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Mar 07, 2017Comments: 16 · Posts: 487 · Topics: 93
Hi all,
So I'm talking to a guy who is a total introvert.
He is a Cap Sun/Lib Moon/Cap Mercury... He's a total sweet guy but so hard to read!
For me who is crazy out going and a Virgo (Always analyzing and wanting to know details), him being this way drives me craycray.
His personality almost reminds me of the secrative Cancers, however I dont think he has secrets as he is open with me - he's just a quiet guy who keeps his thoughts to himself - An introvert!
Anyways, is an Introvert/Extrovert pairing a good one? I know its pretty general... but hoping to hear about other's experiences.
Thanks,
Milani
I'm more of an introvert and I'm usually drawn to other introverts. It's easier to be in synch and comfortable with someone who is similar to you, imo. I think it could work the other way too, but both of you need to be understanding of each other, try to get out of your comfort zone one in a while, be patient, etc.
In my experiences as an Extrovert when I have been in a close relationship with an Introvert it's been pretty much like a flip of a coin 50/50 ^ Heads or Tails odds of probability for Success. From my own first hand experiences and observations these 2 Polar Opposites have tendency to either REPEL or ATTRACT towards each other whether it be instinctively or intentionally also consciously or subconsciously.
I feel what is KEY for an Extrovert & Introvert to be in a healthy, happy, complementary relationship is
First, Awareness of themselves along with the other's relative to the major differences that Extros/Intros do things, behave, think and overall operate. Fully be aware and understand how each other Replenish, Recharge, Rejuvenate, and Reenergize themselves via means, manners, and methodology so far from their own ways its 'foreign'
Secondly, Understanding both mutually on a 2 way street bi-directional basis with multiple wide lanes on this "Relational Road" that is always properly maintained free of potholes, bumps, dips, slips etc. This road should always have -ease of access-both to get on & off efficiently as expected from any major Freeway while also maintaining the smooth appearance, comfort and quality of an exclusive $ Toll Road $ This Road constantly evolves, and grows in accordance with the overall growth of the relationship itself. An Underlining Understanding to the point of having Full ~[Empathy]~ for the other.
Lastly, Respect for themselves and each other specifically in the area of Boundaries, Limits,
Physical Space, Proximity, "breathing room" when and wherever it may be needed required. Equally comfortable in times of togetherness along with separateness also a balanced appreciation for both moments within their physical "presence" and "absence" and your own adjustment to each moment in knowing, liking, and enjoying to either play a game of 'solitaire" or "rummy" as per the moment influences.
It's definitely NOT Impossible for an Extrovert & Introvert to be in a relationship however, it may require a bit more effort, time, and patience which in the end will more than likely pay off for both.
I wish you all the best in this relationship~
Kind Regards,