He checks if I'm online, he doesn't speak to me?

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Why does he check if I'm online if he doesn't speak to me?
He texts me every few weeks if he is not interested in me? he mentioned he's noticed that Im busy (active online) at a certain time. We hardly speak because I felt that he wasn't into me but into other girls. He initiated conversation a few times and didn't reply my replies. He has plenty other girls to text so I dont think Im on the backburner as he has many options. I dont know what to think?
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thisismylife2015
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Think that you are an option....because that's exactly what you are. He does the minimum to make sure you know he's still around, and then plays games to make sure you stay hooked while he pursues someone he's really interested in. He'll be back around more to confuse you when the well runs a little dry, and then start this all over again once he meets real options he's really into. Do us and yourself a favor and find someone who doesn't make you question if they like you or what their intentions are.
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Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by miss1313
Posted by KsamCancer
If he textes you and doesnt reply, you are on the backburner. Pisces like to play with their food
Backburner? He has a lot of other girls to do this with, why even bother to text first if you arent interested. I wouldnt? Nice to have male perspective 🙂
For an easy fuck? 1 text every few days for the possibility of hitting? In business terms the reward outweighs the risk. If you were stock he'd invest in you.
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We have not treetrunked. I stopped chatting to him and kinda ended things because I wanted something stable. He is good looking, he has plenty other girls to treetrunk, I'm not easy. I never made things easy for him. He texts every couple of weeks to comment that Ive been "busy" online(how does he even notice) if he has other females or he'll ask me how Ive been or if Im hooking up with another guy
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Posted by miss1313

.... he has plenty other girls to treetrunk, I'm not easy. I never made things easy for him. He texts every couple of weeks to comment that Ive been "busy" online(how does he even notice) if he has other females or he'll ask me how Ive been or if Im hooking up with another guy



At first, I thought this thread was legitimate, and people spoke honestly to you, and guided you a proper direction. But then you came back with the same complaint, as if you never heard a word.

Which means you aren't looking for insight, or you would have heard what is being said to .... so, the only logical assumption becomes:

The purpose of this thread is to showcase yourself so that people will believe that you are winning.

It's so transparent now that I'm looking at the intent of this thread from this angle ..... why else would you say several times questioning why he would notice you, then after every time you question this, you state that he is contacting YOU

I can't see any other reason for you to draw attention to yourself, while trying to make people believe you're not
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I don't think that the OP is looking for attention. Hard as it might be to accept, not everyone has the answers to everything. That's the beauty of forums like these.

OP...he's definitely just doing the single and mingling thing. No sweat...go mingle with more people yourself instead of wondering what someone who has your interest is doing. Take a page from his book and increase your odds of meeting the right person for you. It's a numbers game.
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Posted by KsamCancer
Posted by miss1313
Posted by KsamCancer
If he textes you and doesnt reply, you are on the backburner. Pisces like to play with their food
Backburner? He has a lot of other girls to do this with, why even bother to text first if you arent interested. I wouldnt? Nice to have male perspective 🙂
For an easy fuck? 1 text every few days for the possibility of hitting? In business terms the reward outweighs the risk. If you were stock he'd invest in you.
We have not treetrunked. I stopped chatting to him and kinda ended things because I wanted something stable. He is good looking, he has plenty other girls to treetrunk, I'm not easy. I never made things easy for him. He texts every couple of weeks to comment that Ive been "busy" online(how does he even notice) if he has other females or he'll ask me how Ive been or if Im hooking up with another guy
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I get what the OP is saying. He's trying to act as if he's invested by being nosy...someone else said it right...he's playing with his food. Don't fall for it.
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Posted by RoseAngel
Posted by hydorah
Posted by miss1313
Why does he check if I'm online if he doesn't speak to me?
Could we just avoid answering these shit threads already
I do seem to see many threads like this on every page of the pisces forum and not so much on the other signs.

Is it fair to say that the guys fuck around in this way more than others?

I read on another thread that when they are done they do "the moody and cut off".

Why do Pisces men fuck around so much in this way?

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lol you can find the same shit on evey board