Purple38
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Posted by DreamyboyI agree, my ex husband did the same sort of things to try to get me to see things his way but I didn't budge and it totally blew his lid. In the end he accepted and admitted that it was all his fault which it was and that he didn't blame me and that he was sorry. But that was way too late.
He's literally fucking with you. It's a power struggle right now and he's taking cheap shots. TBH if you want to come out on top, just let him throw his fit. He'll get over it and you'll most likely be in control after. This was shit I did in highschool albeit it works, but it's childish. All this blocking in certain areas and responses in other areas are all calculated games. If he was really done with you, then he wouldn't bother responding or would make it very clear that he is done. Since he isn't, he wants to give you the run around and the works. Just chill. He's fine. Give him space, let him breathe. He'll come back and be mad that you didn't play the game, just respond strongly and firmly that your not about games.

Posted by DreamyboyYeah I get that now - but you learned - I didn't understand it then - how could that be - because that is surely what it seemed like to me - but he was like 50 years old acting like that ? really ? it was other stupid little stuff - not blocking on social media because we were married and not into that but other little stupid immature things he would do to get his way - thank god there are people out there in these signs that understand and have overcome - good for you!Posted by tctaIt's the weak childish side of our sign unfortunately. The oldest sign of the zodiac throwing a childish temper tantrum of a toddler. I've done it before, not gonna lie, but that was when I was young and in highschool. Even if I was at fault, I'd try to "flip the script" to get it off me.Posted by DreamyboyI agree, my ex husband did the same sort of things to try to get me to see things his way but I didn't budge and it totally blew his lid. In the end he accepted and admitted that it was all his fault which it was and that he didn't blame me and that he was sorry. But that was way too late.
He's literally fucking with you. It's a power struggle right now and he's taking cheap shots. TBH if you want to come out on top, just let him throw his fit. He'll get over it and you'll most likely be in control after. This was shit I did in highschool albeit it works, but it's childish. All this blocking in certain areas and responses in other areas are all calculated games. If he was really done with you, then he wouldn't bother responding or would make it very clear that he is done. Since he isn't, he wants to give you the run around and the works. Just chill. He's fine. Give him space, let him breathe. He'll come back and be mad that you didn't play the game, just respond strongly and firmly that your not about games.click to expand

Posted by Dreamyboyyeah I think I was his first earth woman lol - it was a hell of a ride in some respects but I have to live with both feet on the ground - I can't be swept away by the current on a daily basis - I got tired finding my way homePosted by tctaBalance learned from earthy ex girlfriends ?Posted by DreamyboyYeah I get that now - but you learned - I didn't understand it then - how could that be - because that is surely what it seemed like to me - but he was like 50 years old acting like that ? really ? it was other stupid little stuff - not blocking on social media because we were married and not into that but other little stupid immature things he would do to get his way - thank god there are people out there in these signs that understand and have overcome - good for you!Posted by tctaIt's the weak childish side of our sign unfortunately. The oldest sign of the zodiac throwing a childish temper tantrum of a toddler. I've done it before, not gonna lie, but that was when I was young and in highschool. Even if I was at fault, I'd try to "flip the script" to get it off me.Posted by DreamyboyI agree, my ex husband did the same sort of things to try to get me to see things his way but I didn't budge and it totally blew his lid. In the end he accepted and admitted that it was all his fault which it was and that he didn't blame me and that he was sorry. But that was way too late.
He's literally fucking with you. It's a power struggle right now and he's taking cheap shots. TBH if you want to come out on top, just let him throw his fit. He'll get over it and you'll most likely be in control after. This was shit I did in highschool albeit it works, but it's childish. All this blocking in certain areas and responses in other areas are all calculated games. If he was really done with you, then he wouldn't bother responding or would make it very clear that he is done. Since he isn't, he wants to give you the run around and the works. Just chill. He's fine. Give him space, let him breathe. He'll come back and be mad that you didn't play the game, just respond strongly and firmly that your not about games.
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Posted by Dreamyboybalance is definitely keyPosted by tctaI know what you mean. I tend to try to have a shotgun fling, but I blame it on Aries Venus. If I can't get enough, she might be the one lol but balance is keyPosted by Dreamyboyyeah I think I was his first earth woman lol - it was a hell of a ride in some respects but I have to live with both feet on the ground - I can't be swept away by the current on a daily basis - I got tired finding my way homePosted by tctaBalance learned from earthy ex girlfriends ?Posted by DreamyboyYeah I get that now - but you learned - I didn't understand it then - how could that be - because that is surely what it seemed like to me - but he was like 50 years old acting like that ? really ? it was other stupid little stuff - not blocking on social media because we were married and not into that but other little stupid immature things he would do to get his way - thank god there are people out there in these signs that understand and have overcome - good for you!Posted by tctaIt's the weak childish side of our sign unfortunately. The oldest sign of the zodiac throwing a childish temper tantrum of a toddler. I've done it before, not gonna lie, but that was when I was young and in highschool. Even if I was at fault, I'd try to "flip the script" to get it off me.Posted by DreamyboyI agree, my ex husband did the same sort of things to try to get me to see things his way but I didn't budge and it totally blew his lid. In the end he accepted and admitted that it was all his fault which it was and that he didn't blame me and that he was sorry. But that was way too late.
He's literally fucking with you. It's a power struggle right now and he's taking cheap shots. TBH if you want to come out on top, just let him throw his fit. He'll get over it and you'll most likely be in control after. This was shit I did in highschool albeit it works, but it's childish. All this blocking in certain areas and responses in other areas are all calculated games. If he was really done with you, then he wouldn't bother responding or would make it very clear that he is done. Since he isn't, he wants to give you the run around and the works. Just chill. He's fine. Give him space, let him breathe. He'll come back and be mad that you didn't play the game, just respond strongly and firmly that your not about games.
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Posted by Dreamyboybalance is definitely keyPosted by tctaI know what you mean. I tend to try to have a shotgun fling, but I blame it on Aries Venus. If I can't get enough, she might be the one lol but balance is keyPosted by Dreamyboyyeah I think I was his first earth woman lol - it was a hell of a ride in some respects but I have to live with both feet on the ground - I can't be swept away by the current on a daily basis - I got tired finding my way homePosted by tctaBalance learned from earthy ex girlfriends ?Posted by DreamyboyYeah I get that now - but you learned - I didn't understand it then - how could that be - because that is surely what it seemed like to me - but he was like 50 years old acting like that ? really ? it was other stupid little stuff - not blocking on social media because we were married and not into that but other little stupid immature things he would do to get his way - thank god there are people out there in these signs that understand and have overcome - good for you!Posted by tctaIt's the weak childish side of our sign unfortunately. The oldest sign of the zodiac throwing a childish temper tantrum of a toddler. I've done it before, not gonna lie, but that was when I was young and in highschool. Even if I was at fault, I'd try to "flip the script" to get it off me.Posted by DreamyboyI agree, my ex husband did the same sort of things to try to get me to see things his way but I didn't budge and it totally blew his lid. In the end he accepted and admitted that it was all his fault which it was and that he didn't blame me and that he was sorry. But that was way too late.
He's literally fucking with you. It's a power struggle right now and he's taking cheap shots. TBH if you want to come out on top, just let him throw his fit. He'll get over it and you'll most likely be in control after. This was shit I did in highschool albeit it works, but it's childish. All this blocking in certain areas and responses in other areas are all calculated games. If he was really done with you, then he wouldn't bother responding or would make it very clear that he is done. Since he isn't, he wants to give you the run around and the works. Just chill. He's fine. Give him space, let him breathe. He'll come back and be mad that you didn't play the game, just respond strongly and firmly that your not about games.
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Posted by DreamyboyI'm a Libra
What's your sign OP?
Posted by DreamyboyDid I mention we're in our late 30s?
What's your sign OP?

Posted by Purple38Posted by DreamyboyDid I mention we're in our late 30s?
What's your sign OP?click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Purple38Posted by DreamyboyDid I mention we're in our late 30s?
What's your sign OP?
Wtf that sounds like petty shit teenagers deal with, how does that not scream NEXTclick to expand
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over an hour. I asked if he still had feelings he said I knew the answer. I asked if he really wanted to end things. He didn't answer. I told him that I wanted to fix this and he unfriended me on Snapchat though he didn't block me. Is this over? Or is he just licking his wounds?