Can Leo Pisces be a good thing?

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Lioness
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My most recent ex was Cancer and his water dampened my fire. Never been with Pisces before but water sign, here we go again.... from reading past topics, it doesn't seem like a common pairing..

He is Pisces.

Aries moon and Venus.

Aquarius in Mercury and Mars.

I'm Leo.

Aries moon.

Virgo in Mercury and Venus.

Cancer Mars.

Have no idea what Pisces are like, only had our first date on Thursday but so far he seems like someone who likes eating out and doing things in the outdoors so that seems like a refreshing change.

Have any of you fish peeps, had a Lion.. how does this play out...? What do you find infuriating about us?

Can a Lion and a Fish work, will I eat the fish or will the fish make me drown? Or is there enough fire, air and earth there to compliment each other?
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Posted by Hamsthetics

 LEO WOMAN + PISCES MAN

"the roll-out"

CHEMISTRY

Though she senses there’s something, well, fishy about the Pisces man from the instant they meet, she simply can’t resist wanting to know him better or otherwise throwing herself at him. He is notoriously attracted to an obvious brand of beauty—hers hits him over the head—a showy spirit that says she won’t cower in the bower. Sex is in the air from the get-go. He is such a funny paradox of snobby superiority and utter approachability, that she can’t tell if she’s coming or going. This is not the way she’s typically made to feel by a man—and such a one, here, who seems almost comically unimpressed with what she prides herself on being her most seductive moves (Is he laughing? she wonders) and yet so warmed by her he almost immediately won’t let her out of his sight. Pisces can be the most inwardly turbulent of men, which is why he often seems overly concerned with the world of appearances, if not striking others as superficial or phony. He is, in many ways, always trying to escape himself. Here he spies a female who is naturally outgoing, one, he hopes, who won’t seek to delve into his psyche like other women want to. His lifelong plan generally entails creating an utterly new reality from the one he was born into. She seems a game girl who’ll gleefully go along.

COMPATIBILITY

In our Sextrology, the Lion lady, drawing on the archetype of the huntress, is likened to Dorothy of Oz fame, following a golden path leading out of a black-and-white world to somewhere over the rainbow. That place is, in effect, the sign of Pisces, beyond the veil of Aquarius, the sign of the Waterbearer (associated with John the Baptist and Salome, whose seven colored veils are the rainbow) just as Pisces man himself is something of a wizard, that man behind the curtain, creating an entire new world, having cut himself off from the one of his origin. The moral of Dorothy’s story aside (for now), when Leo meets Pisces along her path, she’s given the impression that life with him promises certain enchantment and that he, by sheer force of his will and imagination, is determined to lead an existence not of inherited circumstance, but one created by the dictates of his wildest dreams. Pisces rules Leo’s cosmic 8th house of regeneration and psychological transformation and so she is predisposed to seeing the Fish man as her ticket out of obscurity into a new world order where her own name might be written in real or metaphorical lights, if not spelled out in the exhaust of some wicked witch, the personification of her own fears of failure or “surrender” to them. Often there is a sense of Leo riding Pisces’ coattails, the wizard-like wardrobe notwithstanding. And he’s willing to let her do it because he will rely on her just as much if not more. Leo rules Pisces’ 6th house of daily routines, chores, work, service, habits. Consciously or not, he leans on Leo to take care of such quotidian business so that he can keep his eye on the big Technicolor picture. It’s a bond where the whole of their life can be far greater than the sum of their two individual parts. But there are catches.

CARNALITY

Art imitating life, one famous pairing of this combination is Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz, whose TV-land life as Lucy and Ricky was characterized by her forever wanting to get into the proverbial act. Now think about the heterosexual couples of this combo in your own life. Right? Leo takes credit for allowing Pisces to achieve his goals but at some point she exclaims, “Hey, what about me?” But truth be told, Pisces knows full well that he is bound to get further in achieving his loftiest aims with the powerhouse Leo by his side. And, besides, he spends his entire life paying for the privilege, particularly in the bedroom. Though she may plaster on a smile and sing Pisces praises, publicly, to friends and family, when they’re alone, he best watch out. She is demanding, and often demeaning, of the Fish man in the sack, where she will bark orders and otherwise put him through his sexual paces. The pleasure, here, is all hers, his taking less priority. She owns him (often quite literally, as she may arrive home one day to announce she’s majority shareholder in his business) and he will comply in bed, not taking her directives too seriously. She is often asking for a fight and, when he’s not looking, he might get it. She can be a bit rough on him, physically, taking little care with his package when she’s putting him through the mill with hers. He may have difficulty satisfying her and she might imagine he’s tuckering himself out elsewhere with another woman, or maybe a man. Though Pisces are often bisexual by nature, no other man is so able to turn down the volume on that particular voice in his head as the Fish, who, if anything, is often beyond sex rather than repressing any aspect of it. Hypocritically, she might have a dalliance; sometimes he’s so blasé about the carnal element of their relationship that he couldn’t seem to care less. And because she would likely be quote-unquote cheating with another guy as much for Pisces’ reaction as for the satisfaction of her own desires, even philandering can ring hollow. Pisces is one man in the zodiac who is nonjudgmental toward, if not turned on by, even his spouse’s sluttier behavior, and he might welcome her getting it on with another guy for his viewing pleasure—even that would be about him, not her. He may want sex far less frequently than she does and he’ll often “save up” for their next scheduled date. He’s into trashy costuming and having his Leo lady tart it up to the hilt, or even pretend to play prostitute, perhaps paying her, both staying in character, parting ways as such. She’ll take the cash. It’s not what you’d call a traditional relationship, nor is it always the healthiest of bonds, as these two tend to be rather big partiers, for at least a portion of their time together. At some point they might call it quits as a result of one or both evolving out of any abuse. But despite the inherent dysfunction, they are often the love of each other’s lives.


Thank you for that entertaining piece lol. I guess I shall follow the yellow brick road and see where I end up. Sounds like an interesting journey. The sexual incompatibility has me worried... It's only been 1 date so I haven't ventured there yet but if the relationship does progress, I hope he can keep up. I need regular sex.
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Thank you. That sounds very promising. It was set up by a family friend. They spoke highly of him so just need to see if there's magic once we get to know each other a little more. I really lost my spark in my last relationship. Being with a moody, pessimistic crab for the last 2 and a half years really drained my fire so I'm trying to be optimistic and excited about a new adventure. He seems like someone that loves living life and exploring new things so fingers crossed.
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Posted by Lionandafish

@situsinversus27

Thank you. That sounds very promising. It was set up by a family friend. They spoke highly of him so just need to see if there's magic once we get to know each other a little more. I really lost my spark in my last relationship. Being with a moody, pessimistic crab for the last 2 and a half years really drained my fire so I'm trying to be optimistic and excited about a new adventure. He seems like someone that loves living life and exploring new things so fingers crossed.


Good luck. 👍🏻
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Posted by Lionandafish

@situsinversus27

Thank you. That sounds very promising. It was set up by a family friend. They spoke highly of him so just need to see if there's magic once we get to know each other a little more. I really lost my spark in my last relationship. Being with a moody, pessimistic crab for the last 2 and a half years really drained my fire so I'm trying to be optimistic and excited about a new adventure. He seems like someone that loves living life and exploring new things so fingers crossed.

I doubt that “your” Pisces is moody or pessimistic. I’m Pisces with exclusively Pisces-Aqua-Aries in my personal planets as well. Always the optimist, excited about new adventures. I have a lot of admiration for Leo women, sometime I wish I was one.

Back to “your” fish....be prepared for the possibility that he has less social stamina than you, needs more time to recharge than you, prefer to spend more time doing fewer things than you. Could have a mischievous streak (Aries) and be a contrarian (Aqua).
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Posted by Lionandafish

@situsinversus27

Thank you. That sounds very promising. It was set up by a family friend. They spoke highly of him so just need to see if there's magic once we get to know each other a little more. I really lost my spark in my last relationship. Being with a moody, pessimistic crab for the last 2 and a half years really drained my fire so I'm trying to be optimistic and excited about a new adventure. He seems like someone that loves living life and exploring new things so fingers crossed.

I doubt that “your” Pisces is moody or pessimistic. I’m Pisces with exclusively Pisces-Aqua-Aries in my personal planets as well. Always the optimist, excited about new adventures. I have a lot of admiration for Leo women, sometime I wish I was one.

Back to “your” fish.... be prepared for the possibility that he has less social stamina than you, needs more time to recharge than you, prefer to spend more time doing fewer things than you. Could have a mischievous streak (Aries) and be a contrarian (Aqua).
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One thing I forgot to mention to the OP, yes be prepared for the Pisces to be shy in outdoor events.

He definitely wouldn't like the idea of going out on the weekends for date nights or whatever.

Our social battery drains real quick while Leos somehow always are up for anything at anytime..
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@situsinversus27

Thank you. That sounds very promising. It was set up by a family friend. They spoke highly of him so just need to see if there's magic once we get to know each other a little more. I really lost my spark in my last relationship. Being with a moody, pessimistic crab for the last 2 and a half years really drained my fire so I'm trying to be optimistic and excited about a new adventure. He seems like someone that loves living life and exploring new things so fingers crossed.

I doubt that “your” Pisces is moody or pessimistic. I’m Pisces with exclusively Pisces-Aqua-Aries in my personal planets as well. Always the optimist, excited about new adventures. I have a lot of admiration for Leo women, sometime I wish I was one.

Back to “your” fish....be prepared for the possibility that he has less social stamina than you, needs more time to recharge than you, prefer to spend more time doing fewer things than you. Could have a mischievous streak (Aries) and be a contrarian (Aqua).

One thing I forgot to mention to the OP, yes be prepared for the Pisces to be shy in outdoor events.

He definitely wouldn't like the idea of going out on the weekends for date nights or whatever.

Our social battery drains real quick while Leos somehow always are up for anything at anytime..
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Well, I love outdoor events, especially at the weekends, it’s the indoor events with many people I barely know that drain my energy after a few hours. I’m probably among the first to want to leave or shut down mentally. A Leo woman could shine all night long.
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@situsinversus27 and @undine

I think he's more social but I meant camping, beach, hiking, mountains, fishing rather than events but I do love a farmers market. Leos like to party when we're young cubs but most of us become the opposite and introverted once we're past the party stage. That doesn't mean we don't want dates or effort though. I think everyone just wants to be shown they're special to someone.

What makes Pisces feel special?
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Try not to base a potential relationship off of astrology, or even their top 3 compared to yours. Even when taking astrology into consideration there are many other variables. Like aspects and houses. Also things like ones personal genetics, along with things people developed through life due to influences from the world around them play a huge part in their personality and compatibility with others. The sun, moon, and rising will never be 100% accurate on deciding if a relationship will work or not. Its a good thing to look at for personal development, but a terrible thing to look at for relationship compatibility imo.
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Sure... why not?! I find this combination to be wildly underrated across astrological community yet more common than expected. As a matter of fact it just came to my knowledge that a third Leo (him)/ Pisces (her) tied the knot.

The other two have been married for 10 & 15 years respectively. They all seem to be very happy. At least the guys tend to rave about their views which is rather endearing!

Note I have only addressed those who have walked down the isle...

That being said, Soul summer it up the best in his first sentence!
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@saginthesun - that doesn't sound promising lol. I guess i'll find out one way or the other. I have never had a disaster, just relationships that haven't been right for me but they're probably right for someone else.

@pisceanloves - Cancer always wanted me to change and I hated it, so only time I push back is when people try to change me. I don't try to change other people so I don't like it. I appreciate the weird and the quirky. It's what makes people special and different.

@soul I agree. I don't fit the Leo stereotype and am completely different as a person to what I was like in my younger years. Life experiences change and shape people so much. It's just interesting to learn different experiences and perspectives. So far I haven't been blown away but I have only met him once so need to give it a chance. Just realised my best friends husband is a Pisces because I was at his birthday yesterday. We get along awesomely. It's weird because he owns and runs and entertainment venue which seems to contradict what some people have said so far about the social side of Pisces. There's nothing concrete about astrology.

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I don't want to be one of those annoying people who make 50 topics but I have a new question....

Do I have to ask him out on a date?

He picked the date, time and place for the first one. So am I supposed to initiate this one because chivalry and courtship died with the rise of equality? Or do I let him be the man so I can be my feminine Virgo Venus instead of my masculine and intimidating Lion side?

He initiates about 90% of the texts and he said he isn't shy so I'm assuming he has the balls to take the lead.... what's the go here?
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Posted by ImperfectStorm

With all the fire in his chart (Aries moon and Venus) I think the two of you would be a good match. Did your cancer ex have any fire in his chart?


No. He was mostly earth. Virgo moon and Taurus for his Venus and Mars. I don't think our astrology was compatible.

He called me yesterday out of no where and gave me an an end of year proposal if I don't get married this year 😂