Frozen

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by cappysweetie on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 and has 4 replies.
Okay, I made some observations for the past two weeks . I only lightly participated in the discussions because I wanted to focus more on what every one else. I have a series of questions, based on my observations ? yes they are vague but there is a point to my madness .......
Being so consumed with hate and regret , is it possible to become excessively cold towards your own emotions along with others? If a person?s emotions are FROZEN, can their heart ever be open again? Can life ever truly be what you want it to be .....if their heart?s NOT open? Some may consider people who are FROZEN as strong, but are they really just broken?
What could melt the ice built around a jaded heart? Could a person cause the meltdown ? Or will he or she only aid in the process? Could this person hold the key?
OMG Sweetie pie! I was just thinking that in my little broom broom car today! I spent so long closing myself off & trying so hard to freeze my heart. Did a bang up job of it too. I didn't want to feel anything ever again because I didn't like emotions. I wanted to hate people I wanted to be a cold heartless biatch!
My man wore me down smile don't know how but he did - he got to the core of me & made me remember why I felt.
The thing is once you have closed yourself off - you are never the same again - there is always a wall.
Took me awhile to tell my man I loved him too & he was just patient with me and said when you are ready and even if you never do I'll still be here
"The thing is once you have closed yourself off - you are never the same again - there is always a wall.
Took me awhile to tell my man I loved him too & he was just patient with me and said when you are ready and even if you never do I'll still be here"
WOW! What a man smile
So what you are seeing is that once a person is frozen, there will always be permanant scarring around his/her heart? Well, I have another question for you ... could those scars be reminders but also hold special meaning -- such as you can be reminded of the love you lost but also of the love you've gained? As a result, if that person melts the ice around your heart ... the emotions could be stronger? However, this can only occur if you allow your heart to flourish after the meltdown?