Do i crave attention or were my passions too void?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Szostak on Sunday, April 20, 2014 and has 3 replies.
Hello mates! It seems i've got a problem with Gemini girls.
Fell in love with one at work, she gave me attention only if I talk to her, else NONE! When she found out I liked her, she wouldn't look at my face, so I forgot her.
Months later, I started chatting a girl on Whatsapp, we talked to much for a few weeks, seemed the love of my life... I always wanted to take a trip, then I gone to her state, wich I always wanted to visit (2 birds, 1 stone). But suddenly our fire gone away. Still I gone and met her 2 months after first talking to her.
We met along with one of her friends. The girl was fun and interested in conversation. But my Gemini (whom I traveled for) was fun, cute, making charm (which I didn't realize at then...).
The night was settling when we said goodbye and farewells.
I called her back to give her something to remind me. I gave her that, said some romantic words... She smiled, and huged me. Stared at me. And I (arghhhhhh) did give her a lip kiss (to initiate the tongue one) but she did turn her face, stared again and said she adored me and I was nice, so I asked for another kiss, and she did the same thing...
For the 3rd time in 2 months she started a conversation. Asking if I already left the city.... And I was out already. (blehhhhh)
Now we talk only a bit. She takes ages (hours or days, or no answer at all).
When I confronted her to find out why she does that. She said she liked me, gave me some excuses. But I don't feel it was the real thing... She was hiding something.
Well. 3 months of friendship and 3-4 times I tried to break up our "friendship" and she said I was nice, and was scaried.( thinking that I had blocked her.)
Why won't she tell the truth? Today I confront her again. That I missed when she answered me faster.... And instead of explaining.. She just replied the previous message. Like nothing happened... Argh.

So.... Am I too needy for attention? Or am I friggin confused about why she is playing me? I need view from piesces.
Try.
I don't necessarily think that you are asking for too much in terms of expecting her to responsd to your messages, but from what you say I do worry that you may be prone to falling for people a bit too hastily. No, I don't expect she's being fully honest with you, for whatever reason, but you can't force people. If I turned away from a kiss like that, it would probably mean that I felt I was suddenly in too deep and now running scared! But if that's the case then it's a pretty clear sign... Chin up smile
This isn't the first Gem I met. They never said hi or passed through me within saying a word. My friends told me that they said I was funny and nice. But why not say a word to me? Not get interested in talk.
When I got closer to them it was first nice and then they detached. It was painful somehow, not because the girl I liked wasn't into me, but because A PERSON didn't like me.

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