An interesting topic and question posed to my fishy friends on this board.
Here's the background. We all carry some emotional baggage from our childhood and past relationships. Some call it learning experiences. Some call it baggage.
Some convert it into something positive. Others linger with it negatively.
Given the vibe I'm getting from some of the fishies, do you guys let go of all lingering pain and hurt from previous relationships and enter new ones as a blank slate?
lol i've came across some pisceans in my life who were virtually void of any emotional baggage...however, i've also encountered some fellow fishes who carried with them more baggage than an airport...lol
But I've noticed that the longer they carry the emotional pain - the more it seems to turn into physical pain. Its like watching a balloon fill up with water - and the more it gets filled the more stress is put on the balloon until eventually the slightest thing could just make it explode (philosophically speaking in anger, sadness, etc.) - and the harder they seem to end up breaking down. But when they hit rock bottom - it seems more like a cleansing then anything. But one thing I've noticed as well is they're very personal about it - and if you see them cry just respect the moment they're having - cause just like how caps are to themselves about themselves in general - I've found that pisceans are the same way about their emotions. If they cry in front of you - it is a privilage! Disrespect can lead to a major ass whooping! Well it didn't get that far but I realized this beforehand 🙂 she always wanted to see me cry into a vial so she could use it later for well...other things 😄
***if I was to break up with my boyfriend of five years tomorrow I don't think I could immediately start a new relationship. (like a month) I would need time to heal. I wouldn't want the relationship to be a rebound.*** Absolutely PP !! That is the way it is for me too. But I have to get rid of the negativity of emotions from the past before I can even attempt to get involved with someone else. No baggage there!
Prior to meeting my current boyfriend, I find it's an immediate turn off for me if I meet someone that has any emotional baggage and hasn't resolved those "situations" or feelings in their life. Intuitive, empathic, sensitive.... a Pisces picks up on that and it's unpleasant to be around so it doesn't make a lot of sense to carry around bad energy, thoughts, or emotions of my own much less be around someone that has it!
Hehehe.... if I take my emotional baggage to the airport with me, maybe they'll lose it for me.
man...they couldn't even lose that shit at the air port...you know, it takes me a long time to get over some shit, and other times it doesn't take me any time at all...maybe i'm weird...or maybe after it hurts so long, i stop caring...i know some fish who have let some things tear them up their entire lives...
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Here's the background. We all carry some emotional baggage from our childhood and past relationships. Some call it learning experiences. Some call it baggage.
Some convert it into something positive. Others linger with it negatively.
Given the vibe I'm getting from some of the fishies, do you guys let go of all lingering pain and hurt from previous relationships and enter new ones as a blank slate?
Or are you like the rest of us?