just wondering

being a cancer with a pisces moon i am extremely connected to the emotions of the people around me and those i care about. if anyone needs someone to be there for them i dont hesitate.....it just seems that when i need the same type of thing i feel let down. everyone loves to have someone care enough to be concerned or help but i feel like noone is hardly ever there for me.....which if im struggling or need help that feeling seems to sink me just a tad bit deeper. is this a normal thing for pisces to feel or does this seem to happen to anyone else? just wondering...feeling down now and stuck at home with a medical thing and i asked a couple of people to do a couple of simple things for me and noone has showed and wont answer when i call. maybe i just dont feel good or maybe its the pain meds but man, its making me feel worse. 😢

Thats typical behavior of most people. What you need to do in your time of need is decipher your real friends and rely on them.........and trash the users. To answer your question, yes I'm very giving and aware of others emotions, but you have to find a line and remember to save something for yourself at the end of day. I dont know if your religious/spiritual but God doesnt want you to be a martyr for anyone but him. Good luck.

I think it is a cancer thing and I think it is pretty typical, because not many people are able to care so much and give so much. Cancers also have a tendency to expect too much loyalty and take things personally if our friends don't drop everything to help us. It's just not realistic. I think pisces tends to feel sorry for themselves and expect others to take on your problems and most people have enough problems of their own.

I'm sorry about your health problems.....if you can, try to give people the benefit that maybe they are really busy and you may hear from someone. Until you do, you better take care of yourself and become a little more independent.

Good luck

well thats the thing i am independent and i usually dont ask anything from anyone(mars in aries) your right probably, i guess i just dont feel good and im taking it personally.

If they know your sick right now then they probably aren't that concerned especially if you contacted them.It'd be something to take note of honestly yes,but yeah,this is coming from someone whos extremely stubborn and even when im sick or whatever do 99.9% of everything by myself.I don't ask even when I would appreciate whatever it is lol.

Or in a better way of putting it,that'd fall into a lack of consideration in my book.

i feel like shutting my phone off and just disconnecting. its driving me crazy staring at the walls...nothing on tv...ive got tons of movies but dont feel like watching any of them. i just woke up so the only thing im looking foward to is i get to take another pain pill and hopefully go back to bed so im not thinking or feeling anything.😢

Yea, you sound pretty down on this, try to do something you normally enjoy like watch your movies just to take your mind off it. If you sulk too much, it is self defeating, I know this may be easier said than done, but I think once you make up your mind not to let it get to you and go on with your life you'll feel a stronger person. You might also reevaluate if they are good friends or not and seek out more caring friends.

I TOTALLY understand what you are feeling. It makes you really asses who your real friends are. You are probably feeling especially bad because you don't feel good physically in addition to you needing real emotional support, which isn't being provided. If you lived near Indiana...I would totally come and help you!

Keep in mind it could be Cancer funk time..Today is the New Moon.

Whatever that means...

MOON in PISCES (also Moon in twelfth House)

Moon in Pisces is a very sensitive soul. His reaction in emotional situations is either to hide, or to sympathize and give in. He's not likely to fight as he has a tendency to merge energy with others, taking on their feelings. He is a truly empathetic individual. Moon in Pisces nurtures others with a sweet kindness, understanding and a willingness to make personal sacrifices. He needs kindness in return. He may be deeply spiritual, and is undoubtedly an artistic person who draws inspiration from early experiences and memories.

im trying to be postitive guys..i really am. the only person who has been there for me is my ex-girlfriend, she has stopped by to help...brought some food, she works at a med. office so she has been helping me with that stuff. we arent quite together (long story)and she isnt available to be there for me too much which is understandable. sometimes i dont take the best care of myself and its nice to have someone there helping....even if its just company. it might not make my physical condition better but it would do wonders for my emotional state.

How are u feeling cj? Hope you are feeling better...I agree with cl...if I could I would come and help...Hang in there....thoughts are with u