HELP! Winning a back a Pisces man!

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by artlove45 on Thursday, September 22, 2016 and has 20 replies.
I'm a Capricorn girl hes a Pisces guy and we were in a super intense FWB thing but then we drifted apart all of the sudden. How do I win him back?

I noticed him liking a couple of girls photos religiously on Instagram too recently like he used to do mine but now he only likes a few of mine here and there. We still talk though but just three lines of text message every other day. Before we would text for hours.

Is there any chance for me? I'm not his typical girl but he said thats why he liked me. I'm worried Im not what he wants but don't want to give up on him. Did I loose him for good? Any advice on winning him back? We're both 22 if that helps.
Posted by GetMisted
You've been demoted to second string FWB.
Oh no! That was a fear, we actually haven't had any "benefits" in like a week, though he still hangs around, drops me a line first and so on...makes me think he still has interest, but he doesn't flirt with me or try to make a move anymore! Is there a way I can change his opinion?
Your fwb, you shouldn't give a f if he's liking other chicks photos.

Hit him up for dick. Don't worry about 'winning back' something you never had.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Your fwb, you shouldn't give a f if he's liking other chicks photos.

Hit him up for dick. Don't worry about 'winning back' something you never had.
This is great advice thank you! I must have gotten so swept up along the way I forgot the nature of our relationship! I hate when feelings get involved oops! ?
Posted by artlove45
I'm a Capricorn girl hes a Pisces guy and we were in a super intense FWB thing but then we drifted apart all of the sudden. How do I win him back?
If he's a Pisces, then he drifted apart. I can assure you this wasn't mutual.

Winning back a FWB is easy.

He was never your man to begin with...just pick up where you left off (on top of him), and then initate.

Remember...safety first...

http://www.avert.org/sites/default/files/Condoms% 20page.jpg


Just in case it's been awhile.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
Posted by artlove45
I'm a Capricorn girl hes a Pisces guy and we were in a super intense FWB thing but then we drifted apart all of the sudden. How do I win him back?
If he's a Pisces, then he drifted apart. I can assure you this wasn't mutual.

Winning back a FWB is easy.

He was never your man to begin with...just pick up where you left off (on top of him), and then initate.

Remember...safety first...

http://www.avert.org/sites/default/files/Condoms% 20page.jpg


Just in case it's been awhile.

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I think you are absolutely right! It wasnt mutual all was fine and next thing I know it just stopped and I found myself chasing! What happened?!? Lol

Also thank you so much for that helpful diagram, hopefully I can put it to good use soon ?!!

Posted by dewiklaessen1991
Fuck away his manhood then leave him hanging for own pleasure ofcourse
Sort of like playing hard to get?
I wanted to present a pleasantly big one but I did not want to be flagged.

But I am pretty sure the OP is smiling anyway.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I wanted to present a pleasantly big one but I did not want to be flagged.

But I am pretty sure the OP is smiling anyway.
Omg yes! Made this issue 1000X better ?
old condoms + turkey baster , it is the only way.
This is why fwb normally always end in hurt someone wants more and becomes attached...

I just can't do fwb... Never have and never will...

PM
Posted by hydorah
old condoms + turkey baster , it is the only way.
Turkey Baster?!? Lol!

Posted by piscesmoon2
This is why fwb normally always end in hurt someone wants more and becomes attached...

I just can't do fwb... Never have and never will...

PM
This is my first FWB experience, so I'm not surprised that I caught some feelings, we keep it FWB because we don't exactly live nearby, or at least that's what I thought. But whenever he's in town one thing leads to another! It's tricky! This may be my last time doing this lol
When he is in town? So he thinks, I know this chick who I have sex with, ill go do that, it will make my stay more fun...end of thoughts. Hes just loving your body not you hun, find a loving man who puts you first, your body second on his priorities'. X
Posted by piscespoppy
When he is in town? So he thinks, I know this chick who I have sex with, ill go do that, it will make my stay more fun...end of thoughts. Hes just loving your body not you hun, find a loving man who puts you first, your body second on his priorities'. X
You have sex with chicks? Unreal!
Posted by Dastard
Posted by artlove45
I'm a Capricorn girl hes a Pisces guy and we were in a super intense FWB thing but then we drifted apart all of the sudden. How do I win him back?

I noticed him liking a couple of girls photos religiously on Instagram too recently like he used to do mine but now he only likes a few of mine here and there. We still talk though but just three lines of text message every other day. Before we would text for hours.

Is there any chance for me? I'm not his typical girl but he said thats why he liked me. I'm worried Im not what he wants but don't want to give up on him. Did I loose him for good? Any advice on winning him back? We're both 22 if that helps.


Win him back? Lol.

You're a whore. Get real.

Work on yourself self-esteem and daddy issues and try not to spread your legs so often.

You don't need to "win him back," you need therapy.

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That was rude

Posted by piscespoppy
When he is in town? So he thinks, I know this chick who I have sex with, ill go do that, it will make my stay more fun...end of thoughts. Hes just loving your body not you hun, find a loving man who puts you first, your body second on his priorities'. X
Thank you! I actually ended up cutting him out of my life after I found out he lied to me, turns out he was being distant because he had a girlfriend and was hiding her from me. but thank you for your words you are absolutely right!
Posted by Explicit
Lol girllll. Don't know what you were expecting. It was a FWB situation. Now he got bored fucking the same girl and is looking for new vageenka. He's not relationship material anyway, or atleast not at this point in his life, and it's obvious. And men are simple creatures. If he would have fell for you and wanted something more, you would have known by now!
Thank you! I totally agree 100% ! I actually ended up breaking things off and cutting him off, turns out he was being distant because he got a gf and was lying to me! This is for the better!
Posted by stopbeingdelusional
Well, since you guys are FWB, you can NEVER lose him.

Trust me, he will be back when he's lonely/horny while not having other options.
Hahaha well I ended up cutting him out of my life after I found out about some lies he told me! so he's going to have to do an awful lot of trying to get me back on his roster. It's for the better I'm glad I didn't invest anything into it
UPDATE:

turns out I can't handle fwb as he got a girlfriend out of nowhere and I got hurt. Turns out he was lying to me and trying to hide things and his dishonesty was what hurt the most. I told him I didn't want to be friends, told him I didn't want to talk to him anymore, I blocked him on all social media, literally the only way we can communicate is via email and I doubt he will try. He said I was his best friend, I feel guilty and selfish that I cut him off, but I think it's for the better. I have another thread here:

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/cutting-a-pisces-man-out-of-my-life-6890983/?checkpg=1