Future thinking Pisces...

Mr. Pisces is getting weird. I thought Pisces more or less live for today, go with the flow. He's talking in "us" and "we" terms and making references 20 yrs from now and me part of that picture.

Oh, he's also decided he wants me to see him exclusively and about drove me crazy one night asking if I love him - he didn't like my responses since they didn't answer his question, finally I had to tell him "no" then I got, "well, you care don't you?". I would expect this maybe from a young guy in his 20s... but, Mr. Pisces is over 40.

He's also made an off the wall reference to marking his territory (my car and house). And Pisces are not supposed to be possessive??

Weird I tell ya, what did I do right (or wrong, depending on the angle one looks at it - not sure how I want to look at it, not sure what to think)??

Posted by tooseriouslol
what's so strange about mr.pisces behavior? regardless one's age, everyone who wants and feels would love to hear they are loved by their lover. i think your ways is far more strange lildol. if you don't love him why do you bother to kill yourself with questions about him?

i swear to god that i sometimes think other capricorns are so strange.

What? I've known him 3 mos and have maybe been out on a date with him 8 times. Hardly enough time to consider myself in-love!

No rejection, I expressed that I care, tell him how hearing his ring tone makes me smile, and that his voice puts me at ease (I'm going through a difficult time). He says "scary, but that's ok". He also seems to be enamored by the fact that I answer all of his calls on the first go around these days, really just have the phone on me more due to the situation, but I guess he is seeing it as more about him (regardless of what is going on). IDK. I'm into him much differently than 3 mos ago when I first started writing about him. IDK what it is, can't explain - yes, I am into him that much more, no questions there. I so enjoy the time I spend with him, but am I ready to step out on the plank? Knowing what has been said about Pisces, it's a scary venture - he's even gone there "It's scary to admit how you feel about someone" without saying how he feels himself, of-course. As mentioned above, he did ask. Do you think he wants me to go first? Not sure I'm comfortable with that. I only know what I want, I don't know what I feel!! What I want does not seem to be a good enough answer though, he wants to know how I feel... yeah, so did my therapist, we didn't get very far as I'm (get this) "not in touch with my feelings". *sigh*

Posted by tooseriouslol
ok i guess i am the strange capricorn not you since i find many capricorns strange. as far as i can recall, i'm always the one who says the magic word first and i don't care whether it is said back because that's not why i said it. i was even told that i didn't need to say that once haha. but i continued whenever i felt like it and without exception (not even one), i always have/had it said to me after a short while without me asking for it.

and, btw, he didn't ask you whether you are "in love" he asked whether you love him. i guess our definition of love may be different. i can determine whether i love a person fairly quickly always before anything physical. i rather go eat ice cream than touching a man i don't love and i don't like ice cream. as for "in love", yeah that's something up there. no one dares to ask me whether i am/was in love with him yet.

What other aspects are in your chart? Maybe it's your Moon, which is said to rule emotions.

I can fall quick, and I'll love with all my heart, but give me a chance! I'm not just going to get caught up in "a" moment, I'm a little more guarded than that.

Posted by tooseriouslol

and, btw, he didn't ask you whether you are "in love" he asked whether you love him. i guess our definition of love may be different. i can determine whether i love a person fairly quickly always before anything physical. i rather go eat ice cream than touching a man i don't love and i don't like ice cream. as for "in love", yeah that's something up there. no one dares to ask me whether i am/was in love with him yet.

and love... I admire, appreciate and respect Mr. Pisces to no end and I have told him that. If that's not good enough at this point then IDK what is. I hope to always admire, appreciate and respect him for who he is, who he is to become, and who we evolve into as a couple. I hope he thinks in a similar fashion (or feels as such) and I could not ask for anything more than that at this point in time.

Posted by lildol

I so enjoy the time I spend with him, but am I ready to step out on the plank? Knowing what has been said about Pisces

and that is?

Pisces do fall hard and fast some times in 1982 I dated a woman 2 times we lived as man and wife 17 years she passed away at age 39 1n 1999.
again in 2000 I dated a woman 2 times we lived together 5 years but the last five years I have been single with out a date till this afternoon
I am Pisces Aries on the cusp, she is Gemini Tarsus on the cusp ,what are the chances between our signs we have 2- 3-11 vibrations
a 2-12 and a 4-10 get this this woman is an attractive 40+ year old woman, I am much older. I said It been 5 years Sense I Broke up with my
last girl friend I have not dated I am very picky. she said it's been 18 years for her she wants me to call her again friday. for a date on
Saturday and next Wednesday we are going to take a drive I guess the 2- 3-11 vibrations where really working.

Posted by tooseriouslol
and btw, i "admire, appreciate and respect" my ex but i am not in love with him. that's why i left. that's 2 separate things.

Yeah, that's my point... 3 mos is hardly long enough for anything more, at most it would be infatuation. But, I am not infatuated either, I'd say it's more of a sense of peace as of late. I just feel comfortable, which I think is a better place than being infatuated. I was just taken aback when he was so being so persistent, repeatedly asking me if I love him.