Libra Guy coming on heavy?
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by netpower on Monday, June 12, 2017 and has 10 replies.
Any Pisces dealt with Libras on here?
I met one at the gym . He immediately started talking about how he loved how fit i looked. Asking
how long it took me to get to where i am now. He wanted to know everything. He kept praising my
appearance a lot which kinda caught me off guard and said he doesnot see many fit black girls in the
area.
Then he told me if needed any workout tips that i should ask him.
He took my number and immediately started texting. I noticed he wants to talk for hours which is difficult
for me as i am in grad school full time and trying to start a business. I have to my manage time when we
talk lol. He told me he is really excited about our first date.
I also picked up a feminine vibe from him even if he is manly....its weird. He is good looking and in great
shape. Born on Oct 4th. I don't meet Libras often so i have no clue abt their traits. Is this typical of them
coz i felt he was coming on strong ? Should i be concerned?
I met one at the gym . He immediately started talking about how he loved how fit i looked. Asking
how long it took me to get to where i am now. He wanted to know everything. He kept praising my
appearance a lot which kinda caught me off guard and said he doesnot see many fit black girls in the
area.
Then he told me if needed any workout tips that i should ask him.
He took my number and immediately started texting. I noticed he wants to talk for hours which is difficult
for me as i am in grad school full time and trying to start a business. I have to my manage time when we
talk lol. He told me he is really excited about our first date.
I also picked up a feminine vibe from him even if he is manly....its weird. He is good looking and in great
shape. Born on Oct 4th. I don't meet Libras often so i have no clue abt their traits. Is this typical of them
coz i felt he was coming on strong ? Should i be concerned?
don't take all the chit chat as any form of longevity..... its what they do to get you in the first place, all with a lot of charm 
yes they will come on strong, as they need to get you
traits - overly charming at first, superficial, notice their contradicting statements (they will be there!), boy-ish mentality but thats part of their 'charm'
I wish you luck, if you like him, but please remember that as a Pisces, you like a soul connection and these guys, well, they don't tend to dig to deep, in my experience.
Take it with a pinch of salt, keep your eyes open
Sounds like a typical zoom off the starting blocks to me You will be blindsided by the constant contact, so keep it real and if you can't talk all the time be straight up about it..... us Pisces don't like to offend so you may feel bad and feel you are being rude..... don't be!
yes they will come on strong, as they need to get you
traits - overly charming at first, superficial, notice their contradicting statements (they will be there!), boy-ish mentality but thats part of their 'charm'
I wish you luck, if you like him, but please remember that as a Pisces, you like a soul connection and these guys, well, they don't tend to dig to deep, in my experience.
Take it with a pinch of salt, keep your eyes open
Sounds like a typical zoom off the starting blocks to me
You will be blindsided by the constant contact, so keep it real and if you can't talk all the time be straight up about it..... us Pisces don't like to offend so you may feel bad and feel you are being rude..... don't be!
Be yourself but be hard to get try not to fall for the charm Libras speak with their behavior not their words.
We really are bombarded with this Rush of ecstasy when we first meet someone that we like and then a fantasy is triggered like we finally have met the right one.
Instead of chilling and just getting to know the person during the Romantic rush and high of the initial phase of romance we get really overwhelmed with these lustful feelings of euphoria and potential happily ever after.
Then reality sets in. And we start seeing the real person behind the fantasy that we have erected. Sometimes the reality check is a hard crash that we constantly just refuse to learn a lesson from.
The lesson being go slow and wait until enough time has passed before you gush out all of these promising words at the moment it's very sincere and we genuinely mean it at the moment.
If you like the fantasy go with it one of the things however that will get him out of fantasy with you into reality is by finding out with his true goals and passions are and showing him how you can support that in the real world.
I would encourage you to go slow make him work for it don't play any games but definitely show consistency and constancy.
Tell him that you find him Charming but experience has taught you that behavior speaks louder than words that will throw him off.
We really are bombarded with this Rush of ecstasy when we first meet someone that we like and then a fantasy is triggered like we finally have met the right one.
Instead of chilling and just getting to know the person during the Romantic rush and high of the initial phase of romance we get really overwhelmed with these lustful feelings of euphoria and potential happily ever after.
Then reality sets in. And we start seeing the real person behind the fantasy that we have erected. Sometimes the reality check is a hard crash that we constantly just refuse to learn a lesson from.
The lesson being go slow and wait until enough time has passed before you gush out all of these promising words at the moment it's very sincere and we genuinely mean it at the moment.
If you like the fantasy go with it one of the things however that will get him out of fantasy with you into reality is by finding out with his true goals and passions are and showing him how you can support that in the real world.
I would encourage you to go slow make him work for it don't play any games but definitely show consistency and constancy.
Tell him that you find him Charming but experience has taught you that behavior speaks louder than words that will throw him off.
@Shrewdsharp...... does a Libra male ever go back in their head and realise they made mistakes maybe? do they ever regret doing what they do...... in that they go hard, give it all the consistency they possibly can and then back off because of a realisation they moved too quick?
Mine doesn't seem too, we still speak sometimes and are friends on Facebook and like each others stuff every now and again....... he was in touch in written form for a long time even after I ended our relationship because he didn't communicate his irritations (which by the time he did, it was too late for me as I had grown too frustrated and it was showing). It was like he didn't want to break the cord fully.... but I have had to, it was too much for me. I often now wonder if he regrets not communicating and whether his vision of me could have been more real, had he been more upfront.
Sorry to hijack your post @netpower
Mine doesn't seem too, we still speak sometimes and are friends on Facebook and like each others stuff every now and again....... he was in touch in written form for a long time even after I ended our relationship because he didn't communicate his irritations (which by the time he did, it was too late for me as I had grown too frustrated and it was showing). It was like he didn't want to break the cord fully.... but I have had to, it was too much for me. I often now wonder if he regrets not communicating and whether his vision of me could have been more real, had he been more upfront.
Sorry to hijack your post @netpower
Posted by Pisces_DaydreamerI feel like we are so different
don't take all the chit chat as any form of longevity..... its what they do to get you in the first place, all with a lot of charm
yes they will come on strong, as they need to get you
traits - overly charming at first, superficial, notice their contradicting statements (they will be there!), boy-ish mentality but thats part of their 'charm'
I wish you luck, if you like him, but please remember that as a Pisces, you like a soul connection and these guys, well, they don't tend to dig to deep, in my experience.
Take it with a pinch of salt, keep your eyes open
Sounds like a typical zoom off the starting blocks to me
I haven't noticed any contradicting statements yet but will watch out for that
He does move fast which is not my style at all so i have to step in and slow it down
Will see where it goes but i am not afraid to cut it off if it doesnot feel right
Posted by ShrewdsharpSo if he falls for someone that quick, can he quickly fall out of love for the same person?
Be yourself but be hard to get try not to fall for the charm Libras speak with their behavior not their words.
We really are bombarded with this Rush of ecstasy when we first meet someone that we like and then a fantasy is triggered like we finally have met the right one.
Instead of chilling and just getting to know the person during the Romantic rush and high of the initial phase of romance we get really overwhelmed with these lustful feelings of euphoria and potential happily ever after.
Then reality sets in. And we start seeing the real person behind the fantasy that we have erected. Sometimes the reality check is a hard crash that we constantly just refuse to learn a lesson from.
The lesson being go slow and wait until enough time has passed before you gush out all of these promising words at the moment it's very sincere and we genuinely mean it at the moment.
If you like the fantasy go with it one of the things however that will get him out of fantasy with you into reality is by finding out with his true goals and passions are and showing him how you can support that in the real world.
I would encourage you to go slow make him work for it don't play any games but definitely show consistency and constancy.
Tell him that you find him Charming but experience has taught you that behavior speaks louder than words that will throw him off.
Sounds like it is not genuine, like they don't see the real you
Posted by PVJamzThe attraction surprises me, our compatibility seems wack from what i have read.
Yeah I attract libras a lot, they seem to be drawn to pisces. They will openly flirt and let you know they like you. All venusian men like to over compliment, it's part of their charm I guess. Taurus men tend to do this too. Libras are like emotionally detached, cerebral, overly extroverted Tauruses. He will tone it down the over complimenting once he gets comfortable. If you like him give him a chance.
He is really charming which did scare my Pisces heart a bit lol
Will see how it goes
Posted by tizianiThanks for the wishes
Pisces and Libra is top notch. Enjoy. Good luck with the business.
Posted by PVJamz"Perfect synastry never seems to create strong romantic attraction."Posted by netpowerPosted by PVJamzThe attraction surprises me, our compatibility seems wack from what i have read.
Yeah I attract libras a lot, they seem to be drawn to pisces. They will openly flirt and let you know they like you. All venusian men like to over compliment, it's part of their charm I guess. Taurus men tend to do this too. Libras are like emotionally detached, cerebral, overly extroverted Tauruses. He will tone it down the over complimenting once he gets comfortable. If you like him give him a chance.
He is really charming which did scare my Pisces heart a bit lol
Will see how it goes
I end up being just friends with the people I have the best synastry with. Perfect synastry never seems to create strong romantic attraction.click to expand
You are so right. This is how it feels when i am with Cancers, its like effortless but there is no over the top chemistry
Posted by netpowerThey seem pretty fickle to me.. Yes.Posted by ShrewdsharpSo if he falls for someone that quick, can he quickly fall out of love for the same person?
Be yourself but be hard to get try not to fall for the charm Libras speak with their behavior not their words.
We really are bombarded with this Rush of ecstasy when we first meet someone that we like and then a fantasy is triggered like we finally have met the right one.
Instead of chilling and just getting to know the person during the Romantic rush and high of the initial phase of romance we get really overwhelmed with these lustful feelings of euphoria and potential happily ever after.
Then reality sets in. And we start seeing the real person behind the fantasy that we have erected. Sometimes the reality check is a hard crash that we constantly just refuse to learn a lesson from.
The lesson being go slow and wait until enough time has passed before you gush out all of these promising words at the moment it's very sincere and we genuinely mean it at the moment.
If you like the fantasy go with it one of the things however that will get him out of fantasy with you into reality is by finding out with his true goals and passions are and showing him how you can support that in the real world.
I would encourage you to go slow make him work for it don't play any games but definitely show consistency and constancy.
Tell him that you find him Charming but experience has taught you that behavior speaks louder than words that will throw him off.
Sounds like it is not genuine, like they don't see the real youclick to expand
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