My search keeps crashing, so I was unable to check if this has been posted already.
A Leo man wants to date me.. How likely is this going to work out?
Him 8/14/69
Me 2/28/71
Thank you!
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Mar 18, 2011Comments: 42 · Posts: 2899 · Topics: 50
Leo men need alot of attention. Lots of energy, like little fireballs. They're playful but pride and ego makes them explode when they feel they aren't being made a priority or ignored. Stroke their ego and the fuss dies down.
Leo men usually like Pisces ladies, they find us expressive, feminine and they love to play. I didn't look over your charts but it's a nice match if you can work around their ridigity
What nimbue wrote about Leos is pretty true. They love attention & they do have a strong sense to be noticed. However, they do make strong & loyal partners. They are protective of those that they love. It's actually a good match because Pisces love being protected.
there is definitely chemistry and very passionate love between the two signs.
fish like to be cradled and lions love to be in control. if you are both on the same page regarding relationships, it should work splendidly. it can become exhausting for you though to always have the spotlight on him.
(trust me, it will be)
I say this due to my personal experience with a leo. it was exhuberant; I had never felt so close to someone before... nor so willing to give myself in love with full honesty. but he only kept me around FOR his ego, and never gave me the same love I thought we were in for... we were and acted as if we were together, however he preferred seeing/looking/and talking about other girls while keeping me in his bed at night, openly. and when it came to "what are we?" well he wanted his cake and could eat it too, and although he FELT bad about it he didn't dare stop. so in turn for his ego I destroyed mine, and the whole "relationship" left me with a lot of insecurities, confusion of self, and general distrust in love.
it has taken me a long, slow time to find myself again.
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Jun 20, 2011Comments: 5 · Posts: 4737 · Topics: 103
Double is right. I have yet to meet a Leo that isn't a complete and total asshole. Male and female alike. Ego? Try full blown narcissism, and any humility you have will completely be trashed by his worthless ass.
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Apr 07, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 1325 · Topics: 0
I don't think a leo is a good match for the Pisces woman...A Pisces woman wants her man to herself while the Leo needs constant *others* attention...spotlight...since the Pisces is more often a reserved lay low type person this will soon become annoying to the Pisces...
I had a leo boyfriend and while he was caring ...cried if he was away from me he needed attention or wanted attention...from everyone...incidentally my ex Pisces had lots of Leo in him...showed leo traits more often which evidentially became annoying lol...like roll eyes annoying haha
doubletrouble, I am so sorry you had to experience, well, the ego thing of your leo. Sounds like he was just not a good solid man who really new himself. Regardless off his sign, eyeing other women while he with you is just so wrong and direspectful as well. I just met a wonderful Pisces women, 33 days ago to be exact. Can't stop thinking about her. Our first get together we spent the entire day (14 hours)together talking, working in her yard, dinner, wine, more talking about everything in our lives, good bad, crazy indifferent. I didn't want to leave her. It clicked. Then the crazy txting, like 90 between us in one day and emails, talking on the phone, etc...we went from 0 to 100 in 4.5 seconds. To fast? maybe, maybe not. It was just so effortlessly, easy and timely. Then she told me she could not offer me her heart after two weeks, It is still w her boyfriend who was killed 2 years ago. I told her that I sensed that, although I could not tell her that I really understood exactly the loss she was going through. She told me it was scarey how comfortable she felt around me. Third week it just slowed way down, which is exactly what we both wanted.(Hopefully, I think, why rush an awesome thing like this). Anyway, pace has kinda leveled out to where I think we are comfortable. She likes to use the "we" and "us" or "ours" alot when we talk and get together. I love this. We both have found God again at various points in our lives and I think this has a tremendous impact on how we relate to one another and how we will move forward. She is a Pisces but not to the T, I am a Leo just not to the T either. Hoping our relationship keeps growing. Seems like we've known each other for years.
Anyway, hang in there girl, and again sorry about that leo guy. Makes us all look bad sometimes.
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Mar 19, 2012Comments: 273 · Posts: 5457 · Topics: 33
I don't have any personal experience, but there seems to be a great initial attraction between the two. However, it usually seems to end pretty turbulently because of the many differences Leos and Pisces have and need in relationships.
My best friend is a Leo girl, and she does have a tiny issue with pride and money and all that other jazz. We have a problem with varying opinions, but as long as we keep our convos light hearted, there's no problem. : ) She's a great friend. Her brother is also a Leo and he doesn't seem like a bad person. Not the type to cheat or look at other girls. He's currently happily committed to another girl, albeit, she isn't a pisces.
All Leos aren't going to be the same, so maybe you got yourself a good one. Generally, though, it seems pisces-leo relationships usually don't last too long.
noturordinaryleoguy, thank you for your kind words. you are right: he was not sure of himself, at all. he was very, very insecure. I just thought, as a friend, I would help him through that, and I guess-- superficially-- I did. but the value was supposed to be found where the heart is concerned, not the self's image. alas, I don't talk to him anymore... now months later he still knocks on the door of my labyrinth, but only to find it empty to him.
I used to have the greatest love for him. I thought we shared it. it was a love like nothing can describe.
I hope you and your pisces go somewhere sweeter than I did, you really can if you try. like I said, if you're on the same page about life and relationships, growing together romantically, then pisces and leo can work. leo just has to remember to care and think for someone else besides himself, and pisces has to learn to not take things so emotionally all the time. it is a compromise, like any relationship.
woah. sorry for all the double posts, doing this from my phone sucks lol.
I thought I'd mention though, with regards to the topic, this may be useful to the OP: I have only dated three men in my life so far, all of them having leo traits. understand, I have two very strong fire signs in my chart, so maybe this has something to do with the attraction, but make of it what you will. my very first boyfriend was a virgo/leo (which was too much), my second "boy-friend" was the leo I mentioned before, who was a leo/leo (surprisingly not enough), and my now-current boyfriend is a virgo, but with strong leo aspects in his chart-- venus & mercury (just right!).
I do not know why this is. the leo ego bugs the heck out of me, but coincidentally, all my relationships have had its fair share of it. hope this puts perspective on possible pisces/leo attractions.
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Jul 28, 2007Comments: 28 · Posts: 921 · Topics: 39
please everyone understand this, fire (aries, leo, sagittarius) and water (US) don't mix...no matter how much you think it will work, it's just an illusion....i've had gf's from all three fire signs and it always ends up the same way, with my feelings hurt...and that's the exact thing a pisces doesn't need...
here is some food for thought from one of my favorite resources. hope this helps...
Leo Man & Pisces Woman
Pisces ladies love to poke fun & giggle at human foibles, but Leo has enough of them to keep her in stitches. She will lead this lion around by his collar, pull his strings, push his buttons and crack the whip when necessary. This big cat will get as soppy as a puppy dog. Then, one day, he will observe her giggles and suddenly understand what they mean. Poached fish will be on the menu that night … \
This match is nearly impossible to make work. You and the Leo boy are almost total opposites in temperament, emotions and your ways of dealing with other people. You feel deeply about the people you care for and you treat them with great affection and tenderness. Meanwhile, he is domineering and arrogant, and he will harass you and bully you until he gets his way. You tend to be fairly introverted, and he is extroverted and arrogant. You are emotional and vulnerable, and he is loud-mouthed and pushy. Because of his fiery nature, he is prone to major outbursts, which completely intimidate you. You?ll end up withdrawing to protect yourself after you experience this a few times. He?ll get annoyed by your sensitivity and he won?t get what the problem is. It?s a mismatch of personality that leads to explosions and bad feelings. Give this match a miss.
You share: a love of water, music, and the finer things in life. Even if you’re only heading out for a picnic at the beach, there will be no dearth of romance. In Leo boy, Pisces girl could have a lifelong friend and confidante-exactly the kind of relationship that fills you with bliss!
Yellow said it best.
Had a 5 year relationship with a Leo male and it drained the life out of me, I've recovered from it but it took a while.