Advice for a Pisces Female?

Hello everbody, I got back in contact as recent to this Pisces female that I have known for 2 years now. I am interested in her and she came over the other night to relax and catch up with me. We had a good talk, but when I tried to get her to come in my house, she refused. I ended up playfully going after her around my driveway, she had a smile on her face so I did not feel repelled or awkward. I kept trying to get close but she had this 1 feet rule and I was kind of mad but it made me want to chase. Is she playing games? I brought up something about wanting to sleep with her but she was hesitant and said that I would have to "show her". Can someone tell me what she is suggesting? Thank you for all opinions. All advice welcome, I'm very bad when it comes to girls and don't where the emphasis should go.

Simple enough thanks to both I will take it into consideration. Any other interpretation is appreciated!

Haha good luck...

hmmm, sounds like she has to see it and experience it to actually believe in it, especially after a few years. She may be hesitant in a sense, if you were more like friends initially, but on the other-hand she may now see you as her teasing Pandora's Box. Kind of one foot in, one out.. Actions will speak louder, though not overtly aggressive. Strength, passion, patience with confidence & dignity. Sooner or later she will seek something much deeper, as sex for a Pisces could never be the soul denominator in the long run. Hope this makes a speck of sense. Good luck..!

Only one foot? HA! I'm a 5 footer, lmao. Pisces likes playfulness, so the little chase would have made her smile. Not sure what she ment by "show me", maybe she was playing with you and wanted to see what you were packing 😉, maybe she wanted you to show her you were truly interested —? I dunno. Maybe she was feeling a little awkward due to the whole "friend" thing. We're laid back people, if we feel your coming on to strong, we run. pisces chicks love all that sappy romance crap, so lay it on hard! Little things, like a love letter, and no email shit either! lol, a real, hand written one would melt my heart 🙂. It takes us a long time to open up, to bring down our walls as far as feelings go, we need to trust a person. When it comes to sex, it's usually an emotional and spiritual thing for us, not just a physical one. it may take you a while , but we're SO worth it 😉

okay, im just being honest on what seems to be the situation from this little blurb you typed and my POV

you invited her in, she declined.

after that you playfully went after her and she was smiling, personally, i will smile if i am happy but i will also smile if i feel awkward and dont want to make the other person feel awkward, esp if it is a friend. (and i only bring this up because of the other evidence)

then she gave you a 1 foot rule. (hrm, you are moving to quick, getting to close to quick)?

and you told her you wanted to sleep with her? sex? id say it takes a little more for a woman to want to have sex. even if you are old friends. maybe by saying show me she meant she needs to see more of who you are these days and what you can offer her before shes gonna just hop in the sack... i know if someone straight up told me they wanted to have sex with me id be like, umm.. whaat ?

id say if you like this girl, step back, breath, and take things a little slower. give her room to disect the situation.


an old friend of mine brought me on a date recently and it was fun, but i wasnt necessarily feeling it flow immediatly, but i wanted to give it time to see what could grow. he wanted to discuss the situation a lot and talk about everything and it was really frusterating, maybe even annoying. i dont know if its me, or the pisces female in me, or the venus in taurus.. hah, but i like things to flow, naturally, when it comes to relationships with people. if the chemistry isnt there from the start, why struggle to make something of it?

always discussing and having people in my space too quick pushes me away. then my mouth shuts and *swiim* ... "bye friend"

i forgot to mention he was a libra. my point in bringing it up.. not hating, just saying.

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i dont know if its me, or the pisces female in me, or the venus in taurus.. hah, but i like things to flow, naturally, when it comes to relationships with people. if the chemistry isnt there from the start, why struggle to make something of it?

always discussing and having people in my space too quick pushes me away. then my mouth shuts and *swiim* ... "bye friend"

I TOTALLLY know what you mean!! (I'm also pisces with venus in taurus). At the same time, I feel like when I find a connection I almost hang on too tightly to it, because it's so rare. 😢


Umm to the OP.... one thing you said put me off up there. "I don't know if she's playing games"...
You saw her on one night, to "catch up" and told her you wanted to have sex, and she declined. That's games—?
You most definitely are the one playing games. Do you have intentions towards this girl other than instant gratification? Because I will tell you that is her worst fear at the moment, that's what she meant by "show me". Show me that you aren't just popping back into my life to use me. Show me that this is about more than sex. Show me that I can trust you and believe in you (again?).

You didn't give much back story on your previous relationship with this girl. Did you do her wrong?

Mystic_fish- it makes a Lot of sense thanks
Waterbaby77- lay it down hard o.k thanks, any other sappy romance crap recommendations?
Cat_face- like your perspective but slow is kinda hard for me thanks still
Deezie- no i never did her wrong in the past but we were kinda off/on, attraction is there, i'm ashamed to say i want instant gratification, but a long term friendship too, in order to be beneficial to each other.
Sagittariusgoat- i've got nothing up my sleeve in terms of seduction, no need to be sorry for being blunt, I understand 🙂
Mr.Defense- alright sir i'll man up

Thank you all for your response, happy new year

mr defense - us ladies gave this dude some good, real advice and information about pisces women. you dont know what youre talking about.

"nail that ol watery freak" what an idiot.

you, as well mr defense, will figure it out some day .. or maybe you wont, whatever.