Can Libra/Pisces have any future?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by libra_man on Thursday, August 23, 2007 and has 22 replies.
I have just met this beautiful Pisces girl in the party yesterday and I almost instantly felt in love with her on first sight.
I immediately made our common friend to introduce us and my impression of her got even better. I didn't push it so we just talked for hours and had a great time together and just ignored anybody else in the party. I could see that she even might have some positive amorous feelings toward me as well.
When the party was over a just walked her home and we arranged to go to dinner together on Fr night where I invited her.
I see an incredible nobleness in the way she behaves and talk. She s not dutch like me but Belgium but from the dutch speaking part of Belgium what is even better.
I know that Pisces/Libra combination is not the best one and I usually end up with Leo, Aqua, Gemini or Aries but as far as I remember I have never felt for Pisces. So I would be really grateful for any opinions. Did you guys dated some Libras? And also in longterm? How did it go? Also, what does Pisces girls like? Because I really want to make this girl happy as much as I can. Goood I miss her already..
I immediately made our common friend to introduce us and my impression of her got even better. I didn't push it so we just talked for hours and had a great time together and just ignored anybody else in the party. I could see that she even might have some positive amorous feelings toward me as well.
When the party was over a just walked her home and we arranged to go to dinner together on Fr night where I invited her.
I see an incredible nobleness in the way she behaves and talk. She s not dutch like me but Belgium but from the dutch speaking part of Belgium what is even better.
I know that Pisces/Libra combination is not the best one and I usually end up with Leo, Aqua, Gemini or Aries but as far as I remember I have never felt for Pisces. So I would be really grateful for any opinions. Did you guys dated some Libras? And also in longterm? How did it go? Also, what does Pisces girls like? Because I really want to make this girl happy as much as I can. Goood I miss her already..
This reminds me of the book, men are from mars and women are from venus .. a woman will verbally ponder aloud to her man ..
"Why did this happen"
"why would she do that"
The man automatically "thinks" she is looking for answers. My husband does it all the time and it drives me nuts .... I'm NOT looking to be fixed, or rescued .. I know what to do, I can make my own decisions, this is a woman needing to talk ABOUT the problem, not coming to the man to be her 'problem solver'.
And this is something that I found endearing about my Libra man I lived with for 3 years .. he understood that. He comprehended that a female just needs a sounding board because she will verbally go through the thinking process of what she needs to determine .. and he would eagerly encourage different angles of thinking without trying to "fix" a problem.
libra_man .. the best thing I can tell you, going off of my own experience, of course. Females, especially Pisceans, will ask questions about the universe, family, you, herself, the world, everything and anything ... and she may even look directionless because of the dreamy and spacy look in her eyes .. but, she's not .. she's thinking out loud. If you attempt to direct her, thinking she needs rescuing .. she'll back off and become offended. She wants you to discuss it WITH her, not tell her what to do ..
We aren't indecisive, like the books say we are .. we simply "appear" that way because we are asking questions .. but, these questions aren't because we don't know what to do, they are because we want to consider every possibility we can think of before making the best choice.
The way to her heart is to be involved in discussions with her, give her your opinion, your view ... but, don't think just because she asks you, "What would you do in this situation" .. don't misinterpret that to mean that she doesn't know for herself ... I loved that about my Libra man, and I'm thinking she would love that quality about you also.
As much as I absolutely adored my Libra man .. there were issues that caused us to part. However, my memories of him are very fond.
"Why did this happen"
"why would she do that"
The man automatically "thinks" she is looking for answers. My husband does it all the time and it drives me nuts .... I'm NOT looking to be fixed, or rescued .. I know what to do, I can make my own decisions, this is a woman needing to talk ABOUT the problem, not coming to the man to be her 'problem solver'.
And this is something that I found endearing about my Libra man I lived with for 3 years .. he understood that. He comprehended that a female just needs a sounding board because she will verbally go through the thinking process of what she needs to determine .. and he would eagerly encourage different angles of thinking without trying to "fix" a problem.
libra_man .. the best thing I can tell you, going off of my own experience, of course. Females, especially Pisceans, will ask questions about the universe, family, you, herself, the world, everything and anything ... and she may even look directionless because of the dreamy and spacy look in her eyes .. but, she's not .. she's thinking out loud. If you attempt to direct her, thinking she needs rescuing .. she'll back off and become offended. She wants you to discuss it WITH her, not tell her what to do ..
We aren't indecisive, like the books say we are .. we simply "appear" that way because we are asking questions .. but, these questions aren't because we don't know what to do, they are because we want to consider every possibility we can think of before making the best choice.
The way to her heart is to be involved in discussions with her, give her your opinion, your view ... but, don't think just because she asks you, "What would you do in this situation" .. don't misinterpret that to mean that she doesn't know for herself ... I loved that about my Libra man, and I'm thinking she would love that quality about you also.
As much as I absolutely adored my Libra man .. there were issues that caused us to part. However, my memories of him are very fond.
don't even think about it...
My pisces guy friend just got dumped by his libra gf of 2 years for another guy she met over the summer. It broke his heart.
Its a good match for the short term...the air cant be held....
Thanks for comments its been really helpful. To summarize it Pisces girls like somebody who is consistent, not dominant with fair 50 - 50, giving her (or each other) reasonable (does this has anything to do with jealousy??) freedom and mainly not trying to direct her (rescuing) but rather just discussing things independently.
"she may even look directionless because of the dreamy and spacy look in her eyes"
- yes I know right what you are talking about, that look is gorgeous although I didnt immediately connect it with being directionless.
I am totally OK with most of it, especially that 50-50 thing and freedom but:
"She wants you to discuss it WITH her, not tell her what to do"
I think for libra this is pretty much the same thing, if we discuss something we immediately come up with conclusions which turns out to be recommendations and those might therefore for Pisces (based on what you're saying) be understood as trying to direct someone although its just a discussion for us. I noticed it since I tend to have answer to every question (it is my job though) and it made her a bit back up sometimes. Thank you for this it is really helpful although I dont think I can change it but I can definetely try to discuss it hope shell understand my point.
Is there any particular way how Pisces like to spend their free time? Do you like to stay home and relax or better go out more? Are you active people or more lazy? I am a way too social person and if I have some free time I dont miss any chance to go to party, cinema, theater, concert, exposition, good dinner, some sport just anywhere where is a lot of people. If I stay home its only when I really do need to recharge my batteries. Is that similar for Pisces?
"she may even look directionless because of the dreamy and spacy look in her eyes"
- yes I know right what you are talking about, that look is gorgeous although I didnt immediately connect it with being directionless.
I am totally OK with most of it, especially that 50-50 thing and freedom but:
"She wants you to discuss it WITH her, not tell her what to do"
I think for libra this is pretty much the same thing, if we discuss something we immediately come up with conclusions which turns out to be recommendations and those might therefore for Pisces (based on what you're saying) be understood as trying to direct someone although its just a discussion for us. I noticed it since I tend to have answer to every question (it is my job though) and it made her a bit back up sometimes. Thank you for this it is really helpful although I dont think I can change it but I can definetely try to discuss it hope shell understand my point.
Is there any particular way how Pisces like to spend their free time? Do you like to stay home and relax or better go out more? Are you active people or more lazy? I am a way too social person and if I have some free time I dont miss any chance to go to party, cinema, theater, concert, exposition, good dinner, some sport just anywhere where is a lot of people. If I stay home its only when I really do need to recharge my batteries. Is that similar for Pisces?
First, the jealousy thing you asked about ... Pisces people (most), don't do jealously at all. In fact, we are often repelled by jealous partners.
Another thing .. we require a lot of space, for alone time. So, it's not unusual to find us in a quiet place for hours on end all by ourselves. Because we process most things inside an illusion, we require this time. What I mean by that .. most people "think" about their directions, their goals, their choices by rational thought. Whereas Pisces "feel" their way through life. So, if a situation comes up in which we have to figure out .. we will envision the different ways in which it could play out, so we can experience what it would "feel" like. You might notice, when you two are talking about something, she'll stop for several seconds, get that look in her eyes as though she has just drifted "off" .. and she has. She is imagining what it would "feel" like.
We're feelers .. our recollection doesn't necessary come from a recall of logical events that took place, rather, how it felt.
As for going places .. I guess everyone is different, but, most Pisces I know enjoy spur of the moment things, rather than planned events. Because we feel everything .. if something comes up to do that sparks passion or if she feels a thrill surge .. that's what she would want to do. One area that you can't go wrong is the arts.
We love any kind of art .. gallery's, a play, concerts, etc.
Even just taking a stroll down a city street to watch a painter, or going to a craft show .. we love when people tap into the creative side of themselves .. probably because we know that the artist "felt" the passion.
Another thing .. we require a lot of space, for alone time. So, it's not unusual to find us in a quiet place for hours on end all by ourselves. Because we process most things inside an illusion, we require this time. What I mean by that .. most people "think" about their directions, their goals, their choices by rational thought. Whereas Pisces "feel" their way through life. So, if a situation comes up in which we have to figure out .. we will envision the different ways in which it could play out, so we can experience what it would "feel" like. You might notice, when you two are talking about something, she'll stop for several seconds, get that look in her eyes as though she has just drifted "off" .. and she has. She is imagining what it would "feel" like.
We're feelers .. our recollection doesn't necessary come from a recall of logical events that took place, rather, how it felt.
As for going places .. I guess everyone is different, but, most Pisces I know enjoy spur of the moment things, rather than planned events. Because we feel everything .. if something comes up to do that sparks passion or if she feels a thrill surge .. that's what she would want to do. One area that you can't go wrong is the arts.
We love any kind of art .. gallery's, a play, concerts, etc.
Even just taking a stroll down a city street to watch a painter, or going to a craft show .. we love when people tap into the creative side of themselves .. probably because we know that the artist "felt" the passion.
Maybe this will help ...
When I'm just looking to discuss something, so I can get other angles in which to ponder, I will ask, "How would you feel", "What would you do", "what do you think"
Whereas, when I need assistance in making a decision, I will flat out ask, "What should I do"
When I'm just looking to discuss something, so I can get other angles in which to ponder, I will ask, "How would you feel", "What would you do", "what do you think"
Whereas, when I need assistance in making a decision, I will flat out ask, "What should I do"
i was so tore up over a libra lady for the longest time...it seemed like it was "all or none" with her...one day we are building everything and the very next day we were tearing it all down again...
"You might notice, when you two are talking about something, she'll stop for several seconds, get that look in her eyes as though she has just drifted "off" .. and she has. She is imagining what it would "feel" like."
Yes I noticed it several times and I love those moments on her but I thought she were sort of logically analyzing what I had just said because that what we Libras do. But your explanation is much better and I like it.
I cant stop thinking about her. As far as I got a chance to get to know her she seems perfect, shes smart, gorgeous, has best uni education as I do, elegant, etc etc I better wont lovingly chatter here as I might look stupid then... tomorrow we are having dinner together, I ll bring up some of my A games and with a bit of luck we ll be couple soon! Thank you for help once again
Yes I noticed it several times and I love those moments on her but I thought she were sort of logically analyzing what I had just said because that what we Libras do. But your explanation is much better and I like it.
I cant stop thinking about her. As far as I got a chance to get to know her she seems perfect, shes smart, gorgeous, has best uni education as I do, elegant, etc etc I better wont lovingly chatter here as I might look stupid then... tomorrow we are having dinner together, I ll bring up some of my A games and with a bit of luck we ll be couple soon! Thank you for help once again
You're welcome and have a great time at dinner 
Hopefully, soon, you'll have a lovely lady on your arm.
Hopefully, soon, you'll have a lovely lady on your arm.
hey, never say never; i'd say go with your gut first. They have (more) in common then you'd think. 'Astrologically it would help if you had some inner planets in water, and she had some in air; mercury in aqua for instance would be great for communication, which many pisceans already have.. *the only real basic hurdle would be that pisceans are much more private and sensitive by nature, and need their down-times every now and then. Libra would have to respect this.. =)
Libras NEED downtime also...they have a SERIOUS thing for sleep.
We ve been dating since our first dinner last Friday almost every day. I do like her so much.
But there is a small issue for me. I tend to have ambiguous even sarcastic humor but which is in fact totally unguilty, majority of people understands it that way. Sometimes it seems to me I am hurting her with some banal things-jokes what I say what is incredible for me. I heard pisces tend to be oversensitive sometimes but I had no closer experience of that. Is that really a typical pisces thing? Is that something to worry about?
But there is a small issue for me. I tend to have ambiguous even sarcastic humor but which is in fact totally unguilty, majority of people understands it that way. Sometimes it seems to me I am hurting her with some banal things-jokes what I say what is incredible for me. I heard pisces tend to be oversensitive sometimes but I had no closer experience of that. Is that really a typical pisces thing? Is that something to worry about?
^^ precisely.
As an aqua I can understand your libra humor and have the same kind...but its usually lost on my pisces friends. They get sad as if its a personal attack.
You will have to choose your words better. Most of the time you'll have to explain the joke is just that...a joke, after you've let it out.
As an aqua I can understand your libra humor and have the same kind...but its usually lost on my pisces friends. They get sad as if its a personal attack.
You will have to choose your words better. Most of the time you'll have to explain the joke is just that...a joke, after you've let it out.
It would be nice if you could give us an example.. =) Just tell her not to take anything you say personally. Short of that, maybe tone it down, or soften your humour to adjust to her temperment. I get sarcastic humour myself, but i also have good intuition if jokes go beyond what they are intended. Maybe use a lighter touch, or find out what kind of humour she does enjoy.
oh man, this is so similar to my ex. this hits home.
"""You might notice, when you two are talking about something, she'll stop for several seconds, get that look in her eyes as though she has just drifted "off" .. and she has. She is imagining what it would "feel" like."
Yes I noticed it several times and I love those moments on her but I thought she were sort of logically analyzing what I had just said because that what we Libras do. But your explanation is much better and I like it.
I cant stop thinking about her. As far as I got a chance to get to know her she seems perfect, shes smart, gorgeous, has best uni education as I do, elegant,"""
my ex is stuck in this self loathing, sleep all day depression, and I don't want to have to smack her upside the head with ASTROLOGY "Pisces hate the obvious being shown to them" But it takes too much of me to try to help or "fix" what Pisces do to themselves. I can't try to fix that, or else I'll blow some other fuse on the other part of my brain.
but she gets all my dirty jokes. and even offends me sometimes with hers (which mentally drives me wild. a girl that can make me laugh is a keeper.) but I can't begin to list how badly she thinks of herself. it's almost inspiring how melancholy she can be.... =\
"""You might notice, when you two are talking about something, she'll stop for several seconds, get that look in her eyes as though she has just drifted "off" .. and she has. She is imagining what it would "feel" like."
Yes I noticed it several times and I love those moments on her but I thought she were sort of logically analyzing what I had just said because that what we Libras do. But your explanation is much better and I like it.
I cant stop thinking about her. As far as I got a chance to get to know her she seems perfect, shes smart, gorgeous, has best uni education as I do, elegant,"""
my ex is stuck in this self loathing, sleep all day depression, and I don't want to have to smack her upside the head with ASTROLOGY "Pisces hate the obvious being shown to them" But it takes too much of me to try to help or "fix" what Pisces do to themselves. I can't try to fix that, or else I'll blow some other fuse on the other part of my brain.
but she gets all my dirty jokes. and even offends me sometimes with hers (which mentally drives me wild. a girl that can make me laugh is a keeper.) but I can't begin to list how badly she thinks of herself. it's almost inspiring how melancholy she can be.... =\
I see this everyday at my job - both are men but one is a very experianced pisces exec and the other is his boss (store manager) whom is a libra and on the other hand - my supervisor is a libra and we get along great but the frustration these three levels of execs is interesting because my boss is favored more by the store manager then his assistant - but the pisces is not one to be provoked and he'll just straight up tell anyone (even his boss) exactly how he feels regardless of their rank or experiance. My old supervisor (pisces) didn't see eye to eye with the libra store manager and ended up losing his cool - and then losing his job not cause he blew up but cause he kept taking these shortcuts which was costing the company a lot of profit. I can't say these two signs would go well together - I mean when my pisces was working with me and my libra supervisor became an exec - he thought I was too soft on her and was always questioning her overall productivity. I mean he thinks highly of me (I get along with libras wonderfully - I mean my rising sign is libra after all so that part of my personality comes out from time to time as well) I mean libras are wonderful charmers - what woman wouldn't like that? Can't go wrong with good confidence right? But again - it all depends on the other aspects of their astral birth chart as well - both moon and rising signs can play a factor in overall compatibility. I think if anything though - you two will end up as great friends even if things didn't work out.
my ex is stuck in this self loathing, sleep all day depression, and I don't want to have to smack her upside the head with ASTROLOGY "Pisces hate the obvious being shown to them" But it takes too much of me to try to help or "fix" what Pisces do to themselves. I can't try to fix that, or else I'll blow some other fuse on the other part of my brain.
but she gets all my dirty jokes. and even offends me sometimes with hers (which mentally drives me wild. a girl that can make me laugh is a keeper.) but I can't begin to list how badly she thinks of herself. it's almost inspiring how melancholy she can be.... =\
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A smack upside the head is something we often do to ourselves
I don't know if I would say we think badly of ourselves .. in fact, we probably have an inflated sense of pride, in the aspect that it's all over on the other side. It's like .. "over there" .. we're perfect and so is our perfect partner .. bringing it over "here", doesn't quite work out and we're left feeling inferiour.
However, this feeling inferiour isn't in relation to other people and whether we can measure up to them .. it's to ourselves, we can envision the wonder, the greatness, the success .. and then over here, we fall short of our potential and struggle to put them in place in the real world.
For this reason (mainly, though there's many) .. I think that Pisces and Capricorns go really good together. Cappy's can take our visions and make them real .. they comprehend that we have the ability and the insight to see this as success, but just can't find a practical way in this "side" to make it happen .. Taurus and Virgos just think we're stuck in la-la land, indecisive, and hopelessly dreaming for no good reason ... whereas, our CapEarthPeople realize that the "goal" is actually present in our dreams and we just don't know how to bring it to reality for success .. they do .. bless us all for having Capricorns in our life.
Ooopppps .. this was about Libras .. sorry
but she gets all my dirty jokes. and even offends me sometimes with hers (which mentally drives me wild. a girl that can make me laugh is a keeper.) but I can't begin to list how badly she thinks of herself. it's almost inspiring how melancholy she can be.... =\
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A smack upside the head is something we often do to ourselves
I don't know if I would say we think badly of ourselves .. in fact, we probably have an inflated sense of pride, in the aspect that it's all over on the other side. It's like .. "over there" .. we're perfect and so is our perfect partner .. bringing it over "here", doesn't quite work out and we're left feeling inferiour.
However, this feeling inferiour isn't in relation to other people and whether we can measure up to them .. it's to ourselves, we can envision the wonder, the greatness, the success .. and then over here, we fall short of our potential and struggle to put them in place in the real world.
For this reason (mainly, though there's many) .. I think that Pisces and Capricorns go really good together. Cappy's can take our visions and make them real .. they comprehend that we have the ability and the insight to see this as success, but just can't find a practical way in this "side" to make it happen .. Taurus and Virgos just think we're stuck in la-la land, indecisive, and hopelessly dreaming for no good reason ... whereas, our CapEarthPeople realize that the "goal" is actually present in our dreams and we just don't know how to bring it to reality for success .. they do .. bless us all for having Capricorns in our life.
Ooopppps .. this was about Libras .. sorry
yeah when I brought up astrology she got very angry and said "there's this little thing called REALITY you know."
I tried to make her see that she lives in two worlds too, the fantasy and the real.. but she keeps saying stuff like "may as well read the back of a CEREAL box!" when I start talking about our signs.
and I can't tell if she honestly believes that or if she just thinks I'm being pedantic and showing her the truth (two things that Pisces HATE) and just ignoring that fact by getting angry and deflecting.
I don't know if I will ever understand Pisces, and it sucks because they are inspiring people.. so wild with the personality you are! I just don't understand.
I tried to make her see that she lives in two worlds too, the fantasy and the real.. but she keeps saying stuff like "may as well read the back of a CEREAL box!" when I start talking about our signs.
and I can't tell if she honestly believes that or if she just thinks I'm being pedantic and showing her the truth (two things that Pisces HATE) and just ignoring that fact by getting angry and deflecting.
I don't know if I will ever understand Pisces, and it sucks because they are inspiring people.. so wild with the personality you are! I just don't understand.
We don't hate hearing the truth, libraleebray .. however, our truth and everybody else's isn't quite the same.
Most Pisces I know, have no clue that they are dual in their realities until they reach much older. In fact, many in here think I'm nuts when I speak of it because it hasn't registered yet that when we slip off to dream .. that this isn't normal in regards to how other people view normal.
So, with your Pisces friend .. because she hasn't come to the awareness yet that other people don't do it, she's not going to see it as being present.
It's sort of like when you're drunk .. because you are drunk, you have no awareness that everybody around you is sober and so you think everybody is intoxicated. Same thing with Pisces .. we think that everybody exists within our realities, and so it appears to us that we are singular in existence because we don't see you guys doing it.
There should be a ceremony of Fishes, so we can all watch each other and see how the others slip off into their own little worlds quite often .. maybe then we would come to the realization of what others see when they try to relate to us.
Most Pisces I know, have no clue that they are dual in their realities until they reach much older. In fact, many in here think I'm nuts when I speak of it because it hasn't registered yet that when we slip off to dream .. that this isn't normal in regards to how other people view normal.
So, with your Pisces friend .. because she hasn't come to the awareness yet that other people don't do it, she's not going to see it as being present.
It's sort of like when you're drunk .. because you are drunk, you have no awareness that everybody around you is sober and so you think everybody is intoxicated. Same thing with Pisces .. we think that everybody exists within our realities, and so it appears to us that we are singular in existence because we don't see you guys doing it.
There should be a ceremony of Fishes, so we can all watch each other and see how the others slip off into their own little worlds quite often .. maybe then we would come to the realization of what others see when they try to relate to us.
wow you just blew my mind.
there is a problem with a Scorpio guy she sees occasionally (If you know, theres a fantasy aspect to that pairing.) Pisces and Scorps
when she told me about him prior to us dating it was all "He knows me better than myself" "It's like I can't think or breathe etc etc.." "we don't need to talk it just FEELS right"
and now after we've broken up. and I'm jealous (i know they don't like that either
) because they are 'hanging out' and the such.
"You are real. and he is a not real.. a Fantasy."
her exact words.
and she wont admit she's a Pisces.
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there is a problem with a Scorpio guy she sees occasionally (If you know, theres a fantasy aspect to that pairing.) Pisces and Scorps
when she told me about him prior to us dating it was all "He knows me better than myself" "It's like I can't think or breathe etc etc.." "we don't need to talk it just FEELS right"
and now after we've broken up. and I'm jealous (i know they don't like that either
) because they are 'hanging out' and the such."You are real. and he is a not real.. a Fantasy."
her exact words.
and she wont admit she's a Pisces.
=\
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