Help Please

Have you ever *accidentally* slept with someone, thinking it would be just a drunken mistake never to be repeated again... only to discover it's actually the best sex you've had in years? Oh and this person is actually really sweet and kind and a unique flower you'd be a fool to just walk away from.

This is the situation I'm in with this Pisces guy. I tried posting a couple posts here but deleted them when I got no response. But this is serious enough to keep it up til I get some kind of input from you guys.. How do I convert things from a purely sexual standpoint into something real with this Pisces? Is it even possible?

I've honestly felt waaay too comfortable with him from the beginning. Meaning I've been comfortable not only getting literally naked but also spilling all my secrets and problems anytime we hang out (he's always understanding and empathetic but really who wants to deal with that from someone they're not even dating...)

Ugh what a disaster. He deserves better probably lol. Any input honestly appreciated though. And just for context I'm 26, he's 33. So neither of us are really that innocent.. although he said he hasn't slept with someone new in over 5 years but idk if I honestly believe that... we worked together and I've seen firsthand how good he is at lying 😉

Give him a call and take your shot. He's a Pisces, he loves attention.

It can definitely grow to be more. Let him know you're interested but in a casual type of way, not too much pressure but be straightforward. Just let him know you enjoyed him more than to anticipated and you'd like to see if yall can grow.

Good luck!

Posted by Jayc3on

Posted by LadyCryssy
Give him a call and take your shot. He's a Pisces, he loves attention.

I'm a pisces man and hate attention.

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Welp maybe disregard my advice. Im a Pisces female and love attention, and affection. I also have a leo moon so that could explain it.

Posted by theclimb
Have you ever *accidentally* slept with someone, thinking it would be just a drunken mistake never to be repeated again... only to discover it's actually the best sex you've had in years? Oh and this person is actually really sweet and kind and a unique flower you'd be a fool to just walk away from.

This is the situation I'm in with this Pisces guy. I tried posting a couple posts here but deleted them when I got no response. But this is serious enough to keep it up til I get some kind of input from you guys.. How do I convert things from a purely sexual standpoint into something real with this Pisces? Is it even possible?

I've honestly felt waaay too comfortable with him from the beginning. Meaning I've been comfortable not only getting literally naked but also spilling all my secrets and problems anytime we hang out (he's always understanding and empathetic but really who wants to deal with that from someone they're not even dating...)

Ugh what a disaster. He deserves better probably lol. Any input honestly appreciated though. And just for context I'm 26, he's 33. So neither of us are really that innocent.. although he said he hasn't slept with someone new in over 5 years but idk if I honestly believe that... we worked together and I've seen firsthand how good he is at lying 😉

I can't deal with the lying tho ... tbh

I'd just keep doing what you've been doing. If you keep hanging out and have sex, it'll likely turn into something more. Don't put pressure on it. Just let things take its course

Posted by theclimb
Have you ever *accidentally* slept with someone, thinking it would be just a drunken mistake never to be repeated again... only to discover it's actually the best sex you've had in years? Oh and this person is actually really sweet and kind and a unique flower you'd be a fool to just walk away from.

This is the situation I'm in with this Pisces guy. I tried posting a couple posts here but deleted them when I got no response. But this is serious enough to keep it up til I get some kind of input from you guys.. How do I convert things from a purely sexual standpoint into something real with this Pisces? Is it even possible?

I've honestly felt waaay too comfortable with him from the beginning. Meaning I've been comfortable not only getting literally naked but also spilling all my secrets and problems anytime we hang out (he's always understanding and empathetic but really who wants to deal with that from someone they're not even dating...)

Ugh what a disaster. He deserves better probably lol. Any input honestly appreciated though. And just for context I'm 26, he's 33. So neither of us are really that innocent.. although he said he hasn't slept with someone new in over 5 years but idk if I honestly believe that... we worked together and I've seen firsthand how good he is at lying 😉

Yeah, you got him "pegged" he's lying about not sleeping with someone in over five years. Pisceans do NOT do that (go without sex; esp a man).

What is the problem? You're of the reverse for the rest of us women that have NO ONE in their lives. I think the bottom line is that you will be found out at work that the two of you are sleeping together and you're afraid of losing your job. He's a gem! He will give you his mind, heart, body, and soul. If you think he's sleeping w/someone and will have you on the side, then talk to him about this. Let him know if you want FWB or a boyfriend. Geeez! You CAN be civil at work, meaning no lunches together, no googly eyes at one another at work, no drinking after work at the bar w/the co-workers, etc. Just respect your work M-F, 7:30-4:30 or whatever your work schedule is (and no flirting, too!). You'll be fine seeing him after work since your boss doesn't own after you clock out. Geeez #2 (Piscean men are the BEST in bed!) 😈

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

This happened to me...

He became and still is my bf ?