Maybe he's upset Im now treating him Platonic!!
This topic was created in the Pisces forum by CLASSifiedPisces on Tuesday, January 10, 2012 and has 9 replies.
posted this some weeks ago::::
My friend how I have feelings for had a convo with me and said: I was missing in action! And he missed me, he also puts a sad face! I responded to him by saying: I was occupied with my academics , work and my personal life, but I told him I was right here( meaning available to talk via text in the meantime)! I told him I hope him and his family have a good holiday! .......at that time I was very busy with studying for finals . Est then he hasn't texted. Me at all which I was surprise about ! I meant to also say I found out via facebook! He is now dating a girl in our hometown ! She is really different from me!which I felt he should of told me being that he said he thought our friendship had a great understanding that he felt should lead else where! So I never received the update news! So I can admit right now I'm distant but also busy with school... But he disappeared on me! Btw I'm a Pisces, he is a Cancer!
I admit i have became distant and less affection! its underfair. Its been a month and I havent heard anything from him. The girl he was suppose to be dating no longer writes face book statues about her love for him,,,which makes me think this::
1.) they NO longer date! they've been together est september
2.) He told her to NOT put anything regarding about them because he is a private person, but his agenda is so he could still talk to other girls and NO one know he is dating!
Im about to take it that he has a gf! We can be platonic friends! But that only means I have to act just friendly NOT show too much affection! I think he doesnt like my behave or my new attitude so maybe thats why he disappeared. I must admit I Miss him, but also a little disgusted!
My friend how I have feelings for had a convo with me and said: I was missing in action! And he missed me, he also puts a sad face! I responded to him by saying: I was occupied with my academics , work and my personal life, but I told him I was right here( meaning available to talk via text in the meantime)! I told him I hope him and his family have a good holiday! .......at that time I was very busy with studying for finals . Est then he hasn't texted. Me at all which I was surprise about ! I meant to also say I found out via facebook! He is now dating a girl in our hometown ! She is really different from me!which I felt he should of told me being that he said he thought our friendship had a great understanding that he felt should lead else where! So I never received the update news! So I can admit right now I'm distant but also busy with school... But he disappeared on me! Btw I'm a Pisces, he is a Cancer!
I admit i have became distant and less affection! its underfair. Its been a month and I havent heard anything from him. The girl he was suppose to be dating no longer writes face book statues about her love for him,,,which makes me think this::
1.) they NO longer date! they've been together est september
2.) He told her to NOT put anything regarding about them because he is a private person, but his agenda is so he could still talk to other girls and NO one know he is dating!
Im about to take it that he has a gf! We can be platonic friends! But that only means I have to act just friendly NOT show too much affection! I think he doesnt like my behave or my new attitude so maybe thats why he disappeared. I must admit I Miss him, but also a little disgusted!
When you become distant with anyone, one of two things usually happen. The person makes a greater effort to stay in contact or pulls back. If you want to speak to him then contact him, when you have time. Cant expect him to grow closer as you grow distant.
OOOoooo he's a cancer...that explains a lot. lol *gigglesnort*. Vengeful buggars.
Well I have to say fire-water is right. Also....hmmm how do I put this without sounding rude. Hmm...
Ok were you two ever a couple? Doesn't sound like it. So you both were open to the option then you got entangled with school (which is acceptable you have your priorities in order). So you pull back, he sent you a text, you said your still there, no contact then find out on facebook he's involved. Did I get that right? If not set me straight.
If so...I would say he moved on. Now if he was truly friends with you it would of been nice you found out about the gf through his own mouth than fb. But meh what can you do. Now you know...you know. Also about him and his gf well that's there own bullbutter. Don't worry about the two of them. Now if he's telling her don't post our relationship on fb so it makes it easier to get a side piece that give you VALUABLE information about him as a person. I hope to goodness you wouldn't want a man who does that to you. So again now you know.
If he wants to be friends and it seems like your up for that. Hey, keep it up but don't stress out about if he contact you or not. You don't do this with other friends do you? I hope not or you wouldn't have enough time to live. Which makes me think you have more feelings for him on a more than a friends basis. If this is the case and you can't keep it platonic then cut him loose. If you can keep at it but don't stress about him. You have more important things to worry about. Keep hitting those books and get your damn degree. Guys come and go but that degree is your ticket to a better future. Don't take your eyes off that prize hun.
All I can say is now you know how he is. Honestly he doesn't sound productive to your academic challenges. You have school, you have responsibilities. So if he's gonna pout and find someone else in spite of you then you know how he is and if you date you will be in the predicament EVERY semester. Do you want to do deal with finals and bf issues? I think not! So if I was you disregard those I wanna be more feelings and keep it platonic. If he can't deal with that fine. You have bigger fish to fry. Move on and be happy being you. He can go through life being him. Just know you made the right decision of him or school. It should be school every single time and he should respect that. Hell he should offer to help you study, ACTUALLY study. lol
Well I have to say fire-water is right. Also....hmmm how do I put this without sounding rude. Hmm...
Ok were you two ever a couple? Doesn't sound like it. So you both were open to the option then you got entangled with school (which is acceptable you have your priorities in order). So you pull back, he sent you a text, you said your still there, no contact then find out on facebook he's involved. Did I get that right? If not set me straight.
If so...I would say he moved on. Now if he was truly friends with you it would of been nice you found out about the gf through his own mouth than fb. But meh what can you do. Now you know...you know. Also about him and his gf well that's there own bullbutter. Don't worry about the two of them. Now if he's telling her don't post our relationship on fb so it makes it easier to get a side piece that give you VALUABLE information about him as a person. I hope to goodness you wouldn't want a man who does that to you. So again now you know.
If he wants to be friends and it seems like your up for that. Hey, keep it up but don't stress out about if he contact you or not. You don't do this with other friends do you? I hope not or you wouldn't have enough time to live. Which makes me think you have more feelings for him on a more than a friends basis. If this is the case and you can't keep it platonic then cut him loose. If you can keep at it but don't stress about him. You have more important things to worry about. Keep hitting those books and get your damn degree. Guys come and go but that degree is your ticket to a better future. Don't take your eyes off that prize hun.
All I can say is now you know how he is. Honestly he doesn't sound productive to your academic challenges. You have school, you have responsibilities. So if he's gonna pout and find someone else in spite of you then you know how he is and if you date you will be in the predicament EVERY semester. Do you want to do deal with finals and bf issues? I think not! So if I was you disregard those I wanna be more feelings and keep it platonic. If he can't deal with that fine. You have bigger fish to fry. Move on and be happy being you. He can go through life being him. Just know you made the right decision of him or school. It should be school every single time and he should respect that. Hell he should offer to help you study, ACTUALLY study. lol
If that was directed towards me I'm sorry. The virgo in me gives out TONS of info. 
*cues Elvis* Where is my sequenced jumper?
*cues Elvis* Where is my sequenced jumper?
@Nem: You know what... I don't know hun. lol Maybe it's because we are outside looking in. If it's us in the situation our emotions are involved and can cloud our better judgement. 8th wonder of the world.
@nem: lol!! That could very well be it, my dear. Damn good point. 
Nobody except you gives a fuck.
How's that a bad thing?! I'm always happy to help others who request it.
If your not that's good, fine and dandy.
If your not that's good, fine and dandy.
I really didnt meant anything by the personal comment thing. Both my bestfriends are cancers (july 6th, 10th) and they said he's being overly senstitive. I did mean to be short with him. I feel it isnt right that you tell me that you wish or see us being more than we are and then you get a gf that doesnt do anything with her life a "hoodrat" for ppl that understand my lango. He did this before to me and came back later to say"" I take major breaks in between being that I havent been around for so long I feel people are too disengaged, I barely have anything to say...its sad sometimes".
I dont understand why or how someone would disappear on you when they tell you things like : you're a blessing, believe of me he is praticing ways of goodness, or things like even though you're in college and hardly around EXACT WORDS" Vibing with you is making a better person, for my interactions with you allows me to pratice ways of goodness.I wish we could have realized how great we each are many years ago!! I gain much comfort knowing, with whatever little you will need from me that you shall make it over the horizon and walk with me into the valley of our future! Be at peace with Life's burdens we will make it! I might have told you so before, but you could never be reminded too many times when concerning the above."
All this just to not talk to me anymore.
Thank you ladies for the advice...My ? to you all is what do I do if he pops like nothing happened or some bullbutter excuse. Do I check him or just go along. Oh and if he tries to be affectionate to be do I let him know that I know he has a gf??
I dont understand why or how someone would disappear on you when they tell you things like : you're a blessing, believe of me he is praticing ways of goodness, or things like even though you're in college and hardly around EXACT WORDS" Vibing with you is making a better person, for my interactions with you allows me to pratice ways of goodness.I wish we could have realized how great we each are many years ago!! I gain much comfort knowing, with whatever little you will need from me that you shall make it over the horizon and walk with me into the valley of our future! Be at peace with Life's burdens we will make it! I might have told you so before, but you could never be reminded too many times when concerning the above."
All this just to not talk to me anymore.
Thank you ladies for the advice...My ? to you all is what do I do if he pops like nothing happened or some bullbutter excuse. Do I check him or just go along. Oh and if he tries to be affectionate to be do I let him know that I know he has a gf??
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