say she hasn't found an average looking guy with a good enough job who is also smart enough.....?
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
That surprisingly is hard to find.
Good looking guys are usually boring and or douches who may not make enough money.
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I must out myself as a lesbian btw
all of my opinions are based on former friends who used dating sites to find their current partners.
One is married and the other one has been with the guy for 3 years.
Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.click to expand
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
Posted by SpaceBirdDo you have her address ?Posted by SpaceBirdthis IS True tho....i would ..and i have a feeling i am going to try and sneak onto her property later this year...
if i had 10 k i would pay it to meet kate bush tho!
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Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by Adreamuponwakingpersonality yeah...Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
money and status ...doesn't matter tho..you can lose it ...and in the middle of the night its not much use..
.click to expand
i agree
you can lose it but that's why it is important to be with someone who can plan and save!!
which goes hand in hand with "status".
my parents have terrible money management skills which made my life so much harder.....
compared to my friends
Posted by Taniwhaso many assumptionsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI'll bet you there are 10 more women with law degree's in her office in their twenties who all work out and are all dating high status men. Just looking at her face/skin tells me she would look amazing if she took care of her body, like really amazing. I'm sorry, but men see these things. TPosted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
I'm really not out here to call her fat and ugly and all that, I genuinely feel like she could do allot better for herself than a spending her hard earned money on paying some 'Matchmaker' to do what her body is designed to do by millions of years of evolution. When she feels better about herself she's going to do better at work and in life and attract better men into her life. But what do I know, I'm just a loser at my computer dashing out criticism. .click to expand
i agree exercise is important but you as a man do not know what it is like to be her
i don't know because i am not her but as a woman i can tell you that these expectations that men have do not get fulfilled by just having a great diet and working out......
women develop eating disorders
they get plastic surgery
they go into debt buying clothes they do not need
getting facials etc
whilst men do not have the same pressures to conform to unrealistic photoshopped images....
and that's gross.
women who are doctors and lawyers look like her i hate to break it to you...some maybe slimmer but overall they do not like like photoshopped instagram models.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
High paying professions eat up a lot of free time ( so you possible can't work out for multiple hours every day) , as well as get 8 hours of sleep ( which is crucial for weight management) and increases stress which leads to weight gain , bad skin and a host of other more serious health issues.
Posted by SpaceBirdI don'tPosted by AdreamuponwakingI don't get why you see a man as a ticket to money? And don't go oh ..I have my own..yeah right.Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by Adreamuponwakingpersonality yeah...Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
money and status ...doesn't matter tho..you can lose it ...and in the middle of the night its not much use..
.
i agree
you can lose it but that's why it is important to be with someone who can plan and save!!
which goes hand in hand with "status".
my parents have terrible money management skills which made my life so much harder.....
compared to my friends
Any man or woman who has money ..nay not even HAS money yet but BELIEVES in the own ability to make money...doesn't NEED to worry about how much their partner makes.
YOU are all you need in that way...
In a partner ..focus on just finding passion and a good person.click to expand
I'm gay.
But something I have learned from my parents failed relationships
is that class matters.
Both of my parents married hustlers who did not have college degrees in their 40s.
My mother's marriage lasted 3 months but her life took a turn because of her now ex husband.
My dad is still married but is estranged from his wife who was really a gold digger.
All she did was invest in her looks and my dad fell for that.
I don't place value over let's say a one profession over another...however I do believe that
marrying someone who does not value the same thing you do can create unnecessary strain is real
marriage originally was a business contract
there was a reason for that.
Posted by SpaceBirdfucking and commitment ( aka respect and companionship from a man) are two very different thingsPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Taniwhaso many assumptionsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI'll bet you there are 10 more women with law degree's in her office in their twenties who all work out and are all dating high status men. Just looking at her face/skin tells me she would look amazing if she took care of her body, like really amazing. I'm sorry, but men see these things. TPosted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
I'm really not out here to call her fat and ugly and all that, I genuinely feel like she could do allot better for herself than a spending her hard earned money on paying some 'Matchmaker' to do what her body is designed to do by millions of years of evolution. When she feels better about herself she's going to do better at work and in life and attract better men into her life. But what do I know, I'm just a loser at my computer dashing out criticism. .
i agree exercise is important but you as a man do not know what it is like to be her
i don't know because i am not her but as a woman i can tell you that these expectations that men have do not get fulfilled by just having a great diet and working out......
women develop eating disorders
they get plastic surgery
they go into debt buying clothes they do not need
getting facials etc
whilst men do not have the same pressures to conform to unrealistic photoshopped images....
and that's gross.
women who are doctors and lawyers look like her i hate to break it to you...some maybe slimmer but overall they do not like like photoshopped instagram models.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
High paying professions eat up a lot of free time ( so you possible can't work out for multiple hours every day) , as well as get 8 hours of sleep ( which is crucial for weight management) and increases stress which leads to weight gain , bad skin and a host of other more serious health issues.
Men will fuck anything ...she is being fussy...
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the latter is very hard to obtain even if you are considered to be really attractive by the guy....especially if he is a young guy and or a very rich guy
an average looking guy with an average income who is aging ( late 30s) will try to put a ring on a girl he thinks is a 10...even possible a 7+ ( a good personality , job etc)
Some women take a log time to look good for a man....hair, nails, waxing, shaving, face packs, makeup, shoes, clothes etc etc. I heard one of my friends say that men think by turning up and just breathing is enough
LMHO
LMHO
Posted by TaniwhaYeah i didn't negate the fact that exercise is good for youPosted by AdreamuponwakingI'm giving sound advice here, Fitness is good for you, its fucking science.Posted by Taniwhaso many assumptionsPosted by AdreamuponwakingI'll bet you there are 10 more women with law degree's in her office in their twenties who all work out and are all dating high status men. Just looking at her face/skin tells me she would look amazing if she took care of her body, like really amazing. I'm sorry, but men see these things. TPosted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
I'm really not out here to call her fat and ugly and all that, I genuinely feel like she could do allot better for herself than a spending her hard earned money on paying some 'Matchmaker' to do what her body is designed to do by millions of years of evolution. When she feels better about herself she's going to do better at work and in life and attract better men into her life. But what do I know, I'm just a loser at my computer dashing out criticism. .
i agree exercise is important but you as a man do not know what it is like to be her
i don't know because i am not her but as a woman i can tell you that these expectations that men have do not get fulfilled by just having a great diet and working out......
women develop eating disorders
they get plastic surgery
they go into debt buying clothes they do not need
getting facials etc
whilst men do not have the same pressures to conform to unrealistic photoshopped images....
and that's gross.
women who are doctors and lawyers look like her i hate to break it to you...some maybe slimmer but overall they do not like like photoshopped instagram models.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
High paying professions eat up a lot of free time ( so you possible can't work out for multiple hours every day) , as well as get 8 hours of sleep ( which is crucial for weight management) and increases stress which leads to weight gain , bad skin and a host of other more serious health issues.
Btw my GP has a fantastic body...
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I negated your assumption is that she does not exercise based on her appearance in this photo.
She looks like half of the people who go to my gym that i see 3-4 times a week.
and who cares that your GP is a but her face lol
does she look like a TV doctor? No of course not.
Posted by SpaceBirdIt was sarcasm.Posted by Mr_PinchyIt's insecurity ...Posted by TaniwhaYou need to check your toxic masculinity 😆
Btw my GP has a fantastic body...
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Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by SpaceBirdI don'tPosted by AdreamuponwakingI don't get why you see a man as a ticket to money? And don't go oh ..I have my own..yeah right.Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by Adreamuponwakingpersonality yeah...Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
money and status ...doesn't matter tho..you can lose it ...and in the middle of the night its not much use..
.
i agree
you can lose it but that's why it is important to be with someone who can plan and save!!
which goes hand in hand with "status".
my parents have terrible money management skills which made my life so much harder.....
compared to my friends
Any man or woman who has money ..nay not even HAS money yet but BELIEVES in the own ability to make money...doesn't NEED to worry about how much their partner makes.
YOU are all you need in that way...
In a partner ..focus on just finding passion and a good person.
I'm gay.
But something I have learned from my parents failed relationships
is that class matters.
Both of my parents married hustlers who did not have college degrees in their 40s.
My mother's marriage lasted 3 months but her life took a turn because of her now ex husband.
My dad is still married but is estranged from his wife who was really a gold digger.
All she did was invest in her looks and my dad fell for that.
I don't place value over let's say a one profession over another...however I do believe that
marrying someone who does not value the same thing you do can create unnecessary strain is real
marriage originally was a business contract
there was a reason for that.
I don't really understand you at all ..
I have a college degree ..but i am not sure how that makes me more or less likely to be tempted into being a gold digger ...or more financially responsible ...
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let me be a little bit more clear
my dad's wife chased men all her life instead of going to school and developing herself so that she could take care of her family / future partner
my mom did the opposite.
when i met my dad's wife before he married her i knew she would not be a great partner because of what i mentioned above
you can be a creative person but if you have kids i think you have to take on responsibility which may mean going to school and trying to get a secure job so that you can take care of them.
i've thought long and hard about this.
i could marry an artist who was penniless if and only if we did not have kids and or moved somewhere in which finances didn't affect quality of life ( Norway , Sweden Denmark , Canada , Australia) as much....
this not the reality in the U.S.
Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by MyStarsShineno ..i am gonna astral project there first and learn it that wayPosted by SpaceBirdDo you have her address ?Posted by SpaceBirdthis IS True tho....i would ..and i have a feeling i am going to try and sneak onto her property later this year...
if i had 10 k i would pay it to meet kate bush tho!
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I believe she has two homes.....one in Devon and the other in Berkshire ?
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowMost of the women in this thread are triggered snowflakes.
so long as you hurt nobody ..there is nothing wrong with either 🙂
I don't get it why men end up getting the stick end of it...
As if women don't chase hot guys!
Posted by SpaceBirdOkay triggered snowflake. 😆
Oh no i out look max you all put together ..you dont get to talk over someone who out looks you ..
Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by AdreamuponwakingYou have thought too long and hard about this.Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by SpaceBirdI don'tPosted by AdreamuponwakingI don't get why you see a man as a ticket to money? And don't go oh ..I have my own..yeah right.Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by Adreamuponwakingpersonality yeah...Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
money and status ...doesn't matter tho..you can lose it ...and in the middle of the night its not much use..
.
i agree
you can lose it but that's why it is important to be with someone who can plan and save!!
which goes hand in hand with "status".
my parents have terrible money management skills which made my life so much harder.....
compared to my friends
Any man or woman who has money ..nay not even HAS money yet but BELIEVES in the own ability to make money...doesn't NEED to worry about how much their partner makes.
YOU are all you need in that way...
In a partner ..focus on just finding passion and a good person.
I'm gay.
But something I have learned from my parents failed relationships
is that class matters.
Both of my parents married hustlers who did not have college degrees in their 40s.
My mother's marriage lasted 3 months but her life took a turn because of her now ex husband.
My dad is still married but is estranged from his wife who was really a gold digger.
All she did was invest in her looks and my dad fell for that.
I don't place value over let's say a one profession over another...however I do believe that
marrying someone who does not value the same thing you do can create unnecessary strain is real
marriage originally was a business contract
there was a reason for that.
I don't really understand you at all ..
I have a college degree ..but i am not sure how that makes me more or less likely to be tempted into being a gold digger ...or more financially responsible ...
let me be a little bit more clear
my dad's wife chased men all her life instead of going to school and developing herself so that she could take care of her family / future partner
my mom did the opposite.
when i met my dad's wife before he married her i knew she would not be a great partner because of what i mentioned above
you can be a creative person but if you have kids i think you have to take on responsibility which may mean going to school and trying to get a secure job so that you can take care of them.
i've thought long and hard about this.
i could marry an artist who was penniless if and only if we did not have kids and or moved somewhere in which finances didn't affect quality of life ( Norway , Sweden Denmark , Canada , Australia) as much....
this not the reality in the U.S.
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you may be right
Reading DXP sometimes reminds me of this song (some posts one would think would buy people a clue, but noooooo):
Posted by DistilledIt is not cheap to live in Canada relative to other parts in the world however you can be happier ( due to better resources and support ) and make less unlike here in the U.S.Posted by AdreamuponwakingFinances do affect quality of life in Canada. In fact its very expensive to live here. I'm not sure why people think any different?Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by SpaceBirdI don'tPosted by AdreamuponwakingI don't get why you see a man as a ticket to money? And don't go oh ..I have my own..yeah right.Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by Adreamuponwakingpersonality yeah...Posted by SpaceBirdpersonality and status is not superficialPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell then she is so dumb she deserves to be screwed over....Posted by TaniwhaNot necessarily.
Get off your high horses, you know I speak the truth.
You assume guys are turning her down which is why she hasn't found a match.
It could be the other way around...especially with that law degree.
Girls aren't so much into looks as they are into personality as well as status.
status (which i should rephrase as ambitious , planning and money management skills)
and personality are super important in terms of predicting longevity in terms of marriage.
looks fade. guys still don't get that.
a compatible personality = effective communication = a great marriage
ambition , planning , money management = a more comfortable life for you two as well as your future family
money and status ...doesn't matter tho..you can lose it ...and in the middle of the night its not much use..
.
i agree
you can lose it but that's why it is important to be with someone who can plan and save!!
which goes hand in hand with "status".
my parents have terrible money management skills which made my life so much harder.....
compared to my friends
Any man or woman who has money ..nay not even HAS money yet but BELIEVES in the own ability to make money...doesn't NEED to worry about how much their partner makes.
YOU are all you need in that way...
In a partner ..focus on just finding passion and a good person.
I'm gay.
But something I have learned from my parents failed relationships
is that class matters.
Both of my parents married hustlers who did not have college degrees in their 40s.
My mother's marriage lasted 3 months but her life took a turn because of her now ex husband.
My dad is still married but is estranged from his wife who was really a gold digger.
All she did was invest in her looks and my dad fell for that.
I don't place value over let's say a one profession over another...however I do believe that
marrying someone who does not value the same thing you do can create unnecessary strain is real
marriage originally was a business contract
there was a reason for that.
I don't really understand you at all ..
I have a college degree ..but i am not sure how that makes me more or less likely to be tempted into being a gold digger ...or more financially responsible ...
let me be a little bit more clear
my dad's wife chased men all her life instead of going to school and developing herself so that she could take care of her family / future partner
my mom did the opposite.
when i met my dad's wife before he married her i knew she would not be a great partner because of what i mentioned above
you can be a creative person but if you have kids i think you have to take on responsibility which may mean going to school and trying to get a secure job so that you can take care of them.
i've thought long and hard about this.
i could marry an artist who was penniless if and only if we did not have kids and or moved somewhere in which finances didn't affect quality of life ( Norway , Sweden Denmark , Canada , Australia) as much....
this not the reality in the U.S.
Australia is also expensive.
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Being poor here for a lot of people is literally a death sentence.
That is not necessarily the case in Canada.
Not just no, but f*ck no!
Posted by Gob_Shite
As a lawyer, she's obviously too busy to meet men. That beggars the question of whether she'd be able to nurture a serious relationship.
Maybe she needs to question her mindset and priorities, before foolishly thinking that money can buy her love...
You don't know any married female attorneys? I know two real estate attorneys, both married for a long time. One has two youngish children and the other has four teenage children. They both rock at balancing work and family life, I admire them...
I think you're all missing the point, she didn't go to a matchmaker to get a date because she couldn't find one, or because she's lazy or too fat to get one herself, or because she couldn't get laid, from what the article says she just wasn't finding people she liked(subjective here! stop projecting). And she didn't pay for a date, she ended up paying for the coaching, for resetting her ways of weeding-out potential dates, for a lesson on online dating and how to present yourself in digital form. Ultimately, it looks like a case in efficiency, she recognized her ways of online dating were getting her nowhere and she went out to fix it.
Posted by Juliiettelol dxp gets easily derailed. It makes for fun read-throughsPosted by fire_underwater
I think you're all missing the point, she didn't go to a matchmaker to get a date because she couldn't find one, or because she's lazy or too fat to get one herself, or because she couldn't get laid, from what the article says she just wasn't finding people she liked(subjective here! stop projecting). And she didn't pay for a date, she ended up paying for the coaching, for resetting her ways of weeding-out potential dates, for a lesson on online dating and how to present yourself in digital form. Ultimately, it looks like a case in efficiency, she recognized her ways of online dating were getting her nowhere and she went out to fix it.
oh well hardly here ever anyone talks about the topic. or read the op.
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Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by Jules-llPosted by Gob_Shite
As a lawyer, she's obviously too busy to meet men. That beggars the question of whether she'd be able to nurture a serious relationship.
Maybe she needs to question her mindset and priorities, before foolishly thinking that money can buy her love...
You don't know any married female attorneys? I know two real estate attorneys, both married for a long time. One has two youngish children and the other has four teenage children. They both rock at balancing work and family life, I admire them...
I'm not saying it isn't possible but she obviously wasn't investing enough time to find someone suitable. Either that or she was simply impatient. Either way, that doesn't bode well...
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That's why she was paying for the convenience of having the filtering done for her. I don't believe in it, but there must be some positive outcomes or people wouldn't utilize these services... I'm curious what the success rates are of these matchmaking businesses?
I would want to GET paid for that.
Dating is tough, true. But not because people can't find dates. Finding a date is easy.
It's finding the right person who really clicks with you that's actually tough.
And until you find that person, most of the other people you date feels like wasted time.
Dating is tough, true. But not because people can't find dates. Finding a date is easy.
It's finding the right person who really clicks with you that's actually tough.
And until you find that person, most of the other people you date feels like wasted time.
So many 6s in there.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeBetter fucks than the skinny ones.
Funny thing is i see more fat bitches in relationships then not
Posted by fire_underwaterExactly.
I think you're all missing the point, she didn't go to a matchmaker to get a date because she couldn't find one, or because she's lazy or too fat to get one herself, or because she couldn't get laid, from what the article says she just wasn't finding people she liked(subjective here! stop projecting). And she didn't pay for a date, she ended up paying for the coaching, for resetting her ways of weeding-out potential dates, for a lesson on online dating and how to present yourself in digital form. Ultimately, it looks like a case in efficiency, she recognized her ways of online dating were getting her nowhere and she went out to fix it.
Also I find it funny how people are reacting to the 6k price tag. It’s not about the 6 dates, it’s the 6 months of service she paid for. 6k seems pretty cheap actually.
She’s a successful lawyer, she can afford it.
Posted by Jules-llOne of my clients is an attorney with her own practice. She has 3 kids under the age of 11, loving husband. Because they both work I’ve had all my meetings with them in the evening and have gotten to observe the family dynamic. It is possible to succeed in your personal life and career. You CAN have it all.Posted by Gob_Shite
As a lawyer, she's obviously too busy to meet men. That beggars the question of whether she'd be able to nurture a serious relationship.
Maybe she needs to question her mindset and priorities, before foolishly thinking that money can buy her love...
You don't know any married female attorneys? I know two real estate attorneys, both married for a long time. One has two youngish children and the other has four teenage children. They both rock at balancing work and family life, I admire them...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneRight? It's basically a six-month classPosted by fire_underwaterExactly.
I think you're all missing the point, she didn't go to a matchmaker to get a date because she couldn't find one, or because she's lazy or too fat to get one herself, or because she couldn't get laid, from what the article says she just wasn't finding people she liked(subjective here! stop projecting). And she didn't pay for a date, she ended up paying for the coaching, for resetting her ways of weeding-out potential dates, for a lesson on online dating and how to present yourself in digital form. Ultimately, it looks like a case in efficiency, she recognized her ways of online dating were getting her nowhere and she went out to fix it.
Also I find it funny how people are reacting to the 6k price tag. It’s not about the 6 dates, it’s the 6 months of service she paid for. 6k seems pretty cheap actually.
She’s a successful lawyer, she can afford it.click to expand
No way in hell. I’d Spend that much money. LoL that definitely could have been invested in something else that actually made her more money.
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When Dating Felt Like A Job, One Woman Hired A Matchmaker
If there is one universal claim about dating, it's that it's tough out there.
With online dating apps on mobile phones, it's easier than ever to find new people — but that takes time. Filling out dating profiles, swiping through matches and going on dates can be all-consuming and frustrating.
That's how it felt for Kat McClain, a 26-year-old attorney based in Los Angeles, who considers herself a long-time user of dating apps. After law school in Illinois, she moved to LA and entered the dating scene. She updated her online profiles and went on dates, but ultimately wasn't meeting the right match.
"I had a really scattershot approach to who I was going out with," she says. "I was getting burnt out, I was bored. It felt like another job, and I definitely don't need another job, I work enough."
Feeling exhausted and discouraged, in October McClain sought the help of a professional, personalized matchmaking service called Three Day Rule — but not the Fiddler-on-the-Roof, Yenta-type. Three Day Rule and other matchmaking companies like it take a modern approach — finding matches for their clients and offering date coaching while also helping to optimize online profiles.
The frustrations of online dating may have actually made way for modern matchmaking companies. For example, Pew finds that one in five online daters has asked for help — generally from a friend — with their profile and 31 percent say that online dating keeps people from settling down because there are always options.
McClain told her matchmaker, Alexa Geistman, what she was looking for a serious relationship, and they spent months getting to know each other. Then Geistman went to work.
"I meet every single match in person. I ask them all the tough questions," Geistman says. "I really get to know the people and make sure that they're like-minded."
The company also has a database of 90,000 singles — and partnerships with online dating companies like Match, OkCupid, Christian Mingle and J-Date.
The service doesn't come cheap. McClain paid around $ 6,000 for a package that got her six dates over six months — as well as Geistman's personalized support and advice.
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