Posted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lol
Posted by Coochiecoochiecoowas never a problem for me - I don't want someone in my life / around me that doesn't have respectPosted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lolclick to expand
Posted by LethalFantasiaVery important boundary of mine. Non negotiable.Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lol
How important is this boundary to you?...
If you can't tolerate it, then say bye bye, they already did - because they couldn't tolerate NOT doing it around youclick to expand
Posted by tctaapI like your thinking babyPosted by Coochiecoochiecoowas never a problem for me - I don't want someone in my life / around me that doesn't have respectPosted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lolclick to expand
Posted by tctaapCan we dm some nuggets of wisdomPosted by Coochiecoochiecoowas never a problem for me - I don't want someone in my life / around me that doesn't have respectPosted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lolclick to expand
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooI'm all out of rabbitsPosted by tctaapCan we dm some nuggets of wisdomPosted by Coochiecoochiecoowas never a problem for me - I don't want someone in my life / around me that doesn't have respectPosted by ValleysofNeptuneWhat if it’s a boundary that they think is too rigid or something they don’t consider to be a boundary personally? For instance they are fine with doing certain things/saying certain things to close personal friends but you make it clear that it’s unacceptable to you. They find it difficult to accept and think it shouldn’t be a boundary. They decide to distance themselves or stop associating with you.
Then that’s what happens. Most people are aware of those potential consequences when they make a choice like that, otherwise there probably wasn’t a reason to set up those boundaries. If they can’t respect your boundaries then they aren’t good for you in your life anyways. There’s more people out there anyways, 7 billion of them lolclick to expand