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This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Carl8 on Saturday, November 6, 2021 and has 49 replies.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
Posted by Wizardz_
She prob found someone else to fantasise over by now
Could be. I hope that's what happened.
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
Posted by ImperfectStorm
React to what? You dumping her or you trying to come back after dumping her in a cowardly way and trying to reappear after 5 weeks?
There's an event, we both have to go, it's sort of a compulsion.
Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
Posted by Carl8And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.click to expand
Posted by UndinePosted by Carl8Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.click to expand
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
Posted by Carl8Posted by UndinePosted by Carl8Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?click to expand
You triggered honest, straight talking.
Something you should have done with her
Why do you even care…. Regrets??
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Posted by stardustmopPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
What sign are youclick to expand
Scorpio
Posted by sweethearts
Why do you even care…. Regrets??
I hate drama.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStorm
React to what? You dumping her or you trying to come back after dumping her in a cowardly way and trying to reappear after 5 weeks?
There's an event, we both have to go, it's sort of a compulsion.
If she’s anything like me she might walk by you like she don’t even know you. Lol but I don’t know.. keep us posted let us know how it turns outclick to expand
She and her friends would probably gang up on me again.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by UndinePosted by Carl8Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?
It’s good that you recognize this in yourself. Maybe it’s something to work on. Do you have libra in your chart? Afraid of confrontation?click to expand
Gemini moon.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Why do you think that?
Posted by Carl8Which part?Posted by MyStarsShine
Your behaviour was very poor and disrespectful.
Hopefully she’s moved on.
In future remember, cowardly men aren’t atttactive at all...
Why do you think that?click to expand
How long were you together before the ghosting?
Posted by Carl8If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
Posted by LadyNeptune
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.click to expand
She knows why.
Posted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.click to expand
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
If she is anything like me she was sad for a day or 2 and now she's over it. Don't be surprised when she doesn't recognize you in the future.
Posted by Mtnboy
If she is anything like me she was sad for a day or 2 and now she's over it. Don't be surprised when she doesn't recognize you in the future.
That's what I would call a blessing,
Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.click to expand
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Posted by Carl8I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.click to expand
Posted by MtnboyYou’re a respectful personPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.click to expand
Posted by Carl8is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.click to expand
Posted by Carl8Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.Posted by LadyNeptune
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3mclick to expand
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Carl8Posted by LadyNeptune
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.click to expand
I am not texting her.
Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
is that how you justify behaving in a toxic way?click to expand
Ok, I never said I'm ghosting her, and it's complicated means she's not fond of making the first move or starting a conversation, and I don't need to.
Posted by MtnboyPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
I hate being ghosted. Atleast be brave enough to tell me to go fuck myself in person! Guess I'm getting old and I'm old school.click to expand
I did that but not in person because I wasn't in town, this vacation gave me time to think about things. Also, I did it this way simply because I know I wouldn't be able to, why feelings tend to creep in.
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?!
My I ask what you consider early days? Is it ok to ghost after 3 months?
Posted by Carl8Good. Just take the L. In the long run it’s gonna prove to be less awkward for the both of you.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Carl8Posted by LadyNeptune
How long were you together before the ghosting?
1y3m
Ghosting is fine if it’s a short relationship, early days.
But dude… over a year?! That’s shitty of you. She deserved closure. You know this.
But you texting her now is not about her, it’s about you. You not wanting to feel uncomfortable at having to see her again at this compulsory event.
Texting her now is just adding insult to injury.
Balls up and take it on the chin. You made this bed so lie in it.
Feeling awkward for a few hours at this event is nothing compared to what you put her through by ghosting. Sac up.
I am not texting her.click to expand
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
Posted by Carl8Posted by UndinePosted by Carl8Posted by Undine
She thinks you are a coward and that she dodged a bullet.
That's rude.
And so is your half baked dumping and ghosting.
I am not good at breakups, I ended things because I couldn't trust her anymore. Did I trigger a past wound?click to expand
If you are not good with break ups you aren’t good to be in a relationship
Posted by ImperfectStorm
What was the point of the message in which you “dumped her” via text? Were you genuinely done with the relationship or was that a manipulative attempt to see if she would chase or fight for you?
That was genuine.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStorm
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?click to expand
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
Posted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStorm
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..click to expand
We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStorm
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
Why not ask her directlyclick to expand
Should I? Pisces probably will feel bad.
Posted by UndinePosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by Carl8Posted by ImperfectStorm
Scorp to scorp…. You miss her, don’t you? Lol you can be honest 🤔
I couldn't trust her anymore though i still ....
A lot of times we get in our own way with those pesky trust issues. Is it really her that you don’t trust? Is it something that she did directly to betray your trust, or does she just trigger insecurities in you?
She did something, but point of this topic is to get a rough idea on how she feels..
We can't put ourselves in her shoes to feel what she may feel if we don't know what she has done.click to expand
And I couldn't understand her in a year.
Posted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.click to expand
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
Obv whatever she did to break your trust relates to fucking someone else.
If she's been this vague with you this long she's been living a double triple whatever life.
No one needs that shit. Or whatever the ganged up garbage was. Seems off.
Cut your losses.
Water signs... ... ...
If she's been this vague with you this long she's been living a double triple whatever life.
No one needs that shit. Or whatever the ganged up garbage was. Seems off.
Cut your losses.
Water signs... ... ...
Posted by Pesto101
Obv whatever she did to break your trust relates to fucking someone else.
If she's been this vague with you this long she's been living a double triple whatever life.
No one needs that shit. Or whatever the ganged up garbage was. Seems off.
Cut your losses.
Water signs... ... ...
I did 5 weeks ago, there's an event we both have to go to.
Posted by _elle_
Carl,
Are you sure you aren't a Cancer?
It's my rising sign.
Posted by Tetka_Iz_DalekaPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"click to expand
She acted like she didn't get that message.
Posted by Carl8Posted by Tetka_Iz_DalekaPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.click to expand
She’s karma ghosting you
😂
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Carl8Posted by Tetka_Iz_DalekaPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.
She’s karma ghosting you
😂click to expand
I am talking about break-up text.
Posted by Carl8It would probably be a win-win situation if you both ignored each other as much as possible at the upcoming event.Posted by Tetka_Iz_DalekaPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8Posted by SeajattPosted by Carl8
Well does anyone know how would a Pisces react, if I sort of dumped her (by a message) and haven't spoken to her for 5 weeks?
If you haven't spoken to her for five weeks, I think a break-up text is redundant. Although if you want to do the "right" thing, you could at least let her know what happened so she isn't wondering.
She knows why.
Does she? That's between you and her, it can't hurt to spell it out though. Either way, it's very bad behavior to ghost people like that. It's hurtful and degrading to others.
Ghosting, it's more complicated then that, more like indirect way.
Did she respond to your break-up message at all? If so, how was her reaction?
Was it a "´mmkay" or "can we talk?"
She acted like she didn't get that message.click to expand
From a Pisces POV: I would probably send you an evil glance now and again but not make a scene hahaha.
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