
Are you loyal ?




Posted by Scorpio84How all water r u? This guy has venus , moon and mars in Pisces.. and why wud u destroy urself?
Yes to the point of even destroying myself, again im all water anyways...

Posted by rabidtalkerI am, though I also need assurance that I'm not just being loyal for nothing... lol... so that's why I created this thread..
yes, you?

Posted by saweetz1988Where's the Sun?Posted by Scorpio84How all water r u? This guy has venus , moon and mars in Pisces.. and why wud u destroy urself?
Yes to the point of even destroying myself, again im all water anyways...click to expand

Posted by saweetz1988As long as you are, yes.
Are you loyal ?

Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??

Posted by MontgomeryPosted by saweetz1988Where's the Sun?Posted by Scorpio84How all water r u? This guy has venus , moon and mars in Pisces.. and why wud u destroy urself?
Yes to the point of even destroying myself, again im all water anyways...
Aries?click to expand

Posted by saweetz1988and whether I should remain loyal ... he introduced me to his close friend, held my hands the whole time in public n pretty much acted like we were a couple u noe.Posted by MontgomeryPosted by saweetz1988Where's the Sun?Posted by Scorpio84How all water r u? This guy has venus , moon and mars in Pisces.. and why wud u destroy urself?
Yes to the point of even destroying myself, again im all water anyways...
Aries?
He's an Aqua .. our relation just got more intense on our last encounter.. due to oththe r circumstances he has no time for a relationship which we discussed earlier though that night was a completely 360 degree Turn and i refuse to bring up the topic again... so now I wonder what the heck am I to him lol
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Posted by MontgomeryWhat's if u didn't discuss exclusivity ?Posted by saweetz1988As long as you are, yes.
Are you loyal ?
Sell me out, and we're probably not going to
talk anymore. ?click to expand


Posted by EvatheDivaThank you so much Eva... I believe he has been cheated on as well.... so how do I know u r in love without communication. Would introducing your date to ur close friend n openly open ur affection be counted as such?Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: To answer your question(s); yes, I am loyal when in love. AND I can answer this one too since I'm female and Piscean moon. Feelings have to be mutual with my SO; as far as to the understanding that we will be EXCLUSIVE and boyfriend/girlfriend. We speak our minds and don't like the FWB butter or "fu*ck*ing buddies". If this is what one wants to each his own (EVEN as a Piscean moon). But for the rest of us for the sake of this thread, read above what I just mentioned. Communication is key as I don't want to confuse my SO and vice versa. Because I tell my SO, "My ex cheated on me, if you don't want anything to do with me anymore, just tell me. I own big girl panties, too, besides my thongs" 😉
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Posted by rabidtalker
changing my answer to "no, not loyal"




Posted by LillyPetal
Define "loyal." =.=

Posted by saweetz1988Okay, well based on what you said, then "yes, I'm loyal." However, it took me some time before I was comfortable showing affection publicly.Posted by LillyPetal
Define "loyal." =.=
Loyal....when you have feelings for someone, you start dating them, publicly showing affection towards them, and you remain faithful (loyal) regardless of a relationship status. To me that's being loyal.
for e.g. It would be disloyal if you have sex with that person and have very close intimacy with then go off and sleep with another person or even date another person, to me that's being unfaithful regardless of a relationship statusclick to expand

Posted by LibraLovesHimThat's amazing to know !! What sun has he got!? You have cap moon right? I have Aqua moon.... we r both prob a little too cold for them at times lol... so that's why I need to understand them a bit better. and how did you two become an item? Was it romantic hehe? Is he romantic as a boyfriend?
My Pisces moon bf hammered it into my skull, prior to becoming an item, that the one thing he needed the most was loyalty-over and over again. It almost got me thinking to the point of you know-he who over preaches something. lol!

Posted by LillyPetalGreat to knowPosted by saweetz1988Okay, well based on what you said, then "yes, I'm loyal." However, it took me some time before I was comfortable showing affection publicly.Posted by LillyPetal
Define "loyal." =.=
Loyal....when you have feelings for someone, you start dating them, publicly showing affection towards them, and you remain faithful (loyal) regardless of a relationship status. To me that's being loyal.
for e.g. It would be disloyal if you have sex with that person and have very close intimacy with then go off and sleep with another person or even date another person, to me that's being unfaithful regardless of a relationship statusclick to expand


Posted by saweetz1988As a general rule, I try not to gauge how my love feels about me based on how other men treat their own. There are far too many couples who appear overly lovey dovy, only to have a lot of issues behind closed doors. But I get it - it's nice to feel that public affection. ?Posted by LillyPetalGreat to knowPosted by saweetz1988Okay, well based on what you said, then "yes, I'm loyal." However, it took me some time before I was comfortable showing affection publicly.Posted by LillyPetal
Define "loyal." =.=
Loyal....when you have feelings for someone, you start dating them, publicly showing affection towards them, and you remain faithful (loyal) regardless of a relationship status. To me that's being loyal.
for e.g. It would be disloyal if you have sex with that person and have very close intimacy with then go off and sleep with another person or even date another person, to me that's being unfaithful regardless of a relationship status
Thank you.. over the last 4 months we went out twice though I can see the amazing shift .. the last time he was extremely
Open with his affection almost like he wanted the men to know he owned me..... n it was a very sweet n a beautiful night which makes me wonder what he truly thinking . Thank hooclick to expand

Posted by saweetz1988You're riding the carousel around and around with my response and your continuous question. You want to hear what you want to hear. Here goes (sigh!). The first "baby" step is being a "date". It's up to the guy with time when he wants to make you his girlfriend. If, like they say, by the 8th date, one should have sex (I'm Piscean and my strong 6th sense tells me he's bedded you), dear God here comes another question (Eva hangs head). THEN after the he's bedded you, then he will want to introduce you to his family/friends as you being his "girlfriend". That's when you say, whoa! (at home and communicate) and/or her will tell you, "Hon, let's be EXCLUSIVE; you are my girl". MORAL OF THE STORY? Be patient with your date/dude. He will come to you more and more. Just watch the movie, "He's not that into you" and you can see the dos/don'ts/signs, etc. But it seems to me a if YOU'RE infatuated by him. Men like to take a hold of the reins (even on the horse you're on on the carousel).Posted by EvatheDivaThank you so much Eva... I believe he has been cheated on as well.... so how do I know u r in love without communication. Would introducing your date to ur close friend n openly open ur affection be counted as such?Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: To answer your question(s); yes, I am loyal when in love. AND I can answer this one too since I'm female and Piscean moon. Feelings have to be mutual with my SO; as far as to the understanding that we will be EXCLUSIVE and boyfriend/girlfriend. We speak our minds and don't like the FWB butter or "fu*ck*ing buddies". If this is what one wants to each his own (EVEN as a Piscean moon). But for the rest of us for the sake of this thread, read above what I just mentioned. Communication is key as I don't want to confuse my SO and vice versa. Because I tell my SO, "My ex cheated on me, if you don't want anything to do with me anymore, just tell me. I own big girl panties, too, besides my thongs" 😉
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Posted by saweetz1988He is Aries sun. Yes i've a Cap moon and he did used to say that "I don't wear my heart on my sleeve" as such. Could be the Cap moon or Scorp asc? He was literally an open book when we met-it made me a little nervous like wow calm down son I might be an assassin or something! lol! Of course now I am a little more communicative about stuff yet I still do keep lot of my moves to myself. Its just the way i'm made, I talk when the time is right to reveal certain stuff.Posted by LibraLovesHimThat's amazing to know !! What sun has he got!? You have cap moon right? I have Aqua moon.... we r both prob a little too cold for them at times lol... so that's why I need to understand them a bit better. and how did you two become an item? Was it romantic hehe? Is he romantic as a boyfriend?
My Pisces moon bf hammered it into my skull, prior to becoming an item, that the one thing he needed the most was loyalty-over and over again. It almost got me thinking to the point of you know-he who over preaches something. lol!click to expand

Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by saweetz1988You're riding the carousel around and around with my response and your continuous question. You want to hear what you want to hear. Here goes (sigh!). The first "baby" step is being a "date". It's up to the guy with time when he wants to make you his girlfriend. If, like they say, by the 8th date, one should have sex (I'm Piscean and my strong 6th sense tells me he's bedded you), dear God here comes another question (Eva hangs head). THEN after the he's bedded you, then he will want to introduce you to his family/friends as you being his "girlfriend". That's when you say, whoa! (at home and communicate) and/or her will tell you, "Hon, let's be EXCLUSIVE; you are my girl". MORAL OF THE STORY? Be patient with your date/dude. He will come to you more and more. Just watch the movie, "He's not that into you" and you can see the dos/don'ts/signs, etc. But it seems to me a if YOU'RE infatuated by him. Men like to take a hold of the reins (even on the horse you're on on the carousel).Posted by EvatheDivaThank you so much Eva... I believe he has been cheated on as well.... so how do I know u r in love without communication. Would introducing your date to ur close friend n openly open ur affection be counted as such?Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: To answer your question(s); yes, I am loyal when in love. AND I can answer this one too since I'm female and Piscean moon. Feelings have to be mutual with my SO; as far as to the understanding that we will be EXCLUSIVE and boyfriend/girlfriend. We speak our minds and don't like the FWB butter or "fu*ck*ing buddies". If this is what one wants to each his own (EVEN as a Piscean moon). But for the rest of us for the sake of this thread, read above what I just mentioned. Communication is key as I don't want to confuse my SO and vice versa. Because I tell my SO, "My ex cheated on me, if you don't want anything to do with me anymore, just tell me. I own big girl panties, too, besides my thongs" 😉
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Strong 6th sense tells me you are a "young chickie"click to expand

Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by saweetz1988He is Aries sun. Yes i've a Cap moon and he did used to say that "I don't wear my heart on my sleeve" as such. Could be the Cap moon or Scorp asc? He was literally an open book when we met-it made me a little nervous like wow calm down son I might be an assassin or something! lol! Of course now I am a little more communicative about stuff yet I still do keep lot of my moves to myself. Its just the way i'm made, I talk when the time is right to reveal certain stuff.Posted by LibraLovesHimThat's amazing to know !! What sun has he got!? You have cap moon right? I have Aqua moon.... we r both prob a little too cold for them at times lol... so that's why I need to understand them a bit better. and how did you two become an item? Was it romantic hehe? Is he romantic as a boyfriend?
My Pisces moon bf hammered it into my skull, prior to becoming an item, that the one thing he needed the most was loyalty-over and over again. It almost got me thinking to the point of you know-he who over preaches something. lol!
We met through mutual friends at a brunch and a few hours later were running about dancing at a beach party at sunset-he had my bag and shoes in hand trailing me around lol! It was cute how close he wanted to be with me. First time ever gone back to a guy and sat up eating takeaway talking nonsense. Time ran away and 4am as soberness and my strict Cap moon kicked in it was time for me to get sensible, and go home.
The beginning was v uncertain...we had both been hurt, i liked him alot and (I think) him me, there was alot of testing each other etc. and ego involved-this is where I had been prepped to let mine go and just TRY for a change-IT WORKED! He is romantic, he brings me home perfume now and then (just because), cooks for me lovely meals, we have wine and cheese evenings just the 2 of us and we go on weekend trips. He works his butt of but still finds a way to make time for us. He is amazing, I can say it feels like a first love for me (although its not)click to expand

Posted by Gob_Shitelol goodness
Yes...
No...
Well, maybe...
No, no, no, I've changed my mind again...
Actually, based on the circumstances...
You see, each individual case is unique, so...
Oh, fuck it...

Posted by DistilledPosted by saweetz1988If someone shows outward affection towards you- that in their eyes doesn't necessarily mean it will hold the same regard as in yours.Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by saweetz1988You're riding the carousel around and around with my response and your continuous question. You want to hear what you want to hear. Here goes (sigh!). The first "baby" step is being a "date". It's up to the guy with time when he wants to make you his girlfriend. If, like they say, by the 8th date, one should have sex (I'm Piscean and my strong 6th sense tells me he's bedded you), dear God here comes another question (Eva hangs head). THEN after the he's bedded you, then he will want to introduce you to his family/friends as you being his "girlfriend". That's when you say, whoa! (at home and communicate) and/or her will tell you, "Hon, let's be EXCLUSIVE; you are my girl". MORAL OF THE STORY? Be patient with your date/dude. He will come to you more and more. Just watch the movie, "He's not that into you" and you can see the dos/don'ts/signs, etc. But it seems to me a if YOU'RE infatuated by him. Men like to take a hold of the reins (even on the horse you're on on the carousel).Posted by EvatheDivaThank you so much Eva... I believe he has been cheated on as well.... so how do I know u r in love without communication. Would introducing your date to ur close friend n openly open ur affection be counted as such?Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: To answer your question(s); yes, I am loyal when in love. AND I can answer this one too since I'm female and Piscean moon. Feelings have to be mutual with my SO; as far as to the understanding that we will be EXCLUSIVE and boyfriend/girlfriend. We speak our minds and don't like the FWB butter or "fu*ck*ing buddies". If this is what one wants to each his own (EVEN as a Piscean moon). But for the rest of us for the sake of this thread, read above what I just mentioned. Communication is key as I don't want to confuse my SO and vice versa. Because I tell my SO, "My ex cheated on me, if you don't want anything to do with me anymore, just tell me. I own big girl panties, too, besides my thongs" 😉
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Strong 6th sense tells me you are a "young chickie"
Lol no I'm not young young. I'm almost 30😉 though the Pisces def bring out and the young energy side of me it's beautiful.... I'm not asking u so I hear what I Wanna hear, I'm asking from a Pisces perspective . In this circumstances If I go off and continue n date others, would he find that to be disloyalty since he's paid so much attention to me, shown me affection in public and even made an effort to introduce me to his friend. To me, that was a big step. Therefore, I created this thread to know how I should respond to such behaviour. I'm cool with neither to be honest
Loyalty can mean when someone returns something back to you that really holds a place in their soul and in yours.
Not just a fleeting moment but a concrete one.
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Posted by DistilledPosted by saweetz1988Sex itself is very important to me but not the way to keep my loyalty, just show it.Posted by DistilledPosted by saweetz1988If someone shows outward affection towards you- that in their eyes doesn't necessarily mean it will hold the same regard as in yours.Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by saweetz1988You're riding the carousel around and around with my response and your continuous question. You want to hear what you want to hear. Here goes (sigh!). The first "baby" step is being a "date". It's up to the guy with time when he wants to make you his girlfriend. If, like they say, by the 8th date, one should have sex (I'm Piscean and my strong 6th sense tells me he's bedded you), dear God here comes another question (Eva hangs head). THEN after the he's bedded you, then he will want to introduce you to his family/friends as you being his "girlfriend". That's when you say, whoa! (at home and communicate) and/or her will tell you, "Hon, let's be EXCLUSIVE; you are my girl". MORAL OF THE STORY? Be patient with your date/dude. He will come to you more and more. Just watch the movie, "He's not that into you" and you can see the dos/don'ts/signs, etc. But it seems to me a if YOU'RE infatuated by him. Men like to take a hold of the reins (even on the horse you're on on the carousel).Posted by EvatheDivaThank you so much Eva... I believe he has been cheated on as well.... so how do I know u r in love without communication. Would introducing your date to ur close friend n openly open ur affection be counted as such?Posted by saweetz1988OP great subject. Next time, can you add all your "questions" into one thread? It seems as if you're puzzled after DXP members respond to your original question/thread, etc.
Interesting...'so, if you were to hold
Your hands date in public , introduce your date to your close friend and being puclibcly open that you r dating this person. Can I then assume that you are only dating this one person only??
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: To answer your question(s); yes, I am loyal when in love. AND I can answer this one too since I'm female and Piscean moon. Feelings have to be mutual with my SO; as far as to the understanding that we will be EXCLUSIVE and boyfriend/girlfriend. We speak our minds and don't like the FWB butter or "fu*ck*ing buddies". If this is what one wants to each his own (EVEN as a Piscean moon). But for the rest of us for the sake of this thread, read above what I just mentioned. Communication is key as I don't want to confuse my SO and vice versa. Because I tell my SO, "My ex cheated on me, if you don't want anything to do with me anymore, just tell me. I own big girl panties, too, besides my thongs" 😉
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Strong 6th sense tells me you are a "young chickie"
Lol no I'm not young young. I'm almost 30😉 though the Pisces def bring out and the young energy side of me it's beautiful.... I'm not asking u so I hear what I Wanna hear, I'm asking from a Pisces perspective . In this circumstances If I go off and continue n date others, would he find that to be disloyalty since he's paid so much attention to me, shown me affection in public and even made an effort to introduce me to his friend. To me, that was a big step. Therefore, I created this thread to know how I should respond to such behaviour. I'm cool with neither to be honest
Loyalty can mean when someone returns something back to you that really holds a place in their soul and in yours.
Not just a fleeting moment but a concrete one.
Yeah I know what you mean, though he was acting more possssive inch, I don't know to me holding hands walking around the club n introducing to close friends is leading towards exclusiveness ... perhaps, he's showing loyalty coz I have been loyal to him Sexually anyway.... only time will tell right😉 thank you
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Posted by saweetz1988We met at a mutual friends brunch gathering end Sept. I'd say we were like an item by the time i'd returned from my home country (he came to visit for 10 days) in Jan...Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by saweetz1988He is Aries sun. Yes i've a Cap moon and he did used to say that "I don't wear my heart on my sleeve" as such. Could be the Cap moon or Scorp asc? He was literally an open book when we met-it made me a little nervous like wow calm down son I might be an assassin or something! lol! Of course now I am a little more communicative about stuff yet I still do keep lot of my moves to myself. Its just the way i'm made, I talk when the time is right to reveal certain stuff.Posted by LibraLovesHimThat's amazing to know !! What sun has he got!? You have cap moon right? I have Aqua moon.... we r both prob a little too cold for them at times lol... so that's why I need to understand them a bit better. and how did you two become an item? Was it romantic hehe? Is he romantic as a boyfriend?
My Pisces moon bf hammered it into my skull, prior to becoming an item, that the one thing he needed the most was loyalty-over and over again. It almost got me thinking to the point of you know-he who over preaches something. lol!
We met through mutual friends at a brunch and a few hours later were running about dancing at a beach party at sunset-he had my bag and shoes in hand trailing me around lol! It was cute how close he wanted to be with me. First time ever gone back to a guy and sat up eating takeaway talking nonsense. Time ran away and 4am as soberness and my strict Cap moon kicked in it was time for me to get sensible, and go home.
The beginning was v uncertain...we had both been hurt, i liked him alot and (I think) him me, there was alot of testing each other etc. and ego involved-this is where I had been prepped to let mine go and just TRY for a change-IT WORKED! He is romantic, he brings me home perfume now and then (just because), cooks for me lovely meals, we have wine and cheese evenings just the 2 of us and we go on weekend trips. He works his butt of but still finds a way to make time for us. He is amazing, I can say it feels like a first love for me (although its not)
Awww that is so sweet !! I totally get what u mean by first love... I didn't realise how romantic mine was untill that night .. so sweet .. I felt like the notebook movie you know, it was that crazy connection, romance, and I think there was love too.:he has venus in Pisces too n mars...': it makes me feel so unromantic sometimes (Aqua moon) hehe.... how did you two become an item — I'm so glad he's able to ease your cap moon.. my ex was a cap moon, I know how hard they can b at themselves sometimes would b so beautiful with Pisces moon enegynclick to expand
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