Detached aquarius moon..?

This topic was created in the Aquarius Moon forum by SunTauVenGem on Wednesday, July 31, 2013 and has 29 replies.
.sun taurus...aquarius moon... Didnt realise i am so detached !!!! Share your experience in love... My affectionate taurus nature..ease out my coldness alot...however if i really like someone...they find my moon somewhat confusing ss i can act so cool and calm...aloof n careless around them..! Thoughts?
HA! this is the combo of the taurus guy i started a thread about on the taurus board.
his idea of good communication is not talking at all, making assumptions about the intents of one another and calling it a day.
i put the ball in his court a month and we've txted each other a handful of times since then. now he wants to "talk"
i kinda DONT want to talk. maybe i'll NOT tell him that at all and assume he's figured it out and call it a day lol
ugh... not brilliant at all
It's a bit tricky for women. Lunar Aquarius doesn't see the opposite sex as that big of a deal emotionally. Lunar Aqua won't get all nervous and tangly around the person they have feelings for. Perhaps a bit too on the laid-back side, hence the "cold and aloof" rep. Detached is just something I see as another word for independent in this case. Aquarius Moons can and like to handle their problems on their own.
Posted by Infinite
Hey the aqua moon isn't so bad! I too am a lunar aquarian smile
In my experience, it allows me to be objective about situations. Sure, I have my stubborn tendencies and opinions but from that placement it's easier to step away from a situation and view it logically.
Idk, it just gives me great perspective and makes me want to save humanity sometimes, one cause at a time.

You have to admit the aloofness comes in handy sometimes. Other times it doesn't help.. but it IS better than having a super emo water moon, right?


Nooo.

I ??_ my Pisces moon. Big Grin
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by Infinite
Hey the aqua moon isn't so bad! I too am a lunar aquarian smile
In my experience, it allows me to be objective about situations. Sure, I have my stubborn tendencies and opinions but from that placement it's easier to step away from a situation and view it logically.
Idk, it just gives me great perspective and makes me want to save humanity sometimes, one cause at a time.

You have to admit the aloofness comes in handy sometimes. Other times it doesn't help.. but it IS better than having a super emo water moon, right?


Nooo.

I ??_ my Pisces moon. Big Grin
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*chokes on dinner*
Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by Infinite
Hey the aqua moon isn't so bad! I too am a lunar aquarian smile
In my experience, it allows me to be objective about situations. Sure, I have my stubborn tendencies and opinions but from that placement it's easier to step away from a situation and view it logically.
Idk, it just gives me great perspective and makes me want to save humanity sometimes, one cause at a time.

You have to admit the aloofness comes in handy sometimes. Other times it doesn't help.. but it IS better than having a super emo water moon, right?


Nooo.

I ??_ my Pisces moon. Big Grin


*chokes on dinner*
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*cuts eyes at Ms. Pants*
Problem?

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^^^ i quoted the wrong post Tongue
Posted by Infinite
Hey the aqua moon isn't so bad! I too am a lunar aquarian smile
In my experience, it allows me to be objective about situations. Sure, I have my stubborn tendencies and opinions but from that placement it's easier to step away from a situation and view it logically.
Idk, it just gives me great perspective and makes me want to save humanity sometimes, one cause at a time.

You have to admit the aloofness comes in handy sometimes. Other times it doesn't help.. but it IS better than having a super emo water moon, right?


** *chokes on dinner* **
wondering how two aqua moons can relate... it seems maybe both are too aloof and maybe hurting the others feelings by lack of attention
Posted by CreepyPants
Posted by Infinite
Hey the aqua moon isn't so bad! I too am a lunar aquarian smile
In my experience, it allows me to be objective about situations. Sure, I have my stubborn tendencies and opinions but from that placement it's easier to step away from a situation and view it logically.
Idk, it just gives me great perspective and makes me want to save humanity sometimes, one cause at a time.

You have to admit the aloofness comes in handy sometimes. Other times it doesn't help.. but it IS better than having a super emo water moon, right?


** *chokes on dinner* **
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Ha! Agreed Big Grin
Posted by michelle2ltl
wondering how two aqua moons can relate... it seems maybe both are too aloof and maybe hurting the others feelings by lack of attention
Posted by Theatrum
It's a bit tricky for women. Lunar Aquarius doesn't see the opposite sex as that big of a deal emotionally. Lunar Aqua won't get all nervous and tangly around the person they have feelings for. Perhaps a bit too on the laid-back side, hence the "cold and aloof" rep. Detached is just something I see as another word for independent in this case. Aquarius Moons can and like to handle their problems on their own.

spot on..!!!
I love my aqua moon don't get me wrong.. I often hear people complaint that aqua mooners r aloof n detached.. So I was wondering if we seem "cold" to others? .. As an aqua moon I do cry easily but I don't show my weakness or tears to love one.. I often do it alone..!! .. I often gather people together! I care about everyone and the world equally !! N often forget my close relationships including my family , close friends and partners... I love my moon but I dont think my intermediate relationships do as they might feel neglected .... ESP to a cancer mooner....
i have an aquarius moon, but i like it because i feel it balances my pisces sun nicely. i am very emotional, but i do find myself detached in my relationships sometimes. i need a lot of personal space and alone time, and a lot of my friends will take this personally. if i am going through something, i like to heal myself on my own in my own space on my own accord.
Not good for relationships IMO. Love them as people, but I don't see them keeping an intimate relationship long term.
Never again is right.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
I love my aqua moon don't get me wrong.. I often hear people complaint that aqua mooners r aloof n detached.. So I was wondering if we seem "cold" to others? .. As an aqua moon I do cry easily but I don't show my weakness or tears to love one.. I often do it alone..!! .. I often gather people together! I care about everyone and the world equally !! N often forget my close relationships including my family , close friends and partners... I love my moon but I dont think my intermediate relationships do as they might feel neglected .... ESP to a cancer mooner....


Signing down on that.
Posted by mindofaquarius
oh and my ex husband has also aqua moon - what does it mean?! I only attract aqua moons around me hahaha
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You have Aquarius on the descendant. People you attract and are attracted to (romantically, as the 7th house is the house of your "S.O.") should usually have strong Aqua in them, be it a powerful Sun, Moon, Asc, or just dominant Uranus in their chart. Plus you're an Aqua Sun so understanding the emotional needs of an Aqua Moon shouldn't be that much of an issue.
@suntauvengem I am currently dealing with a taurus sun aqua moon and it's hard. I am pisces sun, taurus rising, sag moon and I take what he does as cold and not caring. We can be in a room full of people, and that's great that he's giving me freedom to do whatever, but he can make me feel like the most insignificant person in the room. He's so busy trying to treat everyone equally that he'll just walk past me and barely even say a word and to me that kind of feels like a slap in the face. It's the pisces in me that takes it personally I know, but it definitely hurts and sucks sometimes. It's like y'all are worried about everyone else at the expense of those that really care about you.
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I love Aqua Moons as well. I'm from the Gemini Moon team. Only we can compliment each other pretty well in a world with non-stop emotionally demanding types. Both Moon signs are eccentric enough to get along nicely.
Posted by Shul
I love Aqua Moons as well. I'm from the Gemini Moon team. Only we can compliment each other pretty well in a world with non-stop emotionally demanding types. Both Moon signs are eccentric enough to get along nicely.


Totally agree with this - I'm a Leo with an Aquarius moon, and my husband is a Sag with a Gemini moon...thank goodness we found each other. It's been hard, but worth every moment. I love that man for understanding and appreciating my paradoxical nature.
Just realized this is kinda an old thread smile Oh well...
Another Leo with Aqua Moon here, and Venus in Cancer. The Aqua moon helps me detach when I need to, and balances out the Cancer/Leo lovey influences. However, I am starting to think that it interferes with my general motivation to bond more deeply with others. It's like, "leave me alone!" Then I wonder later why that particular person wandered away, and miss them. I have to push against my Aqua moon so that I socialize on more of a regular basis, maintain those good friendships that I value.
Aaah so glad I found this thread. I am very attracted to aquarian moons. I have a moon in Gemini, so I am always very comfortable around them. I specifically like Cancer men with this moon placement. I am crushing on my second one, and it is so similar to the first. Both have venus in leo. The major difference is the mars placement. First guy has his in cancer, this guy is in capricorn. We have such a strong attraction, that it can be a little overwhelming..even for me. I have invited him to hang out, which he quickly said yes..but when I tried to set something up, I got the very familiar "cancer no answer". There is a 9 year age difference between us, me 36 and him 27. Any insights?
I am Aries with moon in Aquarius and Venus in Pisces and I am a hot mess in love! I want my space one minute and the other I want to consume my lover's soul. I use to blame his Venus in Aquarius for our roller coaster relationship but I realized that I back up when he is mushy or I feel like I am held captive in his home. I will miss him terribly but after a few hours with him I want to crawl back in my own bed yet to start thinking about him all over again!
Posted by ieatpizzaforfree
Lunar Aquarius are crazy. One minute you can express your feelings so lovely then completely ruin it by being detached and acting like what you just said didn't matter. It's so confusing and frustrating! Nonetheless, I am fascinated with aqua moons.. because I'm a leo moon. (I don't know if thats the true reason I'm intrigued but I'm going with that) I find them very detached but lovable but often don't know how they truly feel. I've dated 2 aqua moons and they were amazing but I broke both of their hearts because they were too clingy and then they hated me.. still hate me to this day. Aqua moons are truly insane, like get over it. :p


Story of my life- i'm the original author of this thread... the man i'm in love with is a LEO- I bet he doesn't have it easy. One minute I am so inlove with him..writing him the best thing...treated him like the king he deserved...next min when I'm angry at him..I managed to ignore him like he doesn't exist... on-going dilemma between us..i wish it stops soon!!
Am I really that confusing??? ..does he not get how I really feel? such a wired combination ! - Am I that cold?
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Any Aqua placement is going to tell you their feelings for you like you are in the most romantic film ever and then they are going to immediately switch that up with a veneer of friendship. They may actually even look at you like they hate you or something for them feeling *compelled* to say they love you as if this beneath them or something.
Okay. *scared look*
The only thing you can do here is accept this and secretly find it amusing.
my two cents


You got us down to a tea- trust me we don't notice how cold and detach we come across-
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by ieatpizzaforfree
Lunar Aquarius are crazy. One minute you can express your feelings so lovely then completely ruin it by being detached and acting like what you just said didn't matter. It's so confusing and frustrating! Nonetheless, I am fascinated with aqua moons.. because I'm a leo moon. (I don't know if thats the true reason I'm intrigued but I'm going with that) I find them very detached but lovable but often don't know how they truly feel. I've dated 2 aqua moons and they were amazing but I broke both of their hearts because they were too clingy and then they hated me.. still hate me to this day. Aqua moons are truly insane, like get over it. :p


Story of my life- i'm the original author of this thread... the man i'm in love with is a LEO- I bet he doesn't have it easy. One minute I am so inlove with him..writing him the best thing...treated him like the king he deserved...next min when I'm angry at him..I managed to ignore him like he doesn't exist... on-going dilemma between us..i wish it stops soon!!
Am I really that confusing??? ..does he not get how I really feel? such a wired combination ! - Am I that cold?
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Posted by basil777
@suntauvengem I am currently dealing with a taurus sun aqua moon and it's hard. I am pisces sun, taurus rising, sag moon and I take what he does as cold and not caring. We can be in a room full of people, and that's great that he's giving me freedom to do whatever, but he can make me feel like the most insignificant person in the room. He's so busy trying to treat everyone equally that he'll just walk past me and barely even say a word and to me that kind of feels like a slap in the face. It's the pisces in me that takes it personally I know, but it definitely hurts and sucks sometimes. It's like y'all are worried about everyone else at the expense of those that really care about you.


I am VERY guilty of that. I have done this to the person i love the most. Ignoring the leo moon after 2 months of no contact ..walked past him and said NO word like he never existed in my life hell gave him tons of confusion...don't ask me how i did it or why i did it... I was just CAPABLE of it . It was to hurt him mainly but i have so much regret..I wish i just approached him and told him face to face how much he hurt me..but i refused too.. 2 days of full on ignoring him..he had to lower his leo pride and approached me..asked if we could talk about it... me " there's nothing to talk about"...he must have been real hurt....so now he's giving me the same " there's nothing to talk about "...endless drama--I hate being aqua moon sometimes...it makes my life so much more confusing!

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