My quick vent about Moon in Caps

This topic was created in the Moon Signs forum by tiltedmoonshadow on Tuesday, December 3, 2013 and has 16 replies.
People who act all tough and outright proclaim that they don't let themselves get attached to anyone are annoying as hell. Just go kill yourself then because us humans are social creatures and attachments inevitably form. Way to be inanimate you tool.
Who the f do you think you are.
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My Moon is in Virgo....if both are Earth signs anyways, why the hell is the Cap Moon so IRRATIONALly overprotective of themselves?! If Earth signs are about being practical, I don't see the practicality in consciously choosing to be a one man island when you know for a damn fact that it's okay to have *certain trustworthy persons* to linger the shores of your self-preserving island without suddenly seeing them as a threat because oh my heaven forbid it's not their damn fault that you had to FEEL something for a second there. GEEZ!! .... And I am all about my me time too, opening up takes a while for me and can be best compared to pulling teeth, but I know that there is such thing as too much self-preservation to the point where it's self-defeating. It gets frustrating to the other person in the receiving end and all this withholding is some sort of power play and I HATE POWER PLAYS!!!! DONT TRY TO MANIPULATE MY EMOTIONS JUST BECAUSE YOU DO IT TO YOURSELF! It must suck to feel so isolated and detached....Way to just be a pusssy! Congratulations for pushing someone away that you've even acknowledged as somebody who's "been nothing but good to" you. YOU ARE AN IDIOT.
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Posted by Sagtastic1
My apologies for my moon sisters and brothers. If you already know it's an act, why be upset? Yes, we project detachment because we are too damn attached for our liking and that person has tremendous power that we need to hide.



Because part of knowing is accepting it and acknowledging that you have to do something about this bullshyte. Just because it is put out there in the open doesn't mean it's acceptable behavior. I sure as hell won't tolerate it. You just come off as an idiot because you know what you're doing isn't right but you do it anyways. Surely nothing good had come out of it before so why keep doing the same thing unless you're happy with the same results. Apparently shiiiity results is what makes you happy. Ah good for you. DUMB.

It's kind of you to apologize, but perhaps you're the more aware type and I'm guessing more inclined to do something about it. You don't have to apologize for the mind f-ing idiot that I have to deal with though.
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Posted by Sagtastic1

Since you are "venting" about one, their probably un-comfortably attached to you.



The worst thing that could happen to him if he lets me in is just me saying, "I don't fully understand, can you please explain it to me?" I'm so open, understanding, and non-judgemental. Get attached to me and let it all out. You're not gonna keel over and die. GEEZ! Why should I invest if you're not going to invest jack shyte.
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Posted by Sagtastic1
raving like a banshee!



I like that..banshee.. yes, I'm aware. This is why I love this place. I can vent to strangers who allow me to be banshee-like if I so please. Thanks everybody xo
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Posted by Sagtastic1
I do have to say this, if he is being cold to the "extreme" and not providing for you, he may not like you like that.


Nah he's told me before that he likes me and his other high horse is how he's all about being honest and saying what's on his mind (Virgo), so I know that he likes me. It's just hard to believe it because its frustrating to watch him keep tabs on me from a distance, like keeping me within arms reach. I can see in his eyes how intrigued he is by me, yet he is acts so detached about it all. I just find it dishonest. If you can't be true to yourself, how can you be with someone else. It's like he's doing that push-pull crap that I ever so hate. And he tells me I'm hard to read-- wellp! sounds like a personal problem because why don't you just directly ASK ME whatever the hell it is you are trying to figure out about me! You supposedly trust me, yet you can't even give me the benefit of a doubt that I will be direct and honest with you if you could just grow some balls and allow me in. Why tell a person that you trust them, it was as if like moreso to try and convince himself of that and less about me believing it.
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Posted by PVAF
I'm a Virgo moon too, and nope, I don't get Cap moon men. Like unmovable boulders. I've found cap moon women to be quite friendly and warm actually. Hmm. Just realized I have no solid advice to add. LOL! Good luck.


Well not necessarily solid advice, but I appreciate knowing that someone else with a Virgo Moon has made a similar observation or had the same experience with a Cap Moon. So thank you.
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Posted by Sagtastic1
Well you didn??t say all of THAT!! He has a Virgo sun and a Cap moon? Honey, you have my sympathy. .....smh


LMAO!!! I'm sorry...I was too caught up on hating on his Cap Moon. I'm obviously more biased towards forgiving his Virgo Sun since my moon is in Virgo and I'm grateful for it because it tells my Cancer Sun to stfu (and just vent on dxp later)

Sigh. Yeah.. I knew that double whammy was gonna be a pain, plus his Virgo Mercury.
but look... He has a Leo Venus.....he has Gemini Mars .... And we are both Scorpio Risings! ....so I figured meh how bad could it be. Yeah, jokes on me.
(I have Venus in Gemini... Mercury in Leo.... Mars in Cancer)
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Posted by Fox
Love this topic.


Hey Fox, go ahead...vent it. smile You know you wanna...
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Posted by Sagtastic1
I just found out a hard truth about my moon sign; It can be very self defeating. Luckly, I caught myself before my normal manipulation tactic and I am so proud of myself! *slaps own ass*
lol
Thanks for pointing this out hun


Wait...are you being sarcastic ? Lol
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UPDATE:
Sooooo... I've just been informed that he was crying all night lastnight and came to work with red puffy eyes. .... Awkward. Now what because I will have to see him at work pretty soon.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
My Moon is in Virgo....if both are Earth signs anyways, why the hell is the Cap Moon so IRRATIONALly overprotective of themselves?! If Earth signs are about being practical, I don't see the practicality in consciously choosing to be a one man island when you know for a damn fact that it's okay to have *certain trustworthy persons* to linger the shores of your self-preserving island without suddenly seeing them as a threat because oh my heaven forbid it's not their damn fault that you had to FEEL something for a second there. GEEZ!! .... And I am all about my me time too, opening up takes a while for me and can be best compared to pulling teeth, but I know that there is such thing as too much self-preservation to the point where it's self-defeating. It gets frustrating to the other person in the receiving end and all this withholding is some sort of power play and I HATE POWER PLAYS!!!! DONT TRY TO MANIPULATE MY EMOTIONS JUST BECAUSE YOU DO IT TO YOURSELF! It must suck to feel so isolated and detached....Way to just be a pusssy! Congratulations for pushing someone away that you've even acknowledged as somebody who's "been nothing but good to" you. YOU ARE AN IDIOT.


Perhaps you broke the trust factor?
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
My Moon is in Virgo....if both are Earth signs anyways, why the hell is the Cap Moon so IRRATIONALly overprotective of themselves?! If Earth signs are about being practical, I don't see the practicality in consciously choosing to be a one man island when you know for a damn fact that it's okay to have *certain trustworthy persons* to linger the shores of your self-preserving island without suddenly seeing them as a threat because oh my heaven forbid it's not their damn fault that you had to FEEL something for a second there. GEEZ!! .... And I am all about my me time too, opening up takes a while for me and can be best compared to pulling teeth, but I know that there is such thing as too much self-preservation to the point where it's self-defeating. It gets frustrating to the other person in the receiving end and all this withholding is some sort of power play and I HATE POWER PLAYS!!!! DONT TRY TO MANIPULATE MY EMOTIONS JUST BECAUSE YOU DO IT TO YOURSELF! It must suck to feel so isolated and detached....Way to just be a pusssy! Congratulations for pushing someone away that you've even acknowledged as somebody who's "been nothing but good to" you. YOU ARE AN IDIOT.


Perhaps you broke the trust factor?
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I wouldn't even know how I'd do that. He's the one with the Mars in Gemini and I find that very unsettling, yet I don't actually let him know about how my Cancerian Sun & Mars that is having all the trouble in the world to trust him.
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Posted by tiltedmoonshadow
Posted by Sagtastic1
I do have to say this, if he is being cold to the "extreme" and not providing for you, he may not like you like that.


Nah he's told me before that he likes me and his other high horse is how he's all about being honest and saying what's on his mind (Virgo), so I know that he likes me. It's just hard to believe it because its frustrating to watch him keep tabs on me from a distance, like keeping me within arms reach. I can see in his eyes how intrigued he is by me, yet he is acts so detached about it all. I just find it dishonest. If you can't be true to yourself, how can you be with someone else. It's like he's doing that push-pull crap that I ever so hate. And he tells me I'm hard to read-- wellp! sounds like a personal problem because why don't you just directly ASK ME whatever the hell it is you are trying to figure out about me! You supposedly trust me, yet you can't even give me the benefit of a doubt that I will be direct and honest with you if you could just grow some balls and allow me in. Why tell a person that you trust them, it was as if like moreso to try and convince himself of that and less about me believing it.
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Well, when he told you he likes you, did you re-assure him that you liked him too?
My bf has virgo moon and I have a cap moon. I have gone out on a limb with saying how I feel about him and though he responds receptively and his actions show the same, he has a hard time verbally expressing his feelings for me. He has confirmed them, yet, I hold back because he's not taking the same risk. It's a give and take. Try to look at it from his angle. When a cap moon is vulnerable and the other person doesn't return the vulnerability, we tend to withdraw and clam up in self protection.
Take a good look at your responses.
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You should not be around a cap moon if you do not have patience to let it do its thing and open up over time to you and to itself. I think its a beautiful thing actually. Much different than placements that do the whole rushy rushy thing.
Cap moon gets a bad reputation much like Aqua venus and it doesnt really deserve it because surface traits are just that, surface. Whats underneath is something that is worth the wait in my dealings with cap moons. Let them have their pace and give it little pushes a long the way but nothing too drastic.
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Yes, once a cap moon is satisfied you are deserving (for lack of better words), you'll see a complete change and have lifelong loyalty, warmth, humor, trust, someone who always has your back, etc. You'll become one of those very, very few in their inner circle. It's totally a blessing and an honor to be one of those elite few and you'll be cherished and you'll cherish it.
Thanks delights!
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