Scorpio moon still holding on?

This topic was created in the Moon Signs forum by confusingenigma on Saturday, July 25, 2015 and has 11 replies.
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So... I have been married with my Scorpio moon man for three years now. I have to admit that our relationship was full of drama and has been a rollercoaster ride ever since. I have read about Scorpio moon traits and the descriptions fit my man to a T. He could be the most possessive guy ever, a bit stalkerish and intense. He is also very jealous by nature but won't admit to it. What bugs me is that, they're known to be faithful once in a committed relationship, but my man has been acting strange lately... We have free access to each other's social media accounts and I happen to stumble across his search history which showed that he searched his ex girlfriend to whom he fell in love before but left him off guard. I have been very disappointed with this and I openly expressed my thoughts and he said sorry and it's not a big deal as I could do the same, search for my ex and he won't say a damn thing! I couldn't do that as anything that concerns exes are a no-no in my book! What's past is already past for me. I won't look back. His response really bugged me and I kept thinking that somehow he still has feelings for her?! I asked him why would he need to look up for her? He said it was just to see how she was doing or what is she up to now? I'm like WTF!? We are in a committed relationship and he should focusing on our relationship not on how she was doing?!
Posted too soon!

Why would he even do that? Any thoughts?

I try to calm myself but my Leo moon won't back down and so is my Venus in the 8th house. Pff.
I check up on exes every so often to prove myself I'm doing better without them, lol. Doesn't mean I want them back or anything.

Scorpio moons spend so much time obsessing over someone, they never completely forget them even years later but it doesn't mean we're going to go back at any given occasion, especially in a marriage or established relationship. I don't think you've got anything to worry, a lot of people check their exes' social media accounts without anything happening.
Posted by liya-b
I check up on exes every so often to prove myself I'm doing better without them, lol. Doesn't mean I want them back or anything.

Scorpio moons spend so much time obsessing over someone, they never completely forget them even years later but it doesn't mean we're going to go back at any given occasion, especially in a marriage or established relationship. I don't think you've got anything to worry, a lot of people check their exes' social media accounts without anything happening.

I felt quite relieved. Thanks!

Little background: Before marriage though, I remember, we had a big fight over something ridiculous and the very next day he added that ex girlfriend and I was so furious that time, he never did it again, just this looking up thing after few years into the marriage. His reason for adding his ex was because I angered him!

At this point, is it still harmless or is it a red flag?
One more thing... from the moment I called his attention with this issue of looking up exes, every browse history and search history is cleared. No traces.

I am like, if he got nothing to hide, why the sudden deletion of every single thing searched? Smells fishy, really. And I am bothered by this. No matter how many times I tried asking him why would he delete such things, his answer was that I'm so jealous that every little thing I see becomes an issue so in order for me to stop obsessing over things, everything must be deleted.
Posted by Rambunctious76
A scorpio moon married to a leo moon.

Maaannn....

Op, I check up on exes too once awhile. I even added one of them back to my FB because she currently does some activist work that aligns with my principles.

But that, in no absolute way, means that I want her back. NADA.

The reason why he is now clearing his browser and search history is because you made it clear that it bothered you. So now what? You don't want him to do that so that you can go off on him again about something that he
Posted by confusingenigma
One more thing... from the moment I called his attention with this issue of looking up exes, every browse history and search history is cleared. No traces.

I am like, if he got nothing to hide, why the sudden deletion of every single thing searched? Smells fishy, really. And I am bothered by this. No matter how many times I tried asking him why would he delete such things, his answer was that I'm so jealous that every little thing I see becomes an issue so in order for me to stop obsessing over things, everything must be deleted.

I personally don't see anything that could lead to infidelity in what you're saying here, especially since he knows you have access to his social media accounts, he thought you'd be okay with it since to him it didn't mean anything. He literally told you why he deleted everything, he allowed you in his personal space only to be called out on something insignificant so he's retaliating with added privacy.

It's also a fixed sign so that's not changing anytime soon.
What's his and your sun sign???
@ OP: It can be confusing at times, and I know because I am in a relationship with a Libra with a Scorpio moon. I am a Gem with a Leo moon, so the best thing I can say is that you may be overthinking it and making the situation worse than it really is. So long as you are proving your love and affection, it's unlikely he is going to leave you for his ex. It sounds like he is just wondering a long the lines "what are they up to now" sort of thing. For me personally, I probably wouldn't put too much worry into it unless he goes missing for unusual amounts of time or you find that he is starting to actually talk to her. Then it might raise some flags. Just my two cents. Scorpio moons can be very guarded, but when they love, they love unless you give them a reason to split off with you.
OP my guy is a scorpio moon and I can completely relate to whatever you are saying. Please don't let your insecurities ruin your relationship with this guy. Its completely normal to check exes to see what they are up to or like liya-b said "I check up on exes every so often to prove myself I'm doing better without them, lol. Doesn't mean I want them back or anything." its just out of curiosity ITS NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. And as far as deleting history is concerned it was just because you were bothered by his act and he didn't want you to pick more fights with him on such petty things that has no base. I can say for sure he has nothing to hide from you. You are just over reacting.
i do look up my exes sometimes too lol.. but i dont have feelings for them anymore... bec. well theres a reason they are exes.. n once i decide to quit on someone, its a done deal! no turning back EVER