Intuition...is it usually on the money?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by MissNomerFishie on Thursday, May 3, 2007 and has 11 replies.
My intuition or radar or whatever you want to call it is usually on the money. Right now it tells me something is seriously off the mark with the Cancer I've been involved with off and on for several years. Within the last month he's gotten sort of distant, doesn't seem to want to talk about anything that matters much (how either of us feels about anything, not even the relationship but anything) and this weekend he actually turned me down for intimacy. That's never happened before.
Now that alone wouldn't be a big deal, people have moods, are tired, whatever and in a long term relationship, that's bound to happen much more frequently than one time. So I didn't think much of it.
But after he said he was tired, he kissed me and for a moment I had my eyes closed, just sort of smiling - when I opened them, he was looking at me with this really strange smirking smile and astonished look --
and immediately it hit me -- I felt like I could hear him saying he couldn't believe I believed him -- it was in the look on his face and my gut instinct that he was lying.
Since then that image keeps flashing into my mind and I can't shake the bad feeling.
This doesn't happen to me often, these weird "gut level" instincts so I pay attention when they do.
Do you guys ever have these moments and were they accurate? Do you heed them?
Always, Missy .. it's never failed me. I've failed me by ignoring the signs, only to later think back and realize that I did, indeed see this, but, chose to pretend it wasn't there .. I guess that's what people mean by doormat.
Many things led me away from sexual contact with my husband and what you've described is one of those things .. I know, I just KNOW, if it's sincere, or not. Perhaps, other people are oblivious, but, I'm not one of those people .. a person can't pretend and it go unnoticed.
No .. I don't always heed the call, should though.
Many things led me away from sexual contact with my husband and what you've described is one of those things .. I know, I just KNOW, if it's sincere, or not. Perhaps, other people are oblivious, but, I'm not one of those people .. a person can't pretend and it go unnoticed.
No .. I don't always heed the call, should though.
I don't know... my ex had a lot of intuitions... premonitions if you will... he had one that we would be together for the rest of our lives and that the first few years would be very difficult but that we would be happy... he also pictured us at our wedding and he saw his best friend telling him what a dumbass he is for marrying me... and since we broke up.. and I don't think he will ever take me back.. I don't think they are always right...
I think it has more to do with how you are feeling at the time... if you become so overwhelmed with a feeling of love.. or in your case doubt... that you will just start seeing things... whether they turn out to be right in the end or not.. I don't know..
My intuition or radar or whatever you want to call it is usually on the money. Right now it tells me something is seriously off the mark with the Cancer I've been involved with off and on for several years. Within the last month he's gotten sort of distant, doesn't seem to want to talk about anything that matters much (how either of us feels about anything, not even the relationship but anything) and this weekend he actually turned me down for intimacy. That's never happened before.
Now that alone wouldn't be a big deal, people have moods, are tired, whatever and in a long term relationship, that's bound to happen much more frequently than one time. So I didn't think much of it.
He may be having some things going on in his life right now! He may need the space that U women like to provide!
Now that alone wouldn't be a big deal, people have moods, are tired, whatever and in a long term relationship, that's bound to happen much more frequently than one time. So I didn't think much of it.
He may be having some things going on in his life right now! He may need the space that U women like to provide!
i haven't posted on this in a long time but check in every once in awhile and this caught my eye...my pisces intuition, if you want to call it that,is almost 100% accurate but like P-angel I also chose/choose to ignore it at the time. I was just thinking about this the other day re: someone from years ago who i had no real legitimate reason to distrust, he just took one out of the ordinary turns driving one night going to a restaurant down a street where his old high school girlfriend lived. i didn't know this at the time, but FELT immediately that something was up....i'll never forget that feeling, i even told him about it, i think he was surprised to say the least, and sure enough, very shortly after that, i found out they were emailing, calling each other etc and then he made things so unbearable that we fought all the time thus giving him the reason to break up, pursue the old girlfriend, without any guilt. but that's just one story, i have many many many...it's a gift on one hand, and a curse on the other i feel, because i see things sometimes that i truly truly don't want to see, and know that if i ignore it i will pay the price
Hey, anotherpisceswoman .. havent' talked to you in ages. How have you been?
hey P, i've been ok...going through lots of letting go life changes, you know..the usual dramas and traumas....happy one day, distressed the next...is it just me or is everyone's life a friggin roller coaster? i swear i don't know from one day to the next how i will feel. try to keep a positve spin on things and truly believe i'll get to some kind of spiritual okayness, but just enjoying the good times and getting through and hopefully learning through the tough ones. how are you?
Thank you all for responding - I felt like I was losing my mind and then had to leave for work.
It is a gift and a curse, anotherpisceswoman. You're so right. Wish I could ignore it.
P-Angel, you are always so wise. That might be the doormat thing - we feel things, we know things and yet we don't heed them. I honestly wish I didn't feel those things, because in this case, short of spying (which I won't ever do to anyone) there's no real way to know right now one way or the other if that flash of radar was right.
Krobe03, I thought you were a woman also? Or did you mean Pisces women give the space? I'm trying to give space....even asked if he needed it the other day, and I'm very busy this week so not difficult.
He's absolutely free to leave whenever he wishes, and I'll keep him if he stays.
What I will not do, however, is exist in some sort of nebulous territory where I'm not being told the whole truth and stuck to fill in the blanks myself. That's my only concern. For now I'll wait and see, and definitely no questions or talk about it.
It is a gift and a curse, anotherpisceswoman. You're so right. Wish I could ignore it.
P-Angel, you are always so wise. That might be the doormat thing - we feel things, we know things and yet we don't heed them. I honestly wish I didn't feel those things, because in this case, short of spying (which I won't ever do to anyone) there's no real way to know right now one way or the other if that flash of radar was right.
Krobe03, I thought you were a woman also? Or did you mean Pisces women give the space? I'm trying to give space....even asked if he needed it the other day, and I'm very busy this week so not difficult.
He's absolutely free to leave whenever he wishes, and I'll keep him if he stays.
What I will not do, however, is exist in some sort of nebulous territory where I'm not being told the whole truth and stuck to fill in the blanks myself. That's my only concern. For now I'll wait and see, and definitely no questions or talk about it.
You know, if Pisces didn't get frightened so easily .. our paranoia prevents us from doing so many things.
Sweet-P, have you made your decision yet about traveling around Australia?
That sounds so cool .. you're really lucky to have such an opportunity open up.
Sweet-P, have you made your decision yet about traveling around Australia?
That sounds so cool .. you're really lucky to have such an opportunity open up.
"You know, if Pisces didn't get frightened so easily .. our paranoia prevents us from doing so many things."
Do you think paranoia is a Pisces thing, P-A? I always thought I was just extra fearful and a wee bit paranoid all on my own! Which makes it harder to trust intuition, no?
Do you think paranoia is a Pisces thing, P-A? I always thought I was just extra fearful and a wee bit paranoid all on my own! Which makes it harder to trust intuition, no?
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