Has anyone been dumped by a Pisces Girl before?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by littlescorpio on Saturday, January 19, 2013 and has 12 replies.

littlescorpio

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Do you know what you did wrong that caused her to dump you? Seeking advice for my friend.

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I could tell you all about a female Pisces dumper, but can't tell ya what it's like to be dumped by one! Haha
Though, if it helps answer in any way, I usually dump someone out of the blue, so they're left shocked, however, I always try to explain to them why. Though, rarely do I ever have a good idea of why besides 'I just wasn't feeling it anymore.' If they ask for more clarity, I always try my best to get them on the same page. Good luck to your friend.

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Posted by Scenic
'I just wasn't feeling it anymore.' If they ask for more clarity, I always try my best to get them on the same page.

How are you able to lose your feelings? Is it because the guy is boring? LOL (I'm not saying my friend is boring)

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Posted by littlescorpio
Posted by Scenic
'I just wasn't feeling it anymore.' If they ask for more clarity, I always try my best to get them on the same page.

How are you able to lose your feelings? Is it because the guy is boring? LOL (I'm not saying my friend is boring)
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It's more like, after spending so much time together, we fall into the same patterns and there's nothing new. People tend to put in less effort over time, and after the whole honeymoon phase ends, I start picking apart whats wrong in the relationship. I get irritated easier at this repetitive behavior and I start to crave the intense feelings I had before. This also causes my mind to wander to other guys and thus, I lose even more interest in the one I'm with now.
I guess when it comes down to it, the main reason is the loss of intense feelings after the honeymoon phase.

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I dump people when I feel any sort of "shift" in a relationship. If I start to get the feeling that they're losing interest in me or if they stop being consistent I will start over analyzing their actions and eventually dump them. especially if they keep doing it and I'm not getting a real explanation why.
I need dependability and consistency in my relationships

I get the whole "gut feelings" when something is off about the relationships and 90% of the time I am right in dumping them.

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Again, speaking from a Pisces perspective: like @dreamingpisces, I tend to dump people when I notice something "off" in the relationship. Sometimes, I can tell when somethings off about my partner before they can. It's almost always turned out for the better - for both parties.
Note also that I do appreciate a good amount of emotional intensity.

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my mom is a pisces, and one of the strongest woman I know. She can be annoying but I know I've learned a lot from my mother. My reason for saying this is that pisces women are different from the men by a long shot,, I also have a few pisces friends who are women and I will tell you this,some of them do have high standards on what they want their men to be like.You would have to be husband worthy for them to date you, or good enough to invest in. If you have a habit like a drinking problem it's over, if you said something insensitive forget it it's over, or she is just not going to invest that much in you as she would have before. If you whine to much(signs that he might be weak) forget it it's over, if you went out on a first date and she had to pay half forget it she will never call you again. If you thought she was easy and tried to make her do something she feels strongly about not doing forget it you don't have a chance in hell, and if you don't have your shit together which is something a pisces woman can pick up instantly, she will never give you the time of day. If you ordered her food for her she will never call you again (signs that the man in question might be controlling). pisces women have strong viewpoints and half the time they can be right and even psychic so your viewpoint has to be in line with hers or it's done( meaning he has a shady way of thinking) also pisces women can hold their own I never knew a pisces woman without a job or not in school and they expect the same from a man that they choose to deal with pisces women that I know won't get into a relationship unless it's time for marriage and if thats not what you are about than why waste her time my mom has dated a men to later realize underlying problems and dumped them. My mom raised me to think a certain way and as a cancer woman I've made choices that were not so great much to my mother's disapointment and I will tell you I have dated only pisces men and although she likes them and share the same sign my mom will later tell me something is not right with this one she can see it I can't you need to be the man that can have their back they will not fight another mans battle you have to be strong enough to handle your own problems and be stable although that might seem that way with all woman but it's not because a lot of women can put up with negative traits in a man or some women will dismiss and ignore signs and also self esteem can play a part

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Have any of you thought about getting back together with ex's?

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I never ever think about going back. what's done is done. if I leave a relationship, I have thought about it in-depth beforehand & I never turn back on a decision like that. I leave if you are dishonest to me or I sense we are't going anywhere together, or rather "we" don't fit into where "I" personally want to go with my life... perhaps I have made the journey with you but you haven't yet made the journey with me. pisces puts the fish in selfish when it comes to addressing why we call things off, lol each of us have our own specific reason that are purely about how we feel. I left my first boyfriend because I didn't feel the same anymore & things became stale. I was young and I told him that I needed to take some time to find myself for awhile, so I did. condolences to your friend. remember though, chase a fish and it'll swim away. you have to let things take their course.

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Not a Pisces myself but having had wonderful friendships in the past with Pisces women, I can only say they swim towards whatever waters that are favourable. Nothing anyone else does will change that, it is their nature to move.
Perhaps, try adopting their mantra 'Off to bigger better/favourable things or waters' can't have what you want, then go after what can have. To turn the frown upside down and you get a smile, easy going with the flow.
What is meant to be, will be with merfolks, there could be one and a million reasons why they swim, as long as it doesn't feel good anymore, their gone, it might sound selfish but I think it's just a concise use of their time, energy, and thoughts.
My $ 0.02

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"I usually dump someone out of the blue, so they're left shocked"
Yep, I have the tendency to do this..I just like go cold turkey!!!

"I dump people when I feel any sort of "shift" in a relationship."
Yes I can feel that and if I don't dump you right away I withdraw and then end it.

@CrabbyPatty I'd say 90% of what you said gets a man dumped!!

"Have any of you thought about getting back together with ex's?"
I hadnt, but there has been two special guys that have made their way back, both were/are deep soul mates the first one we just went on several hiatusus, but when it was totally over I did not go back. The man I have now is someone I dumped almost 20 years ago we rekindled and I am so happy I did..:-)