is it tRuE that all piScEs are GiVinG tyPes in a r
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by neo on Tuesday, April 4, 2006 and has 10 replies.
is it tRuE that all piScEs are GiVinG tyPes in a reLatioNship????
no expectations types u know wat i mean??
no expectations types u know wat i mean??
No,its not true and yes there IS exceptions with astrology.Some pisces it can fit the bill though however thats not a good thing if you know what I mean,unless of course your one of those people whose only concerned with yourself and what you get out of it.However alot of the more common pisces will slip away quietly when that happens
Not me Branh. I need to be controlled.....weak men lack the capacity.
Branh, my last comment was my attempt at sarcasm 
If you think that a relationship can be 50/50 you are either dellusional or havent had a decent relationship in your life. To imply that a union has the ability to exist with each person contributing the same would mean a certain level of perfection and we all know that nothing in life is perfect and certainly not people. You will always have one person who loves the other more, you will always have one person willing to compromise more, and one person will ALWAYS give more, even if its in the smallest way. Its just totally obtuse to think that way. Sure in theory we would like relationships to be 50/50 because it involves two people but it just doesnt happen. You find me a relationship where its completely equal and I'll show you a pig that can look up at the sky.
If you think that a relationship can be 50/50 you are either dellusional or havent had a decent relationship in your life. To imply that a union has the ability to exist with each person contributing the same would mean a certain level of perfection and we all know that nothing in life is perfect and certainly not people. You will always have one person who loves the other more, you will always have one person willing to compromise more, and one person will ALWAYS give more, even if its in the smallest way. Its just totally obtuse to think that way. Sure in theory we would like relationships to be 50/50 because it involves two people but it just doesnt happen. You find me a relationship where its completely equal and I'll show you a pig that can look up at the sky.febpisces27 -
Think about it a little more - cause really there can be a 50/50 relationship - sometimes u get 60/40 or whatever percentage & sometimes the other person in the relationship is getting a little more out of it - Its all about give & take.
Think about it a little more - cause really there can be a 50/50 relationship - sometimes u get 60/40 or whatever percentage & sometimes the other person in the relationship is getting a little more out of it - Its all about give & take.
I just dont think so. I think we ASPIRE to a 50/50 match up but it just doesnt happen, the scales are constantly tipping. ****Branh*** its ok to give from the heart and not expect anything in return, love doesnt have a score board its all about reciprocity. Also, I'm a little disturbed by your revenge tactics of having someone totally dependant on you so you can let them go. There is something in the universe bigger than you and its name is KARMA, be careful of the grave you dig for someone else because you just may fall in it yourself. This could also be the cause of your last relationship not working out so well. If you expect to get what you give, then expect the bad if you give it out.
Febpisces27
I think what Branh0913 was trying to say was to settle the middle ground first and then allow feelings to move foward and backward without interruption.
I think what Branh0913 was trying to say was to settle the middle ground first and then allow feelings to move foward and backward without interruption.
Its normal that one person is more giving in what they do,at certain points in the relationships(when the others having a low point),etc. BUT it all balences out as very close to even 50/50 when both sides are working at it in the end.
Example:One works and brings home the cash while the other takes care of the kids,clean house,whatever but niether really does more than the other.Its just different ways of putting in thier half.
Its not thats its not a 50/50 relationship,you just have to look at it for what that person gives to it in thier own right,substance and quality and then what the other does as well,it IS closer to 50/50 than it looks on the surface.Im supposed to be a control freak being a scorp but I don't want no slave as a lover because that lacks the required ups,downs and dynamics that helps form the relationship and helps both people be happy in it.I don't think I'd be "okay with it" if my boyfriend was miserable in the realtionship because I DO love him and am not thinking of only me,myself and I.Me thinks thats what branhs getting at
Example:One works and brings home the cash while the other takes care of the kids,clean house,whatever but niether really does more than the other.Its just different ways of putting in thier half.
Its not thats its not a 50/50 relationship,you just have to look at it for what that person gives to it in thier own right,substance and quality and then what the other does as well,it IS closer to 50/50 than it looks on the surface.Im supposed to be a control freak being a scorp but I don't want no slave as a lover because that lacks the required ups,downs and dynamics that helps form the relationship and helps both people be happy in it.I don't think I'd be "okay with it" if my boyfriend was miserable in the realtionship because I DO love him and am not thinking of only me,myself and I.Me thinks thats what branhs getting at
2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:
I have in the past given to much,to the point of denying myself,never again I don't people please anymore I want more for myself,I love seeing you happy babe, now I want to be happy myself, even if I have to be by myself.
I have in the past given to much,to the point of denying myself,never again I don't people please anymore I want more for myself,I love seeing you happy babe, now I want to be happy myself, even if I have to be by myself.
I have always enjoyed giving more than recieving.
I like to see my actions turn into happiness for my friends & lovers.
As long as you don't give to the point of denying yourself,or hurting,everything is cool.
I like to see my actions turn into happiness for my friends & lovers.
As long as you don't give to the point of denying yourself,or hurting,everything is cool.
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