Can you believe this pisces of shit?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by sexyalluring on Friday, December 11, 2009 and has 66 replies.
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There isn't much room to describe everything that I went through with this caca. After a year and half of dating him, He cheated on me, then he tells me he has a drug problem because of his erratic moodswings i brought up his behavior, he was withdrawing. I asked; how come you never told me about your problem, and he said becuase you wouldn't understand. (i'm giving up the last update about my experience with this person,I am rumblimg about few incidents only and not even half)Well the last straw was when, he decided he needed space because since his drug withdrawal for a month he'd realized that he need his space at home when at first he would beg for me to be always be home with him and even asked for me to move in. I never moved in completely but did maintain clothes there. He would always travel because he needed to escape sometimes, I put up with a lot of his tendencies/life style /habits only because I am an aquarius and I respect space myself. Since I would clean the house, specially the bedroom carpet I from time to time would find strands of long hairs that were clearly not mine. I would always ask but he never knew anything about it. (One day i will write a timeline of events that I experienced with this person). So last week i was not at his house giving him his space, last night i stopped by to pick up some things I needed and I sweeped the carpet to find evidence of hairs from another female. Having my space myself, i realized i do not need to be with him because he needs tremendeous psychology help. So I asked if he had any females over, and of course he denied. I asked again and told him i knew it all and i could tell that he was lying and to please tell me, he kept saying there was nothing to admit because he had not done anything. So I told him that it will really help him to open to me while he has the chance, finally he said he picked up a 18 year old at the mall to treetrunk. WOW!!! I knew it, well I said help me take my stuff to my car and I gave him his key, he said it was nothing and why was I upset? He treetrunk a 18year old girl and never called her back and that he loves and need me, etc. Can you believe the audacity? I said I really wanted to help and understand you all this time and make you feel loved and cared because you have no one in his life, you could've been homest with me and we would have been really good friends. I am the one person that a person like him really needs in his life. Please comment or questions
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No I don't need a hug, thanks! I've reading this thread for a while and always wanted to say my two cent but since I am done with this guy, I am using this thread solely to vent. And yes, i know you do not know me as a person but if you did you would be greatful to have me in your life as a friend or whatever else. He tells me that all the time and i know for a fact that he has never anyone like me and maybe never will, but I do hope that when he does come across a good woman like myself that this serves as a lesson and that he treats her right. I am new to this who are you and why are talking with sarcasm?
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yea, whatever.......
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Thank you! I like your user name... :-)
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OMG, you are absolutely right! You know that is his sickness and he mentioned that on our last days. While commenting about Tiger, he mentioned that every married man cheats and that's the way life is and he said good luck finding a man that won't cheat on you. How pathetic huh? well, my resolution was to not be involved if that's the promise he gave me....carry on lol
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Thank you, you've put a smile on my face. I am a very reserved person and usually deal with problems internally. It's good to have great feedback from you! :-)
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Pisces men will walk all over you if you let them.the key is to make them your bitch right from the beginning,that way they know their role.


yeah, just ask ian! er, whatever his name is now... u know... the sarcastic one.
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This is a joke, right?

By good woman, as I read your description of events in your vent = you doing chores for him, you ignoring clear signs of his infidelity so he can have a person who is supporting of him no matter what, by a good woman you mean one who would be willing to sleep with him eventhough she has been finding evidence of other women in his bed.

That doesn't make you a good woman .. that makes you an easy target to fuck over by means of ignorance.


If you want to date a Pisces, the first thing you have to realize is that the moment we know that you know, and you choose to close a blind eye .. is the moment our perspective of you changes from trusting you to distrusting you.
If you cannot tell us the truth about how you feel, then fuck you, you don't deserve the truth from us ... that's the way we work. People don't get this about Pisceans because it makes us the complete opposite of everybody else.
Other people would rather you lie to them, cover up anything you find wrong and just go with the false belief that loyalty, faithfulness and trust and support = never saying or doing anything that might jeapordize the person feeling any negative energy ... even when they clearly are in the wrong. This will indeed drive the Fish so crazy that they will develop a new mission .. this one to involve fucking you over since you've just fucked them over by
.... IGORING ......


What you should have done?
The moment you found evidence that he was cheating, you should have had some fucking dignity, and swam ... IMMEDIATELY
For the fact that you ignored this, so you could continue being his servant and cleaning his house for him .. you lost all respect he ever had for you.
Even now, with the way you were talking, the way you worded your thoughts .. I'd be willing to wager that given the chance, you run to him if he gave you any sign .. afterall, what you are priding yourself on is that you are good for him, and he needs you.


:::::: shakes head :::::::

People are fucking clueless, because they let their egos rule them. One day, hopefully in 2012 everybody will wake the fuck up and realize that their fucking ignorant, and it's their ego that encourages it.
Seriously, you'd run back to him in a second because he needs a person like you .......... I know you would, because you couldn't fucking wait to get over this place so you could sweep his carpets again.

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Desperation is an ugly muther-fuker ... nobody is in need of a person being this small.
Get over yourself seriously .. if you have any pride at all ...... because nobody needs a woman who will wipe their ass for them.
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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Pisces men will walk all over you if you let them.the key is to make them your bitch right from the beginning,that way they know their role.


They like it when you make them your bitch too......sickos
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Lol.................................................................
I hate your stupid melodramatic punctuation... .... ........

& whatever. *laughs more than a little*
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Posted by brianafay
Lol.................................................................
I hate your stupid melodramatic punctuation... .... ........

& whatever. *laughs more than a little*


ooo hoo hoo! ouch!
aw, that sucks. i'm a fan of the dot dot dots.
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Posted by ?_uvis
funny thing is, id make you my bitch with just a smile...


true that!
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Thanks P!!
I really appreciate your breakdown of how I am at fault. My excuse would be that this guy lied to me about everything, he lied to me about being in a pill drug for a year. All of a sudden I see a change in him and he happens to finally confess that he has been in drugs the entire time but that because he he's been on it for ten years since 16, that he has good tolerance. The first instinct that I got was to help since he would beg and plead so that I wouldn't leave him. I mean what do you do with that? I know, I know silly of me to think that I could help, but really all I wanted to do was to be there for him. In this area he only has his father that lets just say kicks him out if he'd even attempt to stop by his house, in another state he has his mother and sister and a niece which by unfortunate circumstances are more of a burden than help. Now again, what do you do with that? I mean being that I pride myself as a good woman, is because I really am or I try my best to be. I wasn't with him for what he could do for me because he could not do anything. I was in this relationship genuinely, because I really cared for him.
I realized that his ego got the best of him. He is a man, yes, men cheat right, especially when they feel so confident that they a have a woman who is willing to be there for them no matter what. He really used that to advantage, the fact that he knew i had a good heart and cared for him tremendously.
Well, I wonder who really feels ingnorant now!? I was not ignorant at all, I just chose to blind my eye because I saw that underneath all his troubles he has a tortured soul. But too bad now. Thanks P because you broke it down for me, you made me open my closed eye and really see that his shortcomings are his to bear with and not mine. He can beg all he wants now, it is his trun to cry and I don't care anymore. I will kee him begging me to come back even as just a friend, I am not going to give him that satisfaction, even though honestly I don't know if it's just another one of tricks to keep me there.
He decided to use all his tricks to keep me there, the last thing I heard him say to justify his cheating was that he is a sex addict. That's interesting, but what can I do about that, right? Wow, delusional is the word. Poor soul, at least i can get myself out of a bad situation as for him I think he means to but he has no will power to do it. He wants me bad, and that's just sad that he didn't knw what he had.
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Posted by ?_uvis
funny thing is, id make you my bitch with just a smile...


And then I'd smack that smile right off your face.
And you'd like it. Big Grin
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See, you'd like it.
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I ignored the rest of your post.
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Nope. I knew you'd like it.
Just as much as you'll like being my bitch!
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Sorry, I'm not the domesticated type.
But, I'll make up for it elsewhere.
There's some Ramen Noodles in the pantry & some Tide in the laundry room.
Oh.... and throw my underwear in with your socks would you? Thanks. Muah!
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Of course you didnt wash my panties..... you like they way the smell, perv.
Quit taking them with you when you go places would you? I'm tired of explaining why I'm not wearing any underwear.
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Your Dad.
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I think your Mom told me the same thing last night.
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You're right... there was no dice involved. No gambling necessary.... she's a sure thing.

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Im working.... your Dad is giving me money later.
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Big Grin
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Zuvis, I think you are a funny one. I think you are the one so full of yourself. You and P come here on the defense mode automatically. It is safe to say you both have skeletons in your closet and are clearly in denial that there are a lot of people complaining more about pisces rather than any other sign. I mean I don't blame you, you world is water and you are a fish swimming in current that the rest of us have no clue about. I am not asking to make efforts to work with us, but if you decide to to beg and plea for a person to stay with you the least that you can do is make efforts, but instead decide to become selfish with our kindness and walk all over it, maybe because intenally you carry on this theory that everyone is against so if yo get an opportunity to see someone is more vulnerable than you are you want to take your revenge, as if you so not know any better.
I know there are two kinds of pisces the down/upstreamer don't know you personally, and i cannot say that what i experienced is a general pisces problem. I have a very good friend of mine who ironically happens to be a pisces male. He does not live in the area, but we went to high school together never spoke or hung out but somehow through the grapeline connected and kept in touch for over 4 years now and we talk for hours and seem to agree on a lot. He is getting his masters, a really admirable guy with looks, brains, and sensitivity. then I have it, my pisces and his poisoned way of life. You are right all his actions could not have been because he is a pisces, but drugs clearly triggered him to be delusional. I think that being a pisces implies being passive, he let his disease get the best of him, unless you grow balls to face reality, pisces especially men will not make it in a life outside of the sea. It is those who are living under the currents that clearly have a choice to make. Call us ignorants, yes we are because we do not see life the way you see it. You swim around looking out through a watery vision, innocently lost. I feel bad for you all pisces that have not grown enough balls to get out of sea level. I just really wonder who really are the ignorant ones. I guess there is a no win situation when it comes to dealing with you guys unless you decide to meet us half way. clean your acts up if you do not want to end alone, and yet you pretend that being alone it does not phase you, but secretly you all cry your eyes out because no one understands you and you feel abandoned..
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Don't hate.
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Posted by ?_uvis
Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Im working.... your Dad is giving me money later.



heh.. same thing he told my mom 27 years ago...
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So are you saying I shouldnt believe him?
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by ?_uvis
funny thing is, id make you my bitch with just a smile...


And then I'd smack that smile right off your face.
And you'd like it. Big Grin

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LOL
♥♥♥
I just loveeee youuuu LL
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Posted by brianafay
Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Posted by ?_uvis
funny thing is, id make you my bitch with just a smile...


And then I'd smack that smile right off your face.
And you'd like it. Big Grin



LOL
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I just loveeee youuuu LL
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Big Grin
I love you too!!! MUAH!
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Well, like I said if you have figured yourself out and decided to live positively then good for you Zuvis, but when you talk with sarcasm and denfesiveness you are giving signs that you are weak. If you were to give constructive criticism instead of attacking as to who started this thread it would be more believable that you are a strong person that has better to do than to embattle with females as to who the cookiemonsters is, etc. lol
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By swimming, you mean playing mind games? So I get it, that's what swimming is all about huh, fishy?! wow...how old are you? You obviously have pisces ways to go about things. Always on the defense mode that you came in to test the waters to get me too bite, then you aplogize, then you back down. initially you started defensively and now that i've pulled your cards you come differently.
"dont be so worried about what i do on here... k?" ==== Sounds defensive to me
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That's the point, never needed anything from him. All i wanted was to help and he would plea because he himself would say he never met someone like me, and how smart and encouraging i am, etc. Don't know if it all was bullbutter coming from him or if he actually believed that to be a fact, in the end since he obviously did not recognize of my generosity, then now I am moving on while he is so slow to read between the lines that he has to go back and read and think then read again and think some more while throwing butter at me, and finally maybe realizes what a dumba55 he is. He needs me because i never meant harm. Never told anyone what I went through with him, because not everyone would've taken it so sympathetically as i did. I knew he had a disease and tried to be there, but come on, as P said best i was ignorant. So hey let me open up both eyes and see things in a different light, and now this is what it is. I'm not going back to that, I can probably be a friend later on but not now.
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Honey, if you are in my thread and throwing butter at me to get me to bite, isn't that what you wanted? Here, i bit you now you are defensive again? You do not know what this thread is about? Go back and read, and read, think and keep thinking because you have not figured it out. You are right there is no need to respond to you if you are not on a level to discuss this entire post.
Also, again if you are in a thread and you put any type of comment especially a sarcastic one you are the one engaging for a conversation. What is the whole point in coming to a thread anyway? Are you clueless or are you high? wow!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thank you Zuvis, now you are talking to help me get an idea of why he is the way he is and really believing that hiw problems were drug related. Especially coming from you, I know you said you kicked your drug problem a long time ago, but if you say he meant it but his addiction has a hold of him i would believe you. After all he did is really hard to actually believe the good things he would tell me, and that is the same reason why I stayed because i could sense he was battling his addiction. I mean I try to be understanding, that even my pisces male friend tells me that I cannot be a Mother Teresa that i have to live for me.
it's sad how some people get so selfish and take a good person for granted. Hey but I cannot change them and their perspective, all I can do is change the dinamic in my actions. i'm out now, but i wonder how would that affect him, would it drive him to start his habit again, he is just getting started with his withrawal for two months and at the same time it sucks because i'm cold.
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Oxy
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no, not in rehab and idk if he started again. I haven't talked to him. And yes, hopefully he doesn't start last I told him that I wish he would change and he said "I will". Hopefully!
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he snort and eats, he did that for 10 years.
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yea he says the same thing, along with he's tried other drugs and now just greens and xanax.
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he's prescribed to xanax, he gets anxiety attacks, who knows... and he just smokes trees. i did not know any of this until time passed. I saw that he would smoke, but to me that's not a big deal.
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wow, you know i care about that, but what pushed me away is his cheating. I mean he's not been on it for two months he says but if its not one thing is the other, now he is a sex addict. I'm sorry but my friend is right, I am not Mother Teresa and even if I care i'm not putting myself under those circumstances. i never used drugs and so i don't understand it, but who am i to be there for someone if I do not where they are coming from and istead of working to better himself he finds another excuse as to why he fails. I mean i believe he got so used to the idea that i have a caring heart, I may be kind but not weak all to take all his bullbutter, if I did before was because he chose to keep a big secret and did not really reveal the true person that he is. He said that he knew I was too squared and a girl like me would fall for him, either way i could've been there for him as a friend. He has a lot of girls that like him, but he doesn't like them for relationship only for fun time, but with me he tried so hard to get me to be his girlfriend. I do not know why he tried so hard only to deceit me in the end. weird...i don't know i'm just venting...
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**he said a girl like me would not fall for him.
He really played me, huh? lol
oh well life goes on..............
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You see i'm not expert on these behaviors, but i could sense that he was trying to find excuses to his shortcomings. He is most likely trying to find his way back to be the person that he trully is underneath all his troubles. and doesn't have a strong sense of self and so the easy way out is to say that he is an addict of anything just so that he can believe it in his mind and give up on really structuring a strong character.
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Thank you! That's my only choice now, I've tried but i couldn't do anything to help him. It's on him now and yes I hope he can beat his addiction(s).
Thank you all for your punches, it has served to my conclusion. :-)
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Liar
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where shall I begin?


1. You were with him for a year and a half, you say ... a person on oxy loses their motor functions. Is this why you were sweeping his carpets for him? Because his head was completely submerged into the Oxy fog?
... but, you said you had no clue about his addiction.
What a crook of shit. A person on Oxy cannot even stand up without stumbling, can't even talk without slurring their words.

Before you go spouting bullshit from your mouth, at least let a thought pass through your brain, even if your brain is so empty that alls it can do is pass on by ... let this thought be the awareness that there are people out there (in here) who know about drugs.

2. A person cannot be addicted to Oxycontin for 10 years ..... and still be alive.
3. Males addicted to Oxy become limp after about 8 months.
4. A person addicted to Oxycontin cannot eat, cannot shit, vomits 24/7 .... and eventually the drug begins to eat holes in their brain.



If you NEVER figured out this man was on Oxy and he had to tell you ...... then you must be brain damaged, or mentally retarded because a person addicted to Oxycontin is not aware of anything except the dragon because a person on Oxycontin isn't even lucid.

You are a fucking liar.
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Sweety, i guess you too would have failed for his pretence. Not even his father, co-workers, peers, knew about this. He told his dad in desperation so that he can be there in aid, his dad is never around and is a pisces and selfish as can be. He works for his dad, sees him everyday. Now a person that knew him all his life, didn't even know this? i think the main reason he maintaining right now is because his dad told him that if he finds out he is doing drugs again he would not talk to him. You do not undersatnd, and choose to blind one eye and think that everyone has the same fighting mechanism in their system. No sweetheart, he is a living proof that it does not work like that. As i said before, he himself says that he could've been dead with all the butter that he's done. I'm not making butter up at all or lying, what is your point to calling me a liar, or instigating.
What you think that I am an airhead b*tch? Sweety, all I was trying to do was be there for him, and yes decided to close one eye because i thought if i oversee his faults and concentrated on addiction by being caring and sensitive to his failures and try to encourage him then maybe that would help to least bring up his spirits and even maybe to serve as an inspiration to him.
Wow, you are such a bitter old woman. Are you married, does your man not give you any love? I think not, if he did you would be full of joy that it would transpire through words of encouragement. But you know what, keep it up because I don't mind someone to talk uglu to me because i like the good, bad and ugly and use it to my advantage. Tell me my faults and I work on them, you see I havent called him at all, he's the one asking to have dinner with me, and i declined and told him I was going to dinner and movie with another guy. I mean seriously I went to dinner with my guy friend, but just do that he think i was out with another guy, maybe he would get the point that i'm done with him.
You in the other hand P, are such a narcissist. Did you know that about yourself? If it is not one thing is the other that you try to pin-point and not give a credit to one else about their beliefs or actions. Everyone is wrong and you are right, get over yourself. you live in a air bubble in the water P-Angel. Tell the almighty to come save you, you need some serious rescue!!!!!!!
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We shall cry for them ... RIP indeed.
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There's no way a person could not know you're a junkie .. a person who is addicted to Oxycontin isn't going to come out and tell the family because a junkie is like an alcoholic in the aspect that they don't even know they have a monkey on their back.
Quite the contrary ....... the family has to intervene and tell the junkie they're fucked up.

this lady has lied her ass off ..... others may believe her, but I know better .. I know first hand about drug addiction.

If she dated him for a year and a half and had no clue he was using pain killers .... then she's pretty dim .. which explains why she didn't know to have pride when she found evidence of his indiscretions.
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You're right P, I am pretty dim but only when it comes to drugs. I have pride, but i let my caring nature take over seeing that he had a tortured view of life. I was there to try to make him happy, he would beg so that i can be there for him....etc.
What is your point in calling me a liar? Why would I lie? You think that I'm making up lies to justify my ignorance? I admit i was ignorant for being with him, maybe I shouldn't had cared a long time ago and made him suffer and succumb more into drugs by me being a complete bitch to him, just maybe. Guess what, I opted to be sympathetic and did not leave him cold turkey but maybe, just maybe sub-consciously is the best way to treat people and just maybe they would appreciate a good person. What is wrong with this world, everyone is so twisted, especially the ones that are so defensive. Here you are P, obviously defending the my pisces only because he happens to be of your sign and you think I'm bashing on him for his sign. I posted on this thread because i wanted to write my experience, but ultimately his problem is deeper than you realize. As I said, he would've had you fooled too he had motor skills, kind of slow, but mobile as can be.
You know I really appreciated your first post you hit the nail on my part of the problem, but now the topic evolved and I am bringing up his drug problem because since you all pisces came defensive then I'm trying to put pieces together that this after all may have not been necessarily traits on a sign at all.
Although, some traits I do find similar with you all is that you think someone is always out to get you and you do not take criticism lightly. Look at you P, I am telling that you are a narcissist and you're still posting like you know it all. Another trait is that, you want to push peoples buttons only so that you can feel you have power over them, when I know that you are an tangible as can be with no backbone. You live in your little box, get out and breathe for a second love, literally, you live in this box called DXP. If you do not have someone to go out with, then heck go out by yourself, instead of fighting with people on the net about a sign's shortcomings experience life even if you go to the movies alone, sometimes is better because you appreciate yourself more. You really need it P.
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