Posted by AbbyNormalAND one more thing!!
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Posted by AbbyNormalAND one more thing!!
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Posted by AbbyNormalThere is NO NEED to be so RUDE!
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Posted by ScrumptiousOkay but not helpful ?
i'm more curious about your username and how you came about such a fine choice
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.Posted by pooface222Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!
I've posted to ask for help.
Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.
I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart
Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!
I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.
I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!
I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.
My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.
If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.
I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?
You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.
My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.
For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.click to expand
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sorry for late reply. Trying to find time to reply to everyone's very kind and helpful responses.Posted by pooface222My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.Posted by pooface222Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!
I've posted to ask for help.
Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.
I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart
Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!
I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.
I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!
I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.
My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.
If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.
I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?
You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.
My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.
For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.
And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.
Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.
You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.
And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!
PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.
I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.
My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!
So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.
Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.
This can't be easy for you, and I apologise for judging you. God knows I'm not perfect. The thing is, when vulnerabilities exist that enable you to look outside of your marriage, it's because the problem is much more deeply-rooted. This isn't about the Pisces. This isn't even really about your husband. This is about you and your needs as either a human being or as a woman that aren't being met. Life is too short. Be good to yourself without compromising yourself...from here on out. Some people say that they stay in loveless marriages because of the children. This actually does more harm than good. Children are very intelligent little beings...and highly impressionable too. They're absorbing everything they see and hear...and this is the foundation from which they'll grow for the rest of their lives. Make it a solid foundation. Teach and show your daughter what an honorable woman is.
Again, I apologise for judging you, fellow Cap. Positives thoughts for you and your daughter.click to expand
Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
@AbbyNormal
@pooface222
Am I the only one who read Abby's message in a DIFFERENT way? Almost like she's really excited for you and she's screaming at you to follow your heart.
That's the vibe I'm getting, that she's actually really rooting for you and she couldn't contain herself.
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Hi again ☺Posted by pooface222My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.Posted by pooface222Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!
I've posted to ask for help.
Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.
I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart
Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!
I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.
I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!
I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.
My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.
If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.
I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?
You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.
My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.
For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.
And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.
Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.
You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.
And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!
PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.
I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.
My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!
So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.
Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.click to expand
Posted by firefis1996Thank you for your post. It all makes sense. You have given me hope that I may still have a chance with him. We haven't had a date since Jan this year and it was the first time he told me he's in love with me. And I said it back. So having read your post it has reassured me that what I suspected was right.
coming from a pisces female, he's probably pulling away because you haven't actually broken up with your husband. a pisces will only put up with so much for so long (like anyone) until they will break it off and swim away. if his feelings are still very intense, he will jump right back on if he sees that you have taken the next step.
SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? yes he will IF he sees you're an open option and still available. he won't if your tied up with someone else.
Why do you think he is not replying? you're still with your husband
Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? it will to a certain degree, but pisces are aware of a much bigger picture. if you want something then get it. so he's probably wondering why you're not going after him properly, because thats what he would do. he knows that you have to follow your gut (and yours is to him).
Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back?
To speak to me even? don't be desperate. follow through with your words.
What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?
very honest actions and words. no waiting games. say it- do it.
Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him?? you can, but then will you stay with your husband?
Posted by firefis1996Hi..Thank you so much for your reply. I like the way you have picked up on my individual questions. I find that really helpful ?
coming from a pisces female, he's probably pulling away because you haven't actually broken up with your husband. a pisces will only put up with so much for so long (like anyone) until they will break it off and swim away. if his feelings are still very intense, he will jump right back on if he sees that you have taken the next step.
SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? yes he will IF he sees you're an open option and still available. he won't if your tied up with someone else.
Why do you think he is not replying? you're still with your husband
Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? it will to a certain degree, but pisces are aware of a much bigger picture. if you want something then get it. so he's probably wondering why you're not going after him properly, because thats what he would do. he knows that you have to follow your gut (and yours is to him).
Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back?
To speak to me even? don't be desperate. follow through with your words.
What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?
very honest actions and words. no waiting games. say it- do it.
Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him?? you can, but then will you stay with your husband?
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Posted by pooface222It broke my heart to divorce my ex-husband, because I still loved him. He didn't feel the same, and I wanted to see him happy even if it was without me. There was no one else. I gave myself time to grieve over the demise of my marriage, to figure out who I was and heal. I put my energy into giving my daughter the extra love and security she needed during this transition. I went on one date and quickly realised that I wasn't ready.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Hi again ☺Posted by pooface222My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.Posted by pooface222Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!
I've posted to ask for help.
Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.
I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart
Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!
I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.
I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!
I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.
My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.
If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.
I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?
You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.
My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.
For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.
And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.
Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.
You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.
And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!
PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.
I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.
My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!
So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.
Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.
Having already compromised my happiness by having a child to a man I didn't actually love deep down, I am obviously still thinking of divorce (as I first mentioned), and have been for 4 years.
I just wanted to ask you if you left your husband for someone else? Or did you just get divorced and be single?
Reason I'm asking is that I want to know how you coped being a single mum emotionally? I am terrified! After 13 years with one man and now with a child, leaving scares me, hence why I never did it.
Thank you again for your post, I felt you really understood me.
It won't be easy, but again, life is short. Don't let the fear of the unknown stop you from truly living your life. Too many people nowadays are just going through the motions.click to expand
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Posted by pooface222You're welcome. 40 is a huge deal...possibly symbolic of a new lease on life; a rebirth of sorts. Think about that.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Posted by pooface222It broke my heart to divorce my ex-husband, because I still loved him. He didn't feel the same, and I wanted to see him happy even if it was without me. There was no one else. I gave myself time to grieve over the demise of my marriage, to figure out who I was and heal. I put my energy into giving my daughter the extra love and security she needed during this transition. I went on one date and quickly realised that I wasn't ready.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Hi again ☺Posted by pooface222My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.Posted by pooface222Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88Well excuse me for having problems!
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.
I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.
There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!
I've posted to ask for help.
Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.
I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart
Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!
I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.
I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!
I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.
My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.
If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.
I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?
You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.
My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.
For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.
And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.
Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.
You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.
And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!
PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.
I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.
My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!
So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.
Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.
Having already compromised my happiness by having a child to a man I didn't actually love deep down, I am obviously still thinking of divorce (as I first mentioned), and have been for 4 years.
I just wanted to ask you if you left your husband for someone else? Or did you just get divorced and be single?
Reason I'm asking is that I want to know how you coped being a single mum emotionally? I am terrified! After 13 years with one man and now with a child, leaving scares me, hence why I never did it.
Thank you again for your post, I felt you really understood me.
It won't be easy, but again, life is short. Don't let the fear of the unknown stop you from truly living your life. Too many people nowadays are just going through the motions.
Gosh..very brave and strong lady! I think it's harder if you still love your partner; and giving yourself time to heal is so important.
I truly admire what you did.
I have been procrastinating like an idiot. It was because communication had broken down between us to the point that I didn't even care anymore.
I now realise that my *heart, mind & sold 'left' my husband before I even met Mr Pisces, so when I met him all of it* went to him. It was my body that was left behind with my husband.
I hope that doesn't sound crazy! I am trying to say that I emotionally'died' in my marriage and Mr Pisces brought me back to life.
I am going to be 40 in January!?! I don't mind admitting it! But it scares the hell out of me! I just want the last 4 years of my life back. And to do everything right!
You said in your earlier post to me to not compromise myself and life from here on out so I am going to try x
The reason I have not left my marriage is because of the thought of tearing apart everything! Marriage, Family, Home life, my little girls family!
So much to think about.
Thanks again fellow Capricorn..
I really do have to reiterate the importance to differentiate between working through the marriage because you also have children and staying in a marriage solely because you have children. The latter is like running on a treadmill; you can run your heart out, but will get nowhere.
Children feel when there is no love between parents. Is that the model you want to give your daughter from which she will learn to base relationships off of?
That was what made me leave. I couldn't bear the thought of teaching my daughter that she had to stay in a union where she had to accept not being loved; not being cared for. I couldn't do that to her. I couldn't do that to myself.
Best wishes, fellow Cap. Please feel free to reach out anytime. You can pm if you'd like. ❤click to expand
Posted by AjnaHi ? thanks so much for your reply. Really appreciate it. I saw him Monday night at the gym. I was late for a class so ran on the treadmill instead. We bumped into each other and talked but not for long as he had to pick his teenage son up from somewhere.
I will do my best to help...
There are already good answers in thread..
"Can I get a pisces man to come back"?
Can any of us get someone back?
Are these questions best?
Is this even the right time?
I'll focus on "him" for a moment first.
Do you truly believe he is out of your life?
You two have such a strong connection...
Moments like these are best to evaluate
the situation, yourself (and) this individual.
The value of said connection can be evaluated
from a distance and see how he goes about it.
Any of us can influence others to "come back"
(if you truly believe he is gone in the first place)
but It is always up to them whether they do this.
I don't feel he is "gone" but maybe he is
evaluating things from a distance like
I mentioned you could do at this time.
Seeing things from all angles.
Are things finalized with your
husband yet? Maybe the finalization
of your marriage would influence his
"return"? What ever the case, I believe
people and situations have multiple
functions and reasons to manifest.
Not always the one "we see" is
the most accurate or what we "need".
Whether he...
"comes back" or not I think
this whole thing (this experience)
is to help you initiate and do something
about what no longer serves
you (the marriage)...
Posted by JazzypiecesofpiscesI have a really bad feeling that for him, the illusion of me has shattered ??. I am heartbroken anyway.
Coming from a pisces female... him blocking you from everything is his way of trying to get over you and move on. I've done this before... sometimes i switch back and forth with it... (you'd be blocked one day, unblocked the next as i can be quite indecisive and unsure about what it is I want to do... but in several cases when it came to dealing with men who i found were actually cheaters the best thing to do prevailed .. which is to let go) one day when he has let you go he may unblock you out of curiosity...
When I meet someone and fall for them I know I have a tendency to disillusion myself and see only the good in them. I have had met men who i dated and later found out after developing feelings that they were in a relationship and at first upon finding out id sympathize with them and feel bad that they are in such a sucky situation and in that time id listen to them and be caring towards them... however if they werent making any strides in leaving or i felt they were full of shit that quickly turned into resentment and the illusion shattered and Id see them for who they are.... and unfortunately (in my case) once the illusion shatters... thats it... maybe if i was ever bored or lonely id consider them again (IF they were single... ) but any attempt they would make while still in the relationship would actually offend me... as I would then begin to sympatize for their poor partner who was getting cheated on.... i think the best and only thing you can do to get your pisces attention again is to leave your husband.
Posted by pooface222Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!
I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!
And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!
I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!
I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !
Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!
Do Not answer that! I don't care!
Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!
Do NOT reply!
Just get Gone!
Don't post to me ever again!
Posted by GemitatiPosted by pooface222Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!
I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!
And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!
I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!
I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !
Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!
Do Not answer that! I don't care!
Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!
Do NOT reply!
Just get Gone!
Don't post to me ever again!
I want to pm you. Is it ok?click to expand
Posted by NemiliciousSame to you too!Posted by pooface222if this reaction is a glimpse of how you handle and deal with -legit- criticism on a daily basis then i am not surprised that you are a fucking mess. and you know what? if you choose to be an unreflective self righteous justifying asshole; fine. BUT your problems are affecting other people. but as self pity goes; you are so deep in it; you cannot see the harm you do those three other people.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!
I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!
And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!
I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!
I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !
Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!
Do Not answer that! I don't care!
Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!
Do NOT reply!
Just get Gone!
Don't post to me ever again!click to expand
Posted by pooface222I always say mean people are very unhappy. It's sad HOW unhappy this angel is...but considering most here are young -Posted by GemitatiPosted by pooface222Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!
I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!
And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!
I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!
I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !
Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!
Do Not answer that! I don't care!
Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!
Do NOT reply!
Just get Gone!
Don't post to me ever again!
I want to pm you. Is it ok?
Hi..yeah sure. I was actually worried what other people on here would say to my post to P-Angel as I don't know if some people may like her.
I read a lot of different topics on here as I find this site very interesting
I just cannot believe how disgustingly insulting she is to people! ?!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiAbsolutely and so far everyone here (apart from Angel), has been great!Posted by pooface222I always say mean people are very unhappy. It's sad HOW unhappy this angel is...but considering most here are young -Posted by GemitatiPosted by pooface222Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!
I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!
And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!
I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!
I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !
Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!
Do Not answer that! I don't care!
Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!
Do NOT reply!
Just get Gone!
Don't post to me ever again!
I want to pm you. Is it ok?
Hi..yeah sure. I was actually worried what other people on here would say to my post to P-Angel as I don't know if some people may like her.
I read a lot of different topics on here as I find this site very interesting
I just cannot believe how disgustingly insulting she is to people! ?!
I am only messing with them. Lol
Never mind mean. Whoever good are really helpful.click to expand
Posted by JayceonHi Jayceon. .
Let him swim back to you.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveOh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.
Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.click to expand
Posted by HarleyTwinFlameNot Helpful! Don't bother posting just to make silly comments about someone's username and/or the reason behind it.Posted by DwellingOnMoveOh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.
click to expand
Posted by pooface222Girl byePosted by HarleyTwinFlameNot Helpful! Don't bother posting just to make silly comments about someone's username and/or the reason behind it.Posted by DwellingOnMoveOh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.
It's Irrelevant!click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Posted by pooface222wishing you nothing but the best!!Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Hi ya..just wanted to revisit my post and message a few people on here. I actually really like your post and at the time I wrote on here I was in a very unhappy place.
I am feeling better now but still hurting over Mr Pisces and have decided to separate from my
husband this year.
I am going to update everyone on here anyway as I want to.
Thanks again ?click to expand
Posted by pham90I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
Posted by pooface222See ! Things are looking well already ! Now just don't play games with mr Pisces . At the end of the day do what feels best to you . If it feels best than you'll enjoy the results better in the endPosted by pham90I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
As I said to Abbeynormal I am planning to separate from my husband this year as I need a break from my marriage to clear my head and my heart and to be alone for a while (with my little girl), in order to get back in touch with myselfclick to expand
Posted by pham90Thank you ?..its just been so damn difficult! Mr Pisces was very hurt last year - by me. Because I never left my marriage. But there was just so much going on in both of our lives - including him going through a painful divorce last year (he is separated from his wife, and in a relationship).Posted by pooface222See ! Things are looking well already ! Now just don't play games with mr Pisces . At the end of the day do what feels best to you . If it feels best than you'll enjoy the results better in the endPosted by pham90I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
As I said to Abbeynormal I am planning to separate from my husband this year as I need a break from my marriage to clear my head and my heart and to be alone for a while (with my little girl), in order to get back in touch with myselfclick to expand
Posted by PootyButtOh trust me! I know! Hence why I am making plans to separate from my husband. Regardless of Pisces feelings. Obviously I am still in love with him but I NEED to sort myself out first.
I'm just going to say this. I get it. I get that it sometimes takes time to figure things out, but this has been dragging on for a while now. If you need to leave your husband, you need to go regardless of the Pisces' reaction or feelings for you. Think on that. Time to shit or get off the pot, as they say where I was born.
Posted by pooface222Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.Posted by DwellingOnMoveI'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.
Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.
I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!
It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.
To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!
Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.click to expand
Posted by shakedowncha cha NOOOO WILL LIVE HERE FOREVER MUAHAHAHAH jk jk but yeah it's something that is very common for Pisces
...".And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactured to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality."
Good gracious. Get out of my head!!!! This is so true for this Pisces.
Posted by WonderWoman14Ahh thank you I just try my best, even though English is not my native language so I make horrible mistakes along the way. I am glad I am not misrepresenting stuff I just try to share what I think is pretty common for our signPosted by RoanaYou explain us Pisces so well.Posted by pooface222Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.Posted by DwellingOnMoveI'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.Posted by pooface222Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice
... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.
There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...
If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.
But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.
Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.
I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!
It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.
To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!
Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.
I decided to explain you that just because I wanted you to be able to see how we see the world, in our eyes everything is important. And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactered to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality
Once again I just thought this might help you in the future if you will get in touch with Pisces manclick to expand
Posted by RoanaHi thank you so much for your post. He actually blocked me everywhere INCLUDING his phone! However I have been texting him lots and seeing him in the gym. I am a fitness instructor so I teach fitness classes. So as fate would have it, he goes to the same gym I teach at and occasionally comes to my class.
From a Pisces female who by the way has quite few Pisces male friends (because for some reason I just tend to pick up Pisces people into my life) I will say this based on my experience and my male friends experiences through their relashionships:
1) Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? Make him know I'm sorry? And make him know I truly am in love with him?
Though out intuition and empathy does show us how you feel and what you are going through and maybe we will even understand that you are sorry, as well as acknowledge that you are truly in love with us. There is a point when we just make conscious decision to separate from situation that is hurting us. Imagine yourself and your emotions, now add other persons pain and emotions and than you will feel what we feel. Being torn by basically avalanche of emotions every day can destroy us. If we are old enough we know that there is a point where we just have to cut ties with person in order to be able to be happy. So the question is not in the lack of knowledge but more In our need to live normal life. We can give a lot. But if certain line is crossed we will snap and once we do getting us back with words is not possible.
2) Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back? To speak to me even? What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?
I am not a man but I will say what my male friends said to me and I agree with them. He will not speak to you or come back, because the time for words is over. Now it’s time for actions. If you truly love person you need to sort your life out, leave husband and prove your feelings with actual actions. If you won’t and you will just continue with words it will look like trying to manipulate us through our own emotions. And trust me once pisces see that you are manipulating us we cut ties with people for good and after that no action or no word will get us back to you.
So instead of writing to him and so on take actual action. Fix your life. Become actually available and than inform him about it once you will be free (not prior).
Also remember Pisces are healers when you cheat with us we will feel the pain for the person who you are cheating on, so add that on top of our personal feelings, your feelings and so on. And you can destroy pisces man. If you love that person you should not cause that much pain. If we see that you are hurting us because of your own needs that will push us away (pisces are not selfish, so selfish people makes us to not want to have them in our life). So Fix YOUR life, and ONLY THAN once all is over and you are free tell him about the fact. Otherwise your intentions might be misunderstood and your words will have opposite effect than you wish for.
But I will say this as a side note (that I hope won’t happen to you): if you draged him through too much that may not help you. If he blocked you everywhere but phone you may have crosses the line of no return. So good luck to you.
Posted by hydorahErrr NO! DEFINITELY NOT! Thank you very much!
It sounds like OP just wants to leave her husband for a while, have an affaire with pisces guy and come back to her husband.
that's what I feel when she says she "needs to get in touch with herself".
Posted by JayceonHi..do you really think so?
do you Pisces men think he will come back to me? Yeah he'll come back and is coming from a Pisces man.