Dont you just hate people who try to emotionally manipulate you

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by piscespoppy on Thursday, April 21, 2016 and has 18 replies.
Its just one thing that really gets my back up, every relationship ive had. I always see it as their last resort and I think"here we go" do other Pisces find this when trying to leave a relationship (im talking about my previous ones before my marriage)
Ye, ive felt that knowing I'm done, I cant do this any more, dead inside feeling, its a soul destroyer isn't it, but I mean ive put all into saying I'm done before, there's nothing left here, ive no feelings anymore please leave and its like I'm talking to myself 'hello' lol! I must have been with some real nutcrackers then, my last 2 before hubby jeez! 1st one my sons father, was more of an alchaholic than I realised, ended up having to go to a flat my dad got for me in secret, just would not accept it was over, the rows. Jeez, the second would not accept it either and would not leave my house for nothing, what do you do, I'm not a little weak woman, believe me, just wondered if any other Pisces had encountered this problem and how they dealt with it, wow these guys I was with must have been real arseholes then, ive never really talked about them before with people, just shows I suppose how we do sometimes make bad choices too . I was young and naive I suppose, you live and learn, really appreciate your replies x
Actually looking back now and re reading my last post, I had a lot of short term relationships before I attempted to settle down with these 2 in my early 20s, they were very different, I never really had problems breaking of with previous ones ðŸ˜

No, I don't hate people.


I notice you do, since you stated you do.
Posted by piscespoppy
Actually looking back now and re reading my last post, I had a lot of short term relationships before I attempted to settle down with these 2 in my early 20s, they were very different, I never really had problems breaking of with previous ones ðŸ˜

and how did it go in early 20s? Big Grin
P-Angel, ye see what your saying.. I should have put Don't you hate it WHEN people try to emotional manipulate you. I don't hate anybody, that's a strong word. Thanks for pointing that out.
I think anyone will try to manipulate you emotionally if they love you and don't want to lose you regardless of sign, I'm talking about partners who go to extreme lengths like canthetenough sais, I was just interested to hear peoples experiences.
Posted by P-Angel
No, I don't hate people.


I notice you do, since you stated you do.

This comment actually made me laugh out loud!!! LOL
Yes, she's very dry isn't she, I love some of her insight on things though, tbh I did word that title a bit open for misconceptions, there's always one ðŸ˜
Posted by CantGetEnough
This one guy I was with lied about wanting to kill himself after I left him in hopes that I would have sympathy and actually stay.

How pathetic.



Same but he was an aqua. Didn't work.

IMO and experience, Pisces is the greatest emotional manipulator. I don't mean that in a negative way either. Pisces goes straight into the emotions and strums them like a guitar. The high notes. The low notes. Also, impossible for a Pisces to be manipulated because you guys are three steps ahead of every scenario. So if you find yourself "manipulated" it's because you allowed it. Which happens a lot, unfortunately. Those rose colored glasses keeps you hoping for the best. Meanwhile you've let your life be directed by others some of whom don't have the best intentions. But seriously it was allowed by you. Let's be real. smile
Posted by P-Angel
No, I don't hate people.


I notice you do, since you stated you do.

Forum posting... by Fischer-Price.



Thanks Brightlight for your input I know exactly what your saying, you've obviously had// have been close with Pisces people before.
Half my above post is missing, I was thanking Brightlight for her post and how she must have been close with Pisces before.
Posted by piscespoppy
Half my above post is missing, I was thanking Brightlight for her post and how she must have been close with Pisces before.

My love is a Pisces. Love him to heaven and back. smile

But I've also had many Pisces friends. Every one has had scenarios where they've partnered up with people who take them for granted and use all the tricks in the book to keep them hooked. What I've learned is that fishy folks are in charge of the hook. You guys don't get hooked. You control the hook. So if the hook is still in, it's because you want it there. Which is cool.

Alternatively, once you don't want the hook there anymore, you spit it out and swim your ass to another coral reef and hide out for awhile.

Haha I've got these fish metaphors ALL day.Laughing
Posted by CantGetEnough
This one guy I was with lied about wanting to kill himself after I left him in hopes that I would have sympathy and actually stay.

How pathetic.



for some reason I found this funny



Bright light, your cool 😎
Posted by CantGetEnough
Yea I find it immature and sneaky.


Pisces and Gemini influenced people are the most manipulative.

This one pisces sun gem moon guy led me to believe we were close, turned out he was just acting that way to get information out of me and left. In the beginning he told me that he likes to cut people off because he likes to see how they change. The same day he did just that
If it's someone I have to deal with i'll flip it back on them. Let them think they manipulated me, and then eventually when unexpected flip the rug from under their feet, or make their "manipulation request" work in my favor and against them someway somehow. As far as relationships go, I am inaccessible once I say it's over that's it.