Can I get Pisces Man to come back to me??

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Hi (WARNING! LONG POST )

This question is for Pisces Men mainly but I welcome answers from Pisces girls too x

I am a Capricorn woman.

I met a gorgeous Pisces man 3 years ago. And our feelings for each other were mutual and intense.

However he is in a relationship and I am in an unhappy marriage. It's complicated! In short I should have left 4 years ago! And now I am even more unhappy and our relationship has got far worse.

Please don't Judge me! I don't normally do this in relationships. I am currently trying to work out what I want from life (including separation/divorce), as I'm so unhappy.

Anyway about 3 years ago I met this man but we only started started seeing each other just under 2 years ago. The connection we share is incredible and I feel like I have known him my whole life. Also it's like he is the male me, and I am the female him. As our feelings for each other developed, they deepened. We used to meet for coffee/lunch and we worked out at the same health club too. We told each have other about our relationships and how unhappy we are etc but in this time I had also had a baby. Our very first meeting where we caught sight of each other and both melted sadly coincided with me and my husband making a baby together (long story); hence why I only started seeing get this man when my little girl was about 8/9 months old.

So..The point is that this Pisces man has been wanting to leave his partner for me and I have wanted to leave my unhappy marriage for this man. We are in love.

However I have become emotionally trapped in my marriage and so deeply miserable that I have felt unable to leave, especially as I have my child to think about too.

Over time this man has slowly but surely pulled away from me. We used to speak on Facebook, WhatsApp, Skype and Skype messenger as well as on our mobile phones and texting. And we spoke and messaged every day. I loved it so much.

Last year he was going through a very bad divorce (he is separated and living with his partner) and used to ask me 'Where do we go from here?' I couldn't answer as was going through some horrible butter with my husband including loads of unresolved issues and lots of arguments that got me nowhere. I should have just left my marriage then last year to be honest!

This man also told me this year (January) that he is in love with me. And I said it back. And we've both said a few more times since. But now not since about March.

However I STILL didn't leave my husband or even say anything of the sort to this man I am deeply in love with. He is a very quiet sensitive and patient man so would never rush me or push me to make a decision.

Now he appears to have blocked me on everything and the only way I can contact him is via texting yet, I have no idea if he even receives my texts.

I wondered for a while why his contact with me was dwindling but I finally realised it's because I have not left my husband. I have told him a few times how unhappy I am in my marriage - including telling him how happy he (Pisces man), makes me.

Why should he continue to give his heart to me while I stay with my husband ?- despite me giving Pisces man my heart too. It's like I am taking the p**s out of him. Even though I never ever meant to! I love him so much and I have been a stupid tree-trunking idiot.

I have sent him many texts apologising for hurting him and explaining that I have been stuck in my marriage and tied up in knots and that I have felt unable to leave because of all the unresolved issues and fights.

I just want to explain myself properly to him as my hubby and I have made a breakthrough with our issues but it's only told me what I already know..I don't love him like a wife should anymore.

I have even told him recently on another text that I really want to meet up for coffee to talk with him as I now feel more ready to Start Again with him and have a fresh start.

He has not answered any of my texts at all.

I am devastated!

His last text to me was 6 weeks ago. I have heard that you have to give Pisces men space and time and despite my many texts to him saying 'I'm so sorry I hurt you. I love you. Please can we talk soon etc..' I am trying not to text him so much. But it's the only way I have left to contact the him.

I have read the you Pisces guys are compassionate and forgiving but I am getting nothing from him.

I last saw him at a local theatre last weekend at a comedy show. I was with a couple of girlfriends and he was with his partner and his teenage son from his previous marriage, his partner and one of her friends; so I could not go over and talk to him. BUT he came over to me, (briefly), and put his hand on my forearm (my arm was resting across my body), looked me in the eyes (he always does, its gorgeous), and said 'Are you okay?'

I didn't know why he asked me that!?!

I just looked back at him, and looked into his eyes, in silence. I was hurting and missing him like hell but didn't know what to say. I was overwhelmed with love & pain.

And then he went back to his son and partner. I watched him walk away with them, out the door to the dark night to get their car home ???

Earlier this year, he actually said to me 'I want to be cared for. You leave your husband and I'll leave my partner. But then he walked off! No conversation. Nothing. We were in the gym car park and I was seeing to my little girl so I couldn't exactly run after him!

SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? Why do you think he is not replying? I would love him to forgive me and to realise how sorry I am to look like I've Lead him on - when I haven't or never meant to. I've been so deeply sad that I have had problems opening myself to the prospect of leaving my husband for him.

Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? Make him know I'm sorry? And make him know I truly am in love with him?

Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back? To speak to me even? What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

He is still with his partner and I still with my husband for now.

Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him??

The fog in my marriage is clearing now. He is finally divorced now - a few months ago and both of us seem more ready for each other now that our personal issues are fading.

Help! Xx

SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
AND one more thing!!

You are NEITHER, PISCES nor MALE!!

So YOU Shut Up!

Unless you want to be nice!

Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
AND one more thing!!

You are NEITHER, PISCES nor MALE!!

So YOU Shut Up!

Unless you want to be nice!

Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.
There is NO NEED to be so RUDE!

OMFG!

Someone had a bad day??

He did not leave his wife for me! He was already separated when he met his partner! He couldn't divorce his wife as she would not accept it. Until last year that is! The divorce finally became official this year!

Thanks for your 'Help' !

I hope someone on here, or in your personal life, speaks to you as viciously as you did to me! See how You like it!

i'm more curious about your username and how you came about such a fine choice
Posted by Scrumptious
i'm more curious about your username and how you came about such a fine choice
Okay but not helpful ?

It's a silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic.

Are you Pisces?
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
@AbbyNormal

@pooface222

Am I the only one who read Abby's message in a DIFFERENT way? Almost like she's really excited for you and she's screaming at you to follow your heart.

That's the vibe I'm getting, that she's actually really rooting for you and she couldn't contain herself.
coming from a pisces female, he's probably pulling away because you haven't actually broken up with your husband. a pisces will only put up with so much for so long (like anyone) until they will break it off and swim away. if his feelings are still very intense, he will jump right back on if he sees that you have taken the next step.

SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? yes he will IF he sees you're an open option and still available. he won't if your tied up with someone else.

Why do you think he is not replying? you're still with your husband

Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? it will to a certain degree, but pisces are aware of a much bigger picture. if you want something then get it. so he's probably wondering why you're not going after him properly, because thats what he would do. he knows that you have to follow your gut (and yours is to him).

Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back?

To speak to me even? don't be desperate. follow through with your words.

What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

very honest actions and words. no waiting games. say it- do it.

Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him?? you can, but then will you stay with your husband?

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.

I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?

You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.

My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.

For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.

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Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.

And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.

Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.

You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.

And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!

PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.

I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.

My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!

So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.

Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.

Coming from a pisces female... him blocking you from everything is his way of trying to get over you and move on. I've done this before... sometimes i switch back and forth with it... (you'd be blocked one day, unblocked the next as i can be quite indecisive and unsure about what it is I want to do... but in several cases when it came to dealing with men who i found were actually cheaters the best thing to do prevailed .. which is to let go) one day when he has let you go he may unblock you out of curiosity...

When I meet someone and fall for them I know I have a tendency to disillusion myself and see only the good in them. I have had met men who i dated and later found out after developing feelings that they were in a relationship and at first upon finding out id sympathize with them and feel bad that they are in such a sucky situation and in that time id listen to them and be caring towards them... however if they werent making any strides in leaving or i felt they were full of shit that quickly turned into resentment and the illusion shattered and Id see them for who they are.... and unfortunately (in my case) once the illusion shatters... thats it... maybe if i was ever bored or lonely id consider them again (IF they were single... ) but any attempt they would make while still in the relationship would actually offend me... as I would then begin to sympatize for their poor partner who was getting cheated on.... i think the best and only thing you can do to get your pisces attention again is to leave your husband.

To continue with what I was saying im sure if he really does understand the place you are in he may be understanding and forgive you if you left your husband... but one thing i know for sure about pisces is that we can be a little wishy-washy .... i think most of us are aware of our tendency to make things out to be greater than they are and if that is what he is dealing with at this moment he'd need to sort out if the reality matched the dream.. cause if it doesn't you'd end up leaving your husband and still be with out him (because there is always that whole thing of people glamorizing what they cant really have or what is unavailable).. I know he is also cheating in this scenario so of course because of that things are a lot more complicated then what ive said... but hopefully that helps to at least give you insight into what could possibly be going on... i honestly think the only solution to win him back is through action. Plus he is still in his relationship... that person has a greater chance of winning his affection back before you because they live together and he knows she is all his.... he could have also blocked you in an attempt to rekindle the love in thag relationship... im sure he really cares about you though
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.

I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?

You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.

My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.

For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.

Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.

And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.

Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.

You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.

And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!

PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.

I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.

My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!

So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.

Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.

My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.

This can't be easy for you, and I apologise for judging you. God knows I'm not perfect. The thing is, when vulnerabilities exist that enable you to look outside of your marriage, it's because the problem is much more deeply-rooted. This isn't about the Pisces. This isn't even really about your husband. This is about you and your needs as either a human being or as a woman that aren't being met. Life is too short. Be good to yourself without compromising yourself...from here on out. Some people say that they stay in loveless marriages because of the children. This actually does more harm than good. Children are very intelligent little beings...and highly impressionable too. They're absorbing everything they see and hear...and this is the foundation from which they'll grow for the rest of their lives. Make it a solid foundation. Teach and show your daughter what an honorable woman is.

Again, I apologise for judging you, fellow Cap. Positives thoughts for you and your daughter.

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Sorry for late reply. Trying to find time to reply to everyone's very kind and helpful responses.

It's okay. I understand how I must look trying to justify cheating etc.

I am so miserable and lonely and scared too. And have been for just over 4 years. I won't go into my marital issues as it will take far too long to explain on here. The simple explanation is that although there are good things about my husband on the surface, go deeper and he is a control freak, bossy, argumentative, very judgemental and constantly fails to listen to a word I say, causing me untold anger, frustration, and in the end a lack of respect due to not being listened to. He is an Aries and I have read and heard so much about Aries man & Cap woman NOT being a good match at all. Again another long story.

You are so right about this not being about Mr Pisces or about my thing else, it's about me. Thank you for being so understanding x I never realised until the last few weeks or months just how empty inside I feel. This does not include my little girl. I love her to bits.

It's my marriage and my behaviour within it. I lost my confidence along the way. My husband wanted babies but I didn't. Sadly I realised that my lack of desire for a child was not due to babies being the problem. It was my husband that was the problem. I never actually wanted a baby with him. But the birth of my little girl made me realise this.

I stayed in.my marriage but wanted to leave. I had a child with him but didn't want to. And while being 8 months pregnant my husband forced me to move house to get a bigger place. Even though our little 2 bed place was cosy, there was no need to house hunt! And I told him. He ignored me and carried on!

We finally moved house when my child was only 8 months. I was too tired to fight/argue with him anymore. I was hormonal, tired with all the night feeds etc and recovering from a C-section. This meant nothing to my husband. All he cared about was wanting a 4 bed house. There was no rush for gods sake!! A I wanted for him to enjoy being a father. But no. We have to move house and sell our cosy one. The selling and buying and move totally destroyed the first few months of new parenthood. So on top of our issues that made me angry and lonely, I ended up hating my husband 1 month in to our baby's life.

I gave in to the house move.

I feel I have totally ignored my own needs and given my husband everything he wants/needs so no wonder I feel empty inside.

I now feel even more lonely as I now feel that Mr Pisces may not want me anymore and I can't bear it. I am in love with him but with all the unresolved issues in my marriage and all the misery and loneliness I went for him as he made me happy from the moment we met. We had this crazy amazing deep connection. I've never had this before even though I've been in love once before (not with my husband) it wasn't like this.

I should NOT have gone after Pisces man with all the mess in my life. It was wrong. I should have kept a polite distance and not entertained his feelings because he is/was in love with me. I just should have sorted my marriage then when I'm happy and ready and sorted then look at a new start. I became even more unhappy and lonely in my marriage after my child was born that I let down my guard!


Posted by RemixGeneralFishy
@AbbyNormal

@pooface222

Am I the only one who read Abby's message in a DIFFERENT way? Almost like she's really excited for you and she's screaming at you to follow your heart.

That's the vibe I'm getting, that she's actually really rooting for you and she couldn't contain herself.




Hi..I never thought of it that way. With all the Shouty CAPITAL LETTERS, I took her as being aggressive. I'm probably wrong though ??

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.

I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?

You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.

My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.

For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.

Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.

And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.

Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.

You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.

And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!

PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.

I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.

My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!

So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.

Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.

My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.


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Hi again ☺

Having already compromised my happiness by having a child to a man I didn't actually love deep down, I am obviously still thinking of divorce (as I first mentioned), and have been for 4 years.

I just wanted to ask you if you left your husband for someone else? Or did you just get divorced and be single?

Reason I'm asking is that I want to know how you coped being a single mum emotionally? I am terrified! After 13 years with one man and now with a child, leaving scares me, hence why I never did it.

Thank you again for your post, I felt you really understood me.

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coming from a pisces female, he's probably pulling away because you haven't actually broken up with your husband. a pisces will only put up with so much for so long (like anyone) until they will break it off and swim away. if his feelings are still very intense, he will jump right back on if he sees that you have taken the next step.

SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? yes he will IF he sees you're an open option and still available. he won't if your tied up with someone else.

Why do you think he is not replying? you're still with your husband

Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? it will to a certain degree, but pisces are aware of a much bigger picture. if you want something then get it. so he's probably wondering why you're not going after him properly, because thats what he would do. he knows that you have to follow your gut (and yours is to him).

Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back?

To speak to me even? don't be desperate. follow through with your words.

What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

very honest actions and words. no waiting games. say it- do it.

Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him?? you can, but then will you stay with your husband?

Thank you for your post. It all makes sense. You have given me hope that I may still have a chance with him. We haven't had a date since Jan this year and it was the first time he told me he's in love with me. And I said it back. So having read your post it has reassured me that what I suspected was right.

I had been wondering for a while why he was becoming less and less communicative and spending less time around me. I began to think he was taking the piss.

I have realised sadly only over the last few weeks, that it was in fact Me taking the piss. Eg have a r'ship with Pisces - because he makes me happy - while trying to sort my marriage. Getting nowhere with my marriage but saying nothing to Pisces therefore leaving him in the dark.

Now the Confusing part was that earlier this year he said "don't rush things" ..so I didn't. I have a lot to sort out in my marriage so took things slow with Mr Pisces. I honestly didn't realise that I should have been focusing on ONE relationship not two! Sounds stupid I know!

I've realised that I was trying to sort things with my husband while trying to hold down a r'ship with Pisces. WRONG thing to do. I realise that now. Pisces man just makes me so happy on so many levels as well as this amazing deep connection we shared.

I'm so unhappy that I was just trying to hold on to happiness while try to sort my unhappiness. BUT I never told Mr Pisces this. I realise now I should have told him I'm trying to sort my marriage so that we can be together. And then proceed to sort my marriage out.

I'm so angry with myself! And I love Mr Pisces so much. And the worst thing is I have hurt him so badly and I too am hurting badly at the same time!

Thanks again for your post ☺
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coming from a pisces female, he's probably pulling away because you haven't actually broken up with your husband. a pisces will only put up with so much for so long (like anyone) until they will break it off and swim away. if his feelings are still very intense, he will jump right back on if he sees that you have taken the next step.

SO do you Pisces men think he will come back to me??? yes he will IF he sees you're an open option and still available. he won't if your tied up with someone else.

Why do you think he is not replying? you're still with your husband

Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? it will to a certain degree, but pisces are aware of a much bigger picture. if you want something then get it. so he's probably wondering why you're not going after him properly, because thats what he would do. he knows that you have to follow your gut (and yours is to him).

Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back?

To speak to me even? don't be desperate. follow through with your words.

What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

very honest actions and words. no waiting games. say it- do it.

Do I just completely back off and go cold turkey on him?? you can, but then will you stay with your husband?

Hi..Thank you so much for your reply. I like the way you have picked up on my individual questions. I find that really helpful ?

Just finding time again to respond to your post.

At the moment I am not sure if his feelings for me are still intense. It's confusing now because he has taken his feelings and put them back inside and now I get nothing from him at all.

He used to come to one or 2 of my gym classes a week (I'm a fitness instructor), now he doesn't come at all. And seeing as he isn't contacting me on any of the social media I mentioned in my first post, I have no way of speaking to him.

So the only way I can speak with him is to attend the same classes he does (which was something we always shared even before we met) and try and speak to him after. The problem is his partner is usually with him so it's a no go there as well.

I do realise I need to sort out my marriage. The problems have been discussed until now, when they SHOULD have been discussed 4/5 years ago. Communication breakdown is what caused us to not discuss our issues.

Anyway I'm so lonely and depressed now. Im lonely in my marriage and depressed Mr Pisces doesnt speak to me anymore. Its like he's disappeared! And i am not surprised!

I guess that's why I'm hoping Mr Pisces will talk to me again. It's not just the attraction we had and the intensity of our feelings. It's the friendship and the deep connection we shared that I truly miss. I miss his company so badly. We shared a connection like nothing I've ever felt in my life! And we connected on so many levels.

I just WISH I had sorted my marriage sooner. And I also Wish I had never let my guard down to Mr Pisces; because ever since I did (about nearly 2 years ago), I have caused him to completely open his heart and life to me and totally drown me in this enormous sea of emotion, (sorry if that sounds like a cliche. I couldnt think of a less cheesey way), making me feel incredible, and so deeply loved - only to behave as if it's just an affair. In other words I've not left my husband, therefore it makes what me and Pisces had seem like an affair. It was meant to be a relationship! I was meant to leave my husband! He never asked me to, until a few months ago when he spoke to me in a stressed way.

I want to a class on Monday night but I didn't know he'd be there as I don't know every class he goes to. The class was full so I went for a run on the treadmill instead. I spoke with him briefly after but it felt weird being near him. Never felt weird before. It's been a few weeks maybe a month since I saw him and even a month ago it was another brief chat after a class.

Anyway I told him 'you look quite beefed-up' as he has really toned shoulders and arms in his gym top. He replied 'that's because of you.' I then said, 'You haven't come to my class for months so it's definitely not me.' So he replied 'It's all inside here,' tapping the side of his head.

I knew (at least I hope), that he meant that his thoughts of me are making him look good.

When he used to come to my class every week, he was a very willing student. He always worked hard, took on board all my coaching, added extra weights to his barbell when I told him he could go a bit heavier as he's strong.

So in terms of whether his feelings for me are still intense, I'm hoping so but that he is now protecting himself. I asked him if we could meet up - I just want to talk - and asked him when he was free. But he said quietly 'I don't know.' He then had to go home.

I want to tell him I am trying to sort out my marriage (which I am but it's so f**king hard!), and to apologise for hurting him and to see if there are still feelings for me inside him.

Anyway sorry for the essay!

Thanks again for your reply. .very helpful ?

For @firefis1996

I meant to say, I never followed through with my words to him. I told him I'm unhappy in my marriage BUT I stayed in it! Must have been so confusing for him and made him feel a fool!

And there were a lot of waiting games. Not so much games but lots of waiting and silence.

I can't believe I'm in this mess! I never wanted this. I've just never had the courage to leave my marriage. It's scary because it means tearing apart everything that was built! The relationship, the marriage, buying a home together, and now tearing apart a family, now we have a child!
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I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.

I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?

You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.

My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.

For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.

Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.

And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.

Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.

You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.

And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!

PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.

I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.

My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!

So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.

Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.

My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.


Hi again ☺

Having already compromised my happiness by having a child to a man I didn't actually love deep down, I am obviously still thinking of divorce (as I first mentioned), and have been for 4 years.

I just wanted to ask you if you left your husband for someone else? Or did you just get divorced and be single?

Reason I'm asking is that I want to know how you coped being a single mum emotionally? I am terrified! After 13 years with one man and now with a child, leaving scares me, hence why I never did it.

Thank you again for your post, I felt you really understood me.

It broke my heart to divorce my ex-husband, because I still loved him. He didn't feel the same, and I wanted to see him happy even if it was without me. There was no one else. I gave myself time to grieve over the demise of my marriage, to figure out who I was and heal. I put my energy into giving my daughter the extra love and security she needed during this transition. I went on one date and quickly realised that I wasn't ready.

It won't be easy, but again, life is short. Don't let the fear of the unknown stop you from truly living your life. Too many people nowadays are just going through the motions.

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Gosh..very brave and strong lady! I think it's harder if you still love your partner; and giving yourself time to heal is so important.

I truly admire what you did.

I have been procrastinating like an idiot. It was because communication had broken down between us to the point that I didn't even care anymore.

I now realise that my *heart, mind & sold 'left' my husband before I even met Mr Pisces, so when I met him all of it* went to him. It was my body that was left behind with my husband.

I hope that doesn't sound crazy! I am trying to say that I emotionally'died' in my marriage and Mr Pisces brought me back to life.

I am going to be 40 in January!?! I don't mind admitting it! But it scares the hell out of me! I just want the last 4 years of my life back. And to do everything right!

You said in your earlier post to me to not compromise myself and life from here on out so I am going to try x

The reason I have not left my marriage is because of the thought of tearing apart everything! Marriage, Family, Home life, my little girls family!

So much to think about.

Thanks again fellow Capricorn..

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I'm a Capricorn and you have hereby earned the revocation of your right to call yourself a Capricorn.

I don't advocate bullying or verbally attacking people on here, but good god, you make it very difficult to exercise restraint from doing so.

There is no justification; what you're doing is wrong. Have some dignity and concern yourself with getting a legal divorce before asking for advice on romantic matters.
Well excuse me for having problems!

I am currently depressed and trying to keep myself going so I don't like being attacked right now especially by the poster on here who started her post with SHUT UP!

I've posted to ask for help.

Jesus I would never speak like that to someone with problems either here or face to face. I would try to help regardless of their issues. I would be sensitive to them too.

I do however believe you are right in saying I should not be calling myself a Capricorn, especially as I have a lot of it in my chart

Sun, Moon, Mars and Mercury!

I feel the same way. Romantically I put my partners before myself and end up unhappy. This is my 2nd long-term r'ship and i put his needs before mine too. Only back then, he cheated on me, then left me for her. He was the flirtacious type anyway so i never trusted him in the end. And we were both late-teens/early twenties. Maybe it's insecurity. I actually don't know why I put a mans needs before my own.

I already know I need to sort out my marriage etc and it's not helpful to tell me there is no excuse for cheating etc. I know!!

I became friends with the other guy and nothing happened for a long time even though our feelings were mutual for each other.

My marriage got worse and so as my feelings were getting deeper for Pisces guy, I became happier but never left my husband. I was scared, unhappy and confused. I never meant to have an affair as I always just kept things friendly to start with.

If anyone here has Nothing nice or helpful to say then keep it to yourselves.

I would never attack someone unless i feel attacked myself, in defence.
Now you're victimising yourself, which isn't constructive either.

I've been married, to a Pisces no less, and while they're very sensitive and seemingly good partners, the fact is that ALL relationships take work. Look at the foundation of your relationship with him...it's riddled with lying, sneaking around, and deceit. So, why not get yourself together first and then reevaluate what, if anything, there is between you two?

You have to understand that as crazy and colourful as the personalities are here on this forum, a lot of us are genuinely good people who don't have a high tolerance for people who try rationalise wrongdoing.

My personal issue with what you shared was not only your adultery, but you also mentioned that your daughter was with you when you were talking to your lover in the gym parking lot.

For your child's sake, do the decent thing and get divorced before you start losing your wits about another man.

Sure. I understand. Like I said I don't normally do affairs. Once things started getting emotionally deeper and me and him gave our hearts to each other, I should have done the decent thing and told my husband that I cannot be his wife anymore, and left my marriage.

And I wish I had! Things are now worse between me and my husband as we are both in emotional limbo. Neither one of us wants to be without our little girl of 2 1/2 years so we are both worried about the impact of splitting up.

Now on that note of my little girl, you said you did not like the fact that she was there as I spoke to Mr Pisces. I understand that too. BUT just clarify, it was not a planned meeting. It was by chance. I had just parked in the car park of the gym where I work, and he had just done a workout as was on his way home. I don't know all of his movements or whereabouts so it was nice to bump into him as was not even expecting him. I was actually just about to go shopping in town with my little one.

You mentioned crazy colourful people on here. .and how they are good people. I am not a bad person! I've just been tree-trunking stupid and got lost in my problems and lost my way.

And then given up the fight. So yeah..call me a Capricorn!?!

PLEASE! I'm not right now. When I am happy and am my normal self I can honestly say I am a Capricorn. But so much has had and I feel I have lost control.

I am now trying to sort stuff out with my marriage but I guess I just miss Mr Pisces as we got on as friends too. And in ways me and my husband never ever will.

My husband and I are so wrong for each other it's untrue! But it's taken 13 years and a child to work that one out!

So like I said, I don't want to be judged as I am not a bad person Normally.

Anyway thanks for your input. .I appreciate it.

My daughter was 3 when I divorced my husband, and I was only waiting for her to be fully communicative before I left him. I wanted for her to be able to understand what was going on.


Hi again ☺

Having already compromised my happiness by having a child to a man I didn't actually love deep down, I am obviously still thinking of divorce (as I first mentioned), and have been for 4 years.

I just wanted to ask you if you left your husband for someone else? Or did you just get divorced and be single?

Reason I'm asking is that I want to know how you coped being a single mum emotionally? I am terrified! After 13 years with one man and now with a child, leaving scares me, hence why I never did it.

Thank you again for your post, I felt you really understood me.

It broke my heart to divorce my ex-husband, because I still loved him. He didn't feel the same, and I wanted to see him happy even if it was without me. There was no one else. I gave myself time to grieve over the demise of my marriage, to figure out who I was and heal. I put my energy into giving my daughter the extra love and security she needed during this transition. I went on one date and quickly realised that I wasn't ready.

It won't be easy, but again, life is short. Don't let the fear of the unknown stop you from truly living your life. Too many people nowadays are just going through the motions.



Gosh..very brave and strong lady! I think it's harder if you still love your partner; and giving yourself time to heal is so important.

I truly admire what you did.

I have been procrastinating like an idiot. It was because communication had broken down between us to the point that I didn't even care anymore.

I now realise that my *heart, mind & sold 'left' my husband before I even met Mr Pisces, so when I met him all of it* went to him. It was my body that was left behind with my husband.

I hope that doesn't sound crazy! I am trying to say that I emotionally'died' in my marriage and Mr Pisces brought me back to life.

I am going to be 40 in January!?! I don't mind admitting it! But it scares the hell out of me! I just want the last 4 years of my life back. And to do everything right!

You said in your earlier post to me to not compromise myself and life from here on out so I am going to try x

The reason I have not left my marriage is because of the thought of tearing apart everything! Marriage, Family, Home life, my little girls family!

So much to think about.

Thanks again fellow Capricorn..

You're welcome. 40 is a huge deal...possibly symbolic of a new lease on life; a rebirth of sorts. Think about that.

I really do have to reiterate the importance to differentiate between working through the marriage because you also have children and staying in a marriage solely because you have children. The latter is like running on a treadmill; you can run your heart out, but will get nowhere.

Children feel when there is no love between parents. Is that the model you want to give your daughter from which she will learn to base relationships off of?

That was what made me leave. I couldn't bear the thought of teaching my daughter that she had to stay in a union where she had to accept not being loved; not being cared for. I couldn't do that to her. I couldn't do that to myself.

Best wishes, fellow Cap. Please feel free to reach out anytime. You can pm if you'd like. ❤



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I really appreciate that thank you..? I would like to pm you so I will do soon.

I so need to sort my bloody life and my head and Fast!


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I will do my best to help...

There are already good answers in thread..

"Can I get a pisces man to come back"?

Can any of us get someone back?

Are these questions best?

Is this even the right time?

I'll focus on "him" for a moment first.

Do you truly believe he is out of your life?

You two have such a strong connection...

Moments like these are best to evaluate

the situation, yourself (and) this individual.

The value of said connection can be evaluated

from a distance and see how he goes about it.

Any of us can influence others to "come back"

(if you truly believe he is gone in the first place)

but It is always up to them whether they do this.

I don't feel he is "gone" but maybe he is

evaluating things from a distance like

I mentioned you could do at this time.

Seeing things from all angles.

Are things finalized with your

husband yet? Maybe the finalization

of your marriage would influence his

"return"? What ever the case, I believe

people and situations have multiple

functions and reasons to manifest.

Not always the one "we see" is

the most accurate or what we "need".

Whether he...

"comes back" or not I think

this whole thing (this experience)

is to help you initiate and do something

about what no longer serves

you (the marriage)...







Hi ? thanks so much for your reply. Really appreciate it. I saw him Monday night at the gym. I was late for a class so ran on the treadmill instead. We bumped into each other and talked but not for long as he had to pick his teenage son up from somewhere.

Anyway I was admiring his body and said to him 'You look all beefed up.' He replied 'it's because of you.' I then said 'You haven't come to my class in about 3 months so it's definitely not me.'

(I'm a Fitness Instructor and I teach fitness classes).

Anyway he replied 'its all up here' and tapped the side of his head.

I would love to read into this and believe that he meant he is still thinking of me, therefore there is still a chance but I don't want to get my hopes up.

As we got to the car park, I looked him in the eyes and held his hand telling him I miss him, he said 'yeah you too,' but he looked away as he said it. I am going to keep trying as I realise how stupid I have been to not make a proper relationship happen with him. And I cannot bear the silence he gives me. I feel sick, and I miss him like hell!

I've just had so much unresolved emotional crap to deal with that I realised only recently that I have unintentionally pushed him away!

We started seeing each other about a year ago and I guess over time he must have lost hope and probably feels a fool too.

I like that you said you 'don't feel he is gone,' and that we have (had), 'such a strong connection.'

You are right. But now when I'm with him he seems really down - unsurprisingly! And seeing as I've been blocked from all social media he used to contact me on, and never comes to my classes now, I only have texting left! And I hate it as he's blocked my mobile number too ??

I hope he is evaluating things from a distance as I am too. Things are not finalised between me and my husband but we have both said to each other 'we cannot go on like this.'

One last thing I want to ask you as a Pisces man, I am on Facebook and I joined a Pisces Astrology page. It's cool. They post different characteristics of pisces every day and sad as it sounds I save them on my phone mainly if they match the Pisces man I'm in love with.

The one for today scared me though. It said 'Be careful how you treat a Pisces because once they are fed - up they won't come back' ??

Do you believe this?

I guess you could say the same for anyone but if I get fed up, I see it as a challenge to try again! But I'm a Capricorn ??
Posted by Jazzypiecesofpisces
Coming from a pisces female... him blocking you from everything is his way of trying to get over you and move on. I've done this before... sometimes i switch back and forth with it... (you'd be blocked one day, unblocked the next as i can be quite indecisive and unsure about what it is I want to do... but in several cases when it came to dealing with men who i found were actually cheaters the best thing to do prevailed .. which is to let go) one day when he has let you go he may unblock you out of curiosity...

When I meet someone and fall for them I know I have a tendency to disillusion myself and see only the good in them. I have had met men who i dated and later found out after developing feelings that they were in a relationship and at first upon finding out id sympathize with them and feel bad that they are in such a sucky situation and in that time id listen to them and be caring towards them... however if they werent making any strides in leaving or i felt they were full of shit that quickly turned into resentment and the illusion shattered and Id see them for who they are.... and unfortunately (in my case) once the illusion shatters... thats it... maybe if i was ever bored or lonely id consider them again (IF they were single... ) but any attempt they would make while still in the relationship would actually offend me... as I would then begin to sympatize for their poor partner who was getting cheated on.... i think the best and only thing you can do to get your pisces attention again is to leave your husband.

I have a really bad feeling that for him, the illusion of me has shattered ??. I am heartbroken anyway.

I don't know if I explained but while I was seeing him - mostly last year and a handful of times this year, I didn't realise how much he wanted me to leave my husband until he actually said 2 or 3 months ago. He looked stressed and sad when he said it. Understandably! I guess I got confused as he also said to me from time to time 'No rush.'

I have unintentionally pushed him away. I am now Devastated at the realisation of this.

I guess I should just give up on him. I do need to sort my marriage.

I'm just really in love with him..

Thanks for your honest Piscean advice xx



wow

You won't even admit that you fucked up .. you say, "unintentionally", when in reality, you purposely pushed him away because of your unresolved issues with your husband.

A person who won't admit they are wrong will never make it with a Pisces. If he ever does decide to throw you a bone, it will be with intentions of hurting you .... just like you purposely did to him.



You deserve all of this grief and heartache you are getting ... it's called karma.

My hope is that your wounds are deep, and tear you to shreds. If they are superficial and short lasting, then you won't grow from it. It has to hurt you, if you are to learn from it.

... because the alternative is: if you don't learn how fucked up you are by doing this, then you'll go out and find another person to destroy.
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
Posted by pooface222
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.

I want to pm you. Is it ok?

Posted by Gemitati
Posted by pooface222
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.

I want to pm you. Is it ok?

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Hi..yeah sure. I was actually worried what other people on here would say to my post to P-Angel as I don't know if some people may like her.

I read a lot of different topics on here as I find this site very interesting

I just cannot believe how disgustingly insulting she is to people! ?!

Posted by Nemilicious
Posted by pooface222
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
if this reaction is a glimpse of how you handle and deal with -legit- criticism on a daily basis then i am not surprised that you are a fucking mess. and you know what? if you choose to be an unreflective self righteous justifying asshole; fine. BUT your problems are affecting other people. but as self pity goes; you are so deep in it; you cannot see the harm you do those three other people.

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Same to you too!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by pooface222
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.

I want to pm you. Is it ok?



Hi..yeah sure. I was actually worried what other people on here would say to my post to P-Angel as I don't know if some people may like her.

I read a lot of different topics on here as I find this site very interesting

I just cannot believe how disgustingly insulting she is to people! ?!

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I always say mean people are very unhappy. It's sad HOW unhappy this angel is...but considering most here are young -

I am only messing with them. Lol

Never mind mean. Whoever good are really helpful.

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Posted by pooface222
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by pooface222
Right! That's IT P-ANGEL! Or P-DEVIL!

I have warned you before to Go back to your BITTER LITTLE HOLE you CRAWLED out of!

And here you are AGAIN Spitting your usual Venom!

I've not even read your post because I really couldn't give two shits what You think!

I am disgusted with just how much Venom you Continually Spit at Everyone - All over dxpnet! !

Do you really have NOTHING BETTER TO DO?!

Do Not answer that! I don't care!

Now..go spit your venom Elsewhere! Preferably in your own face! It might actually cure you of your Nastiness to just about Everyone on this website!

Do NOT reply!

Just get Gone!

Don't post to me ever again!
Oh now she will! Drink your blood and follow you with her morals.

I want to pm you. Is it ok?



Hi..yeah sure. I was actually worried what other people on here would say to my post to P-Angel as I don't know if some people may like her.

I read a lot of different topics on here as I find this site very interesting

I just cannot believe how disgustingly insulting she is to people! ?!

I always say mean people are very unhappy. It's sad HOW unhappy this angel is...but considering most here are young -

I am only messing with them. Lol

Never mind mean. Whoever good are really helpful.

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Absolutely and so far everyone here (apart from Angel), has been great! Big Grin
Posted by Jayceon
Let him swim back to you.
Hi Jayceon. .

I'm guessing you are a Pisces man?

Thank you for posting ??

So how do I go about letting him swim back? Silly question I know but does it mean completely and totally not messaging him? And no contact at all too??

I messaged him recently but only very simply and to my surprise he actually replied. I didn't expect it.

My other texts to him have been quite long, telling him how much I miss him and apologising for upsetting him. Needless to say, I don't ever get replies to the long texts.

Anyway. .Please can you tell me what I need to do (or not do), to hopefully get him to swim back? I really like him.
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Posted by pooface222
Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.


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Oh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.

Straight Face

Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.

Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.
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I'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.

I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!

It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.

To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!

Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.


Oh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.

Straight Face

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Not Helpful! Don't bother posting just to make silly comments about someone's username and/or the reason behind it.

It's Irrelevant!
Posted by pooface222
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.


Oh you caught this too? Yeah that sounded kinda weird as I read it.

Straight Face

Not Helpful! Don't bother posting just to make silly comments about someone's username and/or the reason behind it.

It's Irrelevant!
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Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.


Hi ya..just wanted to revisit my post and message a few people on here. I actually really like your post and at the time I wrote on here I was in a very unhappy place.

I am feeling better now but still hurting over Mr Pisces and have decided to separate from my

husband this year.

I am going to update everyone on here anyway as I want to.

Thanks again ?
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
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Posted by AbbyNormal
SHUT UP AND LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS MAN AND STOP BREAKING BOTH YOUR HEARTS!! even if you and Pisces man don't go anywhere (which I dont see happening as he LEFT HIS WIFE in part for you), you are cheating on your husband, Your heart is someone else's by your own admission. so do everyone a favor and do what you already know you needed to do FOREVER AGO. stop focusing on what HE may or may not do and focus on what YOU SHOULD DO. make your happiness if you're so damn miserable.


Hi ya..just wanted to revisit my post and message a few people on here. I actually really like your post and at the time I wrote on here I was in a very unhappy place.

I am feeling better now but still hurting over Mr Pisces and have decided to separate from my

husband this year.

I am going to update everyone on here anyway as I want to.

Thanks again ?
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wishing you nothing but the best!!
Posted by pham90
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.

As I said to Abbeynormal I am planning to separate from my husband this year as I need a break from my marriage to clear my head and my heart and to be alone for a while (with my little girl), in order to get back in touch with myself
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Posted by pham90
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.

As I said to Abbeynormal I am planning to separate from my husband this year as I need a break from my marriage to clear my head and my heart and to be alone for a while (with my little girl), in order to get back in touch with myself
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See ! Things are looking well already ! Now just don't play games with mr Pisces . At the end of the day do what feels best to you . If it feels best than you'll enjoy the results better in the end
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Posted by pooface222
Posted by pham90
I'm a Pisces feeling . And regardless of the sign.. I'm sure with any human being it's like yeah I really care about this lady ( being you ) but she's still married to her husband she's still with her husband and they just had a baby in which they can make try to work things out . How can you want someone to leave the life they have for your life when you can't even make room for them in your life . He's not gonna leave all he has even if he doesn't like what he's got to go with someone who's feeling a certain way but is still living the same way . I mean being a Pisces we are understanding and forgiving .. And with that being said . He probably understands the truth of the matter and it's your still in a situation. And he's Probably forgiving to the fact that yes your in a relationship your not happy about and he probably doesn't doubt your feelings toward him ( the Pisces man ) but he forgives you to feel for him and be with your husband but also he has to be there for him and do what's best for him .. And I know emotions can blur things but look at the picture .. It's been years and you still haven't left your husband regardless of how you feel towards this other man. He might have feelings for you and in which doesn't doubt your feelings for him but with the situation not changing how can he move further and your stuck in the same ordeal.
I know. You are absolutely right. I totally agree. Mr Pisces has been back in contact with me and we have been talking again and he called me last week. I had to explain a few things to him.

As I said to Abbeynormal I am planning to separate from my husband this year as I need a break from my marriage to clear my head and my heart and to be alone for a while (with my little girl), in order to get back in touch with myself
See ! Things are looking well already ! Now just don't play games with mr Pisces . At the end of the day do what feels best to you . If it feels best than you'll enjoy the results better in the end
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Thank you ?..its just been so damn difficult! Mr Pisces was very hurt last year - by me. Because I never left my marriage. But there was just so much going on in both of our lives - including him going through a painful divorce last year (he is separated from his wife, and in a relationship).

He is divorced now. And I want to go for separation as I need to be free for a while as I said. I need to spring clean my head and heart and start afresh.

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I'm just going to say this. I get it. I get that it sometimes takes time to figure things out, but this has been dragging on for a while now. If you need to leave your husband, you need to go regardless of the Pisces' reaction or feelings for you. Think on that. Time to shit or get off the pot, as they say where I was born. Winking
Oh trust me! I know! Hence why I am making plans to separate from my husband. Regardless of Pisces feelings. Obviously I am still in love with him but I NEED to sort myself out first.

I do know this. This is now the first time I am doing anything about it.
From a Pisces female who by the way has quite few Pisces male friends (because for some reason I just tend to pick up Pisces people into my life) I will say this based on my experience and my male friends experiences through their relashionships:

1) Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? Make him know I'm sorry? And make him know I truly am in love with him?

Though out intuition and empathy does show us how you feel and what you are going through and maybe we will even understand that you are sorry, as well as acknowledge that you are truly in love with us. There is a point when we just make conscious decision to separate from situation that is hurting us. Imagine yourself and your emotions, now add other persons pain and emotions and than you will feel what we feel. Being torn by basically avalanche of emotions every day can destroy us. If we are old enough we know that there is a point where we just have to cut ties with person in order to be able to be happy. So the question is not in the lack of knowledge but more In our need to live normal life. We can give a lot. But if certain line is crossed we will snap and once we do getting us back with words is not possible.

2) Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back? To speak to me even? What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

I am not a man but I will say what my male friends said to me and I agree with them. He will not speak to you or come back, because the time for words is over. Now it’s time for actions. If you truly love person you need to sort your life out, leave husband and prove your feelings with actual actions. If you won’t and you will just continue with words it will look like trying to manipulate us through our own emotions. And trust me once pisces see that you are manipulating us we cut ties with people for good and after that no action or no word will get us back to you.

So instead of writing to him and so on take actual action. Fix your life. Become actually available and than inform him about it once you will be free (not prior).

Also remember Pisces are healers when you cheat with us we will feel the pain for the person who you are cheating on, so add that on top of our personal feelings, your feelings and so on. And you can destroy pisces man. If you love that person you should not cause that much pain. If we see that you are hurting us because of your own needs that will push us away (pisces are not selfish, so selfish people makes us to not want to have them in our life). So Fix YOUR life, and ONLY THAN once all is over and you are free tell him about the fact. Otherwise your intentions might be misunderstood and your words will have opposite effect than you wish for.

But I will say this as a side note (that I hope won’t happen to you): if you draged him through too much that may not help you. If he blocked you everywhere but phone you may have crosses the line of no return. So good luck to you.

Posted by pooface222
Posted by DwellingOnMove
Posted by pooface222
Posted by Scrumptious
... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.

Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.
I'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.

I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!

It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.

To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!

Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.
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Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.

I decided to explain you that just because I wanted you to be able to see how we see the world, in our eyes everything is important. And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactered to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality smile


Once again I just thought this might help you in the future if you will get in touch with Pisces man smile
Posted by shakedown
...".And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactured to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality."

Good gracious. Get out of my head!!!! This is so true for this Pisces.
cha cha Big Grin NOOOO WILL LIVE HERE FOREVER MUAHAHAHAH Big Grin jk jk Big Grin but yeah it's something that is very common for Pisces Big Grin
It sounds like OP just wants to leave her husband for a while, have an affaire with pisces guy and come back to her husband.

that's what I feel when she says she "needs to get in touch with herself".

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Posted by pooface222
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... username and how you came about such a fine choice


... silly username. I couldn't think of anything at the time so I used something that my husband & I sometimes say to each other when we look a bit p**ed off.

There is another person on dxpnet called poopMcpoopface which is quote ironic. ...

If you have let it at poopMcpoopface, your explanation has been perfect enough.

But adding "husband & I sometimes say to each other" to the plot is unfortunately an indicator of how near you are to your husband inside and in actuality.

Most likely your Pisces man has noticed this. There might have been times he had false hope, or times he was opportunistic himself. what should a people of service axis do, when he sees you have no main job for him, only little side jobs? what happens when they cannot keep the inner lie which covered their opportunism? they do not and cannot care anymore. this earth is so full with needy clients that the Service/Healing Axis (Virgo-Pisces) stays never alone or unrequested. they are on the short numbers.
I'm sorry I just didn't understand a word of most of your post.

I do however find it odd that your are questioning my username!?! Who cares what my username is?? I don't care what anybody else calls themselves, or what you call yourself for that matter!

It was just a stupid name that a LONG time ago my husband would sometimes say to me as a joke. I'm not going to justify this anymore because I think it's pathetic that my username is being questioned.

To be honest I created an account quite quickly and just couldn't think of what to call myself. I instantly regretted it once it was done. And Now suddenly it's a big issue for other users on here! I mean seriously! Who cares!

Your post means nothing to me except that you have not understood my situation.
Also I will try to explain why people are talking about your username or more precisesly about the explanation of how it came about. It might give you inside look into how Pisces see the world. We see the issue, than we see the broader issue, than we see overall picture. So everything in our minds is conected. So when you make a post about how you love Pisces man and want him back, yet choose the nickname that your husbaind gave you shows how in your mind (maybe subconsiously) is more prevelant than the Pisces man. Because if pisces man is truly the one that you care about you could have picked the nickname that is conected to him instead of your husbaind. Now you may say: "ohh but I just picked first thing that came to my mind". Exactly! And first thing that came to your mind was something that was connected to the man that you want to seperate from, and not the man that you say you love. And we pisces pick up on those things all the time. So if during relashionship with Pisces man you were doing similar things (that you may have not even noticed) he picked up on them and that piled on top of all other stuff. As pisces we pick up on such a small details that you don't even notice and once we pick up on enough of them we create whole big picture, and once we do we make our descisions.

I decided to explain you that just because I wanted you to be able to see how we see the world, in our eyes everything is important. And stuff that people say without having time to think of say much more to us than the stuff that they say when they have time to think about. Because the stuff that you just say in the moment or do in the moment comes from the heart, while stuff that you think off is filtered and manufactered to convey certain idea that YOU want us to see, that sometimes might not be reality smile


Once again I just thought this might help you in the future if you will get in touch with Pisces man smile
You explain us Pisces so well.

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Ahh thank you Big Grin I just try my best, even though English is not my native language so I make horrible mistakes along the way. I am glad I am not misrepresenting stuff I just try to share what I think is pretty common for our sign smile

Posted by Roana
From a Pisces female who by the way has quite few Pisces male friends (because for some reason I just tend to pick up Pisces people into my life) I will say this based on my experience and my male friends experiences through their relashionships:

1) Do you think his Pisces intuition and empathy will make him know what I'm going through? Make him know I'm sorry? And make him know I truly am in love with him?

Though out intuition and empathy does show us how you feel and what you are going through and maybe we will even understand that you are sorry, as well as acknowledge that you are truly in love with us. There is a point when we just make conscious decision to separate from situation that is hurting us. Imagine yourself and your emotions, now add other persons pain and emotions and than you will feel what we feel. Being torn by basically avalanche of emotions every day can destroy us. If we are old enough we know that there is a point where we just have to cut ties with person in order to be able to be happy. So the question is not in the lack of knowledge but more In our need to live normal life. We can give a lot. But if certain line is crossed we will snap and once we do getting us back with words is not possible.

2) Can any of you lovely Pisces men tell me what I can and need to do to hopefully get him to come back? To speak to me even? What would work with you if a woman who loved you wanted to get you to come back to her?

I am not a man but I will say what my male friends said to me and I agree with them. He will not speak to you or come back, because the time for words is over. Now it’s time for actions. If you truly love person you need to sort your life out, leave husband and prove your feelings with actual actions. If you won’t and you will just continue with words it will look like trying to manipulate us through our own emotions. And trust me once pisces see that you are manipulating us we cut ties with people for good and after that no action or no word will get us back to you.

So instead of writing to him and so on take actual action. Fix your life. Become actually available and than inform him about it once you will be free (not prior).

Also remember Pisces are healers when you cheat with us we will feel the pain for the person who you are cheating on, so add that on top of our personal feelings, your feelings and so on. And you can destroy pisces man. If you love that person you should not cause that much pain. If we see that you are hurting us because of your own needs that will push us away (pisces are not selfish, so selfish people makes us to not want to have them in our life). So Fix YOUR life, and ONLY THAN once all is over and you are free tell him about the fact. Otherwise your intentions might be misunderstood and your words will have opposite effect than you wish for.

But I will say this as a side note (that I hope won’t happen to you): if you draged him through too much that may not help you. If he blocked you everywhere but phone you may have crosses the line of no return. So good luck to you.

Hi thank you so much for your post. He actually blocked me everywhere INCLUDING his phone! However I have been texting him lots and seeing him in the gym. I am a fitness instructor so I teach fitness classes. So as fate would have it, he goes to the same gym I teach at and occasionally comes to my class.

He recently got back in contact with me, after I texted him lots. He has even come back to my class occasionally. And he has kissed me a couple of times.

I have been trying so hard to get him back because I just cannot bear not having him in my life. We have this crazy amazing connection and he knows it too!

BUT I have hurt him deeply by not leaving my marriage for him. AND it gets worse. In the last year my husbands mother got terminal cancer! So with the shock of that and looking after our child and being there for my husband while he was grieving, I had no idea that I had not actually told Mr Pisces that I cannot leave my marriage!

I have felt torn in pieces in many ways.

Being in an unhappy marriage and wanting to leave it for the man I love BUT discovering I can't because my husband was grieving.

There was no way I could say to my husband 'Sorry your mum is dying but I'm leaving you.'

So in the end I hurt Pisces guy by staying in my marriage but not explaining to him that I cannot have a relationship at this point as my husband needs me.

I just didn't realise I hadn't told Pisces guy thus because I am running around with my little girl of 2 1/2 and just don't have any head space to think and sort my life out!

Now my husbands mothers funeral was in July last year. Mr Pisces since getting back in touch slowly actually rang me last week and We talked about why I've not left. So I explained about my husbands mother etc and he seemed to understand.

BUT as you quite rightly said, I have dragged him through a lot of pain! Simply by not leaving my marriage for him I've seriously hurt him.

When I apologised to him in person after my class one night, he actually said 'it's okay forget it.' Wow! He was just so lovely. I couldn't believe it. So I kissed him. This was a few weeks ago before xmas.

Now having said all of this you are right.

I need to take action!

I can't be in an unhappy marriage anymore. It's killing me!
Posted by hydorah
It sounds like OP just wants to leave her husband for a while, have an affaire with pisces guy and come back to her husband.

that's what I feel when she says she "needs to get in touch with herself".

Errr NO! DEFINITELY NOT! Thank you very much!

I said get back in touch with myself because I want to focus on me and my needs. I've been unhappy for so long I can't stand it anymore.

I want to leave my husband. Clear my head of all the emotional baggage. And start afresh hopefully with the Pisces guy I am in love with!

Posted by Jayceon
do you Pisces men think he will come back to me? Yeah he'll come back and is coming from a Pisces man.
Hi..do you really think so?

It's been 3 1/2 years since we met BUT there have been so many obstacles in the way of us being together. It's been agony for both of us.

The one thing I forgot to mention in my original post, but said it to another person on here is that as soon as I let down my guard and let Pisces guy into my heart - and also kissed him for the first time - my husbands mother got terminal cancer. This happened in the SAME WEEK!

By the time I had kissed him, me and Pisces had been talking and getting to know each other for about a Year. We had been meeting in my fitness classes and talking afterwards when everyone had gone home.

That way we didn't have to lie to our partners to see each other. We were at the gym and he would come to my class once a week.

It took this long because in the beginning when he started coming to my class, I had only just come back from maternity leave. I only went off for 3 months. I hadn't been back long and suddenly one day he turned up in my class!

It was a class his partner didn't go to because it was an early morning one at 6.30am.

So I was very surprised to see him. He only started coming to my class once i had my baby. Having just had a baby and only been back teaching a short while, there he was in my class

I was a bit confused to see him because I wasn't sure how he would feel having a relationship with me now I have a baby. But he kept coming back.

It was tricky because my head was full of my baby etc. So that's why it took about a year for the flirting to start. And oh boy did we flirt!

BUT then my husbands mum became ill.

I was just going to tell my husband it's over between us seeing as I had just kissed Pisces guy, but I found myself stuck and couldn't leave my grieving husband.

So with my husband grieving back then, I only realised in the last month that I had failed to tell Pisces that I can't leave my husband. So I have unfortunately left Pisces hanging, wondering why I'm not leaving my husband. And because of leaving him hanging I have seriously hurt him!

I was so caught up in the unhappiness in my marriage, while looking after my little girl who is now going to be 3 in 10 weeks time, while trying to be supportive of my grieving husband that I never told Pisces why I can't leave!

He must have been so confused! As well as hurt!

Her funeral was July this year. So its been 6 months since.

We are talking again and he now knows why I couldn't leave. I now feel as if I have woken up from a nightmare.

I just hope that my dream will come true now.

Sorry for the long post again!
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