He ignores me

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by ariesscorpio on Sunday, November 6, 2011 and has 32 replies.

First of all I want to apologize for bad English language, hope you will understand me
I am an Aries woman who is the first time in relationship with the Pisces man. We had a lovely, very romantic but short relationship, we spent wonderful moments together in cuddling and kissing. Then occurred a misunderstanding in communication between us, he said something what I found very offended, reacted impulsively as each ram and broke up with him.I expected apologize and explanation but he did not do it.
The next day he called me but I did not answerd, then he looked for my friend to meet her at a coffee bar, he wanted to talk with her about problem. Why not with me? He said that I had left him and he agreed and that I had misunderstood his words, he did not want to hurt me.
I was so happy about that news and have contacted him. I told him I wanted to discuss, his annswer was - he is not interested, but he will give me a chance. I was so disappointed for hearing that, so I told him that I wouldn't tease him, bother him in that case. He has answered - o.k.! Oh, I was so angry about this answer,ok? oh my God!
After that we met the same night at the dance club, he ignored me, not even said hello, so I ignored and him too, what could I do else?!. I danced with other guys and pretended did not see him. My friend tried to talk whit him, and asked him why he was acting so badly, he said that he tried twice to talk to me and was rejected . ???? But, this is no true, I want to discuss and solve the problem!
What should I do know? What do you advise? I am so desperate, I like him so much!
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Posted by ariesscorpio

Then occurred a misunderstanding in communication between us, he said something what I found very offended, reacted impulsively as each ram and broke up with him.I expected apologize and explanation but he did not do it.



you dumped him over something obviously not worth to go to all this extreme...you just showed the Pisces when the going gets tough you're out of here...already I can see you will over drantise things and probably dump him if he puts your hair brush in the wrong spot...lol
Pisces want loyailty through good AND bad times...none of this run because you quit a Pisces the next time you do this you will not get your Pisces back...at all...

Posted by ariesscorpio

The next day he called me but I did not answerd, Why not with me?



Because YOU ignored him...

Posted by ariesscorpio

so I told him that I wouldn't tease him, bother him in that case. He has answered - o.k.! Oh, I was so angry about this answer,ok? oh my God!
After that we met the same night at the dance club, he ignored me, not even said hello, so I ignored and him too, what could I do else?!. I danced with other guys and pretended did not see him.



wow...clearly you have no respect for him you are already ignoring him in public and not only that but dance with other guys...no doubt not guys that you know !!!
Pretend to not see him ???? wow ...and you expect him to come running to you ???

Posted by ariesscorpio

What should I do know? What do you advise? I am so desperate, I like him so much!

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You should be the one apologizing for blowing him off everywhere...you will need to come to him FIRST...that will show him you want him...and you better make it up to him because Pisces guys will give you their heart and do everything for you..
The one thing I can say is Pisces want someone to prove themselves to them to show they are genuine...
I don't think you should be with him...you already show mean spirited attitude over a misunderstanding...so you go to the extreme and all you can do is think why he ignore you ?
Would you like it if he did these things to you ???
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*drantise = dramatize
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Posted by ariesscorpio

so I told him that I wouldn't tease him, bother him in that case. He has answered - o.k.! Oh, I was so angry about this answer,ok? oh my God!
After that we met the same night at the dance club, he ignored me, not even said hello, so I ignored and him too, what could I do else?!.



I meant to elaborate further...he ignored you because you said you didn't want to bother him anymore...to him this means you wipe your hands of him already...means you no longer want him...even work things out...you should have said I want you and want to be with you...support you through good and bad times...understand...be there etc...
So you said not bother him...so he said ok...what was he suppose to say ? remember Pisces want someone to SHOW through actions AND words you want them...this is how they gauge the genuine and not genuine...because we have soft hearts and go deep with someone we want proof you want us...we won't chase...not normally...if we do it's short live and we regret anyway that we chased lol...

Posted by ariesscorpio

what could I do else?!.

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you could have broke the silence and gone up to him and tell him you want to work things out...
If you walk away from a Pisces they will move forward...you need to be the one to fight for what you want with a Pisces...not *fight* literally but like I said SHOW...
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There is need for more details
I have chronic conjunctivitis in my eyes, and been waiting result for the type of bacteria. He was very worried about it and feared to get the disease from me because I was in his opinion contagious. What if was Chlamydia?! I said to him that if I was contagious, I would not put him in danger. Then I said if hi feared of illness it would be the best for us to separate. He agreed. When I received the result, it was negative for bacteria and Chlamydia. I was expecting from him to comfort me and support me, to say that now there is no fear of being together, but he was still afraid of conjunctivitis!
From the first moment we been together I was very sincere with him, showed him my feelings openly, treated him as my king. As an Aries women, maybe to impulsive and passionate, but willing to fight for my man,do my best to make him happy, if there was need to brake our relationship because his fears of disease, I would do it! ...But it hurt me so much! My king was so afraid!
I went in dance club to meet him and contact him. Dancing with an other man wasn't to make him jealous. I am good at dancing, a professional dancer and everybody likes to dance with me. I have already told him that I loved dancing and all the men around me are my dance partners and I have chosen him to be my love. Therefore, he knows well it was just dancing and nothing else. At the same time, he flirted with another woman, went close to her , talked to her ... what am I supposed to do? He was acting interested in her, not in me. should I come to him and pray for attention?
As I told you, I will fight for my man but does he deserve it?
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
*drantise = dramatize




I was reading this thread, read drantise and immediately went to google, thinking a new word. I found Pokemon.
I searched some more, feeling stupid because I couldn't find the meaning of this word .. so came back to read and found out my stupidity wasn't in my search process.
lol
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At any rate .... I agree with Piranha
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Posted by ariesscorpio
There is need for more details





The details you gave don't correspond with what you said originally .. which means, you've altered the truth with intentions of gaining sympathy.
If you plan on playing head games ... you're not going to get very far with a Pisces because they won't play.

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I do not want anyone's pity nor play games, I just want to resolve misunderstandings
He's insulted me by accusing me I was selfish and irresponsible because it can put him to danger, that's not true, he knew I've been waiting the result from the first day we met. He's really hurt me, if he so much afraid of illness, the best thing is braking up. I reacted impulsively, without spiking with him, but I have obviously misunderstood him.. That was my fault!
When he mentioned in his text that "he was not interested to talk about but wanted to give me a chance, it seemed to me that he agrees with the braking up because of my illness, he showed no desire to be longer in relationship and agreed with just an "o.k."
I did not mentioned his flirting with another woman because I assumed that he was no longer interested in me, swam away to an other opportunity
This is obviously a communication problem between us, we've a short time together, we don't know each other well, I am not sure in his feelings, he doesn't speak so much, I could only guess what's in his mind. does he really afraid of illness or hurt by my overreaction? I ask your advice whether to contact him again or wait for him to make a move?
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Let me clarify something if I did not write well in English - he is not infected, I have no bacteria in eyes, just an inflammation which lasts a couple of months. If I do not deserve him because I am ill at the moment, then good. Anyway, thank you for spending your time to help me!
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Posted by ariesscorpio

This is obviously a communication problem between us, we've a short time together, we don't know each other well, I am not sure in his feelings, he doesn't speak so much, I could only guess what's in his mind.


let it go, you're not right for each other. you say you treat him 'like a king'. you do that to get a certain response from him, so it's conditional. it's not genuine. you think a pisces can't see through that? the other pisces in this thread have.
you have hissy fits when he doesn't bend to your will, although you probably think you're acting out of hurt. you're not, it's your bruised ego. ariesscorpio? yeah, ego. no matter how easygoing and flexible a pisces may seem, they do not bend to others' wills.
Posted by ariesscorpio

he said something what I found very offended, reacted impulsively as each ram and broke up with him.I expected apologize and explanation but he did not do it.



Posted by ariesscorpio

The next day he called me but I did not answerd, then he looked for my friend to meet her at a coffee bar, he wanted to talk with her about problem. Why not with me? He said that I had left him and he agreed and that I had misunderstood his words, he did not want to hurt me.



Posted by ariesscorpio

After that we met the same night at the dance club, he ignored me, not even said hello, so I ignored and him too, what could I do else?!. I danced with other guys and pretended did not see him. My friend tried to talk whit him, and asked him why he was acting so badly, he said that he tried twice to talk to me and was rejected . ???? But, this is no true, I want to discuss and solve the problem!

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stalemate.
lol, you attack him over every little thing because you're too busy tripping over your own ego, instead of letting the relationship flow. chalk it up to experience and drop it.
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Posted by ariesscorpio
I have chronic conjunctivitis in my eyes, and been waiting result for the type of bacteria. He was very worried about it and feared to get the disease from me because I was in his opinion contagious. What if was Chlamydia?! I said to him that if I was contagious, I would not put him in danger. Then I said if hi feared of illness it would be the best for us to separate. He agreed. When I received the result, it was negative for bacteria and Chlamydia. I was expecting from him to comfort me and support me, to say that now there is no fear of being together, but he was still afraid of conjunctivitis!




I thought chlamydia was an std .... so you have an infection in your eye, a Pink Eye, but, you are worried that it's the result of an std?
And you talk as though you cannot fathom why a guy would be leary of you?
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Sorry but I couldn't understand your last post
My diagnosis is Chronic Conjunctivitis http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/wilmer/conditions/chronic_conjunctivitis.html
Bacteria - negative
Chlamydia - negative
I can't understand why he's too afraid of my disease, I'm not contagious and dangerous?!
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"Conjunctivitis is most commonly caused by viral infection, but bacterial infections, allergies, other irritants and dryness are also common etiologies for its occurrence. Both bacterial and viral infections are contagious. Commonly, conjunctival infections are passed from person-to-person, but can also spread through contaminated objects or water.
The most common cause of viral conjunctivitis is adenoviruses[citation needed]. Herpetic keratoconjunctivitis (caused by herpes simplex viruses) can be serious and requires treatment with acyclovir. Acute hemorrhagic conjunctivitis is a highly contagious disease caused by one of two enteroviruses, Enterovirus 70 and Coxsackievirus A24. These were first identified in an outbreak in Ghana in 1969, and have spread worldwide since then, causing several epidemics.[7]"
Despite this, I don't think it's the conjunctivitis which gives him pause, but your actions. Move on.
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Call me bias, but the Pisces men that I've known in my life were nothing but buttheads. They were the most slimiest, sneakiest, wishy washy, pathelogical liars Id ever seen. If you consider their 'charm' worth anything, know that it's probably alcohol induced.
Maybe I didn't see the 'lure' these guys emit. But I know four personally, and none of them do on an everyday basis anything worth 'fighting for'. Come to think of it, they pulled the same sort of in and out crap, although not all were romantically attached to mee. Her feelings count, and he hurt her. He didn't want anything to do with her because he's a typical Pisces guy who probably woke up, the fog cleared and he realized that she wasn't perfect that she's human.
Please, he hurt her feelings, and you're all on top of her that she should kiss his feet?
Girl you're an Aries, dump that loser. For the rest of your relationship, he's going to act out, and make you feel guilty for whatever he can't man up to. Pisces guys are wimps.
Disclaimer* this opinion does not include other planetary placements, and based solely on sun sign experience.
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They don't mix. They are at other ends of the zodiac...
I stay away from Pisces girls and guys. They've broken my heart in friendships, relatioships, even at a student/teacher level. They just couldn't see things from my standpoint, and I couldn't see things from theirs.
An Aries girl just couldn't, couldn't have a successful relationship with a Pisces guy, if we're talking sun sign alone.
Linda Goodman, a well known astrologer, that wrote very popular pop culture friendly versions of astrology, said it best. Something to the affect of Aries women should just walk away from Pisces men.
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It's give and take. He can't just give up after one attempt at making up. Depending on the hurt, it should be given a bit more effort.
And "unwilling" is not a fair term to use. Seems like miscommunication. If I wronged somone, I am NOT going to go through a friend to apologize. I'll continue pursuing you until you listen to me. This guy sounds like he's dotting i's and crossing t's to not look like the total wuss he is.
The only person he should have righted the wrong with is her. What did she do, not answer once? He goes and talks with her friend, so he looks like this great guy to everyone but her? Then he tells her "not interested, but I'll give you a chance" once she did contact him. I don't know how young the OP is or her Pisces, but come on, do you not see his sneaky little mind game? He wants her to break up with him, so he could preserve his rep.
She's a Scorpio moon (from her username). She doesn't want to hurt him or use him. But he's using her big time.
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Let's go down this list in chronological order. I don't normally do this, but it's pissing me off, as an Aries, and a girl...

So he offends her.
she gets mad and tells him they are broken up.
He calls the next day.
She ignores his message.
He goes to her friend and tells the friend he wants reconciliation.
She gets happy, calls him and pretty much accepts apology.
He turns the knife in her back and says, "not interested, I'll give you a chance"
Then they make a date to go to a night club, where he doesn't even approach her.
She in turn, ignores him.
Her friend steps in and asks him what's going on, and he lies and says he tried twice to reconcile.
Forget the dancing, the contagious eye infection and the miscommunication. His little bubble was popped because she could have had an STD, and he's a small minded jerk.
I know firsthand how an Aries loves. She's not superficial in the least when it comes to affections of the heart.
Do you not see the manipultion? He's done, and wants it to come from her.
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she overreacted and broke up with HIM...it's her that needs to unbreak it all...sheesh...
She's not good for him...how many times will she break up with him ? maybe next time he'll say she looks fat in that dress...hahaha
You've now left a bad taste in each others mouth...time to move on from each other...because you ARIES play games...you straight away ignore...dance with many guys cause you're a good dancer...lol...no Pisces guy will want a girl that flirts with others...
Move on already I can see you think about only yourself...Pisces reached out many times and you blew him off...seeya
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If you're going to be with a Pisces...say what you mean and mean what you say...don't do or say things to get a reaction because the reaction you will get is not what you had hoped...you will get a boot up the arse and sayonara for good...
own the break up mistake and tell him the honest truth....tell him you overreacted and want to try again ...otherwise let it be...
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
she overreacted and broke up with HIM...it's her that needs to unbreak it all...sheesh...
She's not good for him...how many times will she break up with him ? maybe next time he'll say she looks fat in that dress...hahaha
You've now left a bad taste in each others mouth...time to move on from each other...because you ARIES play games...you straight away ignore...dance with many guys cause you're a good dancer...lol...no Pisces guy will want a girl that flirts with others...
Move on already I can see you think about only yourself...Pisces reached out many times and you blew him off...seeya


Although she may have impulsively told him to go, its not something farfetched. People argue and say stuff. It doesn't solidify a damn thing. Wheres the sweet Pisces soul that forgives? Playing mind games. you and I both know that this guy was done before her break up. It wasn't a silly "fat" argument. It was probably very hurtful. Should she just lie down and take it?
Trust me, Aries don't play mind games. Were too busy learning, not pretending we already know... We are sensitive to others feelings and comforts, and don't swim away to the next dreamy rainbow at a weak moment. Everyones entitled to moments of weakness. And forgiveness.
It was a miscommunication, if anything. Hes missing out ...he's no good for her. Not the other way around.
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Agreed... I just don't like how it's being ignored that this Pisces guy hurt her feelings, and the focus is more that she needs to kiss his ass to get him back. He's not worthy.
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Agreed... I just don't like how it's being ignored that this Pisces guy hurt her feelings, and the focus is more that she needs to kiss his ass to get him back. He's not worthy.



I don't know whether he's worthy or not because I don't know him, but if she's using up this much energy on him then let the kissing begin!
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Considering the op hasn't posted since page 2, she's not exerting that much energy into it.
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Posted by ariesscorpio
I will fight for my man but does he deserve it?


If you have little faith and don't want to undo the break up then you both go your seperate ways...
sure you were hurt but sorry you were/are contagious ...conjunctivitis is spread from person to person...it's why children cannot go to school with this problem...
He had every right to be afraid for his health...I don't care what anyone says people should be worried about what diseases are out there and only stupid people think word of mouth is sufficient to trust your diagnosis...
That's the harsh truth people protect themselves first...and if I had conjuntivitis I would not want to spread it to my partner so I would get it cleared first...
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Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
Agreed... I just don't like how it's being ignored that this Pisces guy hurt her feelings, and the focus is more that she needs to kiss his ass to get him back. He's not worthy.



I don't know whether he's worthy or not because I don't know him, but if she's using up this much energy on him then let the kissing begin!


Considering the op hasn't posted since page 2, she's not exerting that much energy into it.


I'm asking myself why I've put my own energy into this. I can guarantee you she's still reading all this, but I don't care one way or another anymore because I'm over this ridiculousness anyway!
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Me too
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I do not understand why all people have a bad opinion of an Aries woman?! We aren't selfish and superficial in love, wer'e very honest and openly show our emotions, we don't like mind games, we like a clear situation. We don't idealize a loved one, we love a real person and except his virtues and faults. When we in love, we devote completely ourselves in relationship, the loved one is the center of our world.
I am a middle-aged woman, 50 years old, he is 48, we are both divorced. Scorpio is my ascendant, so I am calm and quiet person, not talkative, very delicate, fragile, cute and charming(Venus in Aries), as an Aries very passionate, fiery temperament, very honest, brave and enterprising. When I was young, I had a wonderful love relationship with Aquarius, Scorpio, Leo, Virgo and my ex
husband is Gemini, then I met a Pisces man.
These are our natal charts:
Me:
Sun Aries 20?? 38' in house 6
Moon Aquarius 21?? 44' in house 4
Mercury Aries 0?? 38' in house 5
Venus Aries 20?? 59' in house 6
Mars Cancer 17?? 41' in house 9
Jupiter Aquarius 4?? 7' in house 3
Saturn Capricorn 29?? 10' in house 3
Uranus Leo 21?? 48' in house 10
Neptune Scorpio 10?? 28' in house 1
Pluto Virgo 5?? 51' in house 10
Ascendant Scorpio 4?? 49' in house 1
Medium Coeli Leo 13?? 28' in house 10
North Node true Virgo 5?? 24' in house 10
Me:
Sun Pisces 20?? 54' in house 1
Moon Libra 11?? 42' in house 7
Mercury Pisces 4?? 52' in house 12
Venus Aquarius 8?? 58' in house 12
Mars Leo 5?? 27' in house 5
Jupiter Pisces 24?? 27' in house 1
Saturn Aquarius 18?? 4' in house 12
Uranus Virgo 2?? 29' in house 6
Neptune Scorpio 15?? 30' in house 8
Pluto Virgo 10?? 36' in house 6
Ascendant Pisces 13?? 52' in house 1
Medium Coeli Saggitarius 21?? 52' in house 10
North Node true Cancer 28?? 17' in house 5


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Sorry, the second natal chart is his
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Agree, we are acting childish!
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Posted by Nights22
You guys are middle aged and playing these damn games? Seriously?


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I followed your advice and contacted him. I apologized and explained him everything. I told him that I cared about him and asked whether he cared about me? He answered that he was just a fish that swims on ... and damped me. He was very angry, yelled at me as if he could not wait to get rid of me ...I think it is over
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Posted by ariesscorpio
He was very angry, yelled at me as if he could not wait to get rid of me ...I think it is over




It was over the moment you decided to play for his attention .... however, like most women, you blinded yourself because you don't have the emotional strength to stand yourself otherwise
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Thank you girls for helping me!
I'm happy with clear situation, but in the same time very disappointed in this man who showed me a bad side of his character. As a Gentleman, he could say directly with simple words it was over between us. I don't understand why he was over arrogant and angry, why he's yelled at me? So, he's hurt me ones again! Hmm..I supposed to be a bad temper witch and he sensitive,fragile boy!
Tonight we'll meet in the dance club. As an Aries, I've decided no more crying! Today is a new day, new opportunity for having a good time and enjoy dance!
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