Are pisces men impulsive ?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by ScorpioGirl1985 on Tuesday, October 13, 2015 and has 19 replies.
My pisces ex fiancé dumped me after giving birth to our daugther. I was distant at the end of pregnancy, but I never thought he would leave for another woman. I had to hear he had someone else through the grapevine ... So 2 weeks after our baby was born he decided to end the relationship, 6 months before he asked to marry me, but he didn't want the ring back. I couldn't believe it, he wanted this baby so much and now he choose to be with this other woman (an Aquarius) he says he's madly in love, but wants to stay friends and see the baby from time to time ... He didn't want me to give him his housekeys back which strikes me as odd ...

He did dump me last year but came back crying after 1 month (stupid me I took him back) but now that he has a new bird ... I don't know.

My question is are they impulsive like that to regret after ? Since he already came back ...
Is this a fase ?
Posted by annoyedfish
Posted by ScorpioGirl1985
I was distant at the end of pregnancy

then it sounds like you deserved it.



Posted by ScorpioGirl1985
he decided to end the relationship, 6 months before he asked to marry me, but he didn't want the ring back.

this guy sounds like a brother from another mother.


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That's just like a guy to give a comment like that, like you know how pregnancy hormones work !!
And obviously I meant 6 months AFTER he asked to marry me Winking
World has gone mad, people go by fast rewards and not the long to get.

Besides, makes a child and goes away? No sense of responsability.

Its not being impulsive, its simply going for the flesh, she gives him alot of flesh, but when its gone? wait and see.

But probably you wanted him more than him and in your mind all was going well.
Hold on. In what way did he show he was interested in you only, and in order to have his baby? Were there no red flags before getting pregnant. I'm sad for you. But man that is one sleezeball. Wish you well.. now do your thing and raise your baby by yourself. It's ok..
I mean were there red flags with that guy beforehand, in your courtship, in your dating relationship? How long were you friends before relationship couple.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I mean were there red flags with that guy beforehand, in your courtship, in your dating relationship? How long were you friends before relationship couple.

We were in a relationship for 2 years .. He dumped me (I still don't know why) and came crying back after 1 month, in that year we got back together I got pregnant and he was so happy, he wanted to be a father ... There were no red flags, he did start getting distant at the end of my pregnancy, started going out behind my back because I didn't want him to go out without me ... Yeah well ... We were friends just 2 months before starting a relationship. He chased me like mad and I gave in ...
Posted by LostPisces
World has gone mad, people go by fast rewards and not the long to get.

Besides, makes a child and goes away? No sense of responsability.

Its not being impulsive, its simply going for the flesh, she gives him alot of flesh, but when its gone? wait and see.

But probably you wanted him more than him and in your mind all was going well.

That is it, I didn't want relations during my pregnancy, so yes she gives him flesh, a lot of it !!! Don't know if you can end a relationship because of that ..... But like you wrote ... Now it's all flesh and new and great ... But what after ? Will he even realize what he's done ??? He actually wrote me a letter with a huge explanation of why the break up is my fault BS ... He wrote he wants to stay friends .. ! lol
Posted by ScorpioGirl1985

He did dump me last year but came back crying after 1 month (stupid me I took him back) but now that he has a new bird ... I don't know.



Stupid is as stupid does. In this case, stupid made a baby with someone she knew she couldn't trust.

Lay in the bed you made without complaint. Afterall, you are the one who made your choices.
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by ScorpioGirl1985

He did dump me last year but came back crying after 1 month (stupid me I took him back) but now that he has a new bird ... I don't know.



Stupid is as stupid does. In this case, stupid made a baby with someone she knew she couldn't trust.

Lay in the bed you made without complaint. Afterall, you are the one who made your choices.
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Wow .. Thanks, that helped !
I think Pisces man are the sneakiest heartless creatures ever.

No woman needs that type of man, neither you do! Move on.
Posted by Libra2909
I think Pisces man are the sneakiest heartless creatures ever.

No woman needs that type of man, neither you do! Move on.

I agree with sneaky but not heartless. I think Cap men can claim that prize.
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Libra2909
I think Pisces man are the sneakiest heartless creatures ever.

No woman needs that type of man, neither you do! Move on.

I agree with sneaky but not heartless. I think Cap men can claim that prize.
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They are heartless... Who in this world would do something like this? Of course not someone who cares.

A Pisces man dumped me also, not telling me why, he was very nice, sweet, loving, and he disappeared. All of a sudden. COWARDS!

Posted by Libra2909
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Libra2909
I think Pisces man are the sneakiest heartless creatures ever.

No woman needs that type of man, neither you do! Move on.

I agree with sneaky but not heartless. I think Cap men can claim that prize.


They are heartless... Who in this world would do something like this? Of course not someone who cares.

A Pisces man dumped me also, not telling me why, he was very nice, sweet, loving, and he disappeared. All of a sudden. COWARDS!


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I got mistreated by one too but I'm not ready to write off the whole zodiac sign...I can admit that they are manipulative and spineless but not entirely heartless.Plus as women we bitch and gripe about how men treat us but in reality we're the ones that allow them to walk all over us. In your case you're just mad cause you want answers?
Well he was heartless to me, it's not right leaving a baby, his baby for a woman.
I actually just found out she is on a datingsite and is still active ... great for him !
Posted by ScorpioGirl1985
Well he was heartless to me, it's not right leaving a baby, his baby for a woman.
I actually just found out she is on a datingsite and is still active ... great for him !

I'm sorry you're going thru this. This all sounds horrible and he'll get his.

One thing I do have to say though for his sake. Don't let your relationship with him affect his relationship with his daughter. My ex's mom and her used to bash her dad. His dad isn't perfect but he gets a bad rep cause of the mom. She left him and is so two faced around him. It's sickening.

Why does this bother me? Well cause my ex is doing the same thing now with our kid. I love our yearly calls about how great she's doing and how now she's so happy with her new man and never has she felt like a family before. Coincidentally these talks are around the time she left me evey year lol.
Posted by MiZLeo
I don't think it's a pisces thing, I think it's a man thing.

seconded.


Posted by annoyedfish
Posted by ScorpioGirl1985
I was distant at the end of pregnancy

then it sounds like you deserved it.



Posted by ScorpioGirl1985
he decided to end the relationship, 6 months before he asked to marry me, but he didn't want the ring back.

this guy sounds like a brother from another mother.


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So because someones distant- at the end of a pregnancy- which i assume is maybe what? 2 months?

That somehow justify's someone terminating a relationship with the baby's mom?

Like- really?

Are you really that far into yourself and needy- that- somehow that is an appropriate justification?

The fact that somehow that comment managed to get positive likes seriously blows my mind. Just wow.

To the op- From the sounds of it, he will probley come back. Don't take him back again- Take what's left of your dignity and just walk away.In relationships you need reciprocation, and it's very apparent considering the amount of times he's flip flopped around- he doesn't know what he wants- or needs. I can't speak on whether or not that's impulsive behavior. You didn't give that much information away. But i will say if he struggles with self control- i.e Money, Food, Sex, Drugs- etc Then yea- he sounds impulsive, and yea i'd be concerned about having a child around said person.

Freaking late night on this website..smh..
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Libra2909
Posted by crabRiot
Posted by Libra2909
I think Pisces man are the sneakiest heartless creatures ever.

No woman needs that type of man, neither you do! Move on.

I agree with sneaky but not heartless. I think Cap men can claim that prize.


They are heartless... Who in this world would do something like this? Of course not someone who cares.

A Pisces man dumped me also, not telling me why, he was very nice, sweet, loving, and he disappeared. All of a sudden. COWARDS!



I got mistreated by one too but I'm not ready to write off the whole zodiac sign...I can admit that they are manipulative and spineless but not entirely heartless.Plus as women we bitch and gripe about how men treat us but in reality we're the ones that allow them to walk all over us. In your case you're just mad cause you want answers?
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You are right, we allow them to hurt us. I dont know about you, but I am very naive when it comes to relationship and those sort of things. I give too much and in return I get bullshit.

In my case yes, I am mad because I want answers, or I no longer do... Guess what? To me it is whatever now, he is sending me photos of him on snap chat but I NO LONGER CARE. A coward is a coward. He wont talk nor explain why he did what he did.
I am always chocked with this situations, I know one case where he left and the baby had 2 months. I heard he said one thing, that she was a freak a about the baby. So men are needy w h ores? God...

The baby was born before time, no wonder she wanted to care even more about her baby girl.

OR is because first born being female and not male? can be true in many places...