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Hot sex 🔥



You back on it again ? 😂



How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦‍♀️😌
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Haha

Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁

I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨

So exhausting
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Hot sex 🔥





You back on it again ? 😂



How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦‍♀️😌



Haha
Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁
I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨
So exhausting
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It has its meaning. Hot sex =/ love.

Hard lesson to learn for me personally.

But I mean, I’ve got 1/2 fire chart myself so I can go with the flow 😜

I think it is about seasons. People come and go from our life for some purpose. What do you think?
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Hot sex 🔥







You back on it again ? 😂





How can I not? When you have a horny fire sign after you 🤦‍♀️😌



Haha

Can’t believe my fiery ex still keeps coming into my dreams and very sweet he presented himself this morning on lovers day 😁

I’m so glad it’s over though 😐🫨

So exhausting



It has its meaning. Hot sex =/ love.
Hard lesson to learn for me personally.
But I mean, I’ve got 1/2 fire chart myself so I can go with the flow 😜

I think it is about seasons. People come and go from our life for some purpose. What do you think?
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Oh I agree totally

My longest relationship was with an earth sign and shortest fire … I think I the latter burns out quicker and earth has more staying power
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Going to a fancy dinner… but with a twist. I’m wearing vibrating underwear and he controls that



One of my exes did that….except he made me wear them while I was working and on calls with clients. Do you know how awkward that was to be on the phone having a serious conversation and then getting a little tingle down there— 😬



LOL I can imagine. I wouldn’t do that at work tho 😁
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Well it sounded like fun in the moment….but eh, not so much. More awkward than anything. 🤣
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔



You can also say “no”
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Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔



You can also say “no”



Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.
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But he can’t force you to meet him

If you don’t want to, tell him no

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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔





You can also say “no”



Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.



But he can’t force you to meet him
If you don’t want to, tell him no
💪
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See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔







You can also say “no”





Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.



But he can’t force you to meet him

If you don’t want to, tell him no

💪



See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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Oh no, that needs to change now

What about pleasing yourself?
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔









You can also say “no”







Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.





But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪



See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔



Oh no, that needs to change now
What about pleasing yourself?
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Idk…I just always feel so selfish pleasing myself. Like I’m not a good person.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔







You can also say “no”





Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.



But he can’t force you to meet him

If you don’t want to, tell him no

💪



See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔
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That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔









You can also say “no”







Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.





But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪



See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔



That’s very sad 🥹
Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️
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I’d try and make it priority?
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️



I’d try and make it priority?
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Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️



I’d try and make it priority?



Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.
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That makes sense …

Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️





I’d try and make it priority?



Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.



That makes sense …
Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now
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Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️







I’d try and make it priority?





Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.



That makes sense …

Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now



Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.
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But you can blank him
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️









I’d try and make it priority?







Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.





That makes sense …


Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now



Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.



But you can blank him
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I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️











I’d try and make it priority?









Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.







That makes sense …



Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now





Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.



But you can blank him



I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.
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Just thank him for the invite and tell him

you’re not interested due to incompatibility

Nip it in the bud now or you could be going round in circles
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An evening at home alone with peace and quiet. I had my whole evening planned, but my plans got screwed up. Now apparently I’m going out for sushi with a Leo who won’t leave me alone and is very insistent. 😔






You can also say “no”




Trust me, I’ve said no before. We haven’t seen each other in months, but he keeps at it.




But he can’t force you to meet him


If you don’t want to, tell him no


💪




See that’s always been my problem….not wanting to hurt peoples feelings. So I try to keep people happy and be agreeable. 😔




That’s very sad 🥹

Isn’t the counselling helping with that?
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Haven’t been back for several months due to funds. 🤦‍♀️













I’d try and make it priority?











Once I’m in a better place financially I plan on going back. Right now I’m trying to focus on getting my teaching certification so I can finally leave my current hellish job.









That makes sense …




Just a thought ….. I’d hold back on the dating thing for now







Oh I’m not actively dating. Haven’t in months. He just won’t give up.





But you can blank him



I was told I was very rude for doing that. I’m trying to find a polite way to let him down. I just don’t think we are compatible.



Just thank him for the invite and tell him
you’re not interested due to incompatibility
Nip it in the bud now or you could be going round in circles
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I know you’re right. Why is letting someone down so hard to do? I guess I’m just so used to being the one being let down and know how it feels. I haven’t really ever been in this position. It doesn’t feel good. 😔