Little things you do/did for your BF/GF
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by iceredrobot on Wednesday, August 31, 2011 and has 31 replies.
Little things:
?? I email him a few times with cute/silly stuff to let him know I??m thinking of him
?? Send lots of text asking how he is, how his day is going
?? Listen, listen, listen to everything he wants to tell me without interrupting
?? Spend most of my grocery budget on food he likes so when he??s over it feels like home
?? If he??s staying over for a few days I remove most of my things from the wardrobe so he has most of it to himself
?? Wear perfumes I don??t like only because he loves it
?? Dress for him ??? gone are the days I???d dress like a video ho-ney lol jk...sort of
?? Cancel plans if he??s not happy so I can stay with him
?? Always let him pick the movie we??ll see ??? horror movies are out of the question though!!!
?? Usually let him decide what we do
?? Give him full control of the TV
?? Only cook what he loves
?? I put a lot of thought into gifts. There must be a personal touch even if it means I decorate the box I hand it over in
?? This may seem completely insignificant but I never make him feel rejected. If he tries to hug, kiss, hold my hand I let him no matter how angry/upset I am. Or if he says something emotional (which is very hard for earth sign men) I comfort him. Should he ever show a vulnerable side I never attempt to hurt him, even if I??m really hurting. I always comfort him until he??s stronger??_then it??s fair game lol
?? Sex-wise the bedroom is very much his territory. I just do whatever makes him happy.
?? The lists of things I wouldn??t do for him is mighty short because he??s such a cutie
I just want him to know I think about him and he??s #1 in my world
Damn I??m sounding like a Stepford Wife. It??s surreal typing it out cause it sounds so dramatic, but it??s something that comes naturally. And thank God as I suck at the emotional stuff. I don??t mind if he doesn??t do much in return so long as he??s sweet to me. Doing this makes me happy
One thing I can never ever do is sleep in the wet spot. No chance in helllll X(
I'm certainly not perfect. He also has to deal with my hotheadedness and the plain insanity that comes with me
?? I email him a few times with cute/silly stuff to let him know I??m thinking of him
?? Send lots of text asking how he is, how his day is going
?? Listen, listen, listen to everything he wants to tell me without interrupting
?? Spend most of my grocery budget on food he likes so when he??s over it feels like home
?? If he??s staying over for a few days I remove most of my things from the wardrobe so he has most of it to himself
?? Wear perfumes I don??t like only because he loves it
?? Dress for him ??? gone are the days I???d dress like a video ho-ney lol jk...sort of
?? Cancel plans if he??s not happy so I can stay with him
?? Always let him pick the movie we??ll see ??? horror movies are out of the question though!!!
?? Usually let him decide what we do
?? Give him full control of the TV
?? Only cook what he loves
?? I put a lot of thought into gifts. There must be a personal touch even if it means I decorate the box I hand it over in
?? This may seem completely insignificant but I never make him feel rejected. If he tries to hug, kiss, hold my hand I let him no matter how angry/upset I am. Or if he says something emotional (which is very hard for earth sign men) I comfort him. Should he ever show a vulnerable side I never attempt to hurt him, even if I??m really hurting. I always comfort him until he??s stronger??_then it??s fair game lol
?? Sex-wise the bedroom is very much his territory. I just do whatever makes him happy.
?? The lists of things I wouldn??t do for him is mighty short because he??s such a cutie
I just want him to know I think about him and he??s #1 in my world
Damn I??m sounding like a Stepford Wife. It??s surreal typing it out cause it sounds so dramatic, but it??s something that comes naturally. And thank God as I suck at the emotional stuff. I don??t mind if he doesn??t do much in return so long as he??s sweet to me. Doing this makes me happy
One thing I can never ever do is sleep in the wet spot. No chance in helllll X(
I'm certainly not perfect. He also has to deal with my hotheadedness and the plain insanity that comes with me
I asked my friend what romantic things he does, and he said "let her out of the kitchen for some air"
oh Aquas -____-
oh Aquas -____-
Posted by iceredrobot
I asked my friend what romantic things he does, and he said "let her out of the kitchen for some air"
oh Aquas -____-
ROFL
oh, yours are so sweet. mine were:
-let him pick his side of the bed.
-i gave him head massages before he slept because he has insomnia
-when we'd eat, i'd let him finish my food, or share it with me. he eats like a horse so i'd make sure he had enough.
-also, i used to brush insects away from him. he had a little thing about that. when he was younger, his twin brother had a bug fly into his ear and had to go to hospital to have it taken out. so, since then he freaks out about creepy crawlies coming near him...
-decipher his dreams. well, try to. we'd always tell the other what we dreamt about. and i'd get him little gifts that related to him and his interests.
-encourage him to finish the book he was writing, he's pretty self-conscious about it.
-look out for books relating to his degree, as he's studying counselling psychology.
-ooh yeah, and i always made his bed when i stayed over
they're a bit mother hen-ish, but that's how i roll
-let him pick his side of the bed.
-i gave him head massages before he slept because he has insomnia
-when we'd eat, i'd let him finish my food, or share it with me. he eats like a horse so i'd make sure he had enough.
-also, i used to brush insects away from him. he had a little thing about that. when he was younger, his twin brother had a bug fly into his ear and had to go to hospital to have it taken out. so, since then he freaks out about creepy crawlies coming near him...
-decipher his dreams. well, try to. we'd always tell the other what we dreamt about. and i'd get him little gifts that related to him and his interests.
-encourage him to finish the book he was writing, he's pretty self-conscious about it.
-look out for books relating to his degree, as he's studying counselling psychology.
-ooh yeah, and i always made his bed when i stayed over
they're a bit mother hen-ish, but that's how i roll
I'm going to be the opposite here...
I tend to let my guy [who is a Pisces also] do the romancing stuff since I am not really a romantic...I am more of a physical - I want what a man wants - good sex - loyalty - kind gestures and I am happy - and in return he will get my 100% loyalty through good and bad and the soft loving side of me - I am happy if he is happy - I give him my understanding I will compromise - always - ok I slipped up a couple times and got stubborn -
So this is what my Pisces does for me
- Drew me a flower [he's artistic like tattoo artist]...signs it with his name...laminates it and gives it to me with a big sloppy kiss haha
- Makes sure I have blankets on me...if my legs/feet aren't covered he will adjust it
- Adjusts my pillow so I am sitting up right when we are snuggling in bed...
- holds my hand while he is driving - stops to change gears
- always opens doors and lets me walk through first...unlocks and opens my side of door first...
- Cooks me breakfast - dinner - always asks if I'm hungry or thirsty and makes it for me if I say yes
- When he sees me tells me I look amazing/beautiful
- Texts me goodmorning texts everyday - constant texts throughout the day and he will follow up with another text or two *worried* if I haven't responded within 2 hours haha...
- cuddles me - lots of yummy kisses
- Sexually I let him do whatever he likes afterall I am a Pisces - reserved on the outside - wild on the inside hehe infact he is the only one I have been with in over 2 years - celibate for those years - yes really
- Tells me plans where he wants to take me in the future - long romantic scenic drives etc
Basically I let him be the man and let him lead with the romance stuff...I just remain that independent strong/soft woman - My understanding and flexibility and looking sexy for him is what makes the Pisces I am with happy plus this is what my other ex Pisces also liked...
I tend to let my guy [who is a Pisces also] do the romancing stuff since I am not really a romantic...I am more of a physical - I want what a man wants - good sex - loyalty - kind gestures and I am happy - and in return he will get my 100% loyalty through good and bad and the soft loving side of me - I am happy if he is happy - I give him my understanding I will compromise - always - ok I slipped up a couple times and got stubborn -
So this is what my Pisces does for me
- Drew me a flower [he's artistic like tattoo artist]...signs it with his name...laminates it and gives it to me with a big sloppy kiss haha
- Makes sure I have blankets on me...if my legs/feet aren't covered he will adjust it
- Adjusts my pillow so I am sitting up right when we are snuggling in bed...
- holds my hand while he is driving - stops to change gears
- always opens doors and lets me walk through first...unlocks and opens my side of door first...
- Cooks me breakfast - dinner - always asks if I'm hungry or thirsty and makes it for me if I say yes
- When he sees me tells me I look amazing/beautiful
- Texts me goodmorning texts everyday - constant texts throughout the day and he will follow up with another text or two *worried* if I haven't responded within 2 hours haha...
- cuddles me - lots of yummy kisses
- Sexually I let him do whatever he likes
afterall I am a Pisces - reserved on the outside - wild on the inside hehe infact he is the only one I have been with in over 2 years - celibate for those years - yes really - Tells me plans where he wants to take me in the future - long romantic scenic drives etc
Basically I let him be the man and let him lead with the romance stuff...I just remain that independent strong/soft woman - My understanding and flexibility and looking sexy for him is what makes the Pisces I am with happy plus this is what my other ex Pisces also liked...
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Posted by iceredrobot
Where can I trade for a Pisces guy? I used to wonder why all the fuss over Pisces men, nowwww I get it.
To be honest I have had the best lasting relationship with Pisces guys...my last Pisces I was with for 12 years...I think they suit the Pisces woman well *because* they understand and it's almost psychic connection...they say things I was thinking...messages pop up immediately thinking of them...best friend can say/be/do anything...
My ex Pisces use to cook for me but he was a cute terrible cook haha but it was cute...he over cooked the veges until they looked gray lmao !!!
Pisces guys always have that shy loving look upon them when they are with you...my experience anyway
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Posted by iceredrobot
I'm now trying to remember if I know any Pisces guys lol
haha you're cute
Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
Goddddd, I wish I had someone I could romanceI'd do everything and anything for you, if you were mine and I was yours
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It sucks
*Snaps back to reality*
Somebody come snuggle with me!! http://media.photobucket.com/image/snuggle smiley/DemonYoukai/Smilies/shnuggle1.gif?o=0" target="_blank">
iceredrobot
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Posted by piranhaparadiise
To be honest I have had the best lasting relationship with Pisces guys...my last Pisces I was with for 12 years...I think they suit the Pisces woman well *because* they understand and it's almost psychic connection...they say things I was thinking...messages pop up immediately thinking of them...best friend can say/be/do anything...
My ex Pisces use to cook for me but he was a cute terrible cook haha but it was cute...he over cooked the veges until they looked gray lmao !!!
Pisces guys always have that shy loving look upon them when they are with you...my experience anyway
lol @ the cooking xD I love that. One of the most difficult thing in relationship if getting someone to understand me. It must be wonderful to have someone *get* you like that. Who knows what it's like o be what we are
Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
Goddddd, I wish I had someone I could romance
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It sucks
*Snaps back to reality*
Somebody come snuggle with me!! http://media.photobucket.com/image/snuggle smiley/DemonYoukai/Smilies/shnuggle1.gif?o=0" target="_blank">click to expand
cyber hug for you Posted by piranhaparadiisePosted by iceredrobot
I'm now trying to remember if I know any Pisces guys lol
haha you're cuteclick to expand
aww thank you
Posted by piranhaparadiise
iceredrobot
lol!! I'll get arrested
Posted by iceredrobot
lol @ the cooking xD I love that. One of the most difficult things in relationship is getting someone to understand me. It must be wonderful to have someone *get* you like that. Who knows what it's like to be what we are
*fixed
A sign I should be heading for bed xD
lol!! xD awww???
Posted by Pb
Piranhaparadise, I love it when guys are gentlemen like that. It shows they truly care for you.
I think so too...that's why I always tell him I appreciate what he does...thank him...I always reply back the same caring messages...
Basically I let him know I care about him/supportive/understanding...so I guess that is my romantic gestures...
I really appreciate a soft sensitive guy...
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Posted by iceredrobotPosted by piranhaparadiise
iceredrobot
lol!! I'll get arrestedclick to expand
arghh I assumed he was an adult...oops my bad...
just saw his pics...just a baby
this is so sweet and i'm feeling all gushy... but I may hide this later, LOL!
Pisces Guy:
-holds doors open for me
-touches me when he passes me
-calls me baby, sweety
-his eyes follow me everywhere in a room
-shares everything he has with me... food/drink/etc.
-cooks for me and gets really nervous if i'll like it. puts down his food so i can tell him how delicious it is
-he djs and always plays a song for me and i have to guess which one it is. i know i've guessed right cause he's staring at me when it plays
-tells me his dreams, things he's dealing with (super private guy)
-calls me sexy and cute
-brings me around his friends and likes it when i'm charming
-mixes me cds full of love songs
I'm one lucky girl...
I do for him:
-listen to him, make him laugh and build him up when he's down
-cook food he loves.
-bring him little gifts I know he likes
-text him random thoughts, miss yous and stuff (never the same thing twice)
-write him sexy stories
-dress feminine and keep my feet looking pretty ( who knew the feet thing was true)
-compliment his mind, body and spirit
-make lots of eye contact with him when we're out
-rub his neck and play with his hair
-spontaneous cuddles
He's a lucky guy...
Pisces Guy:
-holds doors open for me
-touches me when he passes me
-calls me baby, sweety
-his eyes follow me everywhere in a room
-shares everything he has with me... food/drink/etc.
-cooks for me and gets really nervous if i'll like it. puts down his food so i can tell him how delicious it is
-he djs and always plays a song for me and i have to guess which one it is. i know i've guessed right cause he's staring at me when it plays
-tells me his dreams, things he's dealing with (super private guy)
-calls me sexy and cute
-brings me around his friends and likes it when i'm charming
-mixes me cds full of love songs
I'm one lucky girl...
I do for him:
-listen to him, make him laugh and build him up when he's down
-cook food he loves.
-bring him little gifts I know he likes
-text him random thoughts, miss yous and stuff (never the same thing twice)
-write him sexy stories
-dress feminine and keep my feet looking pretty ( who knew the feet thing was true)
-compliment his mind, body and spirit
-make lots of eye contact with him when we're out
-rub his neck and play with his hair
-spontaneous cuddles
He's a lucky guy...
Posted by piranhaparadiise
I'm going to be the opposite here...
I tend to let my guy [who is a Pisces also] do the romancing stuff since I am not really a romantic...I am more of a physical - I want what a man wants - good sex - loyalty - kind gestures and I am happy - and in return he will get my 100% loyalty through good and bad and the soft loving side of me - I am happy if he is happy - I give him my understanding I will compromise - always - ok I slipped up a couple times and got stubborn -
Nice! I feel ya
My pisces
-loves me (i can see it through his actions)
-very romantic (i can't compare to his thoughtfulness when it comes to presents)gets me flowers just for the heck it
-does all my laundry
-cooks for me when im too tired to
-massages my back and feet
-takes awesome care of our son lovingly while im at work
-tells me how grateful he is to have me
-always tells me im beautiful out of the blue
-incredible incredible lovemaking
-brings me happiness
-travels with me on little weekend excursions
What i bring to him
-a beautiful son born all nature at home in the water
-loyalty
-love (the real kind) not the "i've settled into the comfort zone" but the passionate "im very attracted to you physically" kind
-complete transparency (i don't keep secrets from him)
-feet & back massage
-financial support
-a beautiful body (i spend time practicing pilates and yoga)ive been reshaping my legs, stomach, and butt
-a life partner someone to grow old with
I'm not all serious all the time. Eh, that could be a bad thing too. I've been accused of not being affectionate enough. Treat them like a friend, bc ya know, that's how we met. Spontaneous.Very. I keep a nice home, although I do that for me, he just happens to reap the benefits...AND I can cook my ass off.
Posted by WasteOfTime
Lol. Seriously? Come on..
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Pisceans are the best, everyone knows thisclick to expand
haha! I thought you guys were like everybody else, who knew you were much better
Posted by shellshocker
this is so sweet and i'm feeling all gushy... but I may hide this later, LOL!
I'l just quote this bit then for ya
Love the "touches me when he passes me" part, I do that all the time. I don't think I've let him pass me without touching him.
Aww hope you won hide it, it's lovely
It??s Virgo season ya??ll!!! We can officially add ???a-half?? to our age now
I know one Virgo, and he??s kinda special to me??_only a little!! I??ve been asking his mum to email me copies of his baby pics so I can make him??_something that resembles a tree gone very very wrong it??s one of a few gifts I??ve got him. Hope he likes it ^-^
He??s been in my life for almost 2yrs now. I know I tease about him, or other guys but it??s my way of not showing how vulnerable I am with him. If you could see how hopelessly devoted I am to him, or how my world revolves around him. I assure you there is no beating heart in my chest, it??s snuggling up with his.
Like a lot of Virgo guys he??s sort of a loner so I give him all the space he needs but he assures me I??m 100% his property??_which oddly makes my heart flutter. He stands up for me, is right there when I need him. He??s my big strong man. It??s the sign of service with the sign of the selfless ??? he??s not all talk, he shows his devotion. I know he loves me.
Has it been smooth sailing? lol NO, but when you have all these issues but still want to be together, still want it to work ??? you know it??s meant to be.
I know one Virgo, and he??s kinda special to me??_only a little!! I??ve been asking his mum to email me copies of his baby pics so I can make him??_something that resembles a tree gone very very wrong it??s one of a few gifts I??ve got him. Hope he likes it ^-^
He??s been in my life for almost 2yrs now. I know I tease about him, or other guys but it??s my way of not showing how vulnerable I am with him. If you could see how hopelessly devoted I am to him, or how my world revolves around him. I assure you there is no beating heart in my chest, it??s snuggling up with his.
Like a lot of Virgo guys he??s sort of a loner so I give him all the space he needs
but he assures me I??m 100% his property??_which oddly makes my heart flutter. He stands up for me, is right there when I need him. He??s my big strong man. It??s the sign of service with the sign of the selfless ??? he??s not all talk, he shows his devotion. I know he loves me.Has it been smooth sailing? lol NO, but when you have all these issues but still want to be together, still want it to work ??? you know it??s meant to be.
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