Your Mother's Moon Sign & You

When you were growing up, how did you see your mother? Did you see her as adventurous and outgoing or quiet and strict? Did or Do your moon signs get along? Also, what did you hate most about her moon sign?

For me, my mother is a gemini/cancer cusp with a scorpio moon. Growing up, I was very sheltered and she was really strict with me but also allowed me to have fun and a good childhood. During my teenage years, I started to realize how secretive and observant she really is. It really annoyed me always being watched and almost never having privacy but it was for my own good. Being a super overprotective mom to a leo moon was a struggle I'm sure lol but she never let me down. She also taught me to not trust people so easily and there is always a motive behind actions. As now that I'm older, she finally tells me family secrets and her secrets and struggles I never realized she went through as a child. I admire her and now I look up to her as being very strong and stern.

How did your mother influence you?

Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
My mother and I have the same moon sign.

Guess it was smooth sailing in your home, huh? Lol

Do you guys have a good relationship?

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My mother and I have the same moon sign.

Guess it was smooth sailing in your home, huh? Lol

Do you guys have a good relationship?

I'm a mama's boy. But we have a pretty complex relationship. She's a Gemini with a Scorpio moon so...yeah. These motherfuckers are just naturally abnormal.

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Lmao, accurate. Most of my childhood was looney. I remember once I got a beating in my room and I stayed in there crying. An hour later, she came back into my room asking me who hit me and if I was okay. Traumatized me to this day.

She has always been a very loving n giving woman. Lovely mom.. lovely everything. There's nothing to not love about her. She wasn't strict or maybe she was when I was younger but I didn't mind it. She has always been a curious person but not annoyingly so lol.

I dunno if Gemini n Taurus moons get along well in general. But I get along very well with Gemini moon people. I don't hate anything particularly about this moon sign.

Both my parents were and are super protective. I like it. I'm a good rebel n always been the one to bring any kinda revolution or familiarize my family with new things n stuff. My mom was always the first to welcome the change.They all eventually get accommodated ?

My mom n me have been more like friends growing up. I'm the one she'd share everything with n we always talked about everything. I won't say she "taught" me something..but I sure learned things from her. I consider her really strong but she says I'm one of the strongest people she ever came across n that she'd never be able to be like me if she were me lol.

She's a Taurus sun n Gemini moon btw

Posted by sierraleoone
i am a virgo sun-pisces moon and my mama is a taurus sun-cancer moon

my mom is a quiet woman who likes to cook and buy me puzzles as a kid

she's always been supportive of me even though im such a mess in my teen years

and i love her for not making such a fuss about my mental issues in adulthood

yes we get along but i think sometimes im too sensitive.. i get easily hurt about things that she probably didn't mean to say in the way that i interpret it.. as for being sheltered, eh i don't mind coz we're similar in that we both like to stay at home most of the time and we're both just as quiet anyhow lol

i am clingy asf with her

Honestly, that sounds like the cutest mom/daughter relationship lol. I'm glad you guys get along so well. A lot of people don't have that.

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Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
My mother and I have the same moon sign.

Guess it was smooth sailing in your home, huh? Lol

Do you guys have a good relationship?

I'm a Libra Sun with Taurus moon and my mother is a Taurus sun/moon. She thinks I hate her lol

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lol, do you hate her? o_o

i don't know if this has any relevenace but my husband is a lib/taurus moon and his mother is also a taurus and he does seem to come across as he hates his mom lmao but he also respects her a great deal. how do you feel?

Gemini sun, Pisces moon.

I was very fond of her up until I was 9-10. Then I started to resent her as I noticed my dad treating her like garbage. When I was 11-12ish I started getting in trouble at school so she started to lay the hammer down on my freedom, which sowed even more resentment. Fr I wasn't allowed to spend the night at anyone's house; all my friends had to sleep at our house unless she was very familiar with the parents. Once I hit puberty she got even more strict; I think she thought I was having sex at age 13 because I'd disappear to my neighbor boys house. She finally loosend the chain when I lashed out by using cocaine when I was 16. I was able to make it seem like I was using drugs to numb out of being sheltered. After that my curfew went out the window as long as I was alone or with a friend she knew. I still wasn't allowed to go out with friends she didn't know, even after I turned 18!! She'd be like, "You can't take my car if you're going to see someone I don't know". I could be out until 5AM alone, but somehow it was completely off limits to hang out with someone she didn't know. For a while I thought she was jealous of me...

Obviously now that I live alone and 700 miles away she ain't got no control over me. But I still have problems with her overstepping her boundaries. Like once a year she wants to help me move, and that includes her fricking sleeping on my couch... in MY space. I don't feel comfortable with it at all. Other than that she's pretty cool as long as I don't have to live in close quarters with her alone for too long.

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i am a virgo sun-pisces moon and my mama is a taurus sun-cancer moon

my mom is a quiet woman who likes to cook and buy me puzzles as a kid

she's always been supportive of me even though im such a mess in my teen years

and i love her for not making such a fuss about my mental issues in adulthood

yes we get along but i think sometimes im too sensitive.. i get easily hurt about things that she probably didn't mean to say in the way that i interpret it.. as for being sheltered, eh i don't mind coz we're similar in that we both like to stay at home most of the time and we're both just as quiet anyhow lol

i am clingy asf with her

Honestly, that sounds like the cutest mom/daughter relationship lol. I'm glad you guys get along so well. A lot of people don't have that.

i guess it also helps that i have cancer venus

i don't like being smothered unless it's my mama lol

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sameee, lollllll

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
Mine is timid herself, but to me, she was overprotective and obsessed with me. She was sheltering me, and still does. I gained a lot of insecurities because of it. My childhood was awesome, but trying to cover me from outside world only damaged me.

My mom is Leo with Aries moon.

I can relate with the whole insecurity from being sheltered life. Definitely a struggle being a teenager with that.

Posted by Teena
She has always been a very loving n giving woman. Lovely mom.. lovely everything. There's nothing to not love about her. She wasn't strict or maybe she was when I was younger but I didn't mind it. She has always been a curious person but not annoyingly so lol.

I dunno if Gemini n Taurus moons get along well in general. But I get along very well with Gemini moon people. I don't hate anything particularly about this moon sign.

Both my parents were and are super protective. I like it. I'm a good rebel n always been the one to bring any kinda revolution or familiarize my family with new things n stuff. My mom was always the first to welcome the change.They all eventually get accommodated ?

My mom n me have been more like friends growing up. I'm the one she'd share everything with n we always talked about everything. I won't say she "taught" me something..but I sure learned things from her. I consider her really strong but she says I'm one of the strongest people she ever came across n that she'd never be able to be like me if she were me lol.

She's a Taurus sun n Gemini moon btw

Girl, sameee. Thats so cute! Its nice when your mom can also be your best friend.

Posted by Whorpio
Gemini sun, Pisces moon.

I was very fond of her up until I was 9-10. Then I started to resent her as I noticed my dad treating her like garbage. When I was 11-12ish I started getting in trouble at school so she started to lay the hammer down on my freedom, which sowed even more resentment. Fr I wasn't allowed to spend the night at anyone's house; all my friends had to sleep at our house unless she was very familiar with the parents. Once I hit puberty she got even more strict; I think she thought I was having sex at age 13 because I'd disappear to my neighbor boys house. She finally loosend the chain when I lashed out by using cocaine when I was 16. I was able to make it seem like I was using drugs to numb out of being sheltered. After that my curfew went out the window as long as I was alone or with a friend she knew. I still wasn't allowed to go out with friends she didn't know, even after I turned 18!! She'd be like, "You can't take my car if you're going to see someone I don't know". I could be out until 5AM alone, but somehow it was completely off limits to hang out with someone she didn't know. For a while I thought she was jealous of me...

Obviously now that I live alone and 700 miles away she ain't got no control over me. But I still have problems with her overstepping her boundaries. Like once a year she wants to help me move, and that includes her fricking sleeping on my couch... in MY space. I don't feel comfortable with it at all. Other than that she's pretty cool as long as I don't have to live in close quarters with her alone for too long.

Wow, thats crazy. The strictness can really bring out the rebel in kids I've noticed in others and in myself.

I'm a double Sag, my mom is a Virgo/Libra cusp sun/Leo moon.

When I was really young I saw her as a kindred spirit. Although she was a single mother, working more than one job for most of my early years, she still managed to have fun with my brothers and I. She played April Fool's jokes on us until I was old enough to be annoyed by them lol.

She taught us many life skills by the time we were in middle school/junior high - I was doing laundry by age 7, with a stool to reach the washer/dryer since I was so small lol. My brothers and I were learning to cook by about age 7 or 8 as well, starting some dinners before she even came home.

By the time I got old enough to have my own mind I began to feel like she used guilt trips to try and persuade how we deal with things in our own lives. It's almost a catch 22 with her now that we're all adults. She wants us to be independent and do our own thing but she needs to have an opinion in the matter - frustrating to my free spirited Sag Moon but whatevs. I chalk it up to being a mother - she can't help but chime in and she really does only want the best for us. I recently have been able to stand up and tell her that how she behaves rubs me the wrong way and she apologized and said that'a not what she wants so yeah...overall fairly good in my opinion! 🙂

Posted by virgxxleo
Wow, thats crazy. The strictness can really bring out the rebel in kids I've noticed in others and in myself.

What's funny is after they did loosen the reigns I stopped rebelling and lashing out.

oh boy i could go on and on about my mom... she was strict out of love, a teacher.... i was very lucky to have her as my example of a woman and mother... I'm pretty sure she loved my father til she died even tho he left, so the sadness in her eyes was hard to hide but she did a good job... she was a cancer moon... i wish we had talked as friends more... i wish i had grown up faster... idk it's hard to talk about bc she was my world. i learned a lot from her so I'm very grateful for our time together.

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What's funny is after they did loosen the reigns I stopped rebelling and lashing out.

do you have a better relationship with her now?

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Like I said, I can tolerate her as long as we don't habitate in close quarters.

My mom is Gem sun with Pisces moon, she did the best she could. We get along better with distance between us.

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when my dad started to treat my mom like garbage, i became more protective of her and i loved her even more

when i was a mess later on and didn't come home for 6 months, sure it totally annoyed me that every time i sneaked in to get clothes, shower and steal food.. i'd get caught sometimes and she'd say things i don't wanna hear but i know she probably misses me too

and when i woke up, surviving an overdose she's the first person i saw when i opened my eyes

so my mom is never going to sleep on my couch

she'd sleep on the bed with me

coz moms don't live forever you know

i hate my cancer venus right now it's gross

Well my dad had a way of making it seem like my mom was the bad guy. I could go into detail on this buuuuut I really don't wanna talk about it publicly no mo.

Ain't no way in hell I'd share a bed with that lady; she sleeps without a shirt on; it disgusts me. Tbh I'd rather share a bed with my dad than with her.

I know she won't live forever, but she's already living a good life and I know she's happy with it.

Posted by virgxxleo
When you were growing up, how did you see your mother? Did you see her as adventurous and outgoing or quiet and strict? Did or Do your moon signs get along? Also, what did you hate most about her moon sign?

Basically I rather confided in her than my father. She was mothering as mothering can be, understanding, never raised her voice in anger. Now as an adult, the thing I hate most about her moon sign is how illogical she can allow herself to get all cuz of stubbordness. You can't change her mind about some things, even when you present evidence of the contrary. She's more intrested in the way she's right than exploring the part where she's wrong. She's a Taurus moon btw

Leeb sun, Scorpio moon.

Growing up she was my everything, as i got older, not so much, i ended up becoming the parent in a very weird situation and it was just odd.

She is extremely mellowdramatic and makes up stories to gather attention from the family. Calling us to tell us our grandfather is on his deathbed when he's not is just one example.

i'm Aqua sun, sag moon.

Posted by Catullus
My mom is Gem sun with Pisces moon, she did the best she could. We get along better with distance between us.

Same and agree

She's an Aries sun, and Gemini moon.

She was emotionally unstable, and extremely moody. She'd get angry for everything. She wasn't affectionate, and if she saw us crying, she'd just yell at us for being too emotional instead of comforting us. She didn't really take care of us. She was always out with her friends or working. She provided for us financially, but we kind of were on our own to raise ourselves. She chose her stupid bf at the time (her now husband) over us. I had to take care of my bros because she's literally pick them up from school, drop them off at home, then leave until the next day. They were only 8 and 11 years old...She never stood up for us, which is why I have such a tough exterior now. I stand up for myself, and for people who feel like they can't stand up for themselves because no one ever stood up for me. She would show us off to her friends, and act like she was this amazing mother when behind closed doors she wasn't a good mother at all. She was very strict too.

My sun is in Taurus and moon in Cancer. Very conflicting. My brothers are water signs too, so our signs conflict with both parents.

Im Taurus sun Scorpio moon and My mom is Scorpio sun Aries Moon. When I was young honestly I was alone and even if I have a good non broken family I was always alone. My mom never understood me (neither dad do) I wanted cuddles and kisses very much even when Iwas a teen but they were busy doing their works. So mostly I grew up alone reading books and watching movies (which made me a hard addict into dark arts, poetry, comic books, and movies ? )

she is a really good mother though. She wasnt that cuddling too passionate type but very protective and if my dad fails to do something she will butt hard try and will succeed anyway. She is innocent and silent but very brave. She is braver than my dad sometimes lol

Lately she and I became very close and we are like friends now. Like BESTIES. I let her know about what I wanted from her when I was a kid and she was very sad after hearing that. So now im 22 and she would always kiss me when I sleep. Kiss or hug me in random times. ?

She is not that typical mom you will see in stories. She dont cook special stuff, dont gift fancy things, dont try to dress me like a princess or play with my hair (she never do unless i asked lol) but she will do ANYTHING keep our future safe. And I will tell you she is the only savior I have in my life. The only one I can totally love and trust. There are so many great qualities I can learn from her. Such a great character even if not that passionate.

My mom is Taurus sun and Aries moon.

I always thought she knows a great deal about many different subjects which is true. Growing up she was strict with me but when I got older, like 10/11 already, I had a lot of freedom.

We always got along well with each other except in emotional aspects... She does not, never did understand my feelings, so I never talk to her when I need help or reassurance when I'm hurt or mad. I know she will not understand, for her there's only rational thinking and feelings are irrational so she just doesn't deal with them, or with me when I have 'feelings' 😄

Also she is very clingy with me, and I hate it. I need a lot of space away from my mom, but this has to do with her sun sign I guess

Leo moon mother

Overly proud, vein, controlling and never believed in saying sorry

She was practical and dependable (Cap sun) but not particularly affectionate. She didn't beleve in freedom of expression and showing of emotions

I knew she loved me but the love was restrained and controlled



I wasn't able to be myself with her and found her overly religious way of life too much...

We had huge differences but there was deep love there

Mothers are precious.....when they go you realize how much

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I have an overbearing mom who is very emotional and devoted to me, and we are almost the same person. We're also very attached to each other emotionally. We both have Cancer Moon.

That sounds intense lioness

Do you find her too much at times ?

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I have an overbearing mom who is very emotional and devoted to me, and we are almost the same person. We're also very attached to each other emotionally. We both have Cancer Moon.

That sounds intense lioness

Do you find her too much at times ?

Yes, definitely. And because she's felt the need to be strong for our family, it's really scary to watch her cry... she doesn't cry often, but when she does, it's really sad...

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Posted by thecrazyariestaurus
She's an Aries sun, and Gemini moon.

She was emotionally unstable, and extremely moody. She'd get angry for everything. She wasn't affectionate, and if she saw us crying, she'd just yell at us for being too emotional instead of comforting us. She didn't really take care of us. She was always out with her friends or working. She provided for us financially, but we kind of were on our own to raise ourselves. She chose her stupid bf at the time (her now husband) over us. I had to take care of my bros because she's literally pick them up from school, drop them off at home, then leave until the next day. They were only 8 and 11 years old...She never stood up for us, which is why I have such a tough exterior now. I stand up for myself, and for people who feel like they can't stand up for themselves because no one ever stood up for me. She would show us off to her friends, and act like she was this amazing mother when behind closed doors she wasn't a good mother at all. She was very strict too.

My sun is in Taurus and moon in Cancer. Very conflicting. My brothers are water signs too, so our signs conflict with both parents.

That reminds me of my mom a little too

My mom would yell at me every time I would cry or throw up. Seems like they can't handle "intense situations"

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Oh God, that sounds tough

I didn't see what moon and sun she is ?

My mother is Libra sun, Aqua moon.

When I was a kid, I usually saw my mother as the generous, kind, friendly and intelligent person that she is to this day. She can be critical, but she's usually diplomatic about it. When I was a young teenager I went through a period of not feeling respect for her because she wasn't standing up for herself enough but that didn't last long - she got a lot stronger (she worked on it).

She was fair with rules and discipline when I was a kid. She was supportive of creative things that I was into including drawing and writing fiction. There were a lot of good books in the house to read when I was growing up thanks to her love of books and enjoyment from owning them. She introduced me to astrology when I was a teenager, so I learned about looking at more than sun sign.

I have Gem moon, and it trines my mom's Aqua moon closely. We both have our moons in the 1st house. I can't think of anything bad about her moon on it's own. Her chart is almost all air. Only her rising sign (Cap) and Jupiter (Cancer) aren't air, and the nodes (she has Virgo NN). She can seem detached sometimes, but she is quite warm underneath that. Her sense of humour is very subversive which I love.

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She's an Aries sun, and Gemini moon.

She was emotionally unstable, and extremely moody. She'd get angry for everything. She wasn't affectionate, and if she saw us crying, she'd just yell at us for being too emotional instead of comforting us. She didn't really take care of us. She was always out with her friends or working. She provided for us financially, but we kind of were on our own to raise ourselves. She chose her stupid bf at the time (her now husband) over us. I had to take care of my bros because she's literally pick them up from school, drop them off at home, then leave until the next day. They were only 8 and 11 years old...She never stood up for us, which is why I have such a tough exterior now. I stand up for myself, and for people who feel like they can't stand up for themselves because no one ever stood up for me. She would show us off to her friends, and act like she was this amazing mother when behind closed doors she wasn't a good mother at all. She was very strict too.

My sun is in Taurus and moon in Cancer. Very conflicting. My brothers are water signs too, so our signs conflict with both parents.

Sorry to hear that 😢

Your mom has the same placements as I do, thanks for your post, it was useful to know. I noticed that I yell if something is not going my way, it's really bad, but I can't even control it, have to work on it though! Considering other things, I hope not to get overwhelmed with career. I want my kids to have the best childhood possible, kids come first. I also noticed in other families that Aries mothers are not protective, they just hide and let the time pass while a child has problems to deal with 😢

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Yeah, it's really unfortunate that they're not protective of their children... I had to suffer through my anxiety and depression on my own when I first got it (around 15 years old) because she would just yell at me and thought I was stupid for being depressed. She said my problems didn't matter because I was a child, and I didn't understand real issues. I remember one night she caught me cutting myself, and all she did was get mad at me, and yell "you better not be fucking cutting yourself". Then years later, she just made fun of me for cutting... never tried to help me.

I'm not saying you're like my mom, or you're gonna be like my mom because of your placements, but my advice is not to resort to anger for everything. I'm a very angry person because I grew up in a home where everyone was angry. I have a hard time controlling my anger too. Also, just be there for your children, and hear them out. My mom thinks everything she says is correct, and we're all wrong. And show them affection. I struggle very hard with showing affection, because I was raised in a home where showing any little emotion was "wrong" and showing affection was weak.

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She's an Aries sun, and Gemini moon.

She was emotionally unstable, and extremely moody. She'd get angry for everything. She wasn't affectionate, and if she saw us crying, she'd just yell at us for being too emotional instead of comforting us. She didn't really take care of us. She was always out with her friends or working. She provided for us financially, but we kind of were on our own to raise ourselves. She chose her stupid bf at the time (her now husband) over us. I had to take care of my bros because she's literally pick them up from school, drop them off at home, then leave until the next day. They were only 8 and 11 years old...She never stood up for us, which is why I have such a tough exterior now. I stand up for myself, and for people who feel like they can't stand up for themselves because no one ever stood up for me. She would show us off to her friends, and act like she was this amazing mother when behind closed doors she wasn't a good mother at all. She was very strict too.

My sun is in Taurus and moon in Cancer. Very conflicting. My brothers are water signs too, so our signs conflict with both parents.

That reminds me of my mom a little too

My mom would yell at me every time I would cry or throw up. Seems like they can't handle "intense situations"

Oh God, that sounds tough

I didn't see what moon and sun she is ?

Gemini sun and aqua moon. She was not like this with my brother. He's aqua sun and Pisces moon

I'm Aries sun cap moon

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Aqua moon and Gem sun.....all in the head.....not the warmest

Thank God you don't have a Cancer moon!

My mother's a virgo with a cap moon. I have an Aries moon.

She's very protective and loving. Very nurturing and confides in me. Works hard. She's a very steady and stable person. She understands that not everything is perfect and she deals with issues herself rather than give up or get angry about it like most people. She spoiled me for the most part and liked to vent to me about work when I was younger. She doesn't trust others but she's very friendly and has a good reputation. She would always push me though. She still does at work. She always tells me to hurry, demands that I do this or that, yells at me to do something or hurry up from across the room, and sometimes wouldn't let me do things on my own. I love her though.

Our relationship was and is still awful. She has aqua sun/sag moon and I have pisces sun/gem moon.

Not sure if it's bc of our opposite moon signs but she hates me. I can say one simple thing and she'll blow up in anger at me because she took it as something completely different than what I meant.

From my childhood I can always remember her not being too fond of married life or having kids. She makes it a point to lmk everyday now that I'm older how much she regrets having me and my lil bro ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

She'll play dirty too. I confessed in her once I most likely had depression and suicidal thoughts and from then on whenever we argued she would tell me how she was going to become depressed if she kept seeing my face (and that my depression was fake but hers was real lolz).

Altho I don't think this is normal behavior for any sign - she just has issues tbh.

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My mom is Gem sun with Pisces moon, she did the best she could. We get along better with distance between us.

Same and agree

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Me too, haven't lived in the same state as my mom since I was 18. It's better this way...

She's an Aqua with Leo moon. Never happy, rarely demonstrative with love or affection towards me. I wish I knew what it was like to have a close mother/daughter relationship.

My mother is a triple Aries. We are opposites i wanted my life to be very different to hers.

She loses her temper easily with many people. But she doesn't hold grudges and has a kind heart. The kind heart we have in common 🙂

I am not sure how I feel about it now 🙂

My mother is cap likely with cap moon (she doesn't remember her birth hour). And a big cap stellium! Sun, moon, merc, venus and mars. My father is also cap. I'm cancer with gemini moon.

I always had a strong connection with her. I don't have siblings and my parents had a missed birth before me. Maybe because of that and also due to her troubled relation with my grandparents (she was kicked off home when 18) her life always revolved a lot around me. She gave me all she could and even more. My childhood was sweet but constrained by the caps immobility and attachment to routine. Growing up I diverged more and more from them which I know left my mother with mixed feelings. She is proud of my accomplishments but they've left me away from her. Not just physically but especially in mind set. The second more important thing for her after having a son would be a grandson. And she knows I'm not planning it. However, time and time again she adapts to my life changes. I was always a very obedient child, but today I think that I ended up being a silent rebel. Always going against my mother set of values and expectations. We only had one fight in 31 years: when I told her that I was in a relationship with a woman 13 years older, ex-wife of my boss at the time. She told me crying: I knew you must have a flaw! She eventually accepted her and we had lunch and dinner a number of times. I truly love her and today I'm the one giving her advises and trying to be rock solid for her.

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My mom is Gem sun with Pisces moon, she did the best she could. We get along better with distance between us.

Same and agree

Me too, haven't lived in the same state as my mom since I was 18. It's better this way...

She's an Aqua with Leo moon. Never happy, rarely demonstrative with love or affection towards me. I wish I knew what it was like to have a close mother/daughter relationship.

One day you just might 🙂

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Thank you for being positive, but there's too much water under that bridge...

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My mother is cap likely with cap moon (she doesn't remember her birth hour). And a big cap stellium! Sun, moon, merc, venus and mars. My father is also cap. I'm cancer with gemini moon.

I always had a strong connection with her. I don't have siblings and my parents had a missed birth before me. Maybe because of that and also due to her troubled relation with my grandparents (she was kicked off home when 18) her life always revolved a lot around me. She gave me all she could and even more. My childhood was sweet but constrained by the caps immobility and attachment to routine. Growing up I diverged more and more from them which I know left my mother with mixed feelings. She is proud of my accomplishments but they've left me away from her. Not just physically but especially in mind set. The second more important thing for her after having a son would be a grandson. And she knows I'm not planning it. However, time and time again she adapts to my life changes. I was always a very obedient child, but today I think that I ended up being a silent rebel. Always going against my mother set of values and expectations. We only had one fight in 31 years: when I told her that I was in a relationship with a woman 13 years older, ex-wife of my boss at the time. She told me crying: I knew you must have a flaw! She eventually accepted her and we had lunch and dinner a number of times. I truly love her and today I'm the one giving her advises and trying to be rock solid for her.

I should add that since their home 7 years ago and move abroad 4 years ago my mom calls every day. Just to say hi. Like she says, just to hear my voice and to know I am ok.