Flip flop

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Mermaiddreams
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I usually flip flop over a decision million times in my head. When I'm thinking hard about something I usually go silent, I have to be alone, and if I'm around others I will look spaced out. In my mind, I go over the pros and cons, how I would feel about both outcomes, and then when I'm finally ready I make the decision. Its like this, if it takes me along time to make the decision it's a done deal....but if I make the decision suddenly based on my current state of feeling then I'm probably gonna change it
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Posted by DonumDei
One other alternative to consider is that Pisces can and frequently do see many sides to the same story which can easily be misperceived as fickle.
This! I was trying to relay that message and was struggling to do that with words. You nailed it.
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I gotcha. I work with one and she's in charge of a production unit. She will literally change her mind 20 times about how to achieve the same end result. It's so bad that we don't even think about taking action until the 10th phone call.
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Well... then she probably shouldn't be in management. I can see becoming indecisive about things, but when people are counting on your decision and need to take action on that decision... not so much. Then I would say that she is flaky.

I would say normally, Pisces wouldn't do that because we know how that would inconvenience others. We may second guess our decisions, but not to that degree or keep it internally.

I'm not 100% certain on this, but I would say that she just isn't comfortable with her decision making skills rather that being a Pisces trait. *shrugs*
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Yes, they do... And they don't even realize or when confronted, they justify it -- but when pushed to choose, it's like you're asking then to be mean.
Depends on the situation on that one.
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According to the ones I know, they say they are this way becaus they can see both sides of the choices... Both can be valid...


Ugh, but which is the one you choose?


Frustrating
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Yes, they do... And they don't even realize or when confronted, they justify it -- but when pushed to choose, it's like you're asking then to be mean.
Depends on the situation on that one.
According to the ones I know, they say they are this way becaus they can see both sides of the choices... Both can be valid...


Ugh, but which is the one you choose?


Frustrating
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When you explain it like that, yes... I get your point. Again... depends on the situation though. We may be able to see both sides or the coin or all sides of the prism. At times we leave it to it as that, other times, we can make a decision and feel comfortable with that decision, even though we can see us making the other decision.

Eh, us Pisces can be complicated, but simple