Coincidence?Law of Attraction?Pisces women and Cyberstalking...opinion needed

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So I have a question

...I recently logged back on to Facebook after having it deactivated for several weeks

I noticed my Pisces crush posted info regarding a sailing trip her and her friend is hosting to celebrate pride withtin one of the fb groups we are both apart of.

we are still not speaking....and haven't done so in about over a month.

the weird thing about the post is that....it comes after i had liked a bunch of sailing pages/groups this last month.

it's super weird.

when we were on good terms she would like and or comment on everything thing i posted.

is she still fb stalking me? or is it just a coincidence?

or maybe it's just law of attraction at work?

opinions needed.
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Posted by cornmaizeshark
Pisces totally cyberstalk but we usually wouldn't show our hands like this or come anywhere close to it. We're too sneaky for a slip up like this.

Also Pisces love boats. Probably all of us do.

So I'm going to go with: yes, she probably does cyber stalks you but no, this is unrelated to that.
i mean part of why i'm asking is also due to the fact I've definitely cyberstalked her (not in an obvious way like you alluded too) . i used to cyberstalk my ex bestie who was also a pisces about a decade ago.

my ex pisces best friend cyberstalked me back for years. we got to a point where we would openly talk about it / open do it.

it was great.lol



so in short.....

i agree with you.

but just to play devil's advocate i feel like everyone eventually fb stalks at least one point..usually a new love interest or an ex.

i don't think it's exclusive to Pisces women.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
trying to subtley get your attention (we're oh so good at that)
soooo true.

i feel like other pisces women are good at it.

well the ones i at least had some sort of relationship with.

the indirect approach always works best on me.

I think that's why scorpio women or gemini women ( who seem to be attracted to me the most) don't do it for me.

perhaps they are too direct and remind me of myself.

i wish i was a sleuth.
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trying to subtley get your attention (we're oh so good at that)
soooo true.

i feel like other pisces women are good at it.

well the ones i at least had some sort of relationship with.

the indirect approach always works best on me.

I think that's why scorpio women or gemini women ( who seem to be attracted to me the most) don't do it for me.

perhaps they are too direct and remind me of myself.

i wish i was a sleuth.
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Are you a libra or gemini i forgot?
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
trying to subtley get your attention (we're oh so good at that)
soooo true.

i feel like other pisces women are good at it.

well the ones i at least had some sort of relationship with.

the indirect approach always works best on me.

I think that's why scorpio women or gemini women ( who seem to be attracted to me the most) don't do it for me.

perhaps they are too direct and remind me of myself.

i wish i was a sleuth.

Are you a libra or gemini i forgot?

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pisces.

w/ a libra moon.

merc in aqua.
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Yep. I had to unfriend my Gem ex because I had enough of (my) cyberstalking!

I would not call it stalking anyway. Interested, curious, and sometimes obsessive.

Stalking is after the target knows about it and asks for it to stop.
Good point. Then I suppose it's not really stalking. More like obsessive in formation gathering about a subject of interest.
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I remember when I found out --online!---that Aqua ex was 10 years older than he said he was 😄.

Aqua was annoyed, obviously...I really gave him a hard time for lying. He said that he would never stalk anyone online! I said too bad...I'm earning a living as a researcher.....if I don't search you up, it would mean one thing for sure: that I don't give a damn about you!
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Yep. I had to unfriend my Gem ex because I had enough of (my) cyberstalking!

I would not call it stalking anyway. Interested, curious, and sometimes obsessive.

Stalking is after the target knows about it and asks for it to stop.
Good point. Then I suppose it's not really stalking. More like obsessive information gathering about a subject of interest.
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lol

obsessive information gathering...



you guys are too funny.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
If it's a group thing with friends than odds are she didn't plan it, she just showed up. I wouldn't stress about it.
Not really a group thing.

More like she has a guy friend who can get a discount for a charter since he works for a company that charters boats so she decided to post about it in a fb group we are apart of.

Looks like she is trying to organize a daysail for lesbians for SF pride weekend.

The weekend I was supposed to visit her.
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Posted by tiziani
Imagine if you had a girlfriend who become part of the facebook algorithm.

Everything you liked, she starts to actively take an interest in and your online clicks dictate her actions, time spent and where.

I either just invented the next Philip K Dick-type storyline or this is already in Facebook android marketing department for when they sell robot girlfriends.


pretty much what dating a pisces woman is like.

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I thought I was the only Pisces who did this. LOL.
It's all of you.

Same for the jealousy that I know every Pisces is adamant to claim does not exist and it's an emotion not felt by them. Just roflmao.



Oh yeah I'm possessive as fuck. And I do my best to keep my jealousy to myself. But when bae is talking to someone else...I be like...

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Pisces women can be possessive but it's a low-key version

unlike Scorpios or Taureans who are in your face about it....

the Pisces version of being territorial is such a turn on.

i love it.
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I thought I was the only Pisces who did this. LOL.
It's all of you.

Same for the jealousy that I know every Pisces is adamant to claim does not exist and it's an emotion not felt by them. Just roflmao.


By saying it's all of you..... are you including yourself too as a Pisces woman?lol
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No, since I'm a Virgo.
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I thought I was the only Pisces who did this. LOL.
It's all of you.

Same for the jealousy that I know every Pisces is adamant to claim does not exist and it's an emotion not felt by them. Just roflmao.


By saying it's all of you..... are you including yourself too as a Pisces woman?lol
No, since I'm a Virgo.
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lol I don't know why i thought you were a pisces sun aries moon.
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I thought I was the only Pisces who did this. LOL.
It's all of you.

Same for the jealousy that I know every Pisces is adamant to claim does not exist and it's an emotion not felt by them. Just roflmao.


By saying it's all of you..... are you including yourself too as a Pisces woman?lol
No, since I'm a Virgo.
lol I don't know why i thought you were a pisces sun aries moon.
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Haha, you gotz the moon right. And I have 3 friends with that sun/moon combo so maybe their fishy ways have influenced me.
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and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
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What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed and called us the weakest sign.
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It most certainly could be the law of attraction that connected you with the things that you two have in common but if she's talking about plans with a current partner and broadcasting it, I can't see how that equates to wanting to be back with you.

But I understand being separated from somebody that you really care about; it hurts , so we grasp for straws. But the truth of the matter - if somebody wants to contact you they will! We can create excuses to soften the blow, but if somebody is determined to have you or be near you or want you they're going to let it be known without any shadow of a doubt and you don't have to look under rocks for glimpse of hope.
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Posted by NemDeux
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and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
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Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars
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and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars

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I don't know who that is and I don't think I've ever spoken to them.
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Posted by NemDeux
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Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


I don't know who that is and I don't think I've ever spoken to them.
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I think you are conflating posts between users.

I used to bash Pisces in the past but never called them the weakest sign so if you don't know who starwars is then you're probably thinking of someone else still.
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Posted by NemDeux
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Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


I don't know who that is and I don't think I've ever spoken to them.
I think you are conflating posts between users.

I used to bash Pisces in the past but never called them the weakest sign so if you don't know who starwars is then you're probably thinking of someone else still.
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Nah, sorry.

I actually was referring to you. 😛

It's an inside joke between nem and I.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


I don't know who that is and I don't think I've ever spoken to them.
I think you are conflating posts between users.

I used to bash Pisces in the past but never called them the weakest sign so if you don't know who starwars is then you're probably thinking of someone else still.
Nah, sorry.

I actually was referring to you. 😛

It's an inside joke between nem and I.

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Oh lol, ok.

Sorry I derailed it with truth.

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It most certainly could be the law of attraction that connected you with the things that you two have in common but if she's talking about plans with a current partner and broadcasting it, I can't see how that equates to wanting to be back with you.

But I understand being separated from somebody that you really care about; it hurts , so we grasp for straws. But the truth of the matter - if somebody wants to contact you they will! We can create excuses to soften the blow, but if somebody is determined to have you or be near you or want you they're going to let it be known without any shadow of a doubt and you don't have to look under rocks for glimpse of hope.


lol no current partner.

the group sail is just for friends..organized by her and another friend who happens to be a guy.

so....



believing in glimmers of hope...are how I got where I am in other places in my life.

people get second , third , or fourth chances every day

and what I did wasn't actually bad.

confirmed by friends. it just made things awkward.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


i never called pisces weak

they play weak

probably said that they're manipulative and the devil

#starwarsvspisces
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I mean you bash them all the time so I thought it wouldn't be that far of a stretch.

I agree with the devil part.
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


i never called pisces weak

they play weak

probably said that they're manipulative and the devil

#starwarsvspisces
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do your parents know about your resentment towards them?lol
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


i never called pisces weak

they play weak

probably said that they're manipulative and the devil

#starwarsvspisces
do your parents know about your resentment towards them?lol
lmao my parents and pisces bestfriend are nothing like the devil pisces

they have traits that piss me off though

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lol

what specific traits?
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Posted by Damnata
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
Posted by cornmaizeshark
Posted by NemDeux
a

and just spoken in general; stalking is something different than looking at a person's profile.


That's a good point.


silence speaks volumes lol
What do you mean?

Also, damnata keeps bashing Pisces and she said she'll never stop. I warned her that Neptune is a wrathful god and she laughed called us the weakest sign.
Wrong Virgo chick.

That would be @starwars


i never called pisces weak

they play weak

probably said that they're manipulative and the devil

#starwarsvspisces
do your parents know about your resentment towards them?lol
lmao my parents and pisces bestfriend are nothing like the devil pisces

they have traits that piss me off though


lol

what specific traits?
guilt trips queens, emotionally manipulative, very stubborn, controlling
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guilt trip queens - yes( because we have high standards for ourselves and the closest people to us...if it helps ....Pisceans often feel the most guilty about their own actions..which are usually benign in the first place because we don't like harming anyone)

emotionally manipulative - yes unlike scorpios or libras ....when a pisces does it ( .it's usually for good... and more altruistic in nature ..e.g- I emotionally manipulate my dad so that he would hang out with me all the time.lol)



stubborn and controlling? - pisces? nah

scorpios , taureans and virgos - hell yeah