Do Piscean women catch feelings quickly?

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I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.


Sometimes I think she likes me but then other times she confuses me. We slept together the first time we ever met and have slept together once more time since. We speak everyday Mon to Fri but over the weekend we both dissapear. We've known each other for about a month and a bit now.


She was badly hurt by a Sag and we have both agreed we don't want a relationship. So far it's like we're friends with benefits but last week she brought something up about she isn't good to date and I said who said anything about us dating and she said "if it was ever an option I thought about in the future"...


She goes from ignoring me to giving me her attention. That is what confuses me. When we're together she is really affectionate. I want to tell her I miss her but not sure if that will scare her away...I've basically been trying to be cold toward her because I don't want to show how I feel just yet.


Last week I told her "Is it bad that I want to see you all the time" and she said for me to explain how because I seem "too calm and collected" like she is an "old mate". She also said I seem real chill when she sees me so she doesn't get that vibe from me and "don't get me wrong, I like it".


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
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Posted by nats
I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

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Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.

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Lost them? But it's only been like a month. She always compliments me and she always strikes up communication first... should I just tell her how I'm feeling? That I'm missing her etc.. I'm a cancer venus and mars and her mars is in capricorn. I feel like I can be emotionally expressive with her but that aries venus makes me think she'll hit the runner...
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Also when I make jokes about having other "girlfriends" she says she doesn't care but then questions who I'm talking to or when I make those jokes she'll give me like a not impressed side eye look haha
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She sounds confused and unsure.... She likes you as a fwb right now.. How long has she been out of the old relationship? You can't force someone to go according to your timetable. I hate being pressured... The more you bug her about it the more she'll distance herself.... Yea she may see potential down the road for something real, which is basically what she said...so I'd back off and just accept exactly whats happening in the here and now. Be good to her care for her and she may grow to love you. Things change over time always..
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Also when I make jokes about having other "girlfriends" she says she doesn't care but then questions who I'm talking to or when I make those jokes she'll give me like a not impressed side eye look haha
"Also when I make jokes about having other "girlfriends" - Why do you do this? Is it to see what her reaction is? I would not like that, at all. It would put me completely off.


Mercury Pisces

Sun and Venus in 12th House

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Yes to see her reaction and try to get an understanding from that...
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Oh also a Pisces would want you to tell her your feelings.. She's not gonna be the first to do it. Trust me..
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The relo ended in Feb. I know she def has unresolved feelings for the ex which is fine I'm not looking for a relationship with her.


I'm fearing that I'm developing feelings for her... It's freaking me out because I am unsure if she has feelings for me. She says that she wants to see me all the time too but doesn't like saying it to me and giving my a big head lol.


I just text her before to tell her I wanted to see her and I'm missing her.


Whenever I say things she's like yup, taking notes of this. Or she'll be like "hmm doesn't like this but likes that.. got it". She said she'd be willing to learn to cook meals I like for me and I mentioned my ex was a cook and she said it will be hard to compete with that but she'd try her best. Then last week we were eating and I mentioned I love salt and she goes "I'm making a self reminder to keep salt with me at all times".


It's little comments like that that make me think she does have feelings but then she'll ignore me at times or take forever to respond and then it throws me off.


How can I tell if she has feelings? What are some signs? I'm not the best at picking up subtle cues...
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She sounds really confused & not over her ex heartbreak .. it's better to get everything out in the open about feelings, both yours & hers, cuz then it will probably continue on in this way .. what another poster said is true , Pisces Won't be the ones to tell u first if they have feelings-especially the females .. Pisces moon & mercury
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Posted by nats
I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

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Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.

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especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.

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Lost them? But it's only been like a month. She always compliments me and she always strikes up communication first... should I just tell her how I'm feeling? That I'm missing her etc.. I'm a cancer venus and mars and her mars is in capricorn. I feel like I can be emotionally expressive with her but that aries venus makes me think she'll hit the runner...
Run


you're going to get hurt.



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Yes to see her reaction and try to get an understanding from that...
You seem as mixed up as she does.


If you truly don't want a relationship with her, but sense that she does, then you should probably let her know that in no uncertain terms and also create some distance between you.

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Everyone sounds so harsh LOL but I guess it's reality. She's slept with and been out with others since her and the ex ended in Feb. I could still be a rebound though.


I'm travelling soon for 2 weeks so I will use that time to create the distance between us.


I just want to know how she feels. But now you're all freaking me out even more and it sucks because today I'm really feeling some type of way toward her. F*CK!!!!
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Posted by nats
I just want to know how she feels. But now you're all freaking me out even more and it sucks because today I'm really feeling some type of way toward her. F*CK!!!!


You're having feelings for her *today*? Going day to day is too labile for an actual relationship. You sot of feel strongly for her today, but that might change next week or next month? I wouldn't feel secure with that, and I wouldn't feel that my heart was safe if I knew that how someone felt about me.


If what you're trying to say is, at first, you didn't want a relationship, but have since started to feel differently, that's another thing, entirely. But based on this thread, you're saying both: you *don't* want a relationship *and* your feelings are changing. How she feels is immaterial when you don't have your own feelings about her and what you want with her sorted out. That's not being harsh, that's not wasting a person's time. Wouldn't you want another person to have the same respect for your time and feelings?

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I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.

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Hey now! I am not fickle.. smile

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Posted by nats
I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.



Hey now! I am not fickle.. smile

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Haha


maybe your aqua moon saves you.


Just speaking from experience as i was raised by a pisces sun aries venus gemini moon

and had two best friends whom had both pisces sun aries venus placements.


one had a leo moon. and the other had a libra moon.


the leo moon was less fickle.


the libra moon broke so many hearts. she destroyed lives.lol


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Posted by nats
Everyone sounds so harsh LOL but I guess it's reality. She's slept with and been out with others since her and the ex ended in Feb. I could still be a rebound though.


I'm travelling soon for 2 weeks so I will use that time to create the distance between us.


I just want to know how she feels. But now you're all freaking me out even more and it sucks because today I'm really feeling some type of way toward her. F*CK!!!!


Dude.... If you catch feels yr gonna catch em... Whether she does or not. Just accept it.. She sounds like me when im not sure about someone.. I still am kind and thoughtful.. Say nice things do caring things.. She can do ALL that but still not be in love with you yet. If shes still heartbroken the best thing you can do is stay by her side, be a constant source of support and let her ease into it in her own time. Just be consistent and caring. Love her even if she doesn't love you back right now... Why not??

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Posted by nats
I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.



Hey now! I am not fickle.. smile

Haha


maybe your aqua moon saves you.


Just speaking from experience as i was raised by a pisces sun aries venus gemini moon

and had two best friends whom had both pisces sun aries venus placements.


one had a leo moon. and the other had a libra moon.


the leo moon was less fickle.


the libra moon broke so many hearts. she destroyed lives.lol


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Ugh fuck libras.
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I'm a Gemini.. yes I know not a good match. I know that I don't want a relationship. At least not for a long time. I myself have only been out of a 5 year relo and so something serious is the last thing I want. We have both expressed the same wants in that sense.


Some days I'm like whatever about her.. other days I'm feeling super emotional and I can *feel* feelings toward her. Today is one of those days where I really just want to see her, be around her etc and I'm just scared of catching deeper feelings for her and have her not reciprocate them that's all.


I want to be there for her. She makes me feel like I want to protect her and keep her away from any harm but in doing that I know I will catch stronger feelings...


And yes as a Cancer Venus and Mars I am also quite direct in telling someone how I feel but with her.. I'm holding back. I feel like if I admit to her I am starting to get feelings that it might freak her out or ruin her fantasy or whatnot and she'll swim away.


Maybe I'll just say nothing and act like I couldn't give a shit and just go on my holiday and see how I feel when I return. Uughh but then I feel like I want to say something to her. I hate being a Gemini when I get feelings. My Libra moon doesn't help!!!!


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I'm a Gemini.. yes I know not a good match. I know that I don't want a relationship. At least not for a long time. I myself have only been out of a 5 year relo and so something serious is the last thing I want. We have both expressed the same wants in that sense.


Some days I'm like whatever about her.. other days I'm feeling super emotional and I can *feel* feelings toward her. Today is one of those days where I really just want to see her, be around her etc and I'm just scared of catching deeper feelings for her and have her not reciprocate them that's all.


I want to be there for her. She makes me feel like I want to protect her and keep her away from any harm but in doing that I know I will catch stronger feelings...


And yes as a Cancer Venus and Mars I am also quite direct in telling someone how I feel but with her.. I'm holding back. I feel like if I admit to her I am starting to get feelings that it might freak her out or ruin her fantasy or whatnot and she'll swim away.


Maybe I'll just say nothing and act like I couldn't give a shit and just go on my holiday and see how I feel when I return. Uughh but then I feel like I want to say something to her. I hate being a Gemini when I get feelings. My Libra moon doesn't help!!!!


Feelings are lovely. Respect is better. I'm probably a lot older than you, though.


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I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.



Hey now! I am not fickle.. smile

Haha


maybe your aqua moon saves you.


Just speaking from experience as i was raised by a pisces sun aries venus gemini moon

and had two best friends whom had both pisces sun aries venus placements.


one had a leo moon. and the other had a libra moon.


the leo moon was less fickle.


the libra moon broke so many hearts. she destroyed lives.lol


Ugh fuck libras.
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Haha I have a libra moon.


I think I'm alright.
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pisces sun, aries venus here


pisces are clingy af once we get attached, so she could be trying to withhold from you a bit. In personal experience, my aries venus will give me confidence and desire to jump head first into anything romantic, but my pisces side brings up fear, the emotions etc.

In my opinion, if she's sticking around and still talking to you and catching up while showing initiative, she is interested. If she is ignoring/with holding its most likely her trying to not get attached and in the end hurt.
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I had a feeling she was mirroring me and I do the same to her because I know how intense I can be when I have feelings. Anyway, I text her today telling her I missed her and she told me to leave work to see her but I couldn't and she had gym this evening. I was going to see her before gym but our times didn't add up so I told her dw about it.


Anyway she text me later on and seemed upset that I didn't make more of an "effort" to see her and had been so quick to make other plans and she asked if she could come by my house later after I got home.


She's here with me now but she's in the bathroom as I'm writing this post lol. She does seem interested but what has been throwing me off is how she just seems so like cold in her communications at times which makes me think she isn't interested and the fact that she's a water sign makes me assume she'd be super clingy etc. Her Merc is in Aqua and mine is in Gemini. I guess also her Mars in Cap makes her slower to take action.
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Why do feelings matter if you don't want a relationship with her?


I think you would entertain it, if she would. If people have feelings and chemistry what else would stop them from becoming a couple?


Fwb don't talk everyday so y'all are already overstepping there. What y'all have is more than fwb, that's why you're confused. She probably is too.


I think you need to realistically define what y'all are doing first and foremost.
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I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.


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FFS! How many times do you have to hear that it is you who needs to take action....?


Firstly, what do you want from her that you don't have already? Exclusivity...? Start by giving an example!
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Some of these guys seem to have got it - mirroring.


I do that too..... when I am not sure about how the other person feels, definitely.


You both sound very young? It is a shame we cannot be open..... if you feel strongly, take the leap, it will at least allow some relief from the confusion, as I would hope this Pisces will feel glad you have done it. We can be really shy and slow to open up, mainly due to having pretty low self image and if she has been hurt in the not too long past, then she will be dragging it around with her. If you like her, help her a bit here I would say and hopefully you will be a winner in the long run.... smile
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I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.


I have never understood the clingy thing associated with us..... I make an effort to have my own life and my own friends and am very insistent that the person in my life is the same way...... it can get suffocating otherwise..... I don't chase or question why, what, where etc etc


Dependent when I am in the relationship, perhaps yes this would be right..... I like to ask my partner for advice and information, but thats partly because I want them to feel important that they are always my first port of call..... I would love that if it were me!

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I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.


I have never understood the clingy thing associated with us..... I make an effort to have my own life and my own friends and am very insistent that the person in my life is the same way...... it can get suffocating otherwise..... I don't chase or question why, what, where etc etc


Dependent when I am in the relationship, perhaps yes this would be right..... I like to ask my partner for advice and information, but thats partly because I want them to feel important that they are always my first port of call..... I would love that if it were me!

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That's Your Venus In Aquarius talking. ?

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I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.

Wrong.


Aries Venus know what they want, go out to get it& are loyal to a default.
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Not the ones I know.



True they go after what they want.... then after about a couple of months they start to go back and forth about whether or not they should break up with their partner ...... eventually they easily discard their partner when they get bored.



Former bff w/ aries venus has never had a relationship last longer than a year and a half. She always gets bored around 11 months and ends it.


So many bitter dudes.


some of them were really nice guys too..it's a shame.


My mom who is also a Pisces sun aries venus left her first husband after only being married to him for 3 months. She literally packed her things and left him in the middle of the night.



Loyal...not so much.
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Posted by bkbella86
I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.






we are only clingy when we love you and know that it's warranted because you love us back.
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I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.




when we like you we do avoid you.....or rather can come off cold.


the last girl I was interested in apparently had no clue I was interested in her.



which was my intention.


i have similar placements as the girl op is interested in.


merc in aqua , cap mars.



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From my experience with pisces females they'll use you as a rebound/FWB and won't tell you, hope you'll figure it out yourself and if you don't that's your problem not theirs
if and when Pisces do this to their defense....they don't actually realize they are doing it.


they'll only drop you once they realize what they are doing / how unfair it is to you




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OK so we touched on the "feels" topic last night. I told her she sometimes makes me feel like I'm bothering her and she was shocked as she didn't think she acted like that at all but was thankful I told her. She said she would correct it and then said "I guess you get that feeling from me because you're really distant with me". So BAM there it was - she IS mirroring me.


Then about the feels.. neither of us want to come clean and admit there are some. I asked her if things would become messy between us and she said not if we were on the same page and not if we both caught feels rather then one and not the other. I asked if she thought she'd catch feels for me and she said "yes possibly". Then other women came into the picture and she said she didn't mind if I was sleeping with other women but just to let her know because she wanted to know which one she was. 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc I joked and told her 3rd and she said she would be upset not that I had other women but that she wasn't my main go to one.


Anyway I was like what if I said I wanted to date you and she said that she knows I wouldn't date someone like her because I had previously told her I need someone that mentally stimulates me a lot and she knows she can't and Id get bored with her.


Thing is she seems insecure. Like things I've told her I look for in a partner, she always feels and acts like she can't and doesn't measure up.


To someone that said why feels matter, they matter because I think.. well I know that they are developing... so I don't want to be the only one with feels.. sounds stupid I know. I would date her yes but not anytime soon. She also said that if we were both to catch feels that it would lead to us wanting to be together and but she also said (at the start of this feels convo) that she likes where we are at and what we have which is sex without emotional attachment and she said she is capable of doing that.


Anyway after all of this and finally about to sleep we kissed and then she was like oh fuck I was just about to say "goodnight, I love you". Sorry I'm just used to saying that. It semi threw me off but just as a joke I was like "I love you too". And she had a massive smile on her face and turned around to not face me and was like that is seriously the cutest thing ever I think you've made my night.


We didn't sleep together last night. Just kissed and snuggled.


She asked me a few times if I had missed her during the day and wanted me to tell her more about how I missed her.


My placements for someone who asked

Gem Sun

Libra Moon

Gem Merc

Canc Venus and Mars


Hers are

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aqua Merc

Aries Venus

Cap Mars
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OK so we touched on the "feels" topic last night. I told her she sometimes makes me feel like I'm bothering her and she was shocked as she didn't think she acted like that at all but was thankful I told her. She said she would correct it and then said "I guess you get that feeling from me because you're really distant with me". So BAM there it was - she IS mirroring me.


Then about the feels.. neither of us want to come clean and admit there are some. I asked her if things would become messy between us and she said not if we were on the same page and not if we both caught feels rather then one and not the other. I asked if she thought she'd catch feels for me and she said "yes possibly". Then other women came into the picture and she said she didn't mind if I was sleeping with other women but just to let her know because she wanted to know which one she was. 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc I joked and told her 3rd and she said she would be upset not that I had other women but that she wasn't my main go to one.


Anyway I was like what if I said I wanted to date you and she said that she knows I wouldn't date someone like her because I had previously told her I need someone that mentally stimulates me a lot and she knows she can't and Id get bored with her.


Thing is she seems insecure. Like things I've told her I look for in a partner, she always feels and acts like she can't and doesn't measure up.


To someone that said why feels matter, they matter because I think.. well I know that they are developing... so I don't want to be the only one with feels.. sounds stupid I know. I would date her yes but not anytime soon. She also said that if we were both to catch feels that it would lead to us wanting to be together and but she also said (at the start of this feels convo) that she likes where we are at and what we have which is sex without emotional attachment and she said she is capable of doing that.


Anyway after all of this and finally about to sleep we kissed and then she was like oh fuck I was just about to say "goodnight, I love you". Sorry I'm just used to saying that. It semi threw me off but just as a joke I was like "I love you too". And she had a massive smile on her face and turned around to not face me and was like that is seriously the cutest thing ever I think you've made my night.


We didn't sleep together last night. Just kissed and snuggled.


She asked me a few times if I had missed her during the day and wanted me to tell her more about how I missed her.


My placements for someone who asked

Gem Sun

Libra Moon

Gem Merc

Canc Venus and Mars


Hers are

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aqua Merc

Aries Venus

Cap Mars


Aww see thats cute. Glad you talked through it... We aren't gonna say shit until you do...

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Also stop saying stuff you want in a partner that she feels she has to measure up to. Shhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Lost them? But it's only been like a month. She always compliments me and she always strikes up communication first... should I just tell her how I'm feeling? That I'm missing her etc.. I'm a cancer venus and mars and her mars is in capricorn. I feel like I can be emotionally expressive with her but that aries venus makes me think she'll hit the runner...
She's interested in dating you and you continuously shoot her down. Your actions and words are driving her away.


Ex: "Who said anything about us dating...?"
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Honestly I've shot her down because I need her to be clear and literally come out and say I LIKE YOU, I WANT TO DATE YOU.


But I don't believe I am going to get that from her.


Reason I don't want to date anytime soon is because we are both recently out of long term relos. Her 3 years and me 5 years. She still has some baggage and issues related to her ex and I do also so I would want us to start with a clean slate and in order to do that, there needs to be a lot of time.


I want to know her feelings because I want to know where she is at that's all. Also because I am developing feelings and I was hoping it wasn't just one sided...
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I'm talking to a Pisces sun, leo moon, venus in aries girl.

...


Basically I just want to try to figure out if she has feelings already?
Possibly but she may have lost them.



especially with venus in aries.


they are really fickle you know.


The most fickle of all pisces suns i think.

Wrong.


Aries Venus know what they want, go out to get it& are loyal to a default.
Not the ones I know.



True they go after what they want.... then after about a couple of months they start to go back and forth about whether or not they should break up with their partner ...... eventually they easily discard their partner when they get bored.



Former bff w/ aries venus has never had a relationship last longer than a year and a half. She always gets bored around 11 months and ends it.


So many bitter dudes.


some of them were really nice guys too..it's a shame.


My mom who is also a Pisces sun aries venus left her first husband after only being married to him for 3 months. She literally packed her things and left him in the middle of the night.



Loyal...not so much.
With all due respect, the people you mentioned being fickle in your previous posts all had air moons, and I Defo think that plays a far bigger role than the Aries Venus itself.


Aries placements are decisive, air can make one fickle. Not even hating as I have an air mars myself.
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maybe you are right.


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'Catch' feelings? Sounds like cooties...
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I think I will. We just had lunch together earlier (our buildings are across the road from each other) and we had a really good open conversation. She said it's weird because she never truly opens up and is 100% honest about how she feels but somehow feels comfortable being like that with me.


I'm just going to wait though and see how stronger the feelings become before saying anything. I also told her I'm booking her in on Friday night and she was happy about it.


I def need to take the lead on this.
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Posted by bkbella86
I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.






we are only clingy when we love you and know that it's warranted because you love us back.
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With that said I still don't find the Pisces I know to be clingy. They have very full lives with lots of interest outside the relationship.


I think just because you're clingy, doesn't mean all Pisces are. It's unfair to assume so.
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OK so we touched on the "feels" topic last night. I told her she sometimes makes me feel like I'm bothering her and she was shocked as she didn't think she acted like that at all but was thankful I told her. She said she would correct it and then said "I guess you get that feeling from me because you're really distant with me". So BAM there it was - she IS mirroring me.


Then about the feels.. neither of us want to come clean and admit there are some. I asked her if things would become messy between us and she said not if we were on the same page and not if we both caught feels rather then one and not the other. I asked if she thought she'd catch feels for me and she said "yes possibly". Then other women came into the picture and she said she didn't mind if I was sleeping with other women but just to let her know because she wanted to know which one she was. 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc I joked and told her 3rd and she said she would be upset not that I had other women but that she wasn't my main go to one.


Anyway I was like what if I said I wanted to date you and she said that she knows I wouldn't date someone like her because I had previously told her I need someone that mentally stimulates me a lot and she knows she can't and Id get bored with her.


Thing is she seems insecure. Like things I've told her I look for in a partner, she always feels and acts like she can't and doesn't measure up.


To someone that said why feels matter, they matter because I think.. well I know that they are developing... so I don't want to be the only one with feels.. sounds stupid I know. I would date her yes but not anytime soon. She also said that if we were both to catch feels that it would lead to us wanting to be together and but she also said (at the start of this feels convo) that she likes where we are at and what we have which is sex without emotional attachment and she said she is capable of doing that.


Anyway after all of this and finally about to sleep we kissed and then she was like oh fuck I was just about to say "goodnight, I love you". Sorry I'm just used to saying that. It semi threw me off but just as a joke I was like "I love you too". And she had a massive smile on her face and turned around to not face me and was like that is seriously the cutest thing ever I think you've made my night.


We didn't sleep together last night. Just kissed and snuggled.


She asked me a few times if I had missed her during the day and wanted me to tell her more about how I missed her.


My placements for someone who asked

Gem Sun

Libra Moon

Gem Merc

Canc Venus and Mars


Hers are

Pisces Sun

Leo Moon

Aqua Merc

Aries Venus

Cap Mars
Aww..that sound so sweet. You both have walls but I can see them coming down.


Why does she think you can't mentally stimulate you? And what exactly does mental stimulation mean to you?
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
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I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.






we are only clingy when we love you and know that it's warranted because you love us back.
With that said I still don't find the Pisces I know to be clingy. They have very full lives with lots of interest outside the relationship.


I think just because you're clingy, doesn't mean all Pisces are. It's unfair to assume so.
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lol


everyone has a different definition of clingy mind you


clingy to me is calling me/ talking to me every day when we are in a relationship.


most people would consider that to be normal though.


i bet even you with a normal full life would consider that to be healthy......


i only other hand have attachment issues which manifest in anxiety when i get that type of attention.....constant contact makes me feel like i'm being suffocated but also

freaks me out...so i rather have more space...than most.


Also I wasn't exactly speaking from experience btw...just something i've noticed with my pisces ex and pisces best friends.


....even my current pisces crush.


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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by bkbella86
I don't think water sign equates to clingy. Pisces can be hard to catch and pin down. You'll see.






we are only clingy when we love you and know that it's warranted because you love us back.
With that said I still don't find the Pisces I know to be clingy. They have very full lives with lots of interest outside the relationship.


I think just because you're clingy, doesn't mean all Pisces are. It's unfair to assume so.
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I'm also indirectly quoting erykah baduh aka fatbellybella Winking


"Said I'm a Pisces

Zika deka del

Well well I'm raising hell

People always tryin' to find the world I'm in

I'm the envy of the women and I rule the men

Two fish, one swimmin' up stream

One swimmin' down livin' in a dream

But when she loves she tends to cling

When incense burns, smoke unfurls

Analog girl in a digital world

The rasta style flower child"



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Just because I shoot down when she mentions dating doesn't mean I don't want to know how she feels... and I mean that as in, does she just like me as a friend at the moment, is she starting to feel something? Does she already feel something?


And in terms of the mental stimulation thing.. it's funny because she asked exactly what I mean't by mental stimulation. Basically sometimes I think she feels like she can't be up to my standards which sucks because I've not meant to sound like a dick or like I'm too good but I know I can come across like that at times specially at the start.


Mental stimulation in the sense that I need interesting topics to discuss, I need someone that's mentally quick, someone that is witty and thinks fast on their feet, someone that can play mind games with me (not in an evil sense), someone who can like verbally spar with me during conversation. I tend to speak in a really flirty way with a lot of innuendos etc and I need someone that can give me the same back otherwise if they sit there and be dry I'm just like *yawn*


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Just because I shoot down when she mentions dating doesn't mean I don't want to know how she feels... and I mean that as in, does she just like me as a friend at the moment, is she starting to feel something? Does she already feel something?


And in terms of the mental stimulation thing.. it's funny because she asked exactly what I mean't by mental stimulation. Basically sometimes I think she feels like she can't be up to my standards which sucks because I've not meant to sound like a dick or like I'm too good but I know I can come across like that at times specially at the start.


Mental stimulation in the sense that I need interesting topics to discuss, I need someone that's mentally quick, someone that is witty and thinks fast on their feet, someone that can play mind games with me (not in an evil sense), someone who can like verbally spar with me during conversation. I tend to speak in a really flirty way with a lot of innuendos etc and I need someone that can give me the same back otherwise if they sit there and be dry I'm just like *yawn*


Why do you deserve to know what she feels? You don't.


Either step up or step outta the way for the next guy. Someone who has the balls to pursue what they want.

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Hey guys, digging this one back up! So I'm back from my 10 day getaway.


Before I left the Pisces and I saw each other everyday almost twice a day and before I left we were both kind of desperate to spend as much time together but agreed not to speak while I was gone and then see how things were when I got back.


We spoke maybe 2 times over snapchat messaging where she messaged first to say I was looking really good and I replied kind of being short with her but told her I was keen to see her.


I got back on Wednesday and messaged her Friday morning. She took forever to reply but our messaging didn't go far. Then I hear nothing however she's the first one to watch my snapchat stories.


I text her Saturday night asking when she was free. No reply and it's Sunday morning I can see she put a snapchat story up so she's obviously awake and out...


Do I keep chasing? I've told her twice over text I'm keen to see her. Do I let it go? Why is she ignoring me? I feel like when I do finally see her things will get back to how they were before I left but it's just this us not seeing each other had put like a block in the road.


I have decided I want this fish. I thought about her often while I was on vacay and I'd like something with her now that I'm back but it's like she's distancing herself Sad
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