Another love story... Pisces Men, some insight?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by MoreVirgoThanLeo on Tuesday, April 22, 2014 and has 11 replies.
Hello all, I'm a newbie here but have have read a few forums on Pisces men and relationships... So here's goes my story
Me (Aug. 22nd) and my Pisces guy (Mar. 9th) were a passionate couple of 6mos now. Like all the other love stories it started out amazing, a dream come true. I'm into him & he's into me, we clicked well. Talked about our pasts, future, marriage and even kids. It's like I had finally found my Soul mate.
We had met 2yrs back, we both lived in the same placd, went on a couple dates, everything was great but due to family obligations I had to pack up and move back home far away. We lost touch.
Fast forward to now, 6mos ago I decided to reach out to him so I did, he was more than happy to hear from me. I am a flight attendant so my job lands me in his city 2-3 times a week. We met up for dinner and we were inseperable ever since.
We easily talked about what we wanted from a relationship from the beginning. We agreed we both want No games or lies,just trues honest uncoditional love. We've both been burned in previous relationships so we knew never to put eachother through the heartache.
Within 2 months together we were already claiming love. He would always tell me how much he loved me and no matter what he'd never leave.Treated like a queen, and I in return would treat him like a King. We were madly in love.
Now like all relationships we had our not so happy moments. Since we were long distance & it came with it's fair share of problems. He wanted me when he wanted me, with my job I can easily hop on a plane and on the days I couldnt he would bget upset & say "I don't love him like he loves me" or accuse me of there being someone else. Which was never true! I constantly reassured him as consistantly as I needed that he was my heart and my only. He said he believes it but deep down he didn't completely. So I made it my mission to show he my love was true. Most of my schdule revovled around him. For work I mainly made it so I had layovers in his city. My days off were all about him, text throughout the day cause that's what he said he liked and wanted.
Me (Aug. 22nd) and my Pisces guy (Mar. 9th) were a passionate couple of 6mos now. Like all the other love stories it started out amazing, a dream come true. I'm into him & he's into me, we clicked well. Talked about our pasts, future, marriage and even kids. It's like I had finally found my Soul mate.
We had met 2yrs back, we both lived in the same placd, went on a couple dates, everything was great but due to family obligations I had to pack up and move back home far away. We lost touch.
Fast forward to now, 6mos ago I decided to reach out to him so I did, he was more than happy to hear from me. I am a flight attendant so my job lands me in his city 2-3 times a week. We met up for dinner and we were inseperable ever since.
We easily talked about what we wanted from a relationship from the beginning. We agreed we both want No games or lies,just trues honest uncoditional love. We've both been burned in previous relationships so we knew never to put eachother through the heartache.
Within 2 months together we were already claiming love. He would always tell me how much he loved me and no matter what he'd never leave.Treated like a queen, and I in return would treat him like a King. We were madly in love.
Now like all relationships we had our not so happy moments. Since we were long distance & it came with it's fair share of problems. He wanted me when he wanted me, with my job I can easily hop on a plane and on the days I couldnt he would bget upset & say "I don't love him like he loves me" or accuse me of there being someone else. Which was never true! I constantly reassured him as consistantly as I needed that he was my heart and my only. He said he believes it but deep down he didn't completely. So I made it my mission to show he my love was true. Most of my schdule revovled around him. For work I mainly made it so I had layovers in his city. My days off were all about him, text throughout the day cause that's what he said he liked and wanted.
Well pretty much that was the main topic anytime we'd argue. Eventually I'm sure he got burnt out. Never in any arguement had I ever said anything mean or hurtful to him or threaten to leave or anything harsh. We'd fight, I calm him down or if I was crying he'd calm me & we'd go right back to loving eachother like nothing happened
Long story short... Lastnight he broke it off. A week ago we had one of our moments but made up. I went back home, he told me he missed me & we said our goodnights. I didn't hear from him again til 7days later lastnight. He wouldn't take my calls or texts the whole week then finally lastnight he text & told me he's sorry but he can't ve with me anymore. I asked why, he said he can't trust me. I told him i never understood why he couldn't and I'm heartbroken and sad. He said he is sad too. I poured my heart to him said I love him so much & would never hurt him & I'm heartbroken that were ending.
And as a reply he said he's "I am an amazing woman and he's I'll find someone I deserve and deserves me." I asked him if thinks he doesn't deserve an amazing woman. I think that upset him cause he then said he has nothing more to say to me. I asked do I not contact him anymore then and he said "Not to be mean but since there is nothing left please don't" I asked "We can't even be friends?" and all he said was "Alright, take care." And i didn't respond back I left it at that...I noticed this morning he unfollowed me on Instagram, I still follow him so I know I'm not blocked. I'm sure this is his way of getting over me.
I am truly heartbroken. I'm quite sure he meant what he said and it's really over. What I want to know is is this common for Pisces men? One min they are madly in love and the next so cold? I read other stories but those woman had either cheated or said something hurtful or gave an ultimatum. I did none of that, I've always controlled myself... Like I said I am hurt and very confused. Did I push him to his limit? Was I too available to him & should have given him more space, Did smother him? Is he gone forever?
Have any Pisces been in a realtionship similar and can give me some insight?
Please and Thank you.
Long story short... Lastnight he broke it off. A week ago we had one of our moments but made up. I went back home, he told me he missed me & we said our goodnights. I didn't hear from him again til 7days later lastnight. He wouldn't take my calls or texts the whole week then finally lastnight he text & told me he's sorry but he can't ve with me anymore. I asked why, he said he can't trust me. I told him i never understood why he couldn't and I'm heartbroken and sad. He said he is sad too. I poured my heart to him said I love him so much & would never hurt him & I'm heartbroken that were ending.
And as a reply he said he's "I am an amazing woman and he's I'll find someone I deserve and deserves me." I asked him if thinks he doesn't deserve an amazing woman. I think that upset him cause he then said he has nothing more to say to me. I asked do I not contact him anymore then and he said "Not to be mean but since there is nothing left please don't" I asked "We can't even be friends?" and all he said was "Alright, take care." And i didn't respond back I left it at that...I noticed this morning he unfollowed me on Instagram, I still follow him so I know I'm not blocked. I'm sure this is his way of getting over me.
I am truly heartbroken. I'm quite sure he meant what he said and it's really over. What I want to know is is this common for Pisces men? One min they are madly in love and the next so cold? I read other stories but those woman had either cheated or said something hurtful or gave an ultimatum. I did none of that, I've always controlled myself... Like I said I am hurt and very confused. Did I push him to his limit? Was I too available to him & should have given him more space, Did smother him? Is he gone forever?
Have any Pisces been in a realtionship similar and can give me some insight?
Please and Thank you.
I think he meant what he said.
Regardless of his feelings for you he can't handle the long distance and your job. He can't ask you or expect you to quit so the only solution to the situation is to end it now. He can handle the hurt of letting go more than the crazy of the long distance/career/doubt.
Very Pisces, nothing you can do. You couldn't even quit your job for the relationship because that would make him feel indebted and he'd probably lose respect for you if you made him that priority. If things naturally flowed and your career shifted for unrelated reasons, now that's different. Your relationship was the (w)hole, the distance/job a square peg.
It's a catch 22 with Pisces, damned if you do.. damned if you don't.
Regardless of his feelings for you he can't handle the long distance and your job. He can't ask you or expect you to quit so the only solution to the situation is to end it now. He can handle the hurt of letting go more than the crazy of the long distance/career/doubt.
Very Pisces, nothing you can do. You couldn't even quit your job for the relationship because that would make him feel indebted and he'd probably lose respect for you if you made him that priority. If things naturally flowed and your career shifted for unrelated reasons, now that's different. Your relationship was the (w)hole, the distance/job a square peg.
It's a catch 22 with Pisces, damned if you do.. damned if you don't.
A Pisces person isn't going to be worked into ... virtually anything. So, for you to want to know moves, or maneuvers, or methods, or tricks, etc ... is nothing more than trying to work him into what you want him to be.
and he just simply won't ... you're wasting your time.
A Pisces person plugged in to a partner is so fused with them ... that they can hardly tell that they are two people.
A Pisces person unplugged from a partner couldn't really give a rats ass.
Sure, they have manners, and they can be courteous, they can be very sensitive to you ... but, if the experience is over ... then it's finished, and the Fish couldn't care a less, really, if you never called again.
Now, that's not to say that they can't be intrigued again.
Move us ... and we are definitely paying attention.
Virgo females not be well suited with the male Pisces ..... you should try a Scorpio, instead
P-Angel I read everywhere Pisces Male Virgo female go good together. And that we did, there was never a time where it felt forced. We went with the flow and whatever the mood was when we were together. I know he liked it and me too cause he would always say how he feels he can be himself and do anything with me.
With that said, I'm not looking for tricks or methods to i guess persuade him into being someone else/do things.
I do love him very much but the way he just broke things off really hurt me. I guess in a way I'm looking for some type of explination. Maybe sometime down the road our paths will cross again but for now I'm just going to back away.
He did one time tell me this after one of our argumentive moments: "Sometimes you just have to let me be a man and have no emotion."
I love this insight you've given
With that said, I'm not looking for tricks or methods to i guess persuade him into being someone else/do things.
I do love him very much but the way he just broke things off really hurt me. I guess in a way I'm looking for some type of explination. Maybe sometime down the road our paths will cross again but for now I'm just going to back away.
He did one time tell me this after one of our argumentive moments: "Sometimes you just have to let me be a man and have no emotion."
I love this insight you've given
Shellshocker...
You are very right. I know it's the distance he can't handle. Before we reconnected I already planned on transferring bases to where he lives. Still do, just waiting on it to get accepted. Never planned for it to take so long but it's out of my hands.ike I told P-angel, if it's meant to be it will be. Right now I'll leave it where it's at.
You are very right. I know it's the distance he can't handle. Before we reconnected I already planned on transferring bases to where he lives. Still do, just waiting on it to get accepted. Never planned for it to take so long but it's out of my hands.ike I told P-angel, if it's meant to be it will be. Right now I'll leave it where it's at.
Quickie update... Around 1AM he text me and apologized saying he never meant for things to end this way. I told him I didnt either and apologized for being pushy before. He then apologized too for what he last had said to me.
I said it came as a shock to me but it's starting to sink in. He said "we'll be alright." I said I agree, with time & that I wish the circumstances were different. He said okay. I told him I was tired & needed to rest and wished him a goodnight.
& That was that.
I appreciate that he reach out and apologized. I feel a little better about things
I said it came as a shock to me but it's starting to sink in. He said "we'll be alright." I said I agree, with time & that I wish the circumstances were different. He said okay. I told him I was tired & needed to rest and wished him a goodnight.
& That was that.
I appreciate that he reach out and apologized. I feel a little better about things
Posted by MoreVirgoThanLeo
I do love him very much but the way he just broke things off really hurt me. I guess in a way I'm looking for some type of explination.
He did one time tell me this after one of our argumentive moments: "Sometimes you just have to let me be a man and have no emotion."
The explanation is - the experience is over, so he is pulling back.
There is no break up method that doesn't cause some kind of emotional distress ... so to say that it's the way he broke up, is just an excuse you tell yourself so you can keep wallowing in the pain.
That last sentence there pretty much says it all in my mind ..... when there is an issue in your relationship, you must be bombarding him with emotions. Because if you weren't, then there would be no reason for him to tell you to stop doing it.
Most females I've come across in my life are absolutely clueless to the fact that men aren't hung up on feelings, like women are .... and usually expect the guy to be just like them.
The most valuable lesson you could ever learn about men in your lifetime is to realize that they don't harbor their feelings for purposes of revisiting emotions like women do.
well he did indeed give warnings that he was not happy in the relationship with the factor of not trusting you - the distance and not having a "normal" relationship factored into this.
I find with a Pisces if you leave them alone too long and come and go it becomes an instability issue, it's a not settled feeling - basically coming and going and it causes disruptions - in the end the Pisces becomes too independent almost like they were not in a relationship but a fly by moment -
everyone has a limit and he just met his...
I find with a Pisces if you leave them alone too long and come and go it becomes an instability issue, it's a not settled feeling - basically coming and going and it causes disruptions - in the end the Pisces becomes too independent almost like they were not in a relationship but a fly by moment -
everyone has a limit and he just met his...
Posted by piranhaparadiise
well he did indeed give warnings that he was not happy in the relationship with the factor of not trusting you - the distance and not having a "normal" relationship factored into this.
I find with a Pisces if you leave them alone too long and come and go it becomes an instability issue, it's a not settled feeling - basically coming and going and it causes disruptions - in the end the Pisces becomes too independent almost like they were not in a relationship but a fly by moment -
everyone has a limit and he just met his...
Yep, I have a breaking point like this as well.
Am willing to tolerate some BS from a woman for a little while, but if she doesn't change her ways and listen to my advice on how to get herself under control....
See ya.
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