Gemini Male wants Pisces Ex Gf back- Help Needed

HI fellow Geminis- I am a Gemini that just got dumped about 3 weeks ago by my ex gf. Ill be honest she went through my phone twice and saw some dirty textes. She forgave me the 1st time but then caught me the 2nd. I know its no excuse but I was in a depressed mode for a few months and it was easy to get attention from other woman. I know its wrong. I know I was wrong. Bottom line is she means the world to me and I want her back. Her mind is tainted right now with negative images of me, yet she does text me sometimes asking how I am doing? Long story short I have made changes and love her. What do I do? What do I say?

Her bday is March 12th 92
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Sorry- I meant hello fellow Pisces

Posted by top_recruit
HI fellow Geminis-

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LOLOL!!! I love this!

As a March 12 pisces, with a gemini moon and ascendant... she's probably not coming back, sure she'll check on you cause she's curious and just wants to know you're missing her - we have egos too. Pisces deal with a lot, but it takes us a lot to leave and generally when we reach that point, it's for good.

She OBVIOUSLY didn't mean that much to you that's why you cheated. Fuck off and let her find a real man that has enough integrity to keep his attention focused on one woman.

Posted by KaptainKhaos
She OBVIOUSLY didn't mean that much to you that's why you cheated. Fuck off and let her find a real man that has enough integrity to keep his attention focused on one woman.

So she can cheat on him

Im not disagreeing with any of you. I really did screw up and she does deserve better. I want to be the one though to treat her better. She means the world to me and I need to show it. Thursday night we talked and she was very closed off. She said she was done. We both had tears in our eyes..... I know its wrong for me to ask for help but I am. Im really sorry.
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If she said she was done....she's done

I dont disagree. I really need help here. I realize my mistake and what I have done. I am a firm believer that anything is impossible. Please help.

Posted by top_recruit
HI fellow Geminis- I am a Gemini that just got dumped about 3 weeks ago by my ex gf. Ill be honest she went through my phone twice and saw some dirty textes. She forgave me the 1st time but then caught me the 2nd. I know its no excuse but I was in a depressed mode for a few months and it was easy to get attention from other woman. I know its wrong. I know I was wrong. Bottom line is she means the world to me and I want her back. Her mind is tainted right now with negative images of me, yet she does text me sometimes asking how I am doing? Long story short I have made changes and love her. What do I do? What do I say?

Her bday is March 12th 92
Thanks

So sorry, but her mind is not "tainted". You did the dirty deed and she found out. I mean, I know it's wrong to go through someone's phone and I've done it once...that's how I found some stuff out too. I think it's better for you to just allow her to come to you. I admit, as a Pisces woman, I'd forgive the first offense, but if I saw it happen again, I would make the assumption that it would never stop and that every single time you weren't feeling good about yourself, instead of trying to cope with it in a fashion that doesn't threaten our relationship, you'd exchange dirty texts to cope. That's not ok and especially if you're not offering her any other relationship security that would balance our her putting up with it. Pisces, we MAY overlook some major flaws if there are other aspects of the relationship that are off of the charts GREAT. I don't mean just sex either. I mean like...you guys travel to the most amazing places together or have a VERY successful business together. The positive thing in your relationship would have to FAR outweigh her putting up with your emotional cheating, which eventually WILL lead to physical cheating...it just takes the right circumstance and your exchanging dirty texts with the right woman will eventually lead to you cheating on her in reality. I'm so sorry that you're going through this, but I'm just telling you how I would feel about it. I'm a Pisces sun and moon.

You actually don't really love her if you did you would have never texted or flirted with those other women.
Don't think just because you want her back or feel sad that she dumped you that it actually means you actually have genuine feelings for her.
You only want her back because she finally stood up for herself and rejected / dumped you. She's a challenge again.
If you two would have stayed together you'd probably still be bored / upset or "in a mood" and would be still entertaining / flirting with other women.
Don't worry gemini guy you'll soon forget about all of this and will be off to the next thing. You're young.

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
You actually don't really love her if you did you would have never texted or flirted with those other women.
Don't think just because you want her back or feel sad that she dumped you that it actually means you actually have genuine feelings for her.
You only want her back because she finally stood up for herself and rejected / dumped you. She's a challenge again.
If you two would have stayed together you'd probably still be bored / upset or "in a mood" and would be still entertaining / flirting with other women.
Don't worry gemini guy you'll soon forget about all of this and will be off to the next thing. You're young.

I strongly disagree. I unfortunatly learn the hard way. I dont learn/ understand the results of my actions until I see how it affects people once its done. I have a sincere amount of guilt. More importantly I have alot of love for her. She will talk to me via phone or text but doest want to meet for coffee or anything. I really need help here. I know I dont deserve another chance and I dont mean to beg but I am going too. She means the world to me. I can feel her pain and suffering, I can feel how much I hurt her. I need your guidance on what to do and how to win her back....

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"No excuses" but I was in depressive mode.... F you dude!! If I were your pisces chick I will dump you ass off the curb forever...

One mistake can be forgiven, I've a huge believer on second chances... but after that you know what you did wrong... but yet you keep stretching your luck... dude get some shame and leave that woman alone...

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Posted by top_recruit

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
You actually don't really love her if you did you would have never texted or flirted with those other women.
Don't think just because you want her back or feel sad that she dumped you that it actually means you actually have genuine feelings for her.
You only want her back because she finally stood up for herself and rejected / dumped you. She's a challenge again.
If you two would have stayed together you'd probably still be bored / upset or "in a mood" and would be still entertaining / flirting with other women.
Don't worry gemini guy you'll soon forget about all of this and will be off to the next thing. You're young.

I strongly disagree. I unfortunatly learn the hard way. I dont learn/ understand the results of my actions until I see how it affects people once its done. I have a sincere amount of guilt. More importantly I have alot of love for her. She will talk to me via phone or text but doest want to meet for coffee or anything. I really need help here. I know I dont deserve another chance and I dont mean to beg but I am going too. She means the world to me. I can feel her pain and suffering, I can feel how much I hurt her. I need your guidance on what to do and how to win her back....

Thanks

She does not want to see you because you remind her of the pain she felt when she saw those messages. To her those were not just "messages" or just a mistake coz you were feeling hungry for attention. there are many ways to get support and attention from friends, family. And if she loved you, she wanted to be that one woman who can be in the bad and the good times with you. You chose another woman for support. Don't use the "omg it was a mistake and I was depressed"

It was you communicating with another female - human being that was not her. It made her feel she was not making you happy, for Pisces we want to feel that we are making you happy, if you show signs or tell us we are not making you happy- with all our heart and pain inside, we will pack up our stuff and leave.

Please let her go to she can heal. If it is meant to be for you guys to be together, you guys will be. In the mean time learn from this experience and do not hurt another sweet Pisces woman or any woman again.

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I couldn't wrote that better... that is exactly what I would feel....

When I was in college an Aqua boyfriend did exactly the same (well he actually got sex with some of those girls because I didn't caught him on time).... I give him a second chance because I loved him, but he did it again because he thought I was gullible, it took me lots of pain to get over him but I did, I even got a piercing as a remainder to not got back to him no matter what!!!

I'm not the jealous kind... until you give me one pitch of reason to distrust you, expect hell... It would be almost impossible to trust you back... (blame the cancer in me for that) and if I gave you a second chance is for you to be damn serious about it, obviously you did...

We Pisces love and we love deeply, and it would wound us deeply too that someone we love that much take us for granted, I can assure you, she will do almost the impossible to scratch you from the face of the earth if necessary to not see you again, she is in getting over you mode now, that will be a long process for her, but once we are on that boat... highly unlikely we turn back... not now not in the near future...

sorry if my words hurt your hopes but you should've have thought about your doings the first time you got forgiven, you thought deep in the back of your head she was stupid to not find out... she did, you lost... her

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
You actually don't really love her if you did you would have never texted or flirted with those other women.
Don't think just because you want her back or feel sad that she dumped you that it actually means you actually have genuine feelings for her.
You only want her back because she finally stood up for herself and rejected / dumped you. She's a challenge again.
If you two would have stayed together you'd probably still be bored / upset or "in a mood" and would be still entertaining / flirting with other women.
Don't worry gemini guy you'll soon forget about all of this and will be off to the next thing. You're young.

I strongly disagree. I unfortunatly learn the hard way. I dont learn/ understand the results of my actions until I see how it affects people once its done. I have a sincere amount of guilt. More importantly I have alot of love for her. She will talk to me via phone or text but doest want to meet for coffee or anything. I really need help here. I know I dont deserve another chance and I dont mean to beg but I am going too. She means the world to me. I can feel her pain and suffering, I can feel how much I hurt her. I need your guidance on what to do and how to win her back....

Thanks

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you are young you willl get over it. Like you said hopefully you will learn from your mistake next time meaning if you feel the need to flirt or talk to another girl maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first or at the very least sit down and talk with the girl you are dating. But seriously you didn't love her. You may care for her or have love for her but it wasn't "true love". Trust me. Both of you are better off.