Cap. Wom. need advice from Male Pisc

Ok...

I don't know if I'm nervouse for no reason at all or if I really have reason.
Nothing bad has happend at all, but I've been reading these forums and they almost all agree that Pisces are cheaters and they will say they love/marry a woman and then leave them out of nowhere - THAT KINDA SCARES ME A BIT...


Ok here is our relationship...

I was not looking for anyone. I am always looking for my soul mate though...if that makes any since.


He told me from the first time he ever saw me; he was in love. For two months (almost strait) he would come over to visit,he would ask my roommate what sort of things I liked, he would email me daily....I kept telling him that I was not looking for anyone...that I wasn't ready to date.

To make a long story short...one night we fell asleep on the couch (total innocent, no touchy - nothing) he emailed me non stop saying how much he loved it etc. etc. The next time we fell asleep watching a movie he held my hand all night and I let him...I felt secure. He followed up with emails as normal...saying how much he loved every bit of it and wished we could hold hands more etc etc etc.

Needless to say we are dating now. He told me long before we ever dated that he loved me....like three times he told me. He is very very mature, but still only 23. He was a fire fighter for 5 years and is currently an engineer in training. He likes to be lazy, but really takes charge at work...and I find that sooo hot.

Here it is...

I go out of my way to rub his feet EVERY NIGHT.
I will scratch his back because thats what he likes.
I adore him and tell him daily "Thank you for not giving up on me."
I admire his body and tell him daily.
When we sleep together we cuddle like two peices of a puzzle that belong together.
He has already asked me to marry him (with a ring).
I've told him that I KNOW - THAT I KNOW he is the one I want for the rest of my life.

We use to talk all the time before we dated and now he won't tell me much about what he thinks at all.
I am usually NOT open (as most Cappys are cautious), but open to him completly.

I guess what I'm saying is this.

Last night he did not come over (and he practically lives at my house every night). He didn't reply to my text message, he didn't call - nothing.

I can care less about him running a muck, or him having his freedom. That I will embrace. I do have a problem with him NOT saying, "Hay, IM OK...running away for a week". He has never done this before.

I often times will look online. NOT out of fear, but to deliver the best that I can for my pisces man. I go out of my way to learn and please him completely.
I read these forums. After what happend last night and what I'm reading here - I'm a bit nervous.

Do pisces profess there love soo deeply - and then skip out??
Do they all cheat and flirt with other people—
Do you think that my pisces really loves me—?
How come he doesn't want to tell me what he thinks about me (good or bad, but I prefer the bad so I can work on it)—

ok, i'm a pisces girl, yes, but i think i know what's going through a pisces guy's mind as well. we fall in love really fast, before we really think about it, and yes, we end up realizing later on that we don't really love that person as much as we thought we did. but, obviously, since many of us are happily married, we will find 'the one' and settle down and be happy.
i think that reading all these astrology posts will solve no problems, it will only create them. from reading your story, i think that you should not worry whatsoever about him not calling for a day, maybe he read a book or watched a show about being a little 'hard to get' and is changing things up a bit to spice up your relationship, who knows? he could have come across an emergency or something of the like, but the thing is, no matter how much you worry, you won't know until he DOES call you, so just sit back, chill out, and don't wait for his phone call, get out there and be busy, dont think about it. if he's asked you to marry him and things have been going wonderfully so far, i don't think he's going to change his mind all of a sudden in one day. call him ONCE, leave ONE message, and then... when he finally does call you back, don't answer right away. let him get YOUR machine, and then he might just learn his lesson and never do that again...

dreamlover

there could be a few reasons

1) maybe you said something harsh about him. if he falls in love so easily he might be hurt just as easily.

2) maybe an accident or something?

3)he probably needs some independance or something whether he is pondering about the situation or he mad about something(either you or something happened to him)

"almost all agree that Pisces are cheaters and they will say they love/marry a woman and then leave them out of nowhere"

not usually true these women usually date the players of the sign most are loyal like dogs.

Every sign has been all cheaters,love em and leave,etc. according to all of the signs boards um,so no don't take those people seriously,sure being a pisces doesn't mean they will "all" be faithful nor will it say "all" will be cheaters either.Look around you'll find those ventings and blaming the starsign in all of the signs history including capricorns.

OMG! Thank You so much all

veritas:

Thank you for giving me a little insight on how a pisces thinks. He does try to spice things up. I think thats why we both get a long so very well. We both try and work at our relationship *especially the whole spicing up bit* he he.

I think I should say that he has his own house that he lives at, but is always at my house. He stays every night...and when work calls him away - he always tells me ahead of time. I think that stresses my point a little about why I was soo worried.

He sent me a text message telling me.
**this is exactly how we wrote**
"I am sick and can not even talk and have been sleeping non stop but wanted to say hi and that I'm somewhat alive" ...and he was...when I left him that morning he said that he was staying home from work because he was ill. He was staying home at my house, but when I got home he was gone. I didn't think he was any sicker than I was. I had a sore throat and so did he. I was well like 24 hours later.
so I wrote...(and I really do not know if it was too harsh because I hear that pisces will be even more sensitive than you would think, so I really try to tip toe. But I wrote)
"Well thanks...I'm really glad I didn't come home with chicken soup and flowers to make you feel better because you would have had me in tears. I don't think its that hard to say, "I'm OK"...cuz thats all I needed to not worry. MORE IMPORTANTLY - Im sooo glad your ok 🙂 I love you"
His whole family lives near by each other. His uncle, parents, aunts and grand parents all live within a block from each other....so later I wrote.
"I WANT MY BABY!! I WANT TO TAKE CARE OF MY BABY! you rest and visit your family for as long as you need, so when you return I can hold my baby! 🙂 "

That night I made some uhh *corrects throat* *naughty pictures* with his digital camera. He calls me on my cell, but I'm in the living room watching CSI. He calls my house asking me what I'm doing and how come I didn't respond to my cell phone. He was not mean; just very interest. I'm talking to him and the door bell rings and ITS HIM!. So everything is fine, but I have to finish because its funny...
He and I walk into the room holding hands and stuff -talking. I was getting nervous because I left his camera in the same position I used it to take the automatic pictures. After we walked in the room, I got calm, telling myself
'oh he won't even see it or notice its there - not a biggy'. I got relaxed and talked with him and OUT OF NO WHERE he's all, "SO!! I see you have been using my camera" *AAAAAAHHH ** We BOTH scrambled for the camera. **fighting and tickling for it** I was soo red. I confessed, "FINE!! I took some uhh *corrected throat* naughty pictures for you, BUT I wanted to filter some of the not so perfect ones"
He looked at each one and didn't say a word. Kinda smiled and then said, "Thank You, now I'm gonna put these on my computer or display them on my wall" I was soo red....he he


Illmatic:

What did you mean by, "most are loyal like dogs".? That doesn't sound right....??



Tiamat:

I'm sorry you had to go through all that crazy woman babble to get to this BUT I couldn't agree with you more. I do agree that it depends on a persons upbringing or whats happened to them in their life that determines their choices that they make.

However; (and forgive me if you do not agree or if you are one I speak of)

When I use to have a libra male attracted to me (BEFORE my honey now) I would not give him the time of day *as a relationship* because even though libras made excellent friends of mine NONE of them were remotely faithful and would be those that would lie and convince their ?other half? that they were crazy for suspecting anything.

Scorpios is like my matching sign - some would say. I find that they (male scorpios)are only faithful when they?ve never h

i'm glad everything turned out ok for you 🙂

regarding libras - I dated a libra for two years - after briefly dating a different guy who stole my friend's phone number of my cell and asked her out (she called me immediately) anyway Mr. Libra convinced me that it is possible for guys to be faithful so I agree that you can't *say* someone will cheat or not based on his sign, but I am still scared about the pisces thing.