Gemini and Pisces

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Moonfal
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Any Pisces here seem to have a natural attraction to Gemini? It seems the majority of men that have been attracted to me or that I have been attracted to have been Gemini. Two of them came on far too strong and scared me away. The other three had a strong attraction but we weren't looking for the same things; they seem to want to play around and have fun almost like they are in love with the idea of being in love. Also, my best friend is a Gemini gal! I'm interested to hear your experiences!

Also as a side note, the first guy to try and tell me he loved me was Cancer. We had known each other for two years and we were great friends, but he said that after a few weeks of dating and though we were nearly perfect (seemingly) for one another I was scared away. The only actual relationship that I've been in was for three years with an Aquarius who had a lot of Capricorn in his chart.
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I've never really gotten along well with Geminis (men or women). Every Gemini that I have met thus far have been really immature and all over the place. They aren't very dependable either, they make a lot of promises that they can't/don't keep. Of course every Gemini isn't the same, and I'm sure that there are plenty of Geminis that are mature and have learned to tame their affinity to being two-faced. On the bright side I think Geminis are fun in very small, very rare dosages.
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I seem to attract gemini. I rarely find myself attracted to them, but idk, they must see something in me. I haven't had any really negative experiences with Gemini. Our communication style s are different, and I usually get annoyed easily at them, while they enjoy making me flustered. But, even though they seem light-hearted and silly on the outside, they seem to really be able to understand me well and are good observers. As I mentioned to someone else, though, I feel we lead really different lives, though, and I don't think I'd be able to connect beyong friendship or acquaintances with gemini. The only gem girl I know is pretty cool, though. Despite coming on to me really strongly and pushing me into a corner, both literally and not, we at least seem to have more in common than her and her cancer fiancee. Just, not on a romantic level. Haha.

Anyway, that is my view of gemini.
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I have attracted some Gemini's in my life, and while at first I love their generally playful and cerebral thought process, that's pretty much about where it stops. What it generally boiled down to was that we were both flighty, like two friends who would try to date but nothing serious could happen beyond that. He'd either lie, or cheat, or lie about cheating or just lose interest in the standard Gemini fashion, and/or I would just get tired of their bull butter and lies. In the end has left me with a apathetic almost close to sour view on them as relationship material.
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Moonfal
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PPB, totally agree with you, that's so insightful!

My Gemini friend seems to calm down around me a bit, which is why she says she enjoys my company. She definitely gets me out and about though, gee whiz! I am quite an eccentric Pisces; very excitable, yet very reserved and quiet as while.

Lol-rworthy because its not possible, P-Angel? Being Pisces yourself haven't you found that you are more in tune and have a deeper understanding of 'life' than others?

Majority of my friends are about 28. We just get along better than young adults closer to my own age. Older adults are always shocked when they find out how young I am. I notice people either think I'm still in high school (if they judge by appearance) or that I'm considerably older ( if they are judging by intellect and values). No one ever correctly guesses my age!

Yes, there are many life experiences I have not been through yet, and there are many that will happen in my next thirty years of living until I'm in my fifties as yourself. But without knowing the circumstances that I was raised under, let alone anything about me except I was curious if any Pisces naturally attracted Gemini, how can you laugh at my view of myself?
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Posted by Daydreamer35
I've never really gotten along well with Geminis (men or women). Every Gemini that I have met thus far have been really immature and all over the place. They aren't very dependable either, they make a lot of promises that they can't/don't keep. Of course every Gemini isn't the same, and I'm sure that there are plenty of Geminis that are mature and have learned to tame their affinity to being two-faced. On the bright side I think Geminis are fun in very small, very rare dosages.



Agree completely. 'specially this part: "have been really immature and all over the place. They aren't very dependable either, they make a lot of promises that they can't/don't keep."

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I'm a Gemini and I love Pisces!! My Dad is a Fish and several cousins and friends, and I get along with them really well. I have had Pisces men persue me but never really made a move, not sure why Pisces men chase then stop short of making themselves known.........if they like you or not?? It can drive a Gem woman insane 🙂 🙂

any fish men with an answer? Why do Pisces men chase then stop?
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Moonfal
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Ninjafish, thanks for your in depth answer! I haven't gotten that deep into my own astrological chart yet. I'm just starting out 🙂

BadassGemini: I kind of do the same thing with guys. I think it's just a Pisces's nature! We are cautious and like getting to know someone, but sometimes for whatever reason we get scared and can be flighty just as a real fish. We're swimming along, everything's great, then all the sudden we flip around and swim away fast. I do this when A) Things progress too quickly B) The guy is overbearing and contacts me everyday in a needy fashion (Kind of correlates with things moving too quickly) and C) I lose interest. I don't know if that will help you at all.. but I hope it does 🙂
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hey moonfal, i'm relatively new here too. so welcome 🙂 i'm a pisces sun, scorpio ascendant, taurus moon and my boyfriend is a gemini sun, cancer ascendant, pisces moon. i've always been attracted to geminis (best girl friend is also a gem) but he is definitely not the typical flighty kind with his water elements in the mix. we do have our differences but they compliment our relationship more often than not.
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Am a Gemini with load of water in my chart, dating a Pisces who is very older than me and the best time of my life I can say. I dont like fellow Gemini they just talk load of bollocks. Like silence sometimes specially when you spend with someone you love hugged. What makes me attracted towards Pisces is their beauty, gentleness, caring and soft voice, that makes me curious to explore their wild side GGGRRRRR.
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Im never quite attracted to Gemini male (except the famous ones like Blake Shelton, Aaron Johnson etc...) and this is the same with that gemini man whom i've first met in May, at first impression i didnt like him at all, the only thing i remmeber bout our first meeting is tht he's very friendly toward me and i can easily talk to him like a brother, he made me feel comfortable, but then we didnt see each other for a while, i forgot him so
Until July i met him again in the cafeteria much like a coincidence, he invite me to have lunch wth him cos he thinks im so pitiful eating alone. 🙂)
The more im talking to him the more im starting to like him, we joke alot, i share wth him my intimate secrets and i completely trust him, he seems like he enjoys me as a good friend too. But then i learned that he already got a fiancee in his hometown who waiting for him to come back after he finished his abroad study. I realized how much he loved her from what he always remarks about their relationship and that he compliments her alot, im really jealous. I presume he likes me too but only as a friend and as his sister, i couldnt be compared wth his fiancee, im so sad but there's nothing i can do
I tried my best to restrict my emotion in order to forget about him, i always argue wth him on trivial things, and of course as a gemini he's pretty argumentative and stubborn he never admit that he's wrong. I even remain silent and pretend im angry of him many times for many days. But no matter how harsh we argued and how terrible we irritated each other, he always text and invite me to go out wth him, treat me pretty nice and fair, as if he never take it personal, to the point that i can no longer hide my feeling for him anymore.
Idk if i should tell him bout my true feeling or not, i dont want to ruin our good friendship, i dont want to leave his side either, any time im with him its almost like the other people around me are disappearing and i want it to be just me and him, i hate it when his friends drop by his table and interrupt our conversation
This is so crazy im beginning to love all those things that i used to hate about him, im really happy each time we're together. Maybe he never know, and never understand either

Thats my sad story, and im currently stucked in this unrequited love, i just want him to get the fuck out of my life so i could forget all about that man, but i also know that from the bottom of my heart, i cant live a day without him. Maybe im so madly
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But then i learned that he already got a fiancee in his hometown who waiting for him to come back after he finished his abroad study. I realized how much he loved her from what he always remarks about their relationship and that he compliments her alot, im really jealous. I presume he likes me too but only as a friend and as his sister, i couldnt be compared wth his fianc?



First I will start out by saying do not compare yourself to any other woman. Everyone has wonderful qualities, and everyone has some that aren't so great. That's what makes us all so fantastic in our own way!

As long as you do not cross any physical boundaries (If opportunity arose) I would say tell him how you feel. If he really loves her and does not reciprocate just know he was not meant to be yours, and you will find someone better who looks at you and ALL your qualities with the utmost love and devotion. If you lose him as a friend, it was a worthy gamble. You will just have to decide which is more important to you; his friendship or love 🙂
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@moonfall i intuitively think he somehow knows what i feel about him too. There was a time when i said i hate him so much that i just want to punch him after a heated debate, but then he told me that a girl always means the opposite of what they say, that is to say i want to cuddle him instead of hit him in the face haha, wow im completely blushed after hearing him say that (that's so true) but of course i told him that's rubbish and I meant exactly what I say (im too proud to admit that)
And he also asks me why i never let his friends drive me home but it always has to be him to do that, and why when others around i hardly talk about anything but only when there was only me and him i suddenly become more cheerful and outgoing. Idk, maybe that's just what i think im not so sure cos he's unlike most gemini man i've known, he always show his soft side to me when there's none of his friends beside him. How complicated! =_=