nimbue
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i...i think i hate men?!?
Posted by Lena828
I'm with you all the way, I hate men...haaaaaaate them. Only reason I can stand being in a relationships is it keeps all the other idiots out of my hair. I hate getting their insincere attention and their pathetic little lies. Most of the saddness in my life seems to be caused by them. Men suck.
😢
*grabs bra to burn*😄
lol *strikes a match*
oh my gosh, 'insincere attention & pathetic little lies'. seriously, preach it! i just don't need or want this bullshit at my doorstep. at the moment, it's a toss up between being toxically single...meaning no men at all, for however long i choose...or just, oh i don't know. i've got nothing, for once. feel like an alien being asked to observe the mating rituals of humans and i'm stumped!
i just can't take this gender. be real or be gone!
i feel like it's some undeclared gender war. even on here, all through the boards there's more bad stories than good. i don't know what the problem is, but i'll take myself out of the equation for now...
and yeah, i do that too aPP, lol. although you do get those creeps who don't care...single or not, makes no difference to them :p
and yeah, i do that too aPP, lol. although you do get those creeps who don't care...single or not, makes no difference to them :p
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by nimbue
i feel like it's some undeclared gender war. even on here, all through the boards there's more bad stories than good. i don't know what the problem is, but i'll take myself out of the equation for now...
and yeah, i do that too aPP, lol. although you do get those creeps who don't care...single or not, makes no difference to them :p
True, there are a lot of bad stories 😢
And yeah, some guys really don't care. I even had a guy who asked me out, after I told him I had a bf (and I really did at that time lol), then he told me "so? I have a gf too" =/ So obviously some have no respect for relationships, not even their own relationship.click to expand
see? is it so hard to be loyal? you might be attracted to somebody else, fine, that's nautral. it's called biology. but why not finish what you have first? oh, what's that? yeah you want to have your cake and eat it too. piss off 😄
i even know some guy, he's engaged, it's common knowledge...always trying it on. we can't even be friends because he never stops. so he has no respect for me, his fiancee or even himself. it's pathetic. and a bit sad 😢
Posted by Lena828
I just wish they weren't so hard to understand and wouldn't be so blunt and cruel.....or maybe that' just my Virgo😛 He really doesn't play ps3 all day😢 hell I'm on facebook twice as long. But men....yeah they sometimes really reallyy suck.
i know what you mean...i used to think that they were straightforward. um, no. i have amazing male friends. but, romantically it all gets lost in translation and...no, the laziness is kicking in now. i just hate your gender. i don't want to play your games. take it like a man and leave me be 😄
and, oh god, i have a male virgo best friend...i can't take his attitude sometimes and i'm not even that sensitive! when i'm the same towards him, it's like i just kicked his world in...hmm, virgos. so intriguing
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by nimbuePosted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by nimbue
i feel like it's some undeclared gender war. even on here, all through the boards there's more bad stories than good. i don't know what the problem is, but i'll take myself out of the equation for now...
and yeah, i do that too aPP, lol. although you do get those creeps who don't care...single or not, makes no difference to them :p
True, there are a lot of bad stories 😢
And yeah, some guys really don't care. I even had a guy who asked me out, after I told him I had a bf (and I really did at that time lol), then he told me "so? I have a gf too" =/ So obviously some have no respect for relationships, not even their own relationship.
see? is it so hard to be loyal? you might be attracted to somebody else, fine, that's nautral. it's called biology. but why not finish what you have first? oh, what's that? yeah you want to have your cake and eat it too. piss off 😄
i even know some guy, he's engaged, it's common knowledge...always trying it on. we can't even be friends because he never stops. so he has no respect for me, his fiancee or even himself. it's pathetic. and a bit sad 😢
Wow that is sad 😢 Does his fiancee know he does this? What I don't understand are the women who know their guys are doing things like that and still stay with him. The women have no respect for themselves either if they stay with guys like that, knowing he's trying to get with other women.click to expand
you know, i think she does. she turns a blind eye, but i say if the trust isn't there, why bother getting married? then again, what the hell do i know. maybe it works for them?
it's not even just a question of trust, actually. it's like you said, where's the respect? sheesh! lol
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
My Aries rising says I have to be the one and only girl for my guy.. otherwise he's gone 😉 lol
And it's not being selfish.. it's just how it's supposed to be.
+1
the aries cusp/rising has spoken! when i'm in love...the person is mine mine mine. no, i don't share. ever :p and i feel it should be the other way round, too. or you may as well just be dating.
You can change your facebook settings to where pervs can't see your profile at all.
If you stop resisting the differences between the sexes, things will go much more smoothly. Accept that men and women just operate differently sometimes.
If you stop resisting the differences between the sexes, things will go much more smoothly. Accept that men and women just operate differently sometimes.
Wow 😢 Another thing I don't understand is when women fight over guys (after he's cheated or whatever). Get mad at him! Not the other woman. And kick him out! He's the one who was supposed to have the loyalty.. and if he doesn't, he's not worth bothering over anymore.
oh dxp, stop faffing about.
i agree with you. but i do think it's like a sisterhood thing for some women, you're breaking the code when you're the other woman. that and it's easier to be angry with the person who has no real loyalty to you, some misdirected anger thing going on.
my ex cheated on me with my best friend. he got dumped, she stayed. the way i see it, he did the pursuing...knowing she was my best friend. the responsibility was mostly his, and i don't need that level of disrespect. you don't shit on your own doorstep! keep your dick to yourself. silly man!
Posted by ninjamu
You can change your facebook settings to where pervs can't see your profile at all.
If you stop resisting the differences between the sexes, things will go much more smoothly. Accept that men and women just operate differently sometimes.
nah, i'd rather take a broader view of things and hate on men :p. alot of the shit behaviour i'm seeing lately is gender-specific. it's just not a coincidence.
it was hard to trust her again, definitely. but he wasn't worth breaking the friendship up. i think he took advantage of her; she used to have a few issues with getting attention and insecurity, it was easier to see where she was coming from. he was just an opportunist who liked to get his leg over :p
Posted by nimbue
*clasps hand over chest* i dunno if it's me being oversensitive or just plain disillusioned, but yes i am starting to hate men. i am a lurve novice. i don't play games, i fall for geek types who can mind fuck like the greatest of players...it's like, am i missing something here? i just want a soulmate! jeez, it's not asking alot. *pause for sarcastic grin*
but these damn arse games. i can't keep up. exhibit a: being in a semi relationship with someone who turns around and dumps you because 'they don't want to be a bad boyfriend' & 'we aren't compatible.' um, kay. sounds like a bad case of cold feet to me, but hey, whatever helps head hit pillow faster at night. exhibit b: meeting a guy who takes a week to call, arranges a date, says he'll text a meetup address, then...nothing? are you mwad? exhibit c: countless other twerps who shuffle backwards and forwards, give mixed signals and just generally have an air of cowardice...or is it? i can't get a good read on these things anymore. ooh, i nearly forgt- exhibit d: talking to a guy who finds you attractive but wants to move slow because he's just come out of a 6yr relationship. for whatever reason he stops being in contact, only for a friend of his to text you saying, 'hey, ___gave me your number, said he thinks we'd get along...'
why the merry hell would you pass my number along to some dude i don't even know, when we haven't even been talking? are you a pimp?
what do you guys even want? do you even know? -_-
am i just a weirdo? i swear i'm just a few shades away from marching down oxford circus with a bundle of burning bras in tow. i'm enjoying being single. i luurve my space. but yes, love, or serious like fuels my imagination. it peppers my lyrics with pwetty prose. i suppose, thinking about it, it's a state of being i aspire to. like, i want to do the whole relationship thing. i just don't see what the huge rush is, to get that label, or why men want to waste so much time backing and forthing over every damn microscopic aspect of the process.
i don't like men. at the moment, you rot. i bet women are even worse, but thankfully that isn't my problem 😄
I tried to add a post earlier, guess i didn't know what i was doing, lol. Anywho, i'm new here and my saggie sun is in the pisces quadrant; so I guess i've felt like a piscean all my life. I can totally relate to the men hating saga, although the saggie party girl in me would beg to differ lmao. Is it asking to much for a man to keep it real with us? If you're in it for the fun, my sagginess says, "bring it on" but my two fishes says," I wanna settle down already, so why are you playing these mind games with me?" I've shared my dreams and aspirations with this shameless idiot for him to just take it all for granted and be just another knotch on his bedpost; REALLY— Hence my undying revenge on the flaw called the male human species!!! I can be a bag of water at times, so emotional, way too forgiving, a fucking doormat, and a real bitch if circumstances permit. btw my saggie sun is in the aries decante, wow i pitty the fool (in my mr. t voice) sincerly looking for love.....
Posted by netertkeket
I tried to add a post earlier, guess i didn't know what i was doing, lol. Anywho, i'm new here and my saggie sun is in the pisces quadrant; so I guess i've felt like a piscean all my life. I can totally relate to the men hating saga, although the saggie party girl in me would beg to differ lmao. Is it asking to much for a man to keep it real with us? If you're in it for the fun, my sagginess says, "bring it on" but my two fishes says," I wanna settle down already, so why are you playing these mind games with me?" I've shared my dreams and aspirations with this shameless idiot for him to just take it all for granted and be just another knotch on his bedpost; REALLY— Hence my undying revenge on the flaw called the male human species!!! I can be a bag of water at times, so emotional, way too forgiving, a fucking doormat, and a real bitch if circumstances permit. btw my saggie sun is in the aries decante, wow i pitty the fool (in my mr. t voice) sincerly looking for love.....
lol! hey netertkeket 😄 i swear it's hard having water/fire dominant in your chart, there are so many conflicts between your needs and wants on a day to day basis.
i don't even 100% want to settle down. but i'm seeing mind games even on a casual basis? even when i'm genuine with my intentions, i.e, i don't have to be in a relationship to connect with somebody. that for me, takes time. if i like you, why can't it be a step by step process.
or on the flipside, you might be taking it causally while the other person is getting heavy. where's your venus?
my venus is in shrewd capricorn, lol an intriguing blend of traits, my moon's on gem; hahahahahah have empathy for me lmao
whoa, that really is a blend of traits! that just sounds like a headache :/ though the gem moon sounds cool 🙂 i'll swap you my scorp, lol
no fucking way, i'd never wanna feel intensity like that my daughter's father is a scorp with a cancer moon and can you say moody? he has so many wonderful qualities about himself the good for the most part out weighs the not so good. he is jealous and possesive, but i'd rather have him on my team than against me; whew vindictive grudge holding sensitive, loving, caring dependable, scorps are ok with me, i can't shake 'em they always find me, i guess it's my pisces swag lmao
i use to wonder why cancer and scorps were always attracted to this loud mouth party animal that is my saggie sun, and then i found out i had a dominance of pisces in my chart and i was like whoa....contrary to popular belief, scorps are deathly attracted ot aries suns, which i also have, and a lying back biting taurus, i cannot tolerate lol, that's my piscean swag once again hahahahha
Posted by netertkeket
no fucking way, i'd never wanna feel intensity like that my daughter's father is a scorp with a cancer moon and can you say moody? he has so many wonderful qualities about himself the good for the most part out weighs the not so good. he is jealous and possesive, but i'd rather have him on my team than against me; whew vindictive grudge holding sensitive, loving, caring dependable, scorps are ok with me, i can't shake 'em they always find me, i guess it's my pisces swag lmao
pisces swag, yeah i like that 😄
whooosh. any scorp with a cancer moon...not to be discriminative, but hell no. just, no. that's just a tsunami of emotions. and since i hate men at the moment, a guy with those placements...welcome to my worst nightmare. ugh. i've gone cold just thinking about it!!
Posted by netertkeket
i use to wonder why cancer and scorps were always attracted to this loud mouth party animal that is my saggie sun, and then i found out i had a dominance of pisces in my chart and i was like whoa....contrary to popular belief, scorps are deathly attracted ot aries suns, which i also have, and a lying back biting taurus, i cannot tolerate lol, that's my piscean swag once again hahahahha
oh, i've seen that scorp/aries connection in action quite alot. so you're a water sign magnet? we're so opposite, i'm a magnet for fire signs, especially sags :p
but ya know what, it's the most passionate sex i've ever had in my life....I miss that, w/o the headache, I'd really like to shake the fun girl image, i'm getting way too old for the b/s....IJS
I THINK it's the water in me that attracts all those water bagged mama's boys; image on the surface is a loud mouth life of the party down for whatever, promiscuous sex slave, hahahahha. But underneath, i am emotional, sensitive, really deep kind of gal, the shoulder to cry on, the secret keeper, and i think when a guy really gets to know me, he is so flabbergasted by my deepness, he heads for the hills like," i just wanna party bitch" type of runnin lmao. It's really sad if you think about it, the way saggie suns are stigmatized. if you can get over the party girl persona, you'd have a real jewel on your hands, (tears up a lil)
oh, they probably do want the same as you and just can't handle it. think about it; a deep, sensitive party girl? that's a hot mix! i'm speculating though. it'd be good to understand men better. if there's even anything worth understanding better.
i wonder if i should be blaming family dynamics (mama issues), men's roles being redefined or just general dickheadery.
i wonder if i should be blaming family dynamics (mama issues), men's roles being redefined or just general dickheadery.
Where are all the men?! Bros - this - this thread is GOLD ! !
don't cry! i'm pisces sun; scorp moon...that's much worse lol
depends if the person's worth getting riled up over.
i think so too, and i like your insight 🙂
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Being palmed off onto someone's friend then turned out by that dude at the train staton (the sag right?) is pretty harsh back to back.
Fuck em, someone good will come along eventually, just think of it as sharpening your senses a bit.
aww, e3. i do have this...red riding hood naivety complex (only if i'm really into someone, mind you). i've gone from militant singleton (believe...i was a robot) to hopeless romantic in like a year. now i want to be at a happy medium, and like you said, sharpen my senses.
(by the way, it was the cancer who stood me up...sag was too much of a faux gentleman for that shiz )
nah, a northener...even worse.
we're talking geordie shore/ant&dec type twang. used to be one of my favourite accents. not anymore 😄
we're talking geordie shore/ant&dec type twang. used to be one of my favourite accents. not anymore 😄
wise words e3, i've got to agree with you 🙂 not really down with the whole mothering thing, lol
amazing pic nimbue love that sag man
thanks! god, me too. he is amazing —
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but these damn arse games. i can't keep up. exhibit a: being in a semi relationship with someone who turns around and dumps you because 'they don't want to be a bad boyfriend' & 'we aren't compatible.' um, kay. sounds like a bad case of cold feet to me, but hey, whatever helps head hit pillow faster at night. exhibit b: meeting a guy who takes a week to call, arranges a date, says he'll text a meetup address, then...nothing? are you mwad? exhibit c: countless other twerps who shuffle backwards and forwards, give mixed signals and just generally have an air of cowardice...or is it? i can't get a good read on these things anymore. ooh, i nearly forgt- exhibit d: talking to a guy who finds you attractive but wants to move slow because he's just come out of a 6yr relationship. for whatever reason he stops being in contact, only for a friend of his to text you saying, 'hey, ___gave me your number, said he thinks we'd get along...'
why the merry hell would you pass my number along to some dude i don't even know, when we haven't even been talking? are you a pimp?
what do you guys even want? do you even know? -_-
am i just a weirdo? i swear i'm just a few shades away from marching down oxford circus with a bundle of burning bras in tow. i'm enjoying being single. i luurve my space. but yes, love, or serious like fuels my imagination. it peppers my lyrics with pwetty prose. i suppose, thinking about it, it's a state of being i aspire to. like, i want to do the whole relationship thing. i just don't see what the huge rush is, to get that label, or why men want to waste so much time backing and forthing over every damn microscopic aspect of the process.
i don't like men. at the moment, you rot. i bet women are even worse, but thankfully that isn't my problem 😄