how do i get him back?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by pisceslover2 on Thursday, February 16, 2006 and has 26 replies.
ive been dating a pisces for over 2 years. we havent met b4 but for sum strange reason we fell in love. im a cancer/leo and hes a 1st decante pisces. we cant resist eachother and he wont leave me alone. he wants to help pull me out of my depressoin he caused me when i found out that hes been dating a local girl (near him)for nearly 3 weeks on valentines day. it tore me up and he tried to lie and cover it up untill i told him that i found proof. i can only imagine what hes telling her to cover me up since ive sent her alot of messages telling her that hes my man and hes been my man for over 2 years. she is a scorpio. and as little time as they have been together i dont understand why he wont leave her and come back to me when i told him id be knocking on his door next week if he wanted me to. hes stopped me from hanging myself over him by talking to me on the phone and he listens as i get high off of pills and begs me to take care of myself. i wont eat or sleep much. this depresssion has driven me into alchohol and drugs. i cant take this knowing how close we were to meeting and then he goes for sum1 else. but yet he wont leave me alone and he keeps telling me that he loves me.
i told him to choose 1 of us by saturday and he said that he wants to be with me, but he cant break it off with the other girl because he works with her. but he wants me to stay here and wait for him for when they do break up (like i'm second best, but he insists that im not) he made it clear that i only fulfill his emotional needs while his other girlfriend(scorpio)fulfils his physical. all i told him that id wait but i just simply cant. ive become suicidal and all i can do is lay around and cry and hurt all the time. im cutting myself, taking pills, drinking alchohol. im afraid that if he doesnt come back to me that this will just go on and get worse. he knows im doing this and hes trying to help me stop but the only thing thats gonna help me is getting ALL of his love back.
please please please help me. my life may depend on this.
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Go to a pschologist and get the help that you really needsmile
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Pisceslover2
Do you respect yourself? All what you trials to inflict damage to yourself is for that loser who do not even care to be only with you?
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pisceslover2, no one can make you happy until you can learn to make yourself happy!!! this guy doesnt love you if he can knowingly cause you all this pain. you deserve better.
whats up with these pisces???
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"he should've just broke it off with you, before dating another."
Wow GL. I was thinking about the same. And not just with this pisceslover2 but with many other people too.
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please get some help..immediately!!...i'm addressing the killing yourself thing...someone else said it,NO ONE is worth killing yourself over..NO ONE...no matter what he's doing go talk to a doctor/shrink/somebody...i had a friend years ago who did blow his brains out over his girlfriend who broke up with him(and they REALLY had been going out for a couple years) but he was all f---ed up on pills and booze and blew his brains out. this was about 15 years ago, and all i can think when i think of him is...HE WOULD'VE GOTTEN OVER IT..but now his life is over and who knows what other experiences and love he might have found....please pisces lover, get some help
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I agree with Lilibra20 no one can make you happy until you learn to make yourself happy. Please,please don't do anything to yourself your soulmate(s) are in this world somewhere, this dude obviously isn't one of them. Unfortunately this is a terrible character defect of Piscean men (and I am one)leading people on,stringing relationships along because we're to insecure to let it go(i'm getting into Sting territory here if you love somebody Set Them Free)You can handle this a lot better and you know it, take charge of yourself and your emotions.You're obviously a woman with a lot to offer so offer it to someone who will value it more than this guppy(I'm a shark)I believe I understand that you haven't met him,well how do you know he's worth your life and even if you've met him he's not worth it God gave you life,not man.Plus he's already involved with someone a scorpio do you realize how volatile a scorpio pisces relationship is? He ain't going to let her go babe. Move on with your life. He's just stringing you along,take it from a piscean man he has no respect for you. Say the serenity prayer,talk to someone,maybe a professional.And be cool.
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Sometimes I am simply shocked how some people can even survive in this world. For example this girl. She must be something like 17-18 or even less to think like that. If she's higher, then I am ahsamed to be a human being.
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i'm asking how i can get him back... not what i should do about myself, he is all i care about!!. please just tell me how i can get him back!!
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2 sharks swimming in opposite directions; the water around them is boiling from futility and frustration with this person.
He's not for you to HAVE!
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when i relayed the story of my friend who blew his brains out, i forgot to mention that one of the big reasons his girlfriend broke up with him in the first place is because he was such a mess with drinking, drugs, etc and VERY self-destructive, she kept saying "I cannot take care of him, i do not want to be a babysitter" and you're asking how to get this guy????? he is running like hell with all your drama..now i'm being really really really serious, get your act together before you do something you'll regret or die from. here's the rest of the story: if you think killing yourself or almost killing yourself i going to make him come running to love you forever you're DEAD wrong...no pun intended..he might feel a little bad for you but most likely he'll be glad to be rid of a whack job...my friends girlfriend went on to live a very happy life after he killed himself. so the moral is, he's dead, never to return and she lived happily ever after. so once again, your dramatics WILL NOT MAKE HIM LOVE YOU THEY WILL MAKE HIM RUN LIKE HELL and he'll be fine and you will be either, in jail, in an institution or dead...great choices huh?
(Hey branh, aren't you proud of me?)
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There's someone far better out there for you pisceslover2. He isn't worth your tears.
Trust me.
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There isn't no magical astrology potion to get him back just being as hes a pisces,pisceslover2.Scorpio and pisces is the same as cancer and pisces,theres no difference in the compatibility of the signs just different personalities therefore may have different issues for each pairing.All this drinking,drug using,suicidal tendancies,etc. are the reason earth signs are supposed to be better for water signs because they can drown each other unless they have earth in both thier charts.Theres for your astrology aspect of it.
Now for the mundane part,put the feelings aside for a moment and look at it logically,its very unlikely that it really IS just physical that he gets from her being as shes the one with him alot of the time.Hes lying to you,hes not going to break it off with her if he is physically seeing her,whereas with you he hasn't met before.On this suicide talk,there is a cancer(17) I used to know,he blew his head off because his girlfriend broke up with him.Want to know what happened next?His mother is a anti-depressant junkie now,his sister(another cancer:15 years old at the time) stole some of her pills and attempted suicide herself when she broke up with my brother only a few months later,shes okay though,she got her shit together and called for help after she took them.Its a chain reaction and you hurt the people who you really"love" more when you play stupid with that crap,does your say mother(dad,adopted parent,legal guardian,whatever) deserve it?
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hey, anybody hear again from this chick???kind've wondering if she's still alive?
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nope.Im not really sure if I beieve it though,people whos serious about killing themselves usually don't say anything about it and someone finds them.Even the cancer girl in my experiance didn't say anything until after the fact and she started thinking about it before she said anything.Her brother,a neighbor heard the gun shot and called the cops after his girlfriend left and my own brother hid a gun and left but my mom noticed it and followed him to talk to him before he did it.Two are still alive but it did take outside stuff before they decided against it and still didn't say anything.
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I RECKON THIS CHICK'S FULL OF IT!!
Her IP link holds some pretty scattered information. What goes on there??
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This chick is not full of it. I don't care what her IP holds - that doesn't say that a female has the dum time to make up a full sob story just for no reason at all. THAT doesn't even make since.
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No it doesn't make sense but it wouldn't the first time someone put up a bogus topic around here.
Excuse me for being a little bit sceptical sometimes.
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well we haven't heard anything from her since real or not...i guess the sensitive pisces in me is concerned, i've been in REAL dark places because of affairs of the heart, but thank god, never suicidal. and to change the topic, we all have birthdays coming up if you're a pisces, mines next friday the 3rd, how about all of you? Happy birthday to all us pisces(we are the best sign of the zodiac i feel) a combo of everything, good and not so good, but i still feel the best.
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my b-day is the 17th, St. Patricks, fun fun smile
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I didn't even notice the ip address thing,I've known both people who cut themselves up,etc. and people who are serious about suicide and shes an attention seeking one by what she has written.Its like crying "rape",real rape victems don't advertise it to anyone if she was going to do it she be dead already instead of trying to use it on some dude to get her way.
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well, she hasnt been on here lately, so maybe she did kill herself.
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branh, you and i have had our little differences but in this I am in agreement...I've known a few "drama queens and kings" and it becomes very tiresome. I also have my own view on suicide one which is not popular I think, I believe it is the most selfish act one can inflict on those left behind. I've known people in the past who destroyed their families and one friend's father who recently blew his brains out in their driveway as her mother was getting into her car. He left such a mess(no pun intended) behind that their family will always remember, and he did it at such a time when everyone was on vacation thus in addition to destroying himself and their mother, he also ruined everyone's vacation. so yes on the internet is a nice safe way for everyone to get out their violins and feel sorry for you. That said however, i don't think i would say anything to anyone on here that might inspire them to actually do it, very bad karma. I'm just curious as to what happened to this chick, enquiring minds want to know, who knows? maybe it just makes me feel better about myself to be perfectly honest. I think we all have a little bit of that much like a voyeur. I don't like to see or hear other people in pain, but I'll admit that sometimes knowing someone elses life is worse than mine helps me to see how much I really do have as opposed to what I don't have. Truthfully after reading all that stuff that girl wrote I felt bad for the guy.
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I just thought that i'd tell you all that i got him back.. thanks for your advice anyways :-)
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"I just thought that i'd tell you all that i got him back.. thanks for your advice anyways :-)"
so what happened?
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yes what happened? when you first wrote you hadn't even met him yet, were drinking and taking all kinds of pills, thinking of killing yourself to get his attention.
so exactly how is he back? do you have him tied up in the basement with duct tape??
Hey! I sound like Haffo and Branh!
(as much as I'm a sensitive pisces female, I have a very sarcastic sense of humor)
and pisceslover, what you wrote at the beginning sounded insane.
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