quirkycrabbygirl
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Do introverts initiate phone conversations?
He says that he is an ambivert. But to me his introversion is more prominent.
Posted by Jayc3onSo you're saying that depending on the level of his introversion, it is normal for him not to initiate?!
I think it would depend on how much of an introvert one is. I'm an introvert to an extent but nobody would ever know it because I come off as extroverted.
Posted by CookieoSo how do people who stay faaaaar away from you communicate with you?
I hate talking on the phone. 😛
Posted by KoniuchaaHe says he doesn't initiate with anybody, not even with best friends.
I am one for sure. If I like talking to you, I will.
Posted by Jayc3onYou said that you come off as extroverted. So do you take initiatives?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onSo you're saying that depending on the level of his introversion, it is normal for him not to initiate?!
I think it would depend on how much of an introvert one is. I'm an introvert to an extent but nobody would ever know it because I come off as extroverted.
Yes it's levels to this introversion. It could be normal for him.
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Posted by CookieoPosted by quirkycrabbygirlVia text messages and Messenger.Posted by CookieoSo how do people who stay faaaaar away from you communicate with you?
I hate talking on the phone. 😛
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Do you feel cool to text the same person like everyday?
Posted by Jayc3onOkay if somebody in particular(preferably a girl who is your friend) initiating texts with you everyday and talks for 5-10 minutes max. Do you feel bothered? Like ever?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onYou said that you come off as extroverted. So do you take initiatives?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onSo you're saying that depending on the level of his introversion, it is normal for him not to initiate?!
I think it would depend on how much of an introvert one is. I'm an introvert to an extent but nobody would ever know it because I come off as extroverted.
Yes it's levels to this introversion. It could be normal for him.
Yeah I take initiative but I have my introvert moments more so than my extroverted ones.
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Posted by CookieoNo chitchat at all? What if that person is calling just to hear your voice 😛Posted by quirkycrabbygirlI'm more like a guy on the phone. Like "what do you want" and "get to the point" type lol. I really hate chitchatting. 😛Posted by CookieoSo how do people who stay faaaaar away from you communicate with you?
I hate talking on the phone. 😛
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
Posted by Jayc3onDo you guys prefer talking about your feelings? Like deep emotional stuffs that you usually don't spill out.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onOkay if somebody in particular(preferably a girl who is your friend) initiating texts with you everyday and talks for 5-10 minutes max. Do you feel bothered? Like ever?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onYou said that you come off as extroverted. So do you take initiatives?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onSo you're saying that depending on the level of his introversion, it is normal for him not to initiate?!
I think it would depend on how much of an introvert one is. I'm an introvert to an extent but nobody would ever know it because I come off as extroverted.
Yes it's levels to this introversion. It could be normal for him.
Yeah I take initiative but I have my introvert moments more so than my extroverted ones.
Me personally get bored of texting everyday, I would rather chill at some point. I wouldnt feel bothered though.
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Posted by sierraleooneOkay you are somewhat similar to the guy I am talking about. And what if the other person is also thinking about not bothering you by calling you 😢
im an introvert but texting just doesn't work for me
coz i always tend to offend the other person
it takes forever for me to respond and i reply at very odd, weird times lol coz i probably fell asleep or be doing something
but i also don't initiate calls coz i don't know the right time to call, i don't wanna be a bother
so i wait for a call then it doesn't matter if im mumbling sleepily on the phone or whatever.. it's more personal to me this way
Posted by CookieoWhy awkward?! That's not fair. Just not fair. 😢Posted by quirkycrabbygirlEhm... Lol. I would feel very awkward. My voice is not that special lol.Posted by CookieoNo chitchat at all? What if that person is calling just to hear your voice 😛Posted by quirkycrabbygirlI'm more like a guy on the phone. Like "what do you want" and "get to the point" type lol. I really hate chitchatting. 😛Posted by CookieoSo how do people who stay faaaaar away from you communicate with you?
I hate talking on the phone. 😛
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I feel the same thing about my voice though lol
Posted by lesenfantterriblesAnd do you prefer talking about your mood things with that bff of yours?Posted by quirkycrabbygirli may FEEL like not chatting with her forever but it never lasts... im usually in a mood.Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
but i have definitely dipped in communication for months.
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesWhen she is the one who made you moody, what do you do and what do you expect her to do?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlnah, i usually just hole up until the mood passes. unless she is the one that made me moody (which has happened before) but i usually just tell her instead of avoiding.Posted by lesenfantterriblesAnd do you prefer talking about your mood things with that bff of yours?Posted by quirkycrabbygirli may FEEL like not chatting with her forever but it never lasts... im usually in a mood.Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
but i have definitely dipped in communication for months.
no need to burden someone else with my moody ass.
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Posted by Jayc3onSo you don't like to be asked about those things ever? Or do you prefer going with the flow and sharing bit by bit?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onDo you guys prefer talking about your feelings? Like deep emotional stuffs that you usually don't spill out.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onOkay if somebody in particular(preferably a girl who is your friend) initiating texts with you everyday and talks for 5-10 minutes max. Do you feel bothered? Like ever?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onYou said that you come off as extroverted. So do you take initiatives?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlPosted by Jayc3onSo you're saying that depending on the level of his introversion, it is normal for him not to initiate?!
I think it would depend on how much of an introvert one is. I'm an introvert to an extent but nobody would ever know it because I come off as extroverted.
Yes it's levels to this introversion. It could be normal for him.
Yeah I take initiative but I have my introvert moments more so than my extroverted ones.
Me personally get bored of texting everyday, I would rather chill at some point. I wouldnt feel bothered though.
She tries too but I don't budge.
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Posted by sierraleooneBut that's your boyfriend. He is just my friend. Well a friend I am veryyy much interested in 😛Posted by quirkycrabbygirlthen we're both idiots 😆Posted by sierraleooneOkay you are somewhat similar to the guy I am talking about. And what if the other person is also thinking about not bothering you by calling you 😢
im an introvert but texting just doesn't work for me
coz i always tend to offend the other person
it takes forever for me to respond and i reply at very odd, weird times lol coz i probably fell asleep or be doing something
but i also don't initiate calls coz i don't know the right time to call, i don't wanna be a bother
so i wait for a call then it doesn't matter if im mumbling sleepily on the phone or whatever.. it's more personal to me this way
ive been upfront about my nature when it comes to communication with my boyfriend
he used to be fond of sending me walls and walls of texts like they're love letters until he realized that id rather hear him breathing on the phone
im okay with pms from other people but if we're gonna get involved
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesYou are so much like the guy I am talking about here.Posted by quirkycrabbygirli tell her immediately, we talk about it (usually on the phone or in person) then either she apologizes or i see her side and apologize for getting moody.Posted by lesenfantterriblesWhen she is the one who made you moody, what do you do and what do you expect her to do?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlnah, i usually just hole up until the mood passes. unless she is the one that made me moody (which has happened before) but i usually just tell her instead of avoiding.Posted by lesenfantterriblesAnd do you prefer talking about your mood things with that bff of yours?Posted by quirkycrabbygirli may FEEL like not chatting with her forever but it never lasts... im usually in a mood.Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
but i have definitely dipped in communication for months.
no need to burden someone else with my moody ass.
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So you're cool with your bff calling you out of the blue?
Posted by sierraleooneWell actually I have asked and he said he is not. And if he is ever annoyed he would tell me.Posted by quirkycrabbygirlask him if he's annoyed by your way of communicating with himPosted by sierraleooneBut that's your boyfriend. He is just my friend. Well a friend I am veryyy much interested in 😛Posted by quirkycrabbygirlthen we're both idiots 😆Posted by sierraleooneOkay you are somewhat similar to the guy I am talking about. And what if the other person is also thinking about not bothering you by calling you 😢
im an introvert but texting just doesn't work for me
coz i always tend to offend the other person
it takes forever for me to respond and i reply at very odd, weird times lol coz i probably fell asleep or be doing something
but i also don't initiate calls coz i don't know the right time to call, i don't wanna be a bother
so i wait for a call then it doesn't matter if im mumbling sleepily on the phone or whatever.. it's more personal to me this way
ive been upfront about my nature when it comes to communication with my boyfriend
he used to be fond of sending me walls and walls of texts like they're love letters until he realized that id rather hear him breathing on the phone
im okay with pms from other people but if we're gonna get involved
we're gonna puke our feelings out with our real, actual voices
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But still......... 😐
Posted by lesenfantterriblesGemini sun Aquarius moon
did we establish, anywhere in this thread, what this introverts placements are? lol i wanna know
That's all I know
Posted by lesenfantterriblesYou wont answer—!!! Do you give justifications for that within 24 hours or do you just call back when you feel like talking?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlyes of course. she called me out of the blue this morning. woke me up from a nightmare, actually.Posted by lesenfantterriblesYou are so much like the guy I am talking about here.Posted by quirkycrabbygirli tell her immediately, we talk about it (usually on the phone or in person) then either she apologizes or i see her side and apologize for getting moody.Posted by lesenfantterriblesWhen she is the one who made you moody, what do you do and what do you expect her to do?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlnah, i usually just hole up until the mood passes. unless she is the one that made me moody (which has happened before) but i usually just tell her instead of avoiding.Posted by lesenfantterriblesAnd do you prefer talking about your mood things with that bff of yours?Posted by quirkycrabbygirli may FEEL like not chatting with her forever but it never lasts... im usually in a mood.Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
but i have definitely dipped in communication for months.
no need to burden someone else with my moody ass.
So you're cool with your bff calling you out of the blue?
if i am in a mood, i wont answer. she calls me often and vice versa. we talk on the phone a few times a week. if she didnt call me/ return my calls for like 2 weeks, best believe i'd be asking her why she hasnt called me lol
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Posted by quirkycrabbygirlIs he Taurean?
I have a friend who is an introvert. He doesn't like initiating texts or phone calls and has been very clear about it from day one. I initiate 9/10 times but I feel like I am interfering with his schedule. Same happens with phone calls.
Also when i initiate, at times he keeps on chatting and at times he replies with emoticons or one word. He doesn't like talking about his feelings or mood-offs and likes to deal them on their own.
Is it their nature to keep a distance like this?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by lesenfantterriblesPosted by quirkycrabbygirli dont feel like i have to justify my moods to anyone, unless it concerns them. moodiness is part of my everyday life. sometimes fleeting, sometimes an extended stay, sometimes full on depression.Posted by lesenfantterriblesYou wont answer—!!! Do you give justifications for that within 24 hours or do you just call back when you feel like talking?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlyes of course. she called me out of the blue this morning. woke me up from a nightmare, actually.Posted by lesenfantterriblesYou are so much like the guy I am talking about here.Posted by quirkycrabbygirli tell her immediately, we talk about it (usually on the phone or in person) then either she apologizes or i see her side and apologize for getting moody.Posted by lesenfantterriblesWhen she is the one who made you moody, what do you do and what do you expect her to do?Posted by quirkycrabbygirlnah, i usually just hole up until the mood passes. unless she is the one that made me moody (which has happened before) but i usually just tell her instead of avoiding.Posted by lesenfantterriblesAnd do you prefer talking about your mood things with that bff of yours?Posted by quirkycrabbygirli may FEEL like not chatting with her forever but it never lasts... im usually in a mood.Posted by lesenfantterriblesDo you have such moments where you don't even feel like chatting with your bff ever?
i dont really like chatting on the phone. i prefer text. less invasive and i can respond at my leisure, if need be
i only talk to certain people on the phone, my mom, bff, and boss
but i have definitely dipped in communication for months.
no need to burden someone else with my moody ass.
So you're cool with your bff calling you out of the blue?
if i am in a mood, i wont answer. she calls me often and vice versa. we talk on the phone a few times a week. if she didnt call me/ return my calls for like 2 weeks, best believe i'd be asking her why she hasnt called me lol
i always make sure to stay on good terms with my friends so when i do dip out, they know it isnt them. the close friends understand.
i will call back when i feel like talking. again, i dont wanna put my moodiness on anyone if it isn't about them.
bff is a cap w/ cancer & aqua placements so, she gets me.
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Wow you're soooo much like him.
Well I guess I have to call him anytime soon out of the blue and see for myself.
Posted by EvatheDivaGemini sun aquarius moonPosted by quirkycrabbygirlIs he Taurean?
I have a friend who is an introvert. He doesn't like initiating texts or phone calls and has been very clear about it from day one. I initiate 9/10 times but I feel like I am interfering with his schedule. Same happens with phone calls.
Also when i initiate, at times he keeps on chatting and at times he replies with emoticons or one word. He doesn't like talking about his feelings or mood-offs and likes to deal them on their own.
Is it their nature to keep a distance like this?
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Evaclick to expand
His moon sign is more dominant
Posted by g-emi-N-iPosted by quirkycrabbygirlI am the same way in a sense that I rarely do txt or calls. Just this year I was semi forced into getting a cell phone to call n txt, keep up w family.
I have a friend who is an introvert. He doesn't like initiating texts or phone calls and has been very clear about it from day one. I initiate 9/10 times but I feel like I am interfering with his schedule. Same happens with phone calls.
Also when i initiate, at times he keeps on chatting and at times he replies with emoticons or one word. He doesn't like talking about his feelings or mood-offs and likes to deal them on their own.
Is it their nature to keep a distance like this?
I prefer face to face its more real & authentic w less misunderstandings to me, even, if it means they're likely to see & hear less of me. Im really independent & unclingy so neediness can be very annoying to me unless your imidiate family.
See you when I see you, is my motto in a non threating way.
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My thing is a long distance thing. So meeting up is not really an option for us.
It depends on the situation with some people as Jayceon stated. I'm one of the most introverted people most of the time but if I see a reason to get involved then I will. But after that is over I'm right back to silence as if I had never said anything at all.
Introverts can be nasty little narcissists. Yuck
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Also when i initiate, at times he keeps on chatting and at times he replies with emoticons or one word. He doesn't like talking about his feelings or mood-offs and likes to deal them on their own.
Is it their nature to keep a distance like this?