Help with relationships

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theskaboss
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Can someone help me out here. Is it because I'm a pisces that I suck at relationships? My ex (we went out for 4days worse mistake ever) said I didn't know how to flirt... anyway here is the big request will someone pls tell me the basics on flrting then go farther etc.



I don't know but I'm starting to find a pattern about break ups with me I can be the biggest dick cause i can change my moods instantly. I can also shut people out of my life.
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Freebird
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The problem here is.....when you are "hurt" meaning someone has done something to bother you....instead of sharing your feelings/thoughts with that person = awesome communication - you "shut them out". This type of action never works and you are now experiencing that....best to try something else like expressing yourself and if this is difficult for you to do then you may need to work on your self-esteem issues.
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theskaboss
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I think it was beacuse and i quote " Treats me good. doesn't tlak about my parents. actually holds my hand. dances with me when theres no music playing. kisses on the cheek and neck." the guy did all that in one night. I was trying to go slow and before i actually started doing that beause that's how my last relationship stopped it was the aquarius i was talking back few months back. the reason why i don't know how to flirt is because i have a.d.d and i didn't take anything for it when i was a kid so now that im with the same kids since 5th grade they wont have anything to do with me.
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Freebird
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ADD - well, personally, I don't buy into that either and I will say to you....CONGRATULATIONS for not taking anything! I think highly creative souls are very active and need more stimulation than perhaps other kids - it is the teachers job to "teach" and work with these type of children but unfortunately, many teachers are LAZY and would rather have kids on meds to make their jobs easier. It takes work to be a great teacher.

Get some books on flirting and read them....it is easier than you think and you can do it! I have now declared you in the classroom of - How To Flirt With the Opposite Sex

Happy reading 😉
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Freebird
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Wow...awesome for scoring the HIGHEST....I knew you were a highly intelligent species.

As far as a guy flirting with me - I am not sure that I will be the best at giving you the answers....being an Aries, I cannot tell when a man flirts with me. I just think that everyone is so kind and caring. I know when a man is interested in me when he tells me - otherwise I think he is just having a great time with me. I have so many guy pals that I hang with. Uh....when a guy wants to kiss me then I know. Yeah...that's it.

Hope this helps a bit.....
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theskaboss
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Sun in Pisces

You are a very sensitive and emotional person who quickly picks up moods and emotions from other people and makes them part of your own. This trait makes it very easy for others to hurt your feelings. Because you have the ability to put yourself in someone else's place, you have an exceptional understanding of other people's needs. Whenever possible, you try to help others, because it makes you feel good about yourself.

Very often you like to go into your own private fantasy world and think about ideas that mean something only to you. Just don't spend so much time there that you lose track of what is happening outside in the real world.

You may be somewhat shy, because you feel you have to trust people before you can really open up to them. But even though you are shy, you do need other people, for without them you feel lonely, even in your own private world.


This is what i don't like being that dependant on someone.