Contacting Pisces

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by librafemale on Thursday, February 9, 2017 and has 10 replies.
Hi,

So, this pisces man disappeared without prior notice. Despite the fact that we liked each other, he just left, didn't call or responded to my texts in the begining of his disappearing.

I haven't reached out for him for weeks now. Neither did he.

But I have left a necklace at his place. It was a gift from a dear friend.

And I really want it back.

I think of texting him and asking him to give it to someone and then I'll go get it from that person.

Is this a good idea. I know that signs have nothing to do with this. So, I'm mostly looking for general advice.

Will he be thinking that I'm trying to talk to him or chasing him?

Posted by d0s3r
idk how else ur gonna get it back...

break in his house?

Hahaha this is funny..

Posted by Iliketurtles
Im a pisces and sometimes i do the disappearing thing just because someone close hurt me quite bad. And i really hope they contact me. Ik its annoying. Im working on it. Quite possible hes doing it for the same reason. As far as the necklace thing is concerned i dont think he'll see it as a sign of you chasing him. Dont send someone else to bring that necklace. Just go get it. Dont ask him to give it because pisces lack taking initiative. He'll just ask some friend of his to give it to you. Go get the necklace and straight up ask him whats going on. Are the feelings mutual or are you the only one. Tell him you miss the talks and stuff. We're a sucker for that. He'll blurt out everything within seconds. And if he doesnt its a lesson learnt. Peace.
What if he just ignores my text?

And what if he would think that I'm asking for the necklace just to see him?

He disappeared and we were on good terms.. So, he might not want to see me.. hmmmm :/
if you really just wanted the necklace you would just ask for the necklace, but if you're doing these convolutions that's because you're not over him
Posted by Dreamyboy
Posted by librafemale
Hi,

So, this pisces man disappeared without prior notice. Despite the fact that we liked each other, he just left, didn't call or responded to my texts in the begining of his disappearing.

I haven't reached out for him for weeks now. Neither did he.

But I have left a necklace at his place. It was a gift from a dear friend.

And I really want it back.

I think of texting him and asking him to give it to someone and then I'll go get it from that person.

Is this a good idea. I know that signs have nothing to do with this. So, I'm mostly looking for general advice.

Will he be thinking that I'm trying to talk to him or chasing him?

If I was your pisces for one, if you've asked me, I would gladly return it to you, and appreciate it. Asking another to obtain it on your behalf is offensive and would seal the disconnect if you are trying to reconnect with him. What was the last thing you two done with eachother for the sudden disappearance? I tend to disappear often regardless if a negative or positive thing happens. I fully enjoy solitude. If you don't reach out after a partially significant event, I definitely won't reach out either. Lastly, I don't believe he would feel you are chasing him.
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We made out the night before, texted during the day, and he said he would call me after he had finished work. But he never did. He seemed distant so I made plans with friends that night. Next day, I called him, but he didn't pick up. I texted him to check whether he's ok, but he didn't reply. Called him twice again (we were supposed to meet before I leave town, that's why). But no answer. I was mad since he literally ruined my plans. He asked me to change my plans so we can spend the weekend together. I sent him a text in which I sarcastically thanked him for what he did and for not telling me what was going on. So everything ended there.

He was a nice guy.. I might not be over him yet, but if he doesn't want to keep in touch, I won't impose myself on him. 3 weeks have passed now and whenever I wanted to text him to get the necklace, I feel so weird.
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Just get a friend of yours to collect the necklace hun x
Posted by librafemale
Posted by Dreamyboy
Posted by librafemale
Hi,

So, this pisces man disappeared without prior notice. Despite the fact that we liked each other, he just left, didn't call or responded to my texts in the begining of his disappearing.

I haven't reached out for him for weeks now. Neither did he.

But I have left a necklace at his place. It was a gift from a dear friend.

And I really want it back.

I think of texting him and asking him to give it to someone and then I'll go get it from that person.

Is this a good idea. I know that signs have nothing to do with this. So, I'm mostly looking for general advice.

Will he be thinking that I'm trying to talk to him or chasing him?

If I was your pisces for one, if you've asked me, I would gladly return it to you, and appreciate it. Asking another to obtain it on your behalf is offensive and would seal the disconnect if you are trying to reconnect with him. What was the last thing you two done with eachother for the sudden disappearance? I tend to disappear often regardless if a negative or positive thing happens. I fully enjoy solitude. If you don't reach out after a partially significant event, I definitely won't reach out either. Lastly, I don't believe he would feel you are chasing him.
We made out the night before, texted during the day, and he said he would call me after he had finished work. But he never did. He seemed distant so I made plans with friends that night. Next day, I called him, but he didn't pick up. I texted him to check whether he's ok, but he didn't reply. Called him twice again (we were supposed to meet before I leave town, that's why). But no answer. I was mad since he literally ruined my plans. He asked me to change my plans so we can spend the weekend together. I sent him a text in which I sarcastically thanked him for what he did and for not telling me what was going on. So everything ended there.

He was a nice guy.. I might not be over him yet, but if he doesn't want to keep in touch, I won't impose myself on him. 3 weeks have passed now and whenever I wanted to text him to get the necklace, I feel so weird.
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Three weeks will turn to three months, then three years, etc. He's done. As Piscean we are NOT Indian givers and don't like Indian takers, either. The necklace is HIS! He can throw it away, keep it, give it away, etc. Don't ask for an enumerate object because that is a sign that you are desperate to talk to him. His SILENCE is your response. Move on. He has.

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

If he ignores you don't bother him anymore. Hw will come back only if he desides, don't chase him.
Posted by EvatheDiva
Posted by librafemale
Posted by Dreamyboy
Posted by librafemale
Hi,

So, this pisces man disappeared without prior notice. Despite the fact that we liked each other, he just left, didn't call or responded to my texts in the begining of his disappearing.

I haven't reached out for him for weeks now. Neither did he.

But I have left a necklace at his place. It was a gift from a dear friend.

And I really want it back.

I think of texting him and asking him to give it to someone and then I'll go get it from that person.

Is this a good idea. I know that signs have nothing to do with this. So, I'm mostly looking for general advice.

Will he be thinking that I'm trying to talk to him or chasing him?

If I was your pisces for one, if you've asked me, I would gladly return it to you, and appreciate it. Asking another to obtain it on your behalf is offensive and would seal the disconnect if you are trying to reconnect with him. What was the last thing you two done with eachother for the sudden disappearance? I tend to disappear often regardless if a negative or positive thing happens. I fully enjoy solitude. If you don't reach out after a partially significant event, I definitely won't reach out either. Lastly, I don't believe he would feel you are chasing him.
We made out the night before, texted during the day, and he said he would call me after he had finished work. But he never did. He seemed distant so I made plans with friends that night. Next day, I called him, but he didn't pick up. I texted him to check whether he's ok, but he didn't reply. Called him twice again (we were supposed to meet before I leave town, that's why). But no answer. I was mad since he literally ruined my plans. He asked me to change my plans so we can spend the weekend together. I sent him a text in which I sarcastically thanked him for what he did and for not telling me what was going on. So everything ended there.

He was a nice guy.. I might not be over him yet, but if he doesn't want to keep in touch, I won't impose myself on him. 3 weeks have passed now and whenever I wanted to text him to get the necklace, I feel so weird.


Three weeks will turn to three months, then three years, etc. He's done. As Piscean we are NOT Indian givers and don't like Indian takers, either. The necklace is HIS! He can throw it away, keep it, give it away, etc. Don't ask for an enumerate object because that is a sign that you are desperate to talk to him. His SILENCE is your response. Move on. He has.

Hug cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Excuse me??? necklace is hers, not his. Maybe you like keeping your exes belongings as a cost of time you have spent with them, but IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT'S RIGHT, NO WAY !!! she needs to get her necklace back if nothing else. You sound like a young teenager geez