Any ides of why this pisces is getting far from me?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by AdrianaCrabTor on Saturday, September 2, 2017 and has 5 replies.
Hey guys. I have posted two messages before saying my story with a Pisces boy., but I just have one question today and would be really thankful if you would give me your point of view or any piece of advice that you consider might help me.


This boy and I had a one month relationship and then I dumped him because I felt unsure about the contact he kept with his ex-girlfriend, who lives in a city two hours far from here and to whom as far as I know he doesn’t see that much, but they text each other constantly.

Anyways, We kept in touch and kept on going out. There was nothing between us, only a “friendship” (I quote it because I don’t really see him as a friend), but no kisses, no sex, no-thing at all.

I have told him many times I don’t want to see him because it hurts and then I keep on seeing him, and so on. He has always told me: “Don’t get far from me” “I would like to keep on sharing time and experiences with you”, but he has also told me: “I know what you feel for me and I am really thankful” “I wouldn’t like to hurt you”


I know his family and friends, and we have shared good times. But now I feel he is getting really far from me and I don’t understand anything. He has stopped contacting me. It’s been a week he doesn’t text anymore, but before this week there was another week he didn’t text and when I would send a message, he was always polite, but I felt like he didn’t really want to be in touch with me.

When we see each other, he doesn’t try to hug me anymore… He is like cold, which he was not before. I haven’t sent any message because I don’t want to bother him… I don’t want him to feel pressure… But I feel sad… I miss him a lot and I haven’t been able to cut off our contact because I still have my hopes… Maybe I am wrong, but I love this boy and I know as a cancer I will only go when I’m sure there’s nothing there for me… Maybe it’s crystal clear, but you know I hang on to what I love… Time ago he told me he didn’t want to lose me, he didn’t want me to go away of his life, but I feel he is getting far, far away every time… And I don’t understand… Can you guys tell me anything you think might be happening?


Background about him: he doesn’t have much experience… he is a good boy… I have seen him in his environment and he is a great boy with everyone. He’s 26 years old. He is funny, sensible... That’s all I can say about… Please, somebody give some piece of advice. I really need to know what I can do, or if there’s even something I can do.


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Posted by Jayceon
As a Pisces man once we cut ties that it means it's done deal.
So... Is it over? Is he going away because he doesn't want to see me anymore? ... I can deal with it... I can understand it... I respect it... It hurts a lot, but I respect it... I just wonder why... Why he dooesn't want to see me anymore if he was the one who asked me not to go away...

Why did he say he would like me to be part of his life... Even as a friend... I didn't want to be his friend, but I accepted it not because of a low self-steem, but because I feel affection for him as a person... He is such a great person, and I stayed there when he told me not to go, and now that I decided to stay he has just stopped communication... Just would like to know why... I know pisces don't say anything, they just go, but then why did he say those things, it would have been better not to say anything and just leave, doesn't it? I feel really sad, but I can live with it, just would like to know why... I am not a bad person... Why did he keep on invitnig me to his family and friends?
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Ok, I can get it... Thank you very much guys... It lasted a month, but we have been in contact 6 months after the "break", and we were in touch 4 months before we started "dating"... So it's been a year since we know each other... But thank you guys... I feel devastated... He shouldn't have offered his friendship ...You can't even imagine how much it hurts... But I do understand. And no... I won't contact him. I can be strong... I must be strong.
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If there's anything you NEED to know about a Piscean is when they turn the corner and the interest of feelings have changed they are DONE. It's not something they can return to once they've decided it's not of interest to them anymore. The good times were exactly that "the good times" now they are part of the past and need to be left there. It's very simple and to add to that they cut off without even knowing it themselves sometimes. Yes, they are the best charmers out there. But they have so many other things going on in that head of their's


I was dropped myself by a Piscean and I didn't even know I was dumped at the time. I had to find out via email


I'm pretty sure the only reason Pisceans exist is to confuse every issue and screw up any given situation they can. The Universe puts them in play so they can challenge the rest of us to monotony and a host of other firetrucked up issues. I've had good long lasting friendships with them. But I have to say relationships are always a mess of tangled wires that never seem to find a way to get untangled. It's one drama/trust issue after another. They are seemingly and endlessly in need of therapy amongst battling countless personal demons that keep them mired in self-hate and extreme highs. They are the definition of Bipolar emotionally. They seem to think the world owes them something because reality can never manifest their fantasies of a perfect life. So their life is a constant search for something that doesn't exist in that fantasy realm they can never escape inside their minds. So my advice to you is run and run fast in the other direction especially if it involves manifesting a love connection with them. #RunLikeHell #ImNotKidding


Escapism is all they know. And when they decide they're done with you. You will be the last to know it. It's so not worth it on so many levels. #JustSayin


PS I forgot to mention the "Playing the Victim" card. It's an extensive routine they put you and themselves through to make you prove your loyalty and devotion to them. It's an endless wheel of "VictimHood". Please be aware that once you start the process with them it never ends. #BEWarned
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Posted by matrixyoda


PS I forgot to mention the "Playing the Victim" card. It's an extensive routine they put you and themselves through to make you prove your loyalty and devotion to them. It's an endless wheel of "VictimHood". Please be aware that once you start the process with them it never ends. #BEWarned
What process? I don't get that part... could you clarify it please?
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