CHEATING... ?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by tauruschic on Friday, January 20, 2006 and has 10 replies.
What you do you guys consider ChEaTiNg to be? Where is the line drawn? Specifically, would you consider freak dancing to be a form of cHeAtInG?
Speaking in general here and not directed at you specifically Tauruschic
I absolutely wouldn't want my man dancing that way on some other woman in that way especially or any way- now this isn't the usual actually having sex with someone form that we normally attribute cheating as being, but to me, this is considered cheating because I feel cheating can happen in many ways other than the sexual act.
We all know that whether we be men or women the person that we consider our mates has an effect on our self-esteem and our self-confidence and how attractive we think we are- and that confidence we get from them is fragile and should be respected- therefore when a man or woman does something like dance, kiss, or to me even gauck at other men or women to me hurts that confidence and trust in the other. It is a RESPONSIBILITY that the man and woman owe to his or her's mate to not damage that in any way. The bottom line is that a man or a woman has a responsibility once he or she enters into a relationship to maintain that other person's trust. It's time out for trying ways to "have your cake and eat it too" so to speak by wasting that person's time and hurting their self-esteem by doing things like that.
Either a person knows that he or she wants to be in a relationship or dosen't- but have enough respect for the other person to end the relationship instead of wasting their time in doing things like this- that's just my two cents.
I absolutely wouldn't want my man dancing that way on some other woman in that way especially or any way- now this isn't the usual actually having sex with someone form that we normally attribute cheating as being, but to me, this is considered cheating because I feel cheating can happen in many ways other than the sexual act.
We all know that whether we be men or women the person that we consider our mates has an effect on our self-esteem and our self-confidence and how attractive we think we are- and that confidence we get from them is fragile and should be respected- therefore when a man or woman does something like dance, kiss, or to me even gauck at other men or women to me hurts that confidence and trust in the other. It is a RESPONSIBILITY that the man and woman owe to his or her's mate to not damage that in any way. The bottom line is that a man or a woman has a responsibility once he or she enters into a relationship to maintain that other person's trust. It's time out for trying ways to "have your cake and eat it too" so to speak by wasting that person's time and hurting their self-esteem by doing things like that.
Either a person knows that he or she wants to be in a relationship or dosen't- but have enough respect for the other person to end the relationship instead of wasting their time in doing things like this- that's just my two cents.
I think cheating can be defined in a LOT of different ways,but for me,it's when my significant other shows affection for someone else,physical,or not,when it should be directed at me.
i thing that there is two types of cheating. one is emotional and the other is physical. emotional cheating is more forgiveable than physical cheating. however, i dont think that dancing or hugging is considered physical cheating, nor is harmless flirting considered emotional cheating.
*think
yeah most libras i have met have a very loose definition of cheating.lol
hey!!! that's not true!!! i will not tolerate a guy cheating on me!!! my last boyfriend was actually a cancer and he cheated on me and when i found out about it i ended it. i think about him from time to time...hmmmm...memories...
cheating is in the eye of the person being cheated on... it's like beauty. i know girls that consider it cheating if their boyfriend's give another girl a ride home from work & i know other girls that will let their boyfriend's do whatever as long as there's no actual "mouth action" on any parts of the body. i fall in the middle, on a situation by situation basis... depends on the intent...
i know....i know, every sign can cheat. sorry my ex was a libra and shes just not a very faithful person but i know i cant judge everybody by her actions.
yeah, just like i cant think every cancer is a cheater. even though he cheated on me i still miss him and get tempted to call him and see if we can start over. then, i remind myself that i dont deserve that and that it will just be a huge headache and i can never trust him. how would he react if i called him?
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