Well, im a pisces sun, gem rising. She's a piscean. We're both 19. Share quite much interested about unknown and spiritual stuff, psychedely bla bla.
She's new at work and within 4 days.. Barely talking to me in the same day she told me to give me her hand. I layed it on the table and she put a ring on me telling me I was her boyfriend... I was the only one she told her facebook, showed her pics to me.
Well. The deal is, I want to know if she's into me or just playing it to get well accepted into my friends (I'm well liked there).
I'm afraid to pretend I'm her bf, cuz I'll get hurt, but everyone is telling things about me and her without even kissing Or talking.
I'm started to get hurt if it doesn't work, as me and everyone is expecting things.
Some friends of mine asked her I'd there wouldn't be kisses.. She said who knows? And laughed.
Argh. Is she making fun to get attention ?
Then it might not be real?
Id like to have a girlfriend but if its to play my feelings... I'm out. Rather going to a club where none of us will have bonds.
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
Doesn't seem like it matters if she's into you or not, if you're going to assume she did this for some popularity contest. You're already starting..anything based on mistrust.
Not my patterns.
Physically she's someone I could refuse and not care. But, she has lots of qualities, knowledge and skills. She's someone I would like to spend my youth or more with. If our conversations match if it works.
Thanks. Im gonna man up tomorrow, to the hell with my friends.... Let's see how we talk.. After having intentions with a girl all my smooth talk wears off
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Dec 20, 2011Comments: 362 · Posts: 10167 · Topics: 100
I've noticed with pisces girls there's no point asking what they do or how they think. Just be you and know what you want rather than planning or forcing what hasn't happened yet. With time things will become clearer. The good or bad.
Actually I reckon that should be applied to half the relationship questions on DXP. Why compromise your identity when things haven't even begun.
Thanks for all the posts. Agreed at all of them. Am gonna try approaching her but... Its so hard when you're a shy teenager (even thou I'm 19, I didn't go out to the woods to evolve. Then I consider myself as a teenager still) and everyone is whispering and watching if I'm talking to her. They are expecting too much of it. Everywhere I go they want to talk about it, which is nothing yet. This is some pressure I'm gonna have to deal with. Hope my romantic pisces nature and smooth Gemini rising talk takes care of it.