A question I always wanted to as a Pisces.

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WaterDevil
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So Iv asked some Pisces I know in person but always get a wishy washy answer, however...

Have you guys ever given someone another chance (at dating) If the first go around didn't go as planned but you have chemistry? I mean. If you dated them very briefly (3-7 dates), didn't work out... and months to a year or more later they pop back into your life and suddenly look appetizing again? And I don't just mean sexually. I mean a potential SOUL MATE type of way.

I ask because for me this can happen. Meeting someone and not really liking them (but before really knowing them too) but having chemistry. Than they coming back in to my life, CHANGED. MATURED. DIFFERENT. And suddenly it changes everything for me. Just wondering if you guys are like that. Or if you have any personal experiences to share.
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MichelleT
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Kinda depends.

Once upon a time a cancer man came along. I gave him the work and he broke my heart. He came back and the Adam Henry did it again. Cancer men always get me and by get me I mean they are the devil!

I'm not usually one to look in the rear view mirror though. I suppose there has to be an amazing connection for me to be willing to go back and try to resurrect something that wasn't working in the first place. The best attempt I think would be to get me while I'm still in my grieving period post break up. That's how and when Cancer got me.

If I get out of my blue period and remember how badass and amazing I am, a man stands little chance to get back together.
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Endlessly-dreaming
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I would only allow one person back into my life in that way. It would be a Scorpio that I used to date, but only because I didn't agree with how things ended. Though I've accepted it and moved on, I believe he was just scared to follow his true feelings so he backed off fast after confessing his feelings to me.

So I think he would be the only person. I wasn't in love with him, but for sure for those that I was in love with I wouldn't give em a second chance because there's a reason why it ended.

I used to date a Libra who I was on and off with, and whom I was in love with. That's what made me decide that I wouldn't give someone who I was in a relationship with a second chance, especially if I loved them.
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Posted by MichelleT
Kinda depends.

Once upon a time a cancer man came along. I gave him the work and he broke my heart. He came back and the Adam Henry did it again. Cancer men always get me and by get me I mean they are the devil!

I'm not usually one to look in the rear view mirror though. I suppose there has to be an amazing connection for me to be willing to go back and try to resurrect something that wasn't working in the first place. The best attempt I think would be to get me while I'm still in my grieving period post break up. That's how and when Cancer got me.

If I get out of my blue period and remember how badass and amazing I am, a man stands little chance to get back together.
lol Im a cancer(woman). But it sounds like he was a manipulative one. I was more so referring to a situation where no one was ever hurt like that. Before it got THAT deep. But Im sorry that happened to ya. I hope if you run in to another cancer he won't be like that.
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I've been going back and forth with my Gemini-Cancer Cusp guy since we met last year in March. We would break up for a few months, get back and then break up all over again.

The only reason why we would reconnect again is because I honestly feel like he is the one. But, being only 23, he's 26, I'm not sure. But surprise surprise, we're on speaking terms again (after breaking up in July). We weren't dating, we were seeing each other but it felt like a full blown relationship. Dates every week, different restaurants and activities and constant communication. This went on for like 8 months. I met his family and friends, attended his 25th birthday and everybody loved me apparently haha. Yeah, he swept me away real good. It was just too unfortunate that Gems are hard to make a commit with, they love to be free..

FYI, I would never go through this with anyone else, nor have I ever done before. Still trying to understand what this is between us. The magnetic pull is crazy. Perhaps because of our birth charts, I have a lot of Aqua placements and he has a lot of Leo (synastry).

His Virgo moon is probably the only reason why I find he's one of the reliable Gems out there. Always honest and truthful and dependable. But still wishy washy at the same time